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Reading this after my recent divorce is altogether heartbreaking. I was all of these things and more to my ex wife, and she threw it all away in an instant like it meant nothing to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:17 PM
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Exactly this. I’d rather be single and never getting laid than in a relationship and being undesired, avoided, placated, ignored, minimized and rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:12 AM
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As a man, I’m trying to imagine the conversation with my boomer dad where I tell him that I’m getting married and not only will his grandkids not have his surname, his firstborn son won’t either. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:24 PM
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The above comment had me scratching my head as well. Apparently asking this question gives bad vibes??? I don’t get it…but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:18 PM
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Not my specialization really, but I hear you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:14 PM
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Yeah, and during system go-lives/deployments/production rollouts I’m often working around the clock for a day or three fixing shit, debugging, checking code, running QA tests, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:13 PM
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This line of inquiry is intriguing to me. I got the impression that my SAHM ex didn’t want to rely on me and didn’t value my contributions to the household, or at least not nearly as much as my upbringing and societal conditioning led me to internalize. That kinda tore down my whole world view and made me feel like I’d been chasing a mirage in the desert my whole life. Happy wife, happy life right? Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:00 AM
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Yeah around the time the “seeing too much of each other” vibe began is when the “girls nights out” started and things went way downhill for me in my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:53 AM
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This is definitely the root of the question for me. It seemed to me that all of the choreplay, vacations, gifts, bills getting paid and other benefits of a solidly upper-middle class income and lifestyle didn’t and couldn’t overcome the primal brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:49 AM
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I'm sorry - I know exactly what you mean. I finished my MIS degree in my 30s after essentially flunking out of college the first time around. My 20s were a serious grind. In the end, my current situation was about 70% extreme luck/happy accidents, and 30% effort. You can do everything right and the system can still screw you over. If its any consolation, I'm living in constant fear of AI-related layoffs or the inevitable quarterly downsizing. Big tech is so damn unstable that people in my cohort…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:41 PM
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Seriously. For every hour that I was having sex while getting paid (haha, yeah right), there was at least one hour that I was still up at 2 AM doing work while everyone else was sleeping. And what does "working as they should be" even mean? I spent more than my fair share of hours stuck in a cubicle alt-tabbing away from Minesweeper when the boss walked by because of the ridiculous boomerish expectation that we should all "appear" to be working even if there's absolutely jack shit to do outside …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:23 PM
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Good point, but yeah I've always had a relatively private home office setup. The rest of the household could certainly overhear things, but that was rarely/never an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:15 PM
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Pretty much anything that doesn't involve sitting at a desk, I'm guessing? Military, finance guru, upper management, fireman, hunky roughneck on an oil rig? I dunno exactly, but I'm pretty sure my job doesn't qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:10 PM
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The real number is $252K or $1500/month. I have 50% custody, which means I have to maintain a household for my children myself and pay all of the money associated with that…furniture, food, clothes, entertainment, enrichment, etc. while they are with me, AND I have to pay her so she can do the same. What planet do you live on where $1000 a month is not a lot of money? Because I want to move there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:59 PM
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Sex with a woman that loves you back is the most incredible, fulfilling experience known to man. Masturbating, and being stuck in a marriage that requires it, is the most lonely and soul crushing experience known to man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:42 PM
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You’re mental. I have 50% custody and I’ll be paying $1500/month in child support based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:39 PM
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And I’m sure you’re ugly. The kids are 6 and 4, and with my guidance they will grow up to be conscientious and capable adults, once they understand the meaning of the words “no” and “delayed gratification.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:40 AM
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Yeah I constantly “nagged”…I averaged about three sex nags an hour most days. No actually, fuck you. I knew going into it that if she actually loved or desired me I wouldn’t have to nag her for sex at all. Basic red pill tenet: You cannot negotiate desire. After the kids were born she had none, and it wasn’t my fault. I kept up my end of the deal. I’m sure she’ll feel more “safe” now around some randos on Tinder. That’s ok though…I know she’s destined for a senior living apartment with a dozen c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:21 AM
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I don’t just want praise. I want to be fucking worshipped like the god-tier husband that I was. (Emphasis on “fucking”) …but she couldn’t be bothered. Now she just gets paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:02 AM
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I’m about to give my wife $100K now and another $200K in child support over the next 14 years because she just decided she wanted to cash out. I’ve changed thousands of diapers, cleaned a million dishes, done all the shopping, cooking and cleaning, killed all the spiders and mowed all the lawns, paid ALL of the bills on time and done a billion joules of “emotional labor”…all for her to just fucking blow it all up because I felt like I should get laid not once but maybe twice a month. Dry your bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:43 AM
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Susan Sarandon is 79 years old, and she must be ultra fuckin pasteurized because that woman still looks good as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:42 PM
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Sure they can thrive without a man, but can they thrive without his paychecks? Women are incentivized to leave. Why should they stay with him if they can throw him out and make him continue to pay the mortgage?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:19 PM
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I think “sacrifice their family” in this instance means breaking it up, usually by demoting dad to one night a week and every other weekend with the kids and taking half of his paychecks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:07 PM
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Red pill content creators are a lot like fortune tellers or horoscopes. Their content is broad and general enough that almost anyone can read or hear some misogynistic tenet or anecdote and say “YES! That is exactly what happened to me!! Holy shit my world view has changed and this is divine truth!”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:53 AM
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Starfish sex is really bad. Might-as-well-be-a-fleshlight sex is even worse. Especially if it is with someone that supposedly loves/is attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:44 PM
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In my opinion, it does not rise to the level of "mental abuse" either. It's a punishment - admittedly a harsh one - but I'm willing to bet the kid won't bully anyone with cancer anymore. Punishments need to mean something, or else kids dgaf and will continue to run around and act like little hellions and make everyone around them miserable. Expanding the definition of terms like "abuse" is one example of a larger problem in our post-truth society, leading to meaningless terms like "toxic masculi…
/r/MensRights13/11/24 06:41 PM
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It is *not* violence or abuse. Hair grows back. The kid hasn't been harmed in any way.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 05:59 PM
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This has happened to me pretty frequently in the past five years or so as I've gotten older (I'm 49). My wife doesn't like it either. I'd suggest that if your wife wants you to stay up later, try taking a 1-2 hour nap when you get home from work. That might be difficult to negotiate, but if you can shift your waking hours a bit later in the evening after the kids go to bed, that might help her perspective on it. I think it means a lot for spouses to spend some QT together without the kids.
/r/MenSupportMen05/06/24 06:24 PM
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I think you nailed it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 10:16 AM
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I probably should have replied to OP in a top level comment. I agree with most everything you said in your original reply and didn’t intend to ignore it. I absolutely do not agree with outright deception/lying if the guy asks what she’s up to. That would definitely drift into MGTOW/FDS shit. However, if he doesn’t ask, then she’s under no obligation to tell him up to a certain point in their dating progression. Personally I think she should tell him that she’s dating other people, but she’ll hav…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 10:13 AM
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I think we’re agreeing with each other here - no lying, lying is bad no matter how many dates you’ve been on. That said, “I’m busy that day” or “I can’t make it” is not a lie. I also attest that there’s a very short term expiration date on that type of response, and it is usually around the third date or so, in my experience. I just don’t see how that opinion is “toxic as hell” or “female dating strategies level advice.”
