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This is me EXACTLY! I have a friend who is super hot to me, but our lifestyle and beliefs don’t mesh up 100 percent to even be compatible in a relationship. Grew up learning that having platonic opposite sex friends is actually a great thing! I’m way more comfortable talking to women because I’m slowly learning that it’s okay if we don’t both exclusively share attractiveness. We can still be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 10:55 PM
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Yup. It is all a learning process. I’ve learned a lot from my mistakes. Trial and error helps a lot. Enjoy the ride. I’m still learning. I’m still young! Lot to learn!
/r/seduction24/09/18 03:43 PM
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Context matters. If you’ve only have had sex once, she might just see you as a fuck buddy. For now. For me in the past, after having sex three to four times, I tend to make sure the girl I’m with knows what this is. Or perhaps, then we put our emotions out on the table. The girl I’m FWB’ing is like this: we are so busy with our work and she has kids to worry about that sometimes we don’t even text for like a week straight. We know it’s just to have fun. I don’t have plans on dating her for real.…
/r/seduction24/09/18 02:41 PM
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2 months is a long time! Especially if you guys have had sex. To a girl (in my experience), when you guys are talking for that long and have or are being intimate, then that is when a girl tends to wonder what this relationship means. Hell, that's when any human being tries to figure out what the relationship means. Figure out what you want right now. That is what it seems like you need to figure out. Are you just looking for sex and FWB right now because you just want to focus on a career, or p…
/r/seduction24/09/18 12:53 PM
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I have gotten intimate with someone in their 40s. It's only more or less a maturity thing. People in that age have a sense of directness on what they want from a guy. Girls in their 20s just want to have fun, but sometimes they look for the PERFECT guy. Older women wants someone mature and have their mind right. I also got a woman in her late 30s number a couple of days ago and it was just because I was able to keep up with the conversation. We made a joke about how much liquids we both drink to…
/r/seduction11/08/18 07:11 PM
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Important note about wearing clothes that fit your actual body. Guys are lucky enough that just putting on an ironed button down suddenly makes them a bit more attractive. Having a good facial har/haircut does wonders too. If you exercise regularly and have some muscle, you would just feel better too. Other than that, it is just a matter of getting out there. But for me, my confidence comes from the fact that I am in the best shape of my life right now.
/r/seduction09/08/18 11:51 AM
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Take the "L" bro. It's a hard lesson to learn, but your house has to be mad clean if there is even a whiff of a chance of a girl coming over. They judge every little minute thing. Sorry bro.
/r/seduction09/08/18 11:46 AM
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What I have been noticing what works is that the conversation tends to be minimum over text and more so IRL. Girls like playing the game. So there is no need to send a constant stream of messages unless that works for both parties. Example: I met a girl yesterday at Starbucks and gave her my number after we hit it off talking about psychology. I wasn't sure if she was going to text me but she did. She told me that she comes to Starbucks most Wednesdays and I told her we should meet up one of tho…
/r/seduction09/08/18 11:43 AM
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Thanks for the support. I feel like I finally hit the right physique to talk to women. Just trying yo figure out the social cues now. It's tough!
/r/seduction23/05/18 06:17 AM
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Thank you for this. I missed a (I think now) sure thing. I should have just asked. P.S. For Context: She noticed me noticing her bent over in her shorts and I think was okay with it. It seemed like she was with her passed out boyfriend and I was too afraid to talk to her. Gave a different girl my number to try and compensate but reading different threads have told me that was a bad idea. I'm gonna try and just go for it. Fuck it, right?
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:01 AM
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Haha you're welcome! I have a "date" to go hiking in Yosemite with her next week. Her in her late 30s, me in my low 20s idk what to expect. Or how to keep her entertained. My cousin told me to bring some stuff because it sounds like she is kinda thirsty. Lol
/r/seduction28/10/17 11:12 PM
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This is months old, but I am "talking" to this older single woman who is in her late 30s. She's a triathlete so she is in super great shape as am I, but didn't know how to play the game appropriately to try and get lucky! Thanks!
/r/seduction27/10/17 10:02 PM
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Someone commented that this could be that they just wanted to be friends. I learned the hard way that just because a girl is nice to you and friendly with you doesn't mean that she is DTF or wants to be in a romantic relationship with you. Sometimes it's worth doing damage control if you jump the gun and ask and it does not work out. Honestly, my advice to you is to keep doing what you are doing and keep those girls as friends or whatever they are to you and keep looking. Eventually, you will fi…
/r/seduction27/10/17 09:43 PM
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Same thing happens to me. I am learning now, there is this sweet spot.
/r/seduction01/09/17 04:53 AM
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To pretty much add to the echo chamber, I am/was exactly you. Just be friends with everyone, and you'd be amazed at how much more people are going to want to hang out with you. Being friendly and not treating women like objects is actually a quality trait, and it gets people to like you for you. When you are fun to hang out with in general, it makes it easier for people wanting to hang out with you. Women are just men with boobs and a vagina. Treat them as a human, and you would be surprised how…
/r/seduction28/08/17 12:22 PM
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Also, once you get older you realize that there isn't much difference between men and women except that one has a dick and the other has boobs and a vagina. Sure stereotypical differences are there, but for the most part we all have the same life problems. What I learned in my time is that if you just try to be social and friendly with everyone people will be attracted to you. There's a psychological term for it that I can't remember, but people seem more attractive the more you hang out with th…
/r/seduction31/07/17 08:10 PM
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