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| 6 | That's word diarrhea if I've ever seen itAs if abuse, lies and bringing home HIV from excessive cheating is a prize over being single. Hahahaha, wait let me be serious, no, hahahaha. Excuse me sir, your therapist is calling apparently you have missed every single appointment you ever booked, it's highly recommended you actually show up and begin fixing yourself. Men thinking this is a fulfilling life are living below the veil of consciousness it's sad really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:15 AM |
| 20 | When men “apologize” they be likeI just looked into a thought today it was: do men work on their psychology and spiritual development as much as women do. The answer, no, this was not a surprise to me but it was discouraging. The pandemic has stirred up a lot within me, I have made it a goal to prioritize my own mental health and my spirituality. I am healing from childhood wounds that have in the past made me self destructive and codependent. It's a lot of work but I know it's so worth it and the best thing I have ever done in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:09 AM |
| 5 | Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown.He's coming out of the cage telling you straight out he doesn't care about you or your health. I had someone on a dating site do the same thing. I was like, so you want me to take the risk and come to you just to service your dick, how about I send you some Vaseline buddy, service your dick all you want without me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Vetting strategy: How to read between the lines, use power of deduction to read motivations/possibilities and how to make educated guesses.Breaking from social gender expectations can be difficult however the more you do it, the more aware you become the more empowered you become. I recently had a date with a fuck boy that tried to disguise himself as something else and I saw through it. We had one date, there was a connection however it felt shallow so it's doubtful that it was a real connection. After taking a day to evaluate the date I dropped him. After the date there was a sense of confusion and anxiety when I thought about th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:20 PM |
| 13 | I see no liesIt's not equal which us why I am 42, not married and have no kids. I have seen this as an unfair situation being an outside observer with majority of the women I know, with few exceptions. Those with the exceptions have healthy balanced relationships and I won't settle for anything than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 06:03 AM |
| 13 | Penis passIt was a joke is just a form of gaslighting. Translation: I did or said something rude and you called be out. So instead of being emotionally mature and owning my mistake I decided to make it your problem, you don't have a sense of humor and you're too sensitive therefore you're the one that's wrong. BS, grow up fool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:57 PM |
| 5 | What these LVMs think we areHahaha, translation: women that LVM's like me wish they could have sex with and abuse but they have wised up to our bullshit so we merely dream of them while still being clueless to our inadequacies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | I am officially deleting all my dating apps. This is the second time in two days that shit like this has happened to me. FUCK MEN!Nope, bye fool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 02:33 PM |
| 7 | We got a real winner on our hands hereFrom the looks of his pic he already found what he needs... Another LVM, match made in hell! "I love you bro" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:17 AM |
| 10 | Remember this post every single time a man complains that his ex/current wife/girlfriend refuses to have sex with him. Makes me wonder how many posts on r/ deadbedrooms are from the perspective of the abuser. No, she's not "asexual" or inherently "low libido", he's probably just an asshole.Yep, totally lost it with my ex, we broke up, I got back. It was then that I realized did like sex but I didn't like my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:13 AM |
| 14 | Yep 👏🏼I wasn't always like this I made mistakes with men, most of them were in my 20s. I decided to make changes in my 30s it's taken a lot of work in personal growth but it's so worth it. You can do it, focus on your dreams, your talents and the best things about yourself. The journey of personal growth never ends and it's so rewarding. I am taking a break right now writing this but right now I am working on new product while listening to a podcast about creating pintest boards for marketing. Persona… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:32 PM |
| 53 | Yep 👏🏼I'm in my 40's and happily single my mother tells me my standards are too high, she got married 3 times. The last one totally messed up her life. She sacrificed, lived in a cheap apartment for 2 years in a bad neighborhood just so she could save up to buy a home. Then she married an LVM he didn't file his taxes for years, she lost her house and was living in a RV with him for years until he died. Now she lives with my grandma and takes care of her. She's in her 60's and in therapy because after … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:45 PM |
| 15 | Digital boundaries are just as important as ones IRL!!I love blocking people that have done me dirty, no hesitation whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:16 AM |
| 6 | She's a marriage therapist...has several other posts like this as well. Mostly men salivating over her posts as expected.I'm so tired of seeing women fighting against their own best interests it's bad for all of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | For all you former trauma bonders! 🙋♀️🤦♀️It's actually really easy to photoshop balloons into an image and these letter balloons are all over stock photograph sites so it's highly possible they aren't all using actual balloons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:45 AM |
| 3 | The lie misogynists tell about female/male happinesI got out of a relationship with a man 20 years my senior about a year ago. It was the first relationship I had in over 10 years! Boy was he a mess, so needy, boring and a complete narcissist. I didn't date him for his money, he did have money and he must have dated a lot of women that did want that from him because his answer for my need of emotional support was to pay for something. I would get into arguments with him over it, his gifts would upset me because what I really needed wasn't someth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Signal phrases that suggest a guy is LVMOmg I got a message once that said nothing but "are you kinky" um, excuse me? F-off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 03:46 PM |
| 71 | Signal phrases that suggest a guy is LVMI Haven't looked though thus stuff for a while so I'm going off of memory, some may not just be line. when the handle is "lonelyboy" - work on yourself before you date please. my idea of a perfect first date is have a couple drinks and see where it goes. - yeah, let's not, thanks when the main pict is a photo of his chest, just his chest. - when are men gonna understand women are not wanting all that with no head or legs. I love to work out so I need someone that works out too so we can meet up … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I understand exactly what you mean. It's not so much physical appearance as it is the effort for me. So it takes me about 1.5-2 hrs to get ready for somewhere. I put the work and effort into spending time with personal growth, taking fairly good care of my body, educating myself which are all for my best health but each healthy person makes for a better community too. So then some rando guy comes slopping up to me, he's not completely unattractive but he looks a mess. Then he opens his mouth, sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Are there any older women here who are happily single?Very happy single. I have dated very,very little in the last 10 years, every now and then I get a wild hair and think I want to date. Every time I do go out with someone or get slightly involved I am like "Oh, I remember why I don't want this". I am not afraid of intimacy, I have very deep intimate convos with friends all the time. I do have a thought in my head of "If I could find a guy that would be confident enough with himself to embrace my independent nature, that could be cool." I don't th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, line up for your chance to give this man head in his car! This self proclaimed disease-free, kink-friendly cheater could be all yours (for an afternoon) for the small price of your dignity! [BARF]Great idea, hilarious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:24 AM |
| 2 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?I have spent this time doing a lot of personal growth, that more than anything else. I have been so grateful to not have a man around, I would be miserable stuck with a guy that just needed from me but not be willing fill my needs in return. I have had several ex bfs reach out to me, I kept the messages short, don't care to engage. I have learned a ton about American history that I didn't know before. I've been listening to pod casts that are spiritually and psychology based. I have made plans f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:13 AM |
| 12 | What are your proudest dumping LVM moments?Years ago, I was hanging out with 2 of my friends, one guy one girl at another friend's house that had gone yo bef . We were having fun, drinking and some how the guy got it in his head that he was gonna have a threesome. My friend and I stepped away and went to the "bathroom" we came up with a plan. We went back out to the guy, I started messaging his neck and my friend was just talking to him giving him flirty insinuations to him (she was a better flirt than me). We convinced this guy he was g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 03:58 AM |
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