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 02:59 AM
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Sorry I don’t understand your point of view. I’m not suggesting that she should outright lie to Man A. By all means tell the truth if asked. OTOH I don’t think OP is obligated to divulge information to Man A or Man B that the other exists, if she’s gone on 3 dates or less with the man in question (i.e. there shouldn’t be any expectation of exclusivity). Once you go past that, or if things have escalated to the point of sex, deep familiarity, emotional connection, knowledge of each other’s routin…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 02:22 AM
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I’d say it depends on how many dates you’ve had with Man A. If you’re just on the 2nd or 3rd, just say you can’t make it and leave it at that. If you’ve gone past date 3 or if he’s got any subtle notions that you might be approaching exclusivity, then things are starting to get shaky. I’d say you should just tell him you have a date, but don’t be surprised if he bolts or otherwise takes it hard. That kind of thing can be a harsh blow to a man’s self confidence…especially if he really likes you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 01:47 AM
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When I was in my 30s and single, during the height of my "captain" years, I could be found primarily in airports, hotels and restaurants because I was traveling a lot for work. Other locations where I would actively try to talk to women or at least seem approachable included grocery stores, hardware stores, or out at meetups centered around my interests (disc golf, hiking, fishing, canoeing, rafting, gaming, atheism, baseball). I wasn't sober at the time so bars were always a thing, but I can co…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 04:37 PM
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You’re probably not unattractive to him with wet hair, but you may be super ultra attractive to him with dry hair.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/24 11:21 AM
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Grocery stores always seemed like a good place to interact to me. Look for the guys buying food for one.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/24 11:04 PM
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This article is just rage bait, unprovable, unfalsifiable bullshit based on flimsy, subjective analysis. It’s bad on purpose to make you click.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 02:40 PM
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I watched it with my phone muted, and I think I’m probably better off for that. Beyond looking more than a little bit silly, I don’t see what the problem is with these girls. High school/college girls have been doing badly synchronized dancing since way before the Macarena…i.e. cheerleading at every fuckin rural high school football game since the dawn of rednecks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:32 PM
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Not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:21 PM
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I'm red-pilled as far as the sexual dynamics definition, but I'm definitely not aligned with the political right wing. As u/TheHumanDamage said, the definition of red pilled has expanded in the past several years. (Now I'm wondering if the Wachowski (sisters?) intentionally chose political colors?)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:03 PM
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Tradwife = raises the kids, teaches the kids, keeps up the house, cooks meals, decorates, writes Christmas & birthday cards, crafts, gardening Housewife = sits on ass and does fuck all aside from her nails, spends money, fucks the pool boy, and bitches incessantly at the husband when he gets home from work.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 12:14 AM
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I love the fact that the default assumption these days is that it’s the man that doesn’t keep up with cleaning and other household chores. I’ve had about 5 out of 6 long term relationships where I did way more of that shit than the women. In my experience, modern women can’t be bothered with that shit and will completely resent you for daring to think that they’ll clean up or cook you dinner once in awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:01 PM
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Talking comes after fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:51 PM
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This is the answer in my experience. Single guys will typically objectify women, men in relationships will likely complain to each other about them, but at the lowest level we all absolutely worship them. Overt misogyny is usually shut down pretty quickly in my friend groups.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 02:52 PM
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I’d say Tinder and other dating apps aren’t proof of shit for a different reason: only single people (or cheaters) are using them. That’s not a representative sample of the population. People still get together in 3D based on proximity and other factors. Tinder, etc mostly ignores all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:41 PM
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Sorry man, I know how that feels
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:51 AM
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If she’s anything over 5/10, that means she probably got 100 DMs and 1000 swipes in the first few hours of her profile being live. Do you really buy the “she never talked to anyone on the site” story?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:35 AM
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Try reading again there tough guy, and maybe don’t be such a dick. You don’t know what you’re talking about…you’re just being a keyboard warrior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:19 AM
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No I just mean nothing lasts forever. We’re all worm food, stardust, divorcees…whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:35 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:15 AM
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Negative. My wife is by far the more attractive person in the relationship and I will never, ever turn down a chance to be intimate with her. It’s a really fragile thing though, and I thank my lucky stars every single day, knowing that soon it will end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:08 AM
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In my experience, the whole choreplay/stress thing is just an excuse to deflect and get out of the lack-of-intimacy discussion, regardless of gender. I’ve used it as an excuse myself, when the real answer is that I simply didn’t find my girlfriend attractive any longer. I’d be happy to hear from anyone that ever saw intimacy rekindled when they started doing more chores or other performative behaviors for their partner. The fact of the matter is, I think, that it is a cover for a lack of desire,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:02 PM
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lived experiences ​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:39 PM
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This hits hard. One of my greatest lifelong friends is in this exact situation. He’s legitimately the most interesting, caring, empathetic and loyal dude I’ve ever met, and he’d hang the moon for any decent woman who would show him a shred of interest, but he’s a sub-5 in terms of looks. I want so bad to help him, but I just don’t know how. The women we know see all of his good qualities too, but they have perma-friendzoned him and don’t even entertain the notion of getting with him no matter ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:22 PM
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Someone please explain how a girl smiling at you means “go away”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:58 AM
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Girl math is leaving every fucking light and TV in the house on all day, switching the thermostat from sub-Arctic to hellfire 500 times and wondering why I bitch about the electric bill.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 01:29 PM
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Part of the blue pill brainwashing includes moms convincing their sweet boys that they are more attractive than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:04 PM
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Did she willingly make the decision to move in and marry him? Or was she forced? Women either have agency or they don’t…they can’t have it both ways.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 09:15 PM
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Came here to say this. I’m not the thought police. Who gives a shit what she’s thinking about before getting turned on? I’ll happily respond to any and all things my wife does to initiate. Those occurrences are infrequent enough and only become more rare with age. Gather ye rosebuds while ye may…for soon we are worm food.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 04:30 PM
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Shit writing.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 09:14 PM
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Hang in there. When you first see and hold your little baby, all of the anxiety will disappear in an instant.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 10:35 AM
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Dating is really difficult for all of us. Don’t take it to heart. You have no idea what was going through his head. He could have unfollowed you simply because he thought he blew the date and was embarrassed. He’s probably rewinding certain moments in his mind over and over right now wondering what awful things you must think of him.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 09:42 PM
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Absolutely. Valentine's Day is a contrived "greeting card holiday" that is nothing more than a corporate money grab where florists, retailers and restaurants get a free shot at your wallet. The fact that it is held up as some kind of barometer on a person's love for their partner is one of the absolute worst cultural contrivances.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 07:51 PM
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Than than than than than than than.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:52 AM
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Karen Straughan’s video on male disposability is a good place to start
/r/MensRights28/10/22 12:53 AM
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Dedicate 100% of your time & energy to making yourself smarter and more successful. Pay no heed to women. Look deep inside yourself to discover your own goals and aspirations, then meticulously plan out small steps every single hour of the day to make them a reality. Do that, and the rest will come when you least expect it.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 12:52 AM
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Toothless deaf mute nymphomaniac? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:40 PM
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The thing I love most about my modest vehicle: It is paid for...100% owned by me. I only have to pay basic maintenance. Pure bliss. The same state of contentment is completely unachievable with even a high-mileage beater of a woman, let alone a shiny new expensive model.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 07:50 PM
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I found it breathtakingly awesome when, on 3 occasions in my life, women were very direct with me. Here’s what they said: “So, when are you going to buy me a drink?” “You’re cute. Do you want to go out sometime?” “I’m married, but my husband and I...we have our...entertainment.” YMMV, but all three approaches were successful.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 10:18 AM
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Your man sounds like a "min/maxer" to me. In the parlance of roleplaying games, min/maxers are people who minimize unfavorable traits and maximize favorable ones. This concept can apply to almost anything in life, especially chores or other mundane everyday tasks. I am one of these people. I min/max the hell out of every single thing that I do. If I'm washing clothes, I seek to minimize the number of loads that I have to do. I fold every article of clothing in a way that maximizes storage space …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/20 06:35 PM
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I watched “After Porn Ends 3” on Netflix yesterday and Bonnie Rotten, single mother ex-porn star extraordinaire with spider webs and shit tattooed on her tits, actually said “[my kids] are my world” during her interview segment. Lol moment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 11:57 AM
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Fucking diversity training. Tell them to just fire all the white men and they’ll be 100% diverse. Mission accomplished! Just don’t tell the shareholders.
