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Happened to me. False allegations and didn’t get to see or know where my kid was for three weeks. Luckily the judge used common sense and dismissed the case. Still cost me $5k in to hire a lawyer to go to court with me. Modern day legal kidnapping. Of course your willing to concede your house, excessive monthly payments and whatever your ex asks for when you just want to see your kid. 100% believe lawyers and divorce coaches use this as an intentional strategy. US family law courts are a joke.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 01:35 AM
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Not sure I understand this never be hurt thing. It's a natural emotion and human. Makes you feel alive by experiencing that range of emotions. Feel the same way when you lose a loved one or a pet or something why wouldn't you feel hurt? I get it if it means not being a doormat and having some self respect and knowing when to walk away. Fearing getting hurt seems detrimental. Almost the same type of fear with approaching and doing things you are uncomfortable with just because it is uncomfortable…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:20 PM
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Same. It definitely helped me rebound from a breakup and get laid with ridiculous frequency but spinning plates is time consuming and feels so blah after a while. I've got better things to do than go out and sleep with four women in three days come home exhausted and shot for the rest of the weekend. It feels like there has to be more to life than this and I'm not finding the answers in this sub. Other than increase in sex, what's the difference with this and being "plugged in"? Women are such a…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 01:28 AM
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Wow there is so much truth in this. Happened to me with an LTR about a month ago. I had no other options and was bummed for a week until I'm at the point now where I had to ramp up and get options again. If she is already talking to and willing to meet up with someone else then her attraction for you is either gone or dwindled a lot. She is looking for backups or branch swing. Best to cut losses and meet others as you can't negotiate attraction at that point. Only good sign was she invited OP al…
/r/askTRP16/12/17 08:18 PM
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Where would one meet an attorney, engineer, hot single mom, stripper? Genuinely curious, unless this is all via Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 09:37 PM
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This whole thread you've got a bunch of people saying they are willing to lower their standards essentially to just get steady pussy. You'd be surprised. My kid brought over my ex wife's ipad a couple months ago as she had some app game she wanted to show me Apparently my ex had inadvertently synced her iPhone with it. She is getting inundated with texts, pics etc from people she must have started until along. Some guys getting pissