| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?JFC | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:38 AM |
| – | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?calm down. it’s not that serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Regarding Cold Approaches, location doesn’t matter much tbh.approach everywhere you would like to be approached. if you are hot enough she will like it. otherwise she won’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?>No man on earth could afford it. are you virgin then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | My first experience speed dating as a 29 year old in a large citybecause it connected with everyone. | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 08:28 PM |
| 112 | My first experience speed dating as a 29 year old in a large cityyou live in a city of 500k. why don’t you stop being a pussy and spell out the city. | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Don't try to get a girl to like you, try to get a girl to feel somethingbasically i need to become bipolar constantly stirring up shit for her to keep it interesting lol | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guymy neighbor is 62, he is currently dating 23 yr old. his ex was 32 | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | The Tesla Method: How To Make Dating Easydamn! i’ve been doing it wrong all these years following ford method and gm method. why didn’t i think of tesla method!! it’s game over for other guys now. | /r/seduction | 09/06/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?It becomes easier as you get older. I also find that im not that happy hanging out with them after doing all the chasing. so i just cut them loose and look for ones who reciprocate. Dates are 4x more fun with ones who reciprocate. everyone else is just time pass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?so i don’t really care for kiss if they don’t want to see me again. so i’m now ambiguous on what i should do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | So, i was listening to Tate saying he wouldn't be friends with an ex...makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | So, i was listening to Tate saying he wouldn't be friends with an ex...asking for 20 bucks is cringe. are you in high school? if you are going to ask, ask for 200 or 500. make it count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Does status of your partner affects your perception of yourself?if your confidence is so good, you should go out with an ugly chick as an arm candy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 02:44 AM |
| 3 | She playing games or should I take her on her wordalso in your head… (the other head) | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Men do care about earning potential and education in a woman, just not the same way women value it in men.agree with her. prefer someone who has experience than low n count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies?its not hobbies that make you attractive to women. its passion. hobbies are way to express your passion. you cant express sufficient passion to attract women by merely consuming stuff from reddit and video games. are you so passionate on reddit, that you are influential and you have a fan following? are you so passionate about video games that people want to watch you play and you are going places sharing your thoughts about different games and you are a big dog in gaming world? if the answer to… | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 06:01 PM |
| 8 | PSA : you DON'T have to go for a kiss on the first date (this is how I fumbled 2 hotties)so cringe. op doesn’t understand the assignment and fucks up and writes a bad field report | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?was in your situation 10 years ago. 17% bf is good place to start but aim for 10%. focus on securing long term visa first before worrying about dates. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:24 AM |
| 1 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partneri think we are both from similar culture. i used to think like you. it’s such slim pickings, having a requirement that their parents should also be highly educated is a tall order. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partnerwhat about a woman who didn’t go to college but now is working as software engineer because she did bootcamp? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:43 AM |
| -1 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partnerlol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:05 AM |
| 2 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partnerwhat’s umc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Money in dating and relationshipare you okay with preparing him food and taking care of house like cleaning and raising kids? since you are going by traditional roles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Money in dating and relationshipbecause it works for them until it doesnt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Intra-Sexual Competition Mega-Threadwhere do you get your eyebrows waxed? regular barbers don’t do it right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?yeah management is the keyword here. never get mad is unrealistic. expressing madness through anger is a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:04 PM |
| 0 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?how healthy is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?4/10. all that and lacks self awareness. how can anyone never get mad? must be a saint. never say never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What common takes from women do you disagree with?my tone was sarcastic. i know women can be logical but some chose not to be when it doesn’t serve them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 05:44 PM |
| 8 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?it’s super common for women to get hit on. it’s pretty rare for guys to get hit on. i would say 500:1 ratio or even less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Most men ignore the women they claim to wantconfidence is attractive. fun girls are fun to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?guys hitting on girls and girls hitting on guys are not same thing. they are apples to oranges | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:54 AM |
| 5 | What common takes from women do you disagree with?this is somewhat sus. i as a guy believe it’s harder for women to stay in shape if they are working and raising kids and doing house chores. “just eat less” goes out of the window when you are stressed about work/ relationship/ kids etc. i’m not saying it’s impossible but i believe it’s harder than men. having abs is definitely harder for women than men. women naturally maintain higher body fat % compared to men. some women have to drop body fat to single digits to start seeing abs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:36 AM |
| 2 | What common takes from women do you disagree with?you must be a guy. there is no way a woman can see guys pov and be this logical. i wish every woman understood this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:10 AM |
| 3 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?this comment was too far below than it deserves to be lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Is is better for a man to have a women's body or her mind?lol the build up here was something, only to find 3 course meal. 3 course meal is just a nice thing in my books for a fellow human. i would do that for my love interest even if i’m not actually in love. similarly cooked dinner on friday night. i guess men are more generous that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Being an above average man really is attainableand when i get to 5%, the bar would be shifted to 3% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Being an above average man really is attainablewhat qualifies as really lived life? it’s subjective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Being an above average man really is attainablegetting something is pointless. guys want something similar to their effort/accomplishments but discount factor is so high for opposite sex, it is unappealing to commit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:16 AM |