/r/MGTOW21/09/20 11:59 PM
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JFC she looks like the alien woman from Mars Attacks! I'm guessing when she opens her mouth the same ACK ACK noises come out too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/20 05:53 PM
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Mummy = dessicated corpse preserved by natural or artificial means.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/20 11:36 AM
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“I can’t believe you like money too. We should hang out.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 02:28 PM
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“I ain’t never been to jail!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 10:25 AM
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In order to be a programmer you have to have a firm grasp on LOGIC. Sorry Jessie, we'll "keep your resume on file."
/r/MGTOW03/08/20 04:13 PM
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Cue the standard dog-lover line that “a dOg’s MOuTh iS cLeaNeR ThAn A HuManS!!!” Yeah bullshit it is, Becky. You just watched your dog chew up and slurp down five litter-coated dollops of cat shit straight out of the litter box as if they were Sno-Caps candy at the movie theater. Dogs are great for lots of reasons, but their oral hygiene isn’t one of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/20 03:52 PM
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The trouble with acupuncture (and other eastern “therapies”) is that the typical evidence in support of it is testimonial anecdotes, and the plural of anecdote is not data.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/20 10:10 AM
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Make sure to listen to his podcast episode with Warren Farrell. I believe it is titled The Absolute Necessity of Fathers.
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 12:06 PM
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I hate to split hairs here, but the way this is written doesn't necessarily mean that she was fucking both of them at once. It could have been "in a row."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/20 05:52 PM
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It’s wrong because Stannis Baratheon says so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/20 10:26 PM
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Also keep in mind that his libido may have slowed down a bit too, for reasons that have absolutely nothing to do with your appearance or body being out of sorts. That definitely happened with me after our baby was born, for reasons that are hard to explain. My wife looks even better to me now...but I think having a child put me into a more “nurturing” mode, if that makes sense? My animal instincts have seemingly shifted into a lower gear now that her body is essentially the temple that provides …
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 05:10 PM
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Does that neon sign say "Girls Girls Girls"? Methinks this one has danced on a pole in the red light district.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/20 03:13 PM
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Does your husband try to initiate sex with you? If not, have you tried initiating with him? My wife just had a baby 5 months ago and our sex life was a little slow to resume after the 6 week green light period, in large part because I wasn’t sure if she was truly “ready” for all sorts of reasons. It takes a while for a new mother’s body to get back to normal. Your husband may be waiting for you to give the green light. I forced myself to be extra slow and gentle about that, even 8, 10, 12 weeks …
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 10:30 AM
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We kicked “u” nances out in 1776.
/r/MGTOW19/05/20 10:08 AM
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I’m in the same boat for my EDC pistol. I went with a Beretta PX4 .40 subcompact. Hammer decocker gives me some peace of mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/20 07:11 PM
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I looked at the VP9 for the ambi slide lock & mag release, but I ended up going with a Walther PPQ instead. I like it a lot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/20 07:08 PM
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But it was only fantasy...the Wall was too high as you can see. No matter how she tries she cannot break free.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/20 04:03 PM
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It goes by faster than you think.
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 11:42 AM
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Interesting...I hadn’t heard of that. Is it actually like a EBT or WIC sort of card with item restrictions (i.e. no alcohol, tobacco, etc)? Or an unrestricted debit card?
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 10:38 AM
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Haha definitely no trips to Tokyo at the moment. I’m thinking nitrile gloves, Tyvek suits, ammunition, canned goods and potable water. Shit could get real out there soon.
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 07:06 AM
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Fortunately I was smart enough to not marry her...we just had a kid. So no alimony.
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 12:36 AM
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The really surreal and absurd thing is that she could have taken MORE of my money. Every three years she could have filed for a redetermination of the support amount. As my income went up with hard work, her theft could have as well. Thankfully she was/is too dumb to pay attention to that, or I’m certain that number would have been more like $300K
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 12:19 AM
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Oh yes...I’ll do this. Look for a follow up post.
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 12:02 AM
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Damn man...I’m sorry. Hang in there. Perseverance, meditation and stoicism got me through.
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 11:54 PM
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Hah I was gonna say this
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 11:53 PM
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This was my main problem with it. I had absolutely no problem with providing money for MY CHILD. That’s called being a fucking responsible man and a decent father. My problem is that that dumb bitch got to decide how it was spent. I had no say in it. I paid her over $150K, and she’s got not one fucking red cent of it left. Did she open a college savings account for our daughter? Invest or save any of my money. Nope. She bought clothes and cell phones and TVs and makeup.
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 11:12 PM
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Fortunately my daughter is an amazingly intelligent, compassionate and conscientious young adult now. I’m thankful for that at least...I like to think my weekend influence and child support payments helped to make that happen.
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 10:37 PM
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Because it would irritate the hell out of her, which brings me great joy.
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 05:46 PM
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Haha nope. Part time babysitting while mooching off her sister’s husband. She’s been looking for another simp provider for years, but she’s finding only deadbeats (last OLD she got turned out to be a heroin addict). I’m thinking about sending her a box of wine and a can of cat food on the 1st and 15th of every month now. I’ll make that shit as regular as the checks used to be.
