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Feminismbavcccccuppp/r/MensRights03/09/24 04:47 PM
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You'd likely never know it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:47 PM
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if that happened to me, I wouldn't be able to stand it. I hate attention
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:16 PM
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did you know? those with autism generally dont have the best socisl skills, and this can be easily spotted by others. those with ASPD, on the other hand, are incredibly good at blending in. if you've met a sociopath, you'd likely never know it. do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:59 PM
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just because you're miserable doesn't mean it's right to bring everyone down with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:55 PM
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the advent of cooking, dishes and laundry are all man-made inventions so I'd bet that no one is "naturally wired" to do any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:50 PM
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humans are generally confined to a position in which the familiar is comfortable and justifiable. it causes cognitive dissonance and overall discomfort when they are presented with something that diverges from the status quo. this is known as "system justification theory" and serves a primarily palliative function for the individual. there's also a component of reduced empathy that groups of people have for one another nowadays. we are trained on algorithms made to enrage us as a means to garner…
/r/MensRights06/09/24 11:30 AM
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I think both stem from greater societal norms imposed upon individuals from a young age.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 11:17 AM
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When did I say that it was only men who perpetuated this?
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:42 PM
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What I’m saying is domestic violence knows no gender, it merely knows circumstance.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 10:41 PM
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It’s way higher amongst bi women and their male partners. 61% of bisexual women have experienced forms of rape and physical violence by an intimate partner as compared to 35% of straight women Sexual violence is common. More than 1 in 4 lesbian women, almost half of bisexual women, and over 1 in 4 heterosexual women in the U.S. were raped during their lifetimes. The NISVS data provide insights about the perpetrators and forms of IPV involving bisexual women. For instance, more than 90% of bisexu…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 10:40 PM
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For example, the CDC found that 89.5% of bisexual women reported only male perpetrators of intimate partner physical violence, rape, and/or stalking and that almost a third of lesbian women who have experienced such incidents have had one or more male perpetrators. almost a third of lesbian women who have experienced such incidents have had one or more male perpetrators.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 10:34 PM
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What do you think of the countless studies that cite that bisexual women are most likely to be IPV victims, from around 49-65%, from vast majority male partners?
/r/MensRights04/09/24 10:22 PM
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Your first link says: The National Violence Against Women (NVAW) survey found that 21.5% of men and 35.4% of women reporting a history of cohabitation with a same-sex partner had experienced physical abuse in their lifetimes note it says “reporting a history of cohabitation with a same sex partner,” and does not mention the orientation of the individual or the gender of the perpetrator. Transgender respondents reported lifetime physical abuse rates by a partner of 34.6%, versus 14.0% for gay or …
/r/MensRights04/09/24 10:17 PM
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what do you deem "rape culture"
/r/MensRights04/09/24 08:55 AM
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the false notions of masculinity which are largely unattainable by the greater demographic leads to inadequacy
/r/MensRights04/09/24 06:28 AM
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bs chivalry standards that date back decades
/r/MensRights04/09/24 06:28 AM
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that's a myth. it's 29% when removing past relationships with men. bisexual women have a 61% lifetime dv rate from 89.5% men. an alarming 29% of men have experienced ipv in their lifetimes, and 35% of heterosexual women. 36% of bi men have experienced ipv from majority women, which is the stat I think people don't bring up enough. ​
/r/MensRights04/09/24 06:26 AM
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oh, so its women's fault for the pink tax, not the institution! so true.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 06:24 AM
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patriarchy and men are two distinct entities, one is a social structure and another is an entire gender. patriarchy harms both women and men, and puts men in dangerous sitauions ​as a means of proving their masculinity. it idealizes sacrifice, violence, and shows of strength and is so insistent on conformity that many feel utterly alienated and even inadequate when they fail to adhere to these standards. it designates men as fulfiling a purpose and centers their lives on competition and transact…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 02:57 AM
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What are your thoughts on the male.lonlieness crisis? Is the usage of such a term exclusionary of women?
