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I'd embrace it. People love having a foreign friend if they're pretty cool. Like Fez from That 70s Show. And while many guys are all anti-friend zone, I'm saying friend-zone them, but don't tell them so. What interests women is figuring out a guy's intentions. Unless they're majorly attracted, direct intent openers are going to not work well, but you should be able to gauge interest level fairly early on to determine approach. I use openers like what's their recommendations for good places to ea…
/r/seduction15/11/25 12:15 PM
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At least go to some local sub with this, why you globally asking to be cucked?
/r/seduction06/11/25 02:35 AM
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It's a bold strategy Cotton, let's see if it pays off.
/r/seduction11/10/25 05:50 PM
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Virtually everything we do is manipulation, trying to make things happen in a certain way to get our desired outcome. It is amoral, meaning the word or deed itself isn't necessarily positive or negative. It's just been used so negatively in media and normal conversations that it feels like a bad word always. It's more about the desired intent that defines if it's positive or not. Lying would almost always be negative. That's why I hold back on advice on this sub. There are definitely predators a…
/r/seduction25/02/25 04:32 AM
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It's not really a loss, she's rude and/or not interested, you saved yourself some time. She doesn't know you or who you really are. If you think 1 rejection makes you a loser you probably just fucked up your inner game for the night already.
/r/seduction11/02/25 01:37 AM
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On the bright side of that, you probably avoided wasting time on a girl that you had very little chance of success with in the first place. I definitely didn't/don't go to a "what's up" opener unless she's showing a strong interest already, I'd just set a feeler opener like "Wondering what kind of drink is that" or such, just to see if her vibes are good, but it's not the worst of advice either. It's not like pickup is going to lead to 100% success rate, even if you've mastered it.
/r/seduction11/02/25 01:29 AM
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Yeah, I would define it as interested so far, as in she could very well disqualify herself by not meeting certain standards (which you should have higher standards). For me that'd be things like rudeness, a certain level of intelligence, moreorless I don't want to waste my time with an eventual trainwreck. I'm big on indirect openers just to see what vibe they give off before I give any direct interest. Indirect openers also really have low rejection levels and help me avoid wasting my time with…
/r/seduction07/01/25 04:33 AM
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Not really. It's more about her mind needs to think about you. Your brain associates what you think about with what you must care about. Our brains don't think about much that doesn't provoke questions. Therefore if you are predictable and have let all your feelings be known there's not much to question and therefore think about. You can't really blame females for that. It's just how brains work.
/r/seduction24/12/24 12:59 AM
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Just Google things like "what colors go good with my skin tone" and "best haircuts for face shapes" and use your better judgement on what would work with your best interests/personality. Another thing that's stuck with me is "dress like you get laid often", so casual but not too overboard sleazy.
/r/seduction14/10/24 03:05 AM
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It's weird because my biggest weaknesses became my best strengths when I focused on pinpointing the issue and finding a better way. I think it's crucial that it's congruent with your identity, personality, and beliefs, or else it will backfire.