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 05:10 PM
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relevant reading: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2020/03/the-nuclear-family-was-a-mistake/605536/
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 07:41 PM
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There’s a lot of good insight in there. It’s got me daydreaming about how I could build one helluva “kinship” with some very strong friends that have shared ethical principles. We just need some more seed capital to acquire land. Hopefully we can get that together before the coming covid-19-instathot-SJW-socialist-zombie apocalypse.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre29/02/20 04:00 PM
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Did you read the whole article?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre29/02/20 03:51 PM
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I admire your effort at written English. I easily understood everything that you said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/20 12:05 AM
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I wonder if this is a reference to the Five Man Electrical Band or the Five Man Acoustical Jam...neither is a thing that I’ve ever seen on reddit, so good on you either way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/20 12:01 PM
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Can confirm - 45M married to a 25F. We just had our first child, and we couldn't be happier together. Things are absolutely great. She tells me and shows me how much she loves me...many times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:43 PM
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“Squeal like a pig!” I feel like this reference is gonna fly right over the heads of the average reddit user nowadays, and that makes me sad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/19 10:41 AM
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Upvote for your masterful use of onomatopoeia. I heard that chicken.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/19 02:24 PM
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The OP was talking about hippy culture...within that landscape I think what I outlined above is pretty accurate. As far as how to be sociable and get a date...I’m afraid I can’t help you there. Online dating is a dead end unless you’re top tier in looks. I’m only about top 40% on a good day, but I’m a smart ass, kind of funny and generally idgaf, and that is always what has helped me. So...try that...or drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:15 PM
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I'm not exactly sure how this "hippy" culture works in the UK, but in the U.S. I think there's a very clear path and it works like this: Go to Phish/Lockn/Tomorrow World/Coachella/High Sierra/Bonnaroo/Hangout Fest/other festival Meet a drug dealer...preferably a white guy with dreadlocks and Grateful Dead tattoos. Buy lots of molly, LSD, coke, shatter, sass, 2CB, a tank of nitrous and balloons, other psychedelics/designer drugs. Offer said drugs to any and all women with armpit hair. Swim in sme…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 04:47 PM
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They think it says "sexy, provocative and totally unique risk-taker with an IDGAF attitude," because that's exactly what Chad is. They think by projecting Chad qualities, they'll attract Chad. What they don't seem to understand is that not only are they totally unique just like every other basic bitch in the western world with their (butterfly/flower/snake/Om symbol/Ankh/Asian characters/peace/love/hippie/tribal symbol) tramp stamps, but also they just signal to everyone that they're cheap DTF s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 05:02 PM
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egg-tending caste of the Subterranean Lizard Folk hahaha that's pretty good. I laughed for the first time today, during an otherwise miserable work day. Take my upvote.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/19 03:21 PM
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I'd violate my parole too, if I had to so much as look at this white trash demogorgon in the flesh. I'd rather do hard time being bottom bitch for an entire cell block.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/19 06:55 PM
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How convincing...has a hobby but not a clue how to spell it. I’m an expert at compewter programming and I’m a majer leeg bassball player two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/19 06:08 PM
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Bottom right is a mobile home photo - explains a lot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/19 04:32 PM
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Haha “people of Trader Joe’s” should be a thing...aka granola lesbians and soyboys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/19 08:12 PM
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Because Wal-Mart sells primarily the absolute shittiest products manufactured by the lowest-bidding wage slave drivers in all of China and Southeast Asia, such that they can in turn offer rock-bottom prices to the wage slaves, scumbags and other miscellaneous bottom-feeders of rural America.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/19 07:43 PM
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After that date, call. It’s not that hard. It’s refreshing. The two day waiting period should be a myth. Unfortunately it’s not, but think about how silly it is. “Oh my god, that woman was amazing and I definitely want to see her again but instead of just making it happen I’m going to make her sit around and wonder if I like her or not.” Following through shouldn’t be a rarity. This is such bullshit. I'll remind you guys of a scene from Swingers: https://youtu.be/JV-m9bJTrh8?t=125 The operative …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/19 02:55 PM
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I don’t exactly have a problem with the formulas either, provided that the adjustments applied are at least passingly “egalitarian” in nature. Maybe I’m misreading you here...but I wouldn’t chalk his earning more money up to “good fortune.” I’m betting that initiative, provider instincts and a lot of hard work factor into that income disparity. Having joint residential custody and paying full support is tantamount to theft, in my opinion. Additionally, paying full support often provides the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 10:38 PM
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I hope you’re being sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 07:55 PM
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I don't hear them complaining about the spending gap. I wonder why that is? Hmmm.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/19 05:54 PM
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You’re close...Stacys and Chads are the opposite of incels though. Those names are used by incels & femcels as terms of derision for those people who can get laid.
/r/MensRights22/09/19 04:40 PM
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Yeah I agree. The “my crotch spawn comes first” line is ubiquitous amongst Tinder moms. The way I see it, it’s just an empty virtue signal, because the commonly accepted parenting mantra nowadays is that your kid(s) should take precedence over every erect penis that comes plowing through your back door. Somewhat ironically though, that is NOT the best parenting method, in my opinion. Doting helicopter moms raise weak-ass coddled brats that grow up to be entitled shits with no life skills whatsoe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/19 02:51 AM
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Will happily cook you dinner but I excell at desserts. At least she offers to do *something*, and I don't see the typical laundry list of screeching demands. That's far better than most of the profiles we see on here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/19 07:48 PM
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Right? Condoms can stop the spread of HIV, but there's just not much you can do to stop the death plague of Applebees. Coming soon to a shitty suburban strip mall near you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/19 07:36 PM
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In some states, yes. I had the right to a paternity test before having to pay child support in Georgia, for example.
/r/MensRights18/09/19 07:41 PM
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This creature is on Tinder to fund her heroin/coke habit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/19 10:19 AM
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Ex-strippers don’t become obstetricians, they become hookers. This one is now a full-fledged whore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/19 10:17 AM
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Did not expect Golden Earring in my head this morning. Nice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/19 10:38 AM
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“I get up to wash my face When I come back to bed Someone’s taken my place”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/19 10:46 AM
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I want to be a deadbeat entrepreneur!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/19 10:10 AM
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You might be right, but I am extremely skeptical that she’s capable of that level of nuance and introspection. I think it is much more likely that she’s just an idiot, and feels that there’s some kind of stigma associated with the word “mother.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/19 10:08 AM
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I don't know, I wasn't there. My point is nobody really knows in these situations except the guy and the girl involved, but because a girl got her feelings slightly hurt was brutally raped by a social pariah, the radfems and white knights broke out the torches and pitchforks and then tossed another beta on the barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 06:12 PM
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stinkskank
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/19 03:29 PM
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Yeah, that sho' nuff don't make it right though. Wouldn't wish those lynch mobs on anyone, regardless of their career or relative douche factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:09 PM
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Yes. Once to a guy I know well and would call a friend even though he's kind of a douche. One other time to a guy I didn't know very well. Both of them had jobs that were heavily social-media dependent and they decided to move. I also had a guy on my FB friend list who was a bartender at a place in one of the aforementioned college towns...he made accusatory white-knighting posts to his 2000+ friend list that were low on facts and high on hearsay all the fucking time. He'd give just enough perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:56 PM
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The police are MUCH less of a threat than social media lynch mobs. I know of a couple guys who lived in SJW-heavy college towns that were absolutely eviscerated on Facebook because they botched cold approaches at bars. I've seen it explode on Facebook numerous times...the pattern is simple: Creepy/beta/ugly guy approaches girl in some stupid way Girl gets offended/feels uncomfortable Girl orders the secret drink from the bartender Guy is kicked out of bar Fifteen people witness the fracas and po…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:13 PM