/r/MensRights04/09/24 02:28 AM
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small correction: the foundational assumption of feminism is the premise of a patriarchal social order
/r/MensRights04/09/24 02:22 AM
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abolished
/r/MensRights04/09/24 01:52 AM
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What have MRAs done to help women?
/r/MensRights04/09/24 01:20 AM
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I thought we were talking about men when you mentioned mandatory army duty? only men have been subjected to forced conscription, do who else could we have been talking about? yes, I talk about such topics
/r/MensRights04/09/24 01:09 AM
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you shouldnt have said that, now I'm going to double down.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 01:01 AM
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fair
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:58 AM
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because that's just it, they're a vocal minority of individuals condemned by the greater movement
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:58 AM
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I'm a neuro student neck deep in schoolwork
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:57 AM
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Somebody already did https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/1d19g9w/intersectional_support_for_male_victims_of_abuse/
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:57 AM
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because she is s secondary source of information, so you are providing me with a filtered assessment, a secondary provision of information. I also don't appreciate your generalizations. I will address the points when I have time.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:55 AM
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absolutely not at all. I am against drafting any forced conscription.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:54 AM
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that's literally the english definition, second one down
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:37 AM
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a society in which those in power are predominantly male, and women are largely excluded
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:04 AM
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this is really well put together. thank you for referring me to this, this is actually one of the most well researched responses I've seen.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:03 AM
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you are mistaking women and feminists. they are not the same.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 11:37 PM
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I thought feminists controlled society through matriarchal society? isn't that according to your belief system?
/r/MensRights03/09/24 11:36 PM
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I asked you to provide me with feminist literature, you did not comply.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 11:35 PM
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I am currently watching the video, of which I am relatively critical thus far. I am not delusional. You do realize that the beliefs I denounced were anti feminist in nature? that is, I went from what is often described as the "alt-right pipeline," growing up in a strongly conservative household, to a leftist feminist. I have confronted everything I held dear only to wind up back here. I am by no means afraid to confront my beliefs. I am critical of many branches of feminism, such as white femini…
/r/MensRights03/09/24 11:34 PM
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This is not feminist literature, but a biased recital of information not from a feminist source
/r/MensRights03/09/24 11:28 PM
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That doesn't look like literature to me
/r/MensRights03/09/24 11:22 PM
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I have done my own research. tell me about the feminist literature you have engaged in
/r/MensRights03/09/24 11:15 PM
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so feminists have repeatedly asked for peace, only to be met with anger?
/r/MensRights03/09/24 11:14 PM
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both men and women contribute to and perpetuate this mindset. so I'm not going to refute you because it's true that women engage in these behaviors as well
/r/MensRights03/09/24 11:13 PM
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I'm not dropping the label because I know the community and I've seen what we've fought for. it's nothing like you describe and I find it insulting that you insinuate that I somehow hate men when I've been doing everything I can to advocate for and understand them
/r/MensRights03/09/24 09:49 PM
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/r/MensRights03/09/24 09:48 PM
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most feminists aren't doing that. the discussions I've had about raising awareness about men being overlooked as victims have been squarely in feminist spaces.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 09:47 PM
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as a feminist, that is absolutely not what I want
/r/MensRights03/09/24 09:45 PM
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I'm a feminist who doesn't hate men. I hate the system that tells men their lives are transactional, that frames them as always perpetrators and never the victim, that shows them that they are not allowed, even for a moment, to show weakness. that a man is to live a life of attainment, that their primary goal is to elevate status, that shuns them of they dare deviate from the patriarchal notions of masculinity. it is a system that leaves no one happy
/r/MensRights03/09/24 09:45 PM
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i am a feminist, I've read literature about the matter. it's given me insight into men's issues that I've never seen prior. I used to be angry about unfair treatment that I was subjected to by men. feminism told me those were due to societal norms and notions of masculinity rather than men themselves. that we are all victims of a system that is made to exploit us in many regards.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 08:36 PM
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aren't you dehumanizing them by relegating their roles to predominantly adversarial intentions and treating them as a monolithic entity with a sole intent to disadvantage men?