/r/seduction07/09/24 07:41 PM
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You need to create your own identity. That's the key word. I know "brainstorming" sounds cliche but you really should. Write down everything you like and everything you love. So maybe, let's say, for me, off the top of my head, games where you liberate towns (Just Cause 3/Far Cry series), great new wave songs, party banger songs (especially EDM), great movie storylines, good rock songs that aren't wrecked by rough screaming, deep strategies, you get the picture. From there just set at least a sm…
/r/seduction18/06/24 06:28 AM
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"What are you looking for": If she's the type you could see yourself getting serious with, then say that's ideally what you're looking for. That can't be rushed though, because a relationship is like a contract where if you signed before knowing all the terms, it'll lead to lots of arguing. But if you talk about how it will be before getting into a relationship, you're both willing to adapt because you'd both want the relationship. If she's not LTR material, you can just say you're having fun, n…
/r/seduction15/05/24 07:58 PM
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You could even straight up tell her exactly what you want and what you're looking for. The biggest key to it all is that you're not like all the other guys trying to "seal the deal". Which means you're not trying to get in a relationship with her, not trying to lock down when the next time you'll see each other, not even necessarily pertaining to sex here. It's a different aura when a guy is interested but isn't like "what are we? You're mine now, right?" Instead you're mentality is like "We're …
/r/seduction14/05/24 06:55 PM
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In a way once you're together for a while, you don't need to keep doing it, if all is going great. But it isn't all about being vague and ambiguous, or even being aloof or uncaring. It's about not being 100% predictable. Picture it like this: girls think of predictable guys like he always does this, he never does that. So switch up how you are or handle situations. Heck, do it just to entertain yourself. Sometimes I'll respond to a short text with a sarcastic "riveting" gif, sometimes I'll respo…
/r/seduction14/05/24 03:18 AM
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It just comes down to how the brain works unfortunately. Think of it like this, when you've got no tasks left to do, your brain doesn't think about what all you did to get there much. That's how females are when they have a guy's thoughts and actions pinpointed. Everything could have went well and she very well could lose interest just because she doesn't think about you much. Wish it didn't work that way, but it does. But knowing all this can help you make it so that there's reasons for her to …
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:14 AM
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Honestly, you're on the brink of something that'll change your "game" mentality forever. What makes a guy "stand out" and "win" a woman's head is when they find themselves thinking about you constantly. The brain basically concludes that if you're constantly thinking about someone, you must care the most about them, and if you care so much you must have strong feelings for them. Unfortunately, when a girl knows you're clearly interested in being in a relationship with them, it basically contradi…
/r/seduction13/05/24 07:49 PM
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I grew up with a Dad that was a complete douche, always acting like I'm a disappointment or some shit. Said stuff like he couldn't ever remember a good time with me. Shit like that will fuck you up. Took me quite a lot of years to get to where I'm at now, confidence is not an issue. I also never wanted to become over-confident, where I'm some sort of arrogant douchebag, so that makes the journey a little more difficult, when it feels like a balancing act of too little or too much. There were a f…
/r/seduction17/07/23 08:50 AM
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I can tell dude's bs'ing. These are not the viewpoints of a guy that truly understands what life is like and what your viewpoints are after you get really good.
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:22 AM
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Just created a subreddit under this account, which is my older one. /r/fliptheirscript
/r/seduction31/07/20 08:50 AM
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Ok so the first 5 are all the same: you make excuses. Be it not to start, continue, or persevere through the tough times. Here are some other actual reasons: You aren't really aware of what's going wrong. We all know people who could try running game all day but until they work on not being too excited, leaning in too much, have bad mannerisms, etc...., they're gonna fail at a very high rate. To fix this you need input from others, although hopefully you have certain people to give you an honest…
/r/seduction15/05/15 07:45 PM
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This sounds like a nominee for /r/thathappened. I've had interested girls buy me several drinks but the whole every drink, paying for a cab, constant begging to take her home just makes this sound way too over the top to be true.
/r/seduction15/05/15 02:40 PM
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You friend-zoning a woman can flip the script as well. By not letting her decide it first, she may wish to try getting you attracted to her, and in some cases, will make it so she is more attracted to you. May not be overnight, might even be years later. But it is possible, and in my experiences, a fairly high chance of it.
/r/seduction11/05/15 04:01 AM
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I have the "ok so what's wrong with you" mentality. Just like pro players about to get drafted, best in the nation at what they do, but the scouts and critics always find flaws in their overall abilities. The harder it is for you, the more negative you'll likely have to go. But after a while it'll likely come lightly and naturally. After all, beautiful women constantly criticize and compare themselves to others. You don't need to do it verbally, just know that everyone has their problems that co…
/r/seduction05/05/15 03:15 AM
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The best route is to be classy about it. "Well I hope he treats you well, you deserve it." They'll remember that, especially if he doesn't. The best things in life take time. Edit to add this: all you ego-starved dbags that can't handle giving an unselfish compliment are the same AFCs that keep trying to find the perfect thing to say but bottom line is nothing you say can cover up you're a selfish prick and every girl can figure that out rather quickly.