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I haven't really mastered sewing, baking, gardening or canning...only dabbled a bit. I need to learn those things, as well as basic water filtration and charcuterie/curing before the feminist apocalypse kicks into high gear.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 02:47 PM
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r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMeals? A sub for all of us not-so-lonely male cooks sitting home alone with our prime beef chateaubriand, veal demi glace and balsamic cabernet reductions
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 02:26 PM
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I don't know anyone that cooks better than me anyways. So damn true. The last meal I cooked was chimichurri flank steak (perfect medium rare, I might add) with grilled pineapple, rice & beans. The last meal that was cooked for me was...fuck, I can't remember...but I know it involved Kraft macaroni & cheese. I know of two fairly traditional women in my peer group (mid Gen X) who cook better and more frequently than their husbands, and I regret not locking them down when we were all in college. I'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 01:44 PM
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Feminism commoditised the Vagina Underrated comment. In spite of reading tons of RP material for the past few years, I don't recall ever seeing it put quite that succinctly. Women's lib, birth control, lack of "enforced monogamy", abortion and porn have effectively crashed the value of poon. Having never visited a brothel, I'm curious whether the inflation-adjusted prices for prostitution have declined in the past few decades. Anyone have any data points, anecdotal or otherwise?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 01:33 PM
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My first laugh of the morning. Have my upvote damn you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 09:20 AM
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Seriously...does anyone EVER get a straight answer to that question? I don't even ask it any longer. I just pick a place and go there...if she doesn't like it, tough shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/19 02:19 PM
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NAWALT eh? Riiight. If you wanna let your woman go on a 10-day vacation by herself and trust her to not cheat, be my guest. Seems like a sucker bet to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/19 02:16 PM
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Vacation tingles are homewreckers. If you let your wife go on a 10-day vacation without you, don't be surprised when she slips and falls on some dick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/19 12:13 PM
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Oh you're right, it's not funny at all. I'm "laughing" in that half-crazed, blankly maniacal, horrific way because it's all just so god damned not-funny that it's absolutely hilarious and if you don't laugh your ass off you'll die.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/19 07:39 PM
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I opened up to him about being badly hurt in a previous relationship and we bonded over past experiences, how much we valued honesty and trust. It took me a while, but eventually I felt comfortable enough to open up fully. After many dates, many deep conversations, and mutual reassurance of our feelings for each other, we had sex for the first time. He was loving, he was caring, he was passionate. We cuddled for hours the next morning, we were playful, it all felt just right. So many boner-killi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/19 07:29 PM
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Traditional marriage and conservative societies will prevail in the end. (unfortunately for women and the environment I've been waiting for and have not seen a good ELI5 reasoning for why "conservative" translates to "unfortunate for the environment" in politics nowadays. It seems to me that truly *conserve-*ative people would reject consumption-heavy lifestyles and the "whole drill baby, drill" ideology. I understand why the uneducated knuckle-draggers on the right side of the aisle would be en…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:05 PM
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I'll laugh too until the kid grows up, becomes a meth head and then breaks into my car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/19 02:22 PM
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I’ve got the same question.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/19 12:30 PM
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From the sidebar/about: Any content we deem sexist, racist, transphobic, homophobic, classist, ableist, or intolerant of non-dominant religions will be removed and the user banned. Slut-shaming, victim-blaming, body-policing, suicide guilting, are not allowed. Promoting, supporting, and recruiting for communities that violate this rule both on and off Reddit will also result in a ban. So the sub is being ruled by the KGB, basically. Don't be guilty of wrongthink. What thinking is wrong in their …
/r/MensRights22/08/19 01:59 PM
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“Sense of humor” means you have to make her laugh. She “loves to laugh”, don’t ya know. This is subtle coded speech. She requires that you be the dancing monkey that entertains her and gives her tingles 24 x 7. If you can’t maintain this “sense of humor” or “actual personality” and keep her interested, she will be on to the next dick in a flash. It is also part of her rationalization hamster. She’s signaling that she left all of her prior relationships because they weren’t funny or interesting e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/19 10:34 AM
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God I just learned a few weeks ago that my bipolar mother cheated on my father before they were divorced - multiple times with multiple men. She slipped up and told me this in one of her manic, epic length text messages as her go-to emotional tampon to soak up everything wrong in her life. For nearly THIRTY YEARS she lied to me about it/hid the facts...always making my dad out to be the biggest asshole on planet earth and the reason for their divorce. She filled my head full of vitriol about my …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:33 PM
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Fighting isn't too easy. When things went to shit between my daughter's mother and me, I was 28 years old and underemployed following the bursting of the tech bubble. I was making about $42K a year gross, taking home about $30K after deductions for insurance, taxes, 401k, etc. The first thing the mother did when we split (besides taking my couch...god I loved that couch), was to go down to the DHS office and sign up for child support. She did this without even talking to me about it. The DHS off…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:09 PM
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(I'm gonna go way out on a limb and suggest that you're exaggerating for comedic purposes here...so yeah, I'll bite) I would definitely fuck all those things under the right conditions. In my case "right conditions" means Alicia Vikander. So...a crying Alicia Vikander saying no, an animal that looks like Alicia Vikander, the carcass of Alicia Vikander, infant Alicia Vikander, Alicia Vikander holding a rotten pumpkin, a rotten tree stump within 10 feet of Alicia Vikander, an infected open wound o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 03:22 PM
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literally all men would choose a 15 year old over a woman in her 30s or even late 20s. this is the objective truth No, no it is not. It is hyperbole. "Literally all men" have individuated sexual preferences and tastes that vary widely for all sorts of reasons related to both nature and nurture. If you want to categorize all men as sexual deviants in some hypothetical universe of your creation where laws and strong social pressures against pedophilia don't apply, go right ahead...but that is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:55 PM
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It’s a national (global?) chain restaurant that is going to draw criticism from coddled Stacys who never had to pay a dinner tab in their lives and consider marbled toro tataki, tiger prawns and filet of Dover sole to be the minimum standards for seafood. They’re not down with the all-you-can eat popcorn shrimp night. When I was a kid, I absolutely loved going to Red Lobster...my dad took our family there a lot as sort of a Friday night treat. Back then it was pretty good by any normal middle-cl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/19 12:14 PM
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Literally. Want some fats, salt and carbs? Yes, please...more biscuits! They are good, but that shit will kill you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/19 09:27 AM
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One other suggestion that occurred to me: San Francisco is the tech hub in the U.S., as you know. Given that fact, a lot of higher quality men in the age range you’re talking about probably work in the area, but maybe don’t live there due to the extremely high cost of living, or they have jobs that require them to travel to other cities half the time. I’m guessing the Tinder dating pool in the Bay Area is probably a nightmarish meat market of guys from Seattle, Austin, L.A., Denver or Dallas on …
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 09:00 AM
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I think straight people probably struggle to differentiate themselves from others because they aren’t in the habit of scrolling through and reviewing hundreds of same-sex profiles for comparison purposes. As a guy, I have no idea what profile elements make me blend in with all the other guys and look “basic.” I can say with absolute certainty that the overwhelming majority of women’s profiles I see have this problem. I can’t tell you how many profiles I’ve passed over because there’s just nothin…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/19 10:19 PM
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Yup...this. I couldn't believe Joe Rogan didn't call out Bernie on this whole line of discussion in that recent JRE podcast. I have to figure Bernie is smart enough to realize that there's just not enough demand for warm bodies to occupy high paying jobs in every college major such that any idiot can go get a "free" degree and expect to be gainfully employed after graduation...but like every politician he's waving free taxpayer money in the plebs' faces to garner votes. It is like saying "hey, i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 05:47 PM
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Well...Who would have ever thought i'd be the one to make a dating profile... There's a lot of subtle narcissism to unpack here. First, consider the phrase "Who would have ever thought". Here she's signaling to all the loser betas that she's not hungry for dick, because in her mind, no one would ever think that she (of all people!) would be forced to stoop so low as to create a dating profile. I suspect from being thin and somewhat feminine for her entire life, she's had a veritable all-she-coul…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 03:30 PM
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Be Peter Dinklage...heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:46 PM
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You are not wrong, sir...you are not wrong. Social media provides everyone with their own little illusory hallucination, tailor made to fit their specific desires, biases and impulses. It will be the downfall of civilized society. Matter of fact, I’m gonna get the fuck off of here right now, buy some ammunition and go read about the finer points of Bronze Age irrigation methods or some shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/19 04:36 PM