/r/MensRights03/09/24 05:34 PM
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what is the dictionary definition of "patriarchy?"
/r/MensRights03/09/24 05:12 PM
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what confuses me is your reasoning and adamant framing of feminism as a hate group, when that is not at all what I have observed not participated in
/r/MensRights03/09/24 05:11 PM
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I know what you mean when you say practice. I'm just saying that their actions show that their intentions are noy as such. They make it very clear that they have no ill intent
/r/MensRights03/09/24 05:10 PM
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do you agree that most of those who are in power are male?
/r/MensRights03/09/24 04:37 PM
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I thought it was related because it's a gender issue and such issues are relevant to feminism
/r/MensRights03/09/24 04:34 PM
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but femnists, in practice, make it clear to me that this is not what they mean when they use these terms. that's one of the most basic facets of feminism
/r/MensRights03/09/24 04:27 PM
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that's clearly not true if you've ever read feminist literature, which I severely doubt.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 10:45 AM
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how is that feminist in any capacity
/r/MensRights03/09/24 04:43 AM
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it's less about the literal meaning of the term and more about the rhetoric that is associated with the movement
/r/MensRights03/09/24 04:42 AM
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"patriarchy" merely means a social order in which those who hold power are majority male. Feminism presents this order as neither optimal for men nor women. "toxic masculinity" embodies the standards that one would deem toxic towards men, such as telling men they can't cry. I don't know how one would seem that anti male as one comprises as small quantity of men and the other talks about toxic standards that are unfair to them. I fully expect to be down voted, but it's the truth.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 04:39 AM
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true, and it's wack.. but what does this have to do with feminism?
/r/MensRights03/09/24 04:34 AM
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the worst I've had to go thru as a lesbian was fear for my life because the place I was at wasn't supportive ofy identity, I feel like you are trivializing what we have to endure. I've been through hell and back and for you to reduce my suffering to just "receiving compliments from men" is...
/r/MensRights03/09/24 04:30 AM
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no. we hinge on hundreds of years of a society that was created for and centered around a male perspective. there is no literature on it because it does not exist, at least in the capacity that an androcentric society does
/r/MensRights01/09/24 08:29 PM
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you can't just easily form a country out of thin air. women don't have anything to prove, real life women don't hate men enough to do that. when a woman says she doesn't need a man, what she means is "I filled a societal role in the past in which I was fully financially dependent on a romantic interest and I no longer need to depend on said romantic interest." not " hate men and I would prefer to live without them."
/r/MensRights01/09/24 08:26 PM
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just shaking my head in disbelief that someone would even think this at all just because I brought up clear discrimination women faced
/r/MensRights01/09/24 05:00 PM
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I can guarantee you that that isn't true 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:11 AM
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this place is extremely toxic, I'd advise most of you to leave while you still can
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:10 AM
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greater variance compared to what? the baseline, which is men. I think "hormone variation" is inexcusable. the meds I take for ADHD and chronic pain do not work at all when I'm on my period, which causes a significant disruption in my schedule as well as adds onto the immense pain I feel. also, men have more hormonal variation during a short period, as they have a daily hormonal cycle whereas women have a monthly cycle.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 12:18 AM
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that's not at all what I think, wtf. stop treating gender as some sort of club that treats all members as liable if those previous were oppressive in the past. the systemic maltreatment of women in the medical field and healthcare says far more about fucked up social systems, not men as a whole. yes, medical misogyny exists. stop trying to erase it. misogyny does not equal men bad, women can perpetuate it too and they are key players in doing so. I don't know why people associate with gender so …
/r/MensRights31/08/24 12:05 AM
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