/r/seduction27/02/15 07:40 AM
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You should just take her to a club and she will likely be the one finding a girl for the threesome. The downside to your story is it sounds like she has every intention of making you the third wheel, which is the last thing you want to be. It's not hard to find girls good to go with a three some, as long as you frame it that way early on. It's near impossible to re-frame any commitment-based relationship to threesomes, but as long as you're all about having fun and seizing the night most girls c…
/r/seduction23/02/15 07:20 AM
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I've written a few articles that were mostly inner-game/strategy that were quite successful, a little over six months ago (check my profile). Unfortunately, I really don't like giving the information into the wrong hands (there's a lot of selfish d-bags that use seddit, not most, but many), so I think I can speak for other submitters when I say that is what keeps us from posting again.
/r/seduction24/09/14 04:02 PM
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I know for me a quote that rings true is "I already know what happens if I don't do it, and it's nothing. I wanna see what happens if I do." I also combine that with "the squeaky wheel gets the grease" and have the philosophy of if I talk to strangers about the things I like and want, it's very surprising how many of them will help point you in that direction. I'm always getting names of people to talk to that would be knowledgeable in that area, and also strategy advice that I hadn't thought of…
/r/seduction19/08/14 05:10 PM
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I think what we both agree on is this: approaching is giving approval, but shouldn't be full approval, yet. She hasn't won you over just because you approached. The possibilities for where this may lead are endless, from friends to romance or just a mere one-time conversation. It just sounds like when you say you give them your approval immediately like there's no chase because they've already caught you... and that will have very little chance of success.
/r/seduction24/05/14 06:41 PM
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I'm not saying you're not giving approval, but the bad boy mentality is usually "just enough" approval, and only for a short while. His standards keep going up. And girls don't always think you're approaching just to hit on them. Most of the time they do, yes. But what I do, social proofing, is talk to almost everybody, and so when they see that's who you are, not only do they less often think you want them, the more they anticipate it and you're value is raised before the approach. Not looking …
/r/seduction23/05/14 07:25 PM
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act hard to get when you're already hitting on a girl - that's a game you'll lose every time. This is crazy talk. Just because you approach a girl doesn't mean you're ready to jump into the sack with her. In fact, it's still easy as can be to make it so she has to earn your attention/affection. An approach is just talking. I'm taken and I'll talk to whoever. Doesn't mean I want them or will even consider having sex with them. It's just talking. For anyone to assume that going up to a girl is the…
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:34 PM
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This isn't even true really. Bad boys are quite manipulative. They are like the father/teacher/coach that everything was not good enough... so the girl tries and tries to impress them. It's just a method that works far better than telling a girl "congratulations, you already won me over". There's also an abundance of other reasons why the "bad boy" succeeds more often than the nice guy. The biggest two aren't even slightly mentioned here. They are.... ...not given for free. They must be earned. …
/r/seduction22/05/14 03:17 PM
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This hopefully hits home for the "nice guys" who keep reverting back to being nice after a little ways in and also to those people that end up losing the girl after they get too predictable and start supplementing to the girl. Two things to note: the guy who did this video (Patrick Chase) gives great advice, and has several videos on YouTube. The book he mentions "How To Be The Jerk Women Love" by F.J. Shark is great at helping you develop the attractive mentality women love, and keep it that wa…
/r/seduction21/05/14 06:58 AM
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We all have our regrets of backing down. If you learned, you didn't lose. Here's to hoping there's a round 2 and that's where you prevail brother
/r/seduction17/05/14 06:24 AM
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The chase is better than the catch. That goes for both her and you.
/r/seduction15/05/14 04:28 AM
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Grounding and transition, it's that simple. It's how you carry conversations in any direction you want. Grounding is really just the simple task of saying something that breaks that topic of conversation naturally. Let's go from the start of an approach to talking about her family dynamics: You: You look like you're having a crazy time, what's the occasion? Her: It's my friends' bachelorette party, we're having a blast! You: Ah yeah, my sister had crazy stories when she got married last summer. …
/r/seduction14/05/14 06:06 AM
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GetAbstract.com was the site I used (wasn't free, I paid a little over $100 for 6-months access, but it was well worth it.