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I truly and honestly don't want to be biased toward "team man"...but I just didn't take u/fuckGuilt 's meaning with the campground phrase to have all the misogynistic/objectifying/detached/dispassionate/weird baggage you describe. That goes back to my initial reply to you about a charitable interpretation of his intent (or "hugely generous benefit of the doubt", if you prefer). I bristled at your comments because I know firsthand that my own "leave her better than I found her" discussion with my…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:37 PM
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“Sucks that mutually using each other is the best you think there is.” Perhaps it is the nature of internet debate subs at work here, but that is a really ill-tempered phrase that is wholly dismissive of the totality of pre-relationship discussions between earnest people. So yeah...I’m going with “motivated not to” as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:32 AM
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No, no, no...there is a setup phrase to “leaving you better than I found you” that isn’t being discussed here. It usually goes something like “If things don’t work out between us, I promise to...” Mature people who are interested in communicating honestly with each other can talk openly about contingencies before getting too deep into life-changing relationship commitments. It is not about being a tourist, treating her like she’s temporary, or any of that other crap about patting ourselves on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:22 AM
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Being interested in what 20 year olds have to say at 40 years old is bizarre to me. Anecdotal evidence: My wife (25F) and I (44M) talk about all kinds of interesting things. We've read books by William Faulkner, Charles Bukowski, John Paul Sartre, Ayn Rand and J.D. Salinger together and had lengthy discussions about the plots, themes, literary devices and the characters..their motivations, inner monologues and implications on the grand human drama. We play Diablo III and World of Warcraft card g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:04 PM
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I'm nowhere near as fit as you, but I've definitely had some luck with the younger ladies myself. At a Ren Faire in GA I once had *all* of the Kissing Wenches target me at once while we were standing outside waiting for the fairgrounds to open. I wore the lipstick all day with great pride. Good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:31 PM
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oh ffs...can you at least go with a minimally charitable interpretation of the intent behind the metaphor instead of "REEEEEEE objectification!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:06 PM
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I'm in the process of converting our garage into a home gym. Got some barbells being delivered tomorrow. What I lack is the motivation for cardio...God I hate cardio so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:00 PM
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Can confirm. I’m 44, married to a woman 19 years younger, and we are expecting a son later this year. This campsite rule was a solemn promise I made to her on day 1 of our relationship. I get to pass my family name on to another generation with a young, healthy and beautiful woman. She gets every bit of security, stability and support that I can possibly provide for as long as she wants it. (Until death do us part as far as I’m concerned, and my life insurance, social security, 401k and all othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:44 PM
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Nah this one is brought to you by Carl's Jr.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 12:21 PM
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Or this bullshit right here: As progressive blogger Matt Bruenig has written, single-mother households suffer far more poverty in the U.S. than in other developed nations. Why? As one study based on data from around the year 2000 concluded, it’s largely down to our stingy welfare state. Yeah you read that right, our welfare state is "stingy."
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 11:59 AM
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The exact plot line of Black Snake Moan
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 08:42 PM
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Agreed. As I read it, I couldn’t help thinking it had too much introspection and self-awareness to not be a shitpost. Also, any one of my exes would have already fucked Chad the minute the hamster started running and posted a validation-seeking diatribe after the fact. Maybe it’s real, but it’s very suspicious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 08:40 PM
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Dated a lawyer once...10/10 would never do again. Absolute misery.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/19 08:55 PM
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TIL the word "termagant"...thanks for that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/19 06:02 PM
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when it comes to childcare and taking care of the house either You are correct. Your point is valid, but as a guy who, on multiple occasions in the past and present has been forced to do all of that stuff *and* be the sole breadwinner *and* listened to endless emotional outbursts *and* held to sex twice a month or less...I'm sticking my fingers in my ears and making lalalalalalala noises.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:03 PM
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she goes sexually dark for a long time ... By the time her systems come back on I think the "You cannot negotiate desire " meme is perhaps the substrate upon which the AFBB meme thrives. A key driver of (particularly) male investment in LTRs is regular, passionate and novel sexual experiences, and we come to expect them as a sort of tit-for-tat recompense for whatever we bring to the table. Men typically don't have the luxury of "going dark" when it comes to being breadwinners, jar openers, spid…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:39 PM
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Your speech is "problematic"...in fact, because I feel threatened, your speech is violence. (/s)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/19 03:42 PM
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It is a mighty sad state of affairs that aggrieved old harpies like this one have taken majority control of corporate HR departments all over the western world, and now act primarily as cock-blocking phalanxes for the true decision-makers in the hiring process. Imagine being one of the hard-working but unattractive and mildly autistic tech geniuses who has been waiting by the phone for weeks, while your CV is sitting in a pile on this woman's desk. Worse yet, imagine being that guy and sitting a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/19 12:56 PM
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“...love most food” The search is over...we finally found the unicorn, fellas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/19 10:52 AM
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I noticed that pretty quickly. Also don't overlook Tyrone in #2.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/19 12:31 PM
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I've lurked there and commented a couple of times, only to have those comments modded for arbitrary reasons having to do with their fee fees and my being male. My sense of RPW is that it is a safe space for jilted, older and/or unattractive tradcon women that didn't get what they wanted from feminism and womens lib. They may have taken the red pill to some extent, but in my experience they still really don't like hearing from men, and you can still sometimes see the hamsters getting revved up li…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/19 05:50 PM
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Here's my question -- what would a good profile look like? Assuming this is a serious question, I'll bite: Highlight what you bring to the table in a relationship. (e.g. "I know how to support and take care of the man in my life. I'm loyal, trustworthy, and emotionally stable. I love cooking, giving back rubs and providing a happy home for my man to come home to.") Be interesting and talk in some moderate detail about things you enjoy. (e.g. Instead of "I love to laugh" try something like "I've …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/19 04:54 PM
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Kinda like “literally.” (sorry...couldn’t resist)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 11:42 AM
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Hell me too. It sure would be easier...but I don’t even really like hugging my best friends in the world, nevermind touching or sucking a dick. It’s like the same poles on two magnets...impossibly strong repellent force.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 11:22 AM
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Haha I recently moved away from that same town. Be careful...you might get doxxed just like them. That town won’t be run by SJWs for much longer though...the halfbacks are buying up all the cheap housing and cranking up the prices on everything from apartments to gluten-free vegan tacos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/19 10:34 AM
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I asked myself the same question, and concluded that this is an idiot with zero command of English- she has one kid already and is pregnant with a second.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/19 10:04 AM
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She doesn't "own" a horse. Either her father/baby daddy/favorite uncle owns a horse with the requisite stables & land, and she rides it occasionally, or a horse was purchased for her by one of them and they pay all the upkeep. She lists her occupation as "Server at xxxxxxx". Waiting tables is hardly a high income occupation...certainly not one that could cover the purchase and upkeep on a horse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/19 09:29 PM
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White girls appropriating phrases from black culture usually means they are retarded. Avoid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/19 09:18 PM
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he started to become verbally abusive Translation: He told her "No." These little Veruca Sluts nowadays haven't been told "no" in their entire lives. "Daddy I want an oompa loompa NOW!" <stomps feet>. "Of course princess, you're Daddy's little angel and you can have anything you want!" Anything less than immediate compliance results in escalation of the tantrum...and if you ever give her a hard NO on anything, you're abusive and she posts about it on Instagram before filing the restraining order…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/19 09:27 AM
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Haha...I think she means displacing all the water from an Olympic swimming "pool" when her Armageddon ass makes impact. It's what we call a global killer. The end of mankind. It doesn't matter where it hits, nothing would survive...not even bacteria.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/19 12:01 PM
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I suggest board games and tabletop RPGs. Nerd gamers are accepting. There are lots of us and chances are good we will like you. Grab a bag of Cheetos and a six pack and join your local meetup group.
