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| 44 | Why do fat chics always pose next to hotties in OLD and think that builds attractiveness?They seek status in men. They are aware of what they are attracted too. Men posing with successful men can imply that they themselves are successful. However, for the most part, men are not attracted to status. But it's easy to understand how women could confuse what they are attracted to also being something that the opposing sex might be attracted too. | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Haven’t made it this farGood question: I think you should reflect on the difference between what being direct means/looks like to you and what being aggressive is. They are not the same. Being direct shows that you know what you want and you have no issue showing that you know what you want, it displays that you know yourself. Knowing yourself is confidence. Being demanding or aggressive is different by all means. Those things are what children do when they don’t get their way. Aggressive is not direct. Aggressive is m… | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Haven’t made it this farStop beating around the bush. If your an alpha ask her out, be direct, show your interest. If she says no or thanks but I think of you as a friend, see it as no loss of your own. Be humble, and forward. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 01:30 AM |
| 9 | How To Make Her Notice You: a guide to gaming girls at the gym, work or collegeAgain, I greatly disagree. • It is not direct • It kills the mystery In my experience because I have tried both in many different approaches, there is a certain response given when you ask for social media versus their number. You can almost hear it in their voice. Phone number is what you want to get ahold of them, not social media. Once more, it is direct and thus more confident. Most women will not go out of their way to ask for your Instagram unless you are spending to much time interacting … | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 11:50 PM |
| 3 | How To Make Her Notice You: a guide to gaming girls at the gym, work or collegeI’d agree with most everything except the last part. Don’t ask for her social media account - that shows general aversion and lack of confidence as asking for social media accounts can signal that you just want to be friends. Asking for phone numbers sets a direct message of your attention, it makes it clear that you are romantically interested in that person and you want to pursue talking to them personally. If the logic is that you can get their attention with social media more than texting th… | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Closing girls way too fast and free associating too much coming off mentally illNo you turned yourself into this. Stop blaming your objectifying perspective on other things. You see the world the way you choose. | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 07:20 AM |
| 2 | What is the general rule for women with boyfriends?Don’t do it lol | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Is This A Shit Test Or A Sign to backoffI’m more surprised that people come on here to vent and seek pity than they do take practical advice. I mean, I understand that they can’t decipher ffective strategy from the ineffective when it’s presented to them in an online forum, but seems just like a generally reluctance to try anything different. Especially when I constantly suggest they don’t listen to me, just go watch the videos. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Is This A Shit Test Or A Sign to backoffI thought it was hang out, have fun and hamburgers. Did I mess up? | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 07:08 AM |
| 1 | What really is the best book to help go from 0 - 100 talking to girls?You misinterpreted my quote. Love be guy, watching his video right now. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:41 AM |
| 2 | What really is the best book to help go from 0 - 100 talking to girls?Corey Wayne all the way.... com’mon man. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:20 AM |
| 2 | [Image] Just do your thing.Ummm this times a million. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 11:00 PM |
| 3 | So tired of these cunts. What do?You my friend, think you deserve something from these women. You are acting immature and entitled. Not sexy at all. | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Guys badly want social media to work. Here’s why it (mostly) doesn’tThey don’t even use it seriously now, why would they when the pool gets more limited. Women want the pool with the most options because usually you can pick throw those to find the best. Good luck getting relatively good anything ina smaller pool. | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 08:01 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I've hit a brick wall in my seduction process. How can I escape this Beginner's Hell?Coach Corey Wayne. Change your life my friend. | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Fellers, I think I have eye contact issuesThis is what alpha males do, they speak with their eyes and say to women, I want you, not am I afraid to show it. However, I would NOT encourage someone who is struggling with eye contact out the gate to attempt this because what makes it effective is understanding he subtleties of making eye contact. It’s the difference of starring (creeping) and making a connection (confident) and without practice, it’s like trying to box Connor McGregor without gloves. What I do advocate is to work up slowly … | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl takes more than 5 hours per response but she is interested when she responds. What does this mean?Women do this in the beginning to weed out the needy and pathetic guys who don’t have a lot going on. But if they do this after the first week, either you haven’t proven to her that you are worthy of her attention or she just isn’t interested. In some cases they could be just stringing you along, keeping you as an orbiter or back up if they ever need a ride downtown or go out for a free drink but they do not think of you as someone who they would have sex with let alone date. Take it as a sign. … | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Girl takes more than 5 hours per response but she is interested when she responds. What does this mean?Next. | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 07:31 AM |