/r/seduction14/02/14 11:21 PM
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Anger or any negativity is going to have to be stopped. Find a memory that brings happiness or laughter. Then try to stay there and focus on that. Do not feed the wolves of negativity with time or attention!
/r/seduction08/02/14 08:56 PM
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I see your point, that's why I ask in advance if they've heard of it before. They could play possum but I have never had someone who knew it already, and only 1 person who won the bet.
/r/seduction08/02/14 05:21 AM
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Try it. You're not a woman so you don't know how much they like it.
/r/seduction08/02/14 03:39 AM
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Google translate said apparantly this means "the absence of market". No clue.
/r/seduction07/02/14 04:31 AM
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I'm not sure when, but sooner than later, I'll cover those as well. Lots of topics still left. Slowly touching their upper arm lightly with the back of your hand is a very easy social touch to do with virtually anyone while conversing, and for women, it has many a time caused them to start freely touching as if that was all it took for them to show just how interested they were. You'd be surprised that sometimes that's all it takes.
/r/seduction07/02/14 04:27 AM
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Jealousy is a natural emotion and anyone is capable of it. In essence, to the woman, it usually is the emotion that gets them to realize just how much they are attracted to you. It's actually what drives a woman to make any moves or take action, so in a way you can thank jealousy for some of your most vivid memories of a woman taking action to win you over. It can be a good thing, but definitely not always.
/r/seduction06/02/14 07:37 PM
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I'm happy to say we will get to that in the very next post.
/r/seduction06/02/14 06:11 AM
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I've easily opened countless times on stunners with something simple like "what's the drink special here" or "name a shot I should try". Transition into what's the occasion tonight on to how do they know each other... the whole time seeding attraction. Once that's set, you can talk about almost anything. Yeah there's negs and being some smartass or whatever, it's not necessary, and half the time it can blow up in your face. Once they see you're high social value, it's a lot less important to imp…
/r/seduction06/02/14 02:21 AM
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You can't find the right person for the job without usually several interviews. That doesn't mean that your interviews need to feel like work. This is just a straight up adventure. Meeting people, creating opportunities. A lot of the stories you're going to have to tell along the way won't even be about the sex. Just don't let this attitude be an excuse to not be willing to make the first step in meeting new people. Eventually, I plan on evolving these articles into more of a you showing up and …
/r/seduction06/02/14 01:26 AM
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I think the biggest comparison to be made is that you're not selling the product's features, but how those features will benefit them and make them feel. This really gets them to feel like their life will be so much better with you and everything you bring to the table.
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:59 PM
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We're getting to all that in attraction and social proofing. This will work with them, but only when they deem you on or above their level, and that is strategic as well.
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:16 PM
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You need to focus on other things, and run with them. Keep yourself busy. The timing is bad for you to focus on this. The brain has a way of self-destructing when focusing on negative emotions. That's all that it's doing too. Throw your attention elsewhere and roll with it. The momentum will carry you forward. Remember that song: "I'm alright, it only hurts when I breathe?" To me that really just means that your thoughts only get the best of you when you stand still. Do your best to make closure…
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:39 PM
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Definitely, all 3 can cause your brain to act irrationally or send off negative vibes, not to mention screw up your thought process. Pushing through it will be hard, yet the most rewarding. Your "social stamina" will improve and you won't have excuses to use for why you should "take the rest of the night off." Some tips: You don't need to reinvent the wheel when starting a conversation. They don't need to be blown away with some witty opener. Something simple like "Been an interesting day so far…
/r/seduction05/02/14 02:24 AM
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I definitely agree, I think that that comes from not having "identity meaning", which basically is not letting others determine your approval of yourself, not seeking their approval. It's a topic that could be dissected and elaborated, but really I'm hoping most of us can just keep it simple: never allow it to get the best of you (or keep your best self from surfacing).
/r/seduction05/02/14 02:08 AM
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