/r/MensRights11/06/19 01:52 AM
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Why some men can’t stand the sight of a confident woman. and One night in my 20s, I let someone feel me up at a party — even though he repulsed me. Why? Because I didn’t want to embarrass him in front of his friends. Because I tricked myself into thinking, “Maybe this is all you deserve.” It’s the same reason I went on dates with two other guys who I didn’t find attractive. Wait, wait...I'm confused. Are you a confident woman with agency, or aren't you? You're either confident enough to say NO t…
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/19 05:37 PM
1

Seriously. I can't copy/paste more than two sentences of text on my iphone without saying the word "fuck" a lot...and God help you if copying said text requires scrolling or you don't want to include that goddamn end quote or period.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/19 01:39 PM
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Steve Jobs and the millennials conspired to eliminate Ctrl+C/Ctrl+V and make screenshots the default.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/19 10:11 AM
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Chris Rock has a good standup bit that is full of this same idea...generally focused on [black, in his case] people taking credit for things they’re supposed to do or not: “Man I ain’t never been to jail!” “Ni**a you ain’t s’posed to go to jail in the first place!” It’s pretty funny...from an old HBO special I think.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/19 09:43 PM
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“if your shorter then me” Another fine product of the American public education system.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/19 02:06 AM
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Joey, have you ever been in a...in a Turkish prison?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/19 05:49 PM
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Took me a second...but here have my upvote.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/19 02:14 PM
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Seriously. What the fuck does that phrase even mean? There is currently no validated test or scale for emotional intelligence as there is for "g," the general intelligence factor—a fact that has led some critics to claim the concept is either sketchy or entirely non-existent. Despite this criticism, however, emotional intelligence (or “emotional quotient,” as it’s sometimes known) has wide appeal among the general public, as well as in certain industries. from https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/19 02:07 PM
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Doesn’t the thot.getWallStatus() method accept about 200 dick arguments?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/19 11:39 AM
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Haha...your point stands, but I don't think that's liquor...it looks more like a shitty bottle of white wine with a screw-on cap. A $5.99 bottle of Barefoot pinot grigot seems to be the drink of choice for middle aged cat ladies. Drinking straight from liquor bottles is a thing that men do with other men, usually around campfires, in my experience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/19 06:36 PM
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Yeah you got me there, bro. Total bluepill NPC here. My other subroutines include simp.exe and oneitis.vbs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/19 03:59 PM
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This is a gross oversimplification. Men are more complex than one-dimensional sex drones. We crave sex, yes...but we also crave nurturing, softness, comfort, feminine beauty, intellectual stimulation, reassurance, appreciation, loyalty, admiration, reciprocity and respect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 09:30 PM
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"As a minority straight white male, I can also testify to the fact that intelligent discussion around unpopular opinions within a community [is] very important.' <Hmm. I can do even better than that.> "As a straight white male, I can also testify to the fact that iIntelligent discussion around unpopular opinions is very important." <There...yes. FTFY.>
/r/AntiFeminists02/04/19 07:19 PM
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Not trying to be that guy...so my sincere apologies, but does fopas = faux pas?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 11:05 AM
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I fear the dude is bound to have his relationship history with OP dredged up and wielded against him with dexterity and ruthless efficiency in all future arguments with his “new happy relationship,” though...because AWALT AWALT AWALT.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 10:56 AM
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lack of mind reading on what is obvious Personal gripe: Women expecting men to be mind readers, both in and out of the bedroom. "Obvious" is frequently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:24 PM
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"Bad" rhymes with "Chad." Coincidence?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 02:08 PM
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It sounds like your man is in need of some incentive for desired behavior...positive reinforcement/reward for things you want him to do. When I was a child, my mother developed a “gold star” chart on a piece of poster board and put it on my bedroom wall. Completing mundane tasks got me a gold star sticker on the chart. Once I obtained let’s say 10 stars, I’d get rewarded in some way: ice cream, candy, toys, a special meal...whatever. Obviously it would be extraordinarily infantilizing for you to…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 12:52 PM
1

Hey man, slow your roll...some of us dudes wasted our lives doing the same shit. It’s sad really.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/19 04:21 AM
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You are exactly correct, sir. I can't speak for all men, but I have an incredibly strong instinctive drive to step up and be a provider and protector for a worthy woman. I am completely disarmed by and can't help falling helplessly in love with a woman who embodies my idealized feminine archetypal traits: nurturing, maternal, supportive, appreciative, doting, loyal. I think it is safe to say that *most* men would happily do the same, provided that she's even marginally pretty/feminine and will r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 06:05 PM
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Once a cheating whorebag, always a cheating whorebag. You know it ain’t the first time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/19 06:10 PM
1

Why do people write dating profile descriptions that make them sound utterly retarded with zero command of their native language? If was in her shoes and I didn't want to get "wit" another drooling inbred, I'd "jus" ask Uncle Daddy Bocephus to proofread my profile, since he is the only one in the McCoy family that got his GED.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/19 02:51 PM
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...and in New York too, where freelance photographers are a dime a dozen, just like Instawhores.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/19 11:29 AM
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Sounds like you’re one of the lucky ones. I don’t think his view of the world is all that sad or cynical...more like that of a wary realist, in my opinion.
/r/MensRights30/01/19 07:39 PM
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Thank you for the reapproval and rules clarification :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 03:52 PM
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Can you help me to better understand the rules of this sub? I read all of the sidebar materials and I don't understand why my comment was removed, other than perhaps that I stated that I am a man. I suppose I should not have posted a top level comment...because after reading the entire thread, I was intending to respond to this comment from OP, as well as the original post itself: "Is there anything I should be mindful myself? Like, he seems a bit wary of being with someone as young." I thought …
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 04:39 PM
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I’m a 44M in a relationship with a 24 year old woman. The main things I’m concerned about with her are hypergamy, relative immaturity and essentially “using” me for resources now when she can jump ship any time the urge strikes her. Given that she’s young and attractive, she has no shortage of options and attention from other men. My primary interest in her (other than her sexual attractiveness) is desire to have children with someone, and I can’t really do that with women my own age. I believe …
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 02:31 PM
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He’s not, but he understands why MGTOW exists. Check out his podcast with Warren Farrell titled “The Absolute Necessity of Fathers”...they break down feminism in a roundabout way and point out that women’s desire to have freedom (from responsibility) is undermining the nuclear family. https://youtu.be/v5O_FLUWYmg
/r/MGTOW21/01/19 10:20 AM
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Jordan Peterson.