| 1 | I'm improving!!Great approach! Be a friendly human and humans will be friendly back. You’ll make a name for yourself as “that friendly human”, then all of a sudden, youll have also friendly female human friends, more friends means more more friends. Eventually you will meet a human friend who will make you feel more than just a friend and vise versa, that is the friend that you want to make more than just a friend. Good luck human! | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing?It depends my first girlfriend of almost 6 years who I was deeply in love with and he was dropdead gorgeous actually approached me and gave me her number. Had she not done that I do not think that I would’ve gained as much or learned as much about dating for polarity or attraction. So to answer your question no it’s not impossible and in rare circumstances it may even be somebody who you end up falling in love with that approaches you. But yes at the end of the day you can guarantee most likely … | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 08:44 PM |
| 5 | Way more attention at school when I start dating a girl.Also known as choosing quotients. You are worthy of being chosen by a specific individual of value, so thus you must be valuable to many others of similar worth. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Called her out while flaking for the 3rd time in a month. Did i say too much?Not necessarily, I’ve done it often. I’ve done it for first dates too, doesn’t mean you have to stay at your place. Perhaps just meet up, chat for a bit, check out your place and then go out, grab a drink and a bite to eat, then back to your place. 2nd dates usually are the ones to seal the deal anyways. Most women won’t put out on the first because they’d rather get to know you first and build trust. The 2nd date is really when you can both open up and become more intimate. If you’ve done the j… | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Why “abundance” and “self improvement” don’t always work, and you’re not going to like what you hear.Damn. Beautifully put. Couldn’t have said it better myself! | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How do u know what to work on when approaching women?Your right it’s all about the energy, but this is closer to negging than it is witty banter. Most women despite how you go about doing it will not respond to this type of treatment well, it’s not just confidence, it’s reading there energy and understanding that you gotta open them up to more convo. I’m saying that this is not good advice for someone starting out nor would I ever go that far even with women I know. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What are your expectations after taking a seduction class, or reading a seduction book?Practice practice practice. Do you expect to be an engineer just because you’ve got your degree. No, you have to work at it for a long tine. Every day 5 days a week, for years. You can have better direction with 1-5 readings of a good book but until you walk the path and attempt to continually improve, the information is pointless. Everything is relative to the work and determination you put in. Read 3% Man 10-15 for starts and continue to approach and learn from your mistakes. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:58 AM |
| 2 | How do u know what to work on when approaching women?For the love of god please don’t cold approach a stranger with a cheesy one line opener, and also for the love of god please don’t comment or say anything about oddly shaped anything on a women. Maybe a hand bag but your gonna get rejected hard if you follow this dudes advice up here. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:55 AM |
| 1 | What do I do when a girl blows up my Instagram?Naw ignore it, but if she’s local try and set up a date with her. Instagram is just a validation circle jerk. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Set up the date in a week. How to handle the in between.If your really worried, set a date 3 days away and then say well I’m really looking forward to getting to know you better 😊😊, let me know if anything comes up, otherwise I’ll see you at 7:30 at Johnnies or whatever. Go cold. If she’s interested she’ll be there, if she’s not that interested she’ll atleast have the courtesy to let you know she’s sick or whatever. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety, dancing, general advice, and my introduction!If women give you a weird look at a club when you are about to approach them to dance, just say “Is that the look you give all attractive guys right before they ask you to dance?” As the person above mentioned, just be playful and witty with banter. If they are being stanky, make fun of them for being like that. They are also there to have fun, so if they aren’t having fun or have a stank face on then what are they doing there. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:38 AM |
| 2 | How can I day game while working a 9 to 5 job?Yeah, day game is cute, casual and relatively easy because it’s day light outside, people are about minding there own business but out and open to the world. Simple strategy to approach anyone really is if it’s light outside and in a neutral/populated place lol. Night game on the other hand is where the Lions go to eat. Shits real and people are playing for keeps, not just to game but to hunt. Also alcohol and drugs are involved, people have so many mixed intentions and it’s usually busy and ful… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:33 AM |
| 1 | How can I day game while working a 9 to 5 job?Lunch break our day game. Go somewhere different for lunch each and every day. Day game at night is a different story, so after work it’s like prowl not a game anymore lol. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:25 AM |
| 1 | How can I day game while working a 9 to 5 job?Tips hat Evening. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:23 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand this...You should instead of asking her if Saturday will work ask her what days she’s free. If she gives you a wushu washy answer like “most evening” then make a suggestion for a day next week. If she again gives you another wishy washy answer like she did “might be jet-lagged.” Just say alright Susie or whoever, sounds like your busy. Let’s shoot for another time when your not as busy.” If nothing comes of it check back in a week and she were she is at schedule wise with a “Hey, what’s your schedule l… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Dating seems like a mission impossible to me [30 m] nowadays. Not sure what I need to do to be more successful. Totally frustrated.Shit I’ll give you a better rate then that. I’ll give you 20 minutes of my free time to talk tomorrow on the phone and see if I can help you better than 2 grand lol | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Called her out while flaking for the 3rd time in a month. Did i say too much?I know it hurts. I have been burned like this many times before and it was so hard because I never knew why or what I could do to fix it. It’s ok to be interested in someone but no one wants to be put on a pedestal, that’s what’s turning her off is that she knows that she can have her way with you. That you’d sacrifice your own happiness and well being just to stand next to her. This sounds romantic but it’s not, it’s weak and unnatural. If people don’t respect you, then they also cannot love yo… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:05 AM |