| 0 | Fun night but girl got mad I wouldn’t fuck her without a condom first nighti bet. she def wanted to get her pipes cleaned | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl is hinting at dick pic but I don’t have that big of a Dick?don’t send her yours. send her someone else’s. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl is hinting at dick pic but I don’t have that big of a Dick?how do you know it’s hers? | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 04:09 PM |
| 17 | Girl is hinting at dick pic but I don’t have that big of a Dick?bro dont. she is likely scammer . are you okay with your nude leaking out to your family members? | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 04:09 PM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]yes! you are pretty sure… smh 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 01:14 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]what about std? what is wrong with you? | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | [Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits.it looks like you are my twin. early 30s, born in india, now in west coast, thetaganger, into fitness, doing well. appreciate your post. lets keep in touch. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Weird technique that actually workedthis happened to me and i can vouch for this technique. once i was on a first date walking down the street. this random dude walks up to me and hypes me up saying he loves my instagram and stuff. i went with it, thanked him and that was it. after few minutes i told my date i didn’t really know him and he was just trying to make me look good in front of her. she found that funny, amusing and adorable. it made a memorable night | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How to become more physically attractive?lmao, are there good smelling farts? i know what you meant but it was funny | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How to become more physically attractive?if your mom is very strict, how are you going to manage when you get a girl? | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30ssunnyvale, california /s | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 08:24 AM |
| 55 | Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women?hii | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 04:40 AM |
| – | I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening?is this how your girl acts too. so mysterious and does round about things? why not just comment on what she does directly here instead of you telling other person and other person telling it here for us | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 02:50 AM |
| 22 | Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps?i think it’s a great idea. all the guys who have had great pics are from their friends who scratched each other’s back or they have great social circle which can take such good pictures. i was fortunate to have friends who were budding photography enthusiasts who clicked shit load of pictures. get your photos taken by a professional but it should not look like you’ve gotten it taken from a professional. one or two good photos, photos of you in an activity, photos of you in social gathering these… | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 06:50 AM |
| 46 | Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps?this is total bullshit. nobody is at the mercy of anybody. just like you have options, girls also have options. people are not on dating apps because they are undesirable. dating apps have become the norm these days due to lot of reasons. what does it say about you if random girls on dating apps can reduce your motivation and self worth? | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach is the best method of dating more.that is not cold approach. that is a direct approach. cold approach is beating around the bush and then slipping in the interest hence it’s called cold approach. you ask for directions, talk about commonalities to break ice and then mix in direct approach to get her contact so you can continue communication later | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 6 | My red flagsthese are pretty good observations. i agree with most of them. 1) complaining about ex hits home 2) entitlement hits home | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 05:08 AM |
| 2 | ADVICE for Single SEATTLE GUY on where to travel to or how to make best of my own city.i have done number of approaches. i have never had a girls guy text me at all. that’s super strange | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 08:08 AM |
| 7 | Ayyy I got laid!okay. that’s your opinion. imagine all the incoming got laid posts that are going to flood this sub if this becomes the norm | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 07:48 PM |
| 31 | Ayyy I got laid!no. there is zero value from this post. nothing to learn. the value of the sub before and after this post is negative | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 07:39 PM |
| 35 | Ayyy I got laid!this sub seriously needs better mods. why is this post still up | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Indian Women!!i don’t know why you are being downvoted. i’m an indian guy in the us and i agree that it’s all in op’s head. how would a non indian hit on indian women? indian women are no different. it’s all in your head. follow two rules and you will be golden. the 18th date thing is more in your head than hers. | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 10:27 PM |
| -3 | Indian Women!!i call bs. | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 10:25 PM |
| 3 | If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested.this is such bullshit advise. backburners are never worth your time even if they become available | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | “... I had a great time too and you’re a very attractive guy but it didn’t really click for me”dude don’t force it. go to dates, try to have a good time, walk away without expectations. you can’t force interest. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Text Game Breakdown - Bumble Fail (Screenshots Included)dude the amount of dedication and effort you put in is impressive . | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 04:12 AM |
| 1 | What women supposedly get sexually attracted to according to Dan Baconnever read more bullshit than this. what does it even mean to say laser focused sexuality? what does it mean to meditate on sexuality? just be playful, see the vibe, escalate, assess the situation, press the brakes and cruise for a while if she is not feeling it, don’t over complicate things. | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Why pickup won't make you happyexcellent post! very well put. for the ones who are dismissing it, i think you guys are in different phase of the journey. you have to introspect deeper to make sense out of it. | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Remember to remove barriers when getting her to come overyou know what would be useful? give us an example where you removed barriers without flexing your money. | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 08:44 PM |
| 30 | Remember to remove barriers when getting her to come overeh, breaking barriers down with money is not that impressive. it’s also no brainer. nothing impressive about that it’s easy to get laid when she has got nothing going on. more often they are pretty boring and they are always up for getting laid because they are bored and do not have an interesting life find a chick in a club that has her shit together and then get laid, now that’s a challenge. and they turn out to be more interesting than the other type. | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 08:14 PM |
| 11 | Insane Beginners Luck!!“the company of pretty face .....” cringe max. don’t say something like that ever. it’s not classy. she is not a hooker and you are not paying for her company. if you are tight on budget don’t take her to places where you end up in situation like this. if you do end up in situation don’t flinch and make her feel guilty. just cough it up and learn the lesson. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 06:46 PM |
| 3 | I just want to remind you guys to be carefulmakes no sense. you get horny only if you are attracted . | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 07:39 PM |
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