/r/MGTOW21/01/19 09:53 AM
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I'll give my own hamster a big hit of nitrous oxide and say that ideal femininity is so selective that it chooses only me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:12 PM
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I don't know but this feels like a cunning attempt to trick me with some sort of strange Socratic bait & switch. Up is down, black is white...I'm confused, distraught, and perplexed. In fact, this question might be turning me gay. TIL I actually love men. hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:49 PM
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This thought fills me with despair. Especially for my daughter :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:36 PM
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I agree and I like your answer...dishonesty, playing stupid and lack of that emotional/psychological grace are certainly huge turnoffs for me. I'd also like to add "drive to improve" to the lists for both sexes. Once you're past the physical and sexual stuff, people that strive to improve their lives and the lives of their family/friends are very endearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:30 PM
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Let's broaden it to "sexually giving" then...in the context of a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:11 PM
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Can't answer for sado, but for myself I would reciprocate by exercising control over any lustful, philandering impulses. If I've got trust and especially surrender from her, then there would be absolutely no women on the side for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:09 PM
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hehe nice little chess move there. I'd say I *maybe* see feminine desires as more admirable than male desires...she's trying to get her dishwasher fixed, whereas I'm mostly just trying to put on my oh face.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:53 PM
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Future time orientation That works for me. It seems closely akin to Jordan Peterson's advice for his (predominantly) male audience on delaying gratification. Regardless of what you might think about him, (I've read a lot of his stuff and found most of it useful) I wonder if/when we will ever see the emergence of his female analogue touting 12 Rules for women? It seems like your future time orientation could be one of those rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:59 PM
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Great question. I don't know the answer. I suppose it is not. Internalized misandry? heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:40 PM
2

Yeah I had that same thought. I guess her list just seemed a bit more "noble" to me or something. In reading her list, my own seemed like Homer Simpson-esque, thinking-with-my-dick buffoonery. "Bart, a woman is like beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:32 PM
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The only way her story gets less believable is if she gets knocked up and the angel Gabriel visits her to tell her its the second coming of Christ. "...therefore the child to be born will be holy; he will be called Son of [Chad]."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/19 04:21 PM
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Single dad here and I wish I could upvote this a zillion times. At the time I went through it, single moms could simply go to the local DFCS office and slap dad with a 20% garnishment of gross income for 18 years for free. No legal fees required. If single dad wants to fight for legitimation, custody, visitation and/or adjustment of child support amounts, that'll cost him about ten grand minimum in retainer for a lawyer. That's just for mediation, if single mom is uncooperative for whatever reas…
/r/MensRights09/01/19 06:37 PM
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Pro tip - get your architectural degree, get hired on with a firm and work your ass off, then get them to pay for your MBA if necessary. Lots of companies will invest in good employees. Alternatively, you can pay cash for night classes yourself and not take on the additional student loan debt once you have some money saved. You don’t necessarily need the MBA to get started working, and the cost/benefit proposition isn’t what it used to be for most advanced degrees these days.
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 11:57 AM
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Reciprocity, loyalty, constancy, lack of obsessive self-interest, charitable personality, kindness, traditional femininity and initiative...and by initiative I mean the opposite of lazy. She actively seeks out ways to improve her life and the life of her family. (e.g. if something needs cleaning, she cleans it. If it's broken, she tries to fix it...and doesn't ask for help unless she needs it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 01:32 PM
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There's absolute gold in the comments, too. I couldn't help noticing a VERY sharp distinction between the quality of comments on this UK-based conservative site and the type of comments I typically see from conservatives here in the USA. Maybe I'm reading the wrong conservative sites?
/r/MensRights31/10/18 10:12 AM
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Just keep on steeling yourself and taking it, friend, because that's all any of us can do. Search for consolation and pride in your daughters' existence...because you are a real man, you brought them into this world and they are the product of all your physical and emotional labor. Your pain and emotions are valid and you are justified in feeling them, just don't let them overshadow the pride and joy you can find if you only look for it. There's a song lyric from the Avett Brothers that I think …
/r/MensRights31/10/18 09:11 AM
2

Yeah it has happened several times now, varying slightly in form and degree. Unfortunately, most of the women in my dating pool don't come with a tattoo on their head letting me know that they are, in fact, like that. That dating pool also gets smaller and smaller the older I get and as I waste more years over-investing. TRP touts things like "abundance mentality" and "bro, do you even lift?" as precepts that, properly applied, would ostensibly increase my dating options, but more and more, it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 02:19 PM
2

Story of my life, right there. I fucking hate hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 12:27 PM
1

which can be problematic for men who have SO’s with these types as they end up continuously spending and sacrificing to try to make her happy. I am one of these "acts of service" men...and it seems like my spending and sacrifices are never reciprocated or really appreciated, and certainly don't seem to make her happy. The relationships are usually incredible for the first three months or so, then things settle in and become mundane. I continue to give and give - cooking, chores, gifts, expensive…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 12:12 PM
3

Has she had "at least" two drunken blackouts? :P
/r/MensRights20/03/18 04:38 PM
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When I read this initially, I couldn't help wondering how many of the male suicides (whether by pulling the trigger themselves, suicide-by-cop like your friend or other means) were divorced, never married, non-custodial fathers, "failure to launch" people...etc. Seems like those would be interesting variables to consider.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 04:05 PM
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I think this is a particularly scathing critique of the media, regardless of your political leanings...and its something that we should all start talking about. The left of center media is standing on a pile of dead professional aged men, who took their own lives, and is using their deaths to push a rifle agenda completely unrelated to their deaths... ...it’s also possible that sympathy for men simply does not fit within the prevailing Blue Church narrative. Pointing out the truth about the data…
/r/MensRights20/03/18 11:46 AM
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The timeline doesn't coincide exactly, but I think one big missing factor is the development, approval and widespread use of birth control pills starting in 1960 or so. Control over reproduction gave women options they never had before.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 12:24 PM
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I don't think the social norms are exactly arbitrary...I think they are the product of 60,000+ years of societal evolution. I think Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs provides a good framework for analysis of the effects of feminism. All humans are striving to meet our basic needs and ultimately get to the top of the pyramid and achieve fulfillment. Our species has evolved in such a way that cooperation and socialization maximize efficiencies in meeting our needs, both individually and collectively. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:32 PM
1

To clarify, let's just say passive dread became my fault and was (in her mind) something I had to apologize for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 12:17 AM
1

Quality post, thank you. I've been in a few situations with past LTRs where she'd lose her mind because of passive dread. The hamster started spinning and passive dread became active dread, when I did absolutely nothing to cause it. If a random woman that happened to be more attractive than my GF was in the room, all hell broke loose. My every move was monitored to see if I paid more (read: any) attention to the other girl. Anyway, I don't feel like getting into exhaustive details. Long story sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 11:59 PM
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Generally speaking, yes. One of the TRP/PUA tactics that doesn't sit well with me is dread game...not accounting for time or overtly making time with other women at a bar seems like application of dread to me. That said, I think there are good ways and bad ways to go about asking your man to account for his time or explain relationships with other women. Flying off the handle in a fit of jealous/suspicious rage would be a bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 01:42 PM
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I think its only non PC if you're using third wave feminism as the default framework of political correctness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 01:34 PM
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Sounds like a complete list of all the things I've never had and always wanted in an LTR. Meeting this magical unicorn woman would force me to question my resolve to never get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 01:27 PM
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The rules and posting guidelines in the sidebar are so nebulous, restrictive and completely open to whimsical interpretation, even Gloria Steinem or Anita Sarkeesian on a throwaway account could get banned. ...the validity of the various pursuits toward equality...is considered axiomatic In other words "Don't bother protesting, I've got a headache." For the purpose of discussions in our community, the default framework used here is feminist ideology. Attempt to penetrate my wall of ideological r…
/r/MensRights19/07/16 01:03 PM
2

I'm seeing a whole lot of focus on division of assets here, and some fairly reasonable answers. What would you all do about division of debts? I think being in the red financially is probably a lot more prevalent situation for people getting divorced. Speaking for myself alone, I got saddled with around $10K of debt that wasn't mine when I split with my ex - credit cards, car payment, past due cell phone bills, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:08 PM
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