| 2 | How to follow a public approach without coming off as creepy?Just say these magic words acouple steps ahead of that lingering/creepy feeling; “Hey, well it’s been really nice chatting with you, I gotta run but how about I get your number and we stay in touch.” [Smile] grab your phone while you are saying this and hand it over to her with your contact app already open and ready. Those who are interested will accept and those who were just being friendly will politely decline. Work on that foresight. It’s good because you seem to have an understanding of th… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 07:54 AM |
| 1 | How to stop holding your personality back when talking to girls?Smoke weed and embrace your fears. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Girl from tinder just texted me that she wants want to bring her friend our first date with us tomorrow wtf??Fat chance you’ll get them both in bed. That’s not the intention that she’s trying to set forward. She’s shit testing you. You want to go on a date with HER. Not her mom, not her dog, not her friend and her, not even just her friend. You want to go on a date with her, you’ve got to tell her this. If she detests just tell her “Well Susie, I’m not interested in going on a dual date or whatever this is because I’m interested in going out with you. Let me know when your schedule opens up to go on a … | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Should you ghost a girl if she’s trying to friend zone you?Nope. Don’t do it. Just let her like an adult that your not interested in being justfriends. If she changes her mind then she should get ahold of you but otherwise, wish her best of luck in life or whatever she’s doing, and take care. -You | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Question about daygame: approaching objectively hot womenI’m sorry but the framing is going to mess you up. There are very few things in life when you study sociology and philosophy that are objective truths. The point that I’m trying to make her, is not that your objective truths are wrong or that you don’t have objective truths, but rather objectively hot women are just women. This is what you have to work very hard towards to grasp. The second you start seeing people as being objectively hot, it becomes a ranking (are they hotter than me) when this… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 07:22 AM |
| 2 | What questions work best to find out important things?Stop thinking linearly. If you do not open yourself up to wanting to get to know her personally you will have a hard time connecting with her. You have to want to get to know her like reading a book and wanting to get to know the story for all of its details. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Book to read ?How to be a 3% Man is life changing honestly. For leadership quality’s read inspired destiny and for life direction read way of the peaceful warrior. Also look into Hayley Quinn’s work and continue reading Corey Wayne!!!! 10-15 baby | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 06:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm talking to a girl, and she told me "you need to be more jealous" how do I convey jealousy over text?Say fuck you and leave. Don’t be jealous, that’s a bad thing! What are you thinking dude, who would you ever listen to that would say that to you except for an attractive women. People can’t tell that you need to be jealous that fuckings crazy! | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Usually im the one giving a lot of advices, but this is new to me.Be patient, ask her if everything is ok, be silence and truly allow yourself to be with this person. Sex is a very personal and emotional thing, that’s why it (usually) feels so good. It releases crazy amounts of hormones and excitement. But it can also bring much sadness from memories of the past. It is a drug and can be a weapon as well. Allow yourself to be vulnerable with this person, just be kind and gentle. Stop. And allow her to say whatever it is that she feels like until you feel like i… | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Vent post: I ghosted a girl that I was really into but I felt was playing games with me...plz helpLoved this post. Well put man! | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I reduce my Approach Anxiety?By doing it dead ass nervous a ton of times. You can try to sike yourself out beforehand each time, get a little loose on the juice or get into a fight before hand to get your adrenaline pumping but practice practice practice is the real way you get better and loose your fear. Recovering from rejection and “failure” are how we become stronger and when it really matters, meaning you see a drop dead gorgeous women on the street that you know you cannot let breeze past you without saying anything, … | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | What’s more important, being confident? Or having a life?Not sure why you are phrasing the question as those two thugs being mutually separate 🤔🤔 | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Failed to Approach a 10 after an IOI!No it’s because you were making those excuses in your head to avoid the fear of potential rejection. If she was holding eye contact, then that means, and you can properly assume, that she was not repulsed by you, if the odds are between that and unsure but showing signs, you have an opportunity atleast to find out. Don’t bullshit yourself EVER with the “I would have but...” did this for far too long and realized it was my mind and fear inducing a story that would help make those situations more … | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 05:51 PM |
| 8 | Came across ex-girlfriend for the first time after 2 years of self-improvementHmmm "Such a fag" is such a pathetic choice of words for a man that considers himself more evolved than the average man. A bit of advice; try and update your vocabulary to match how you want to be perceived. Since saying "fag" constitutes being assiociated with a middle schooler you might want to get that checked. | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 06:05 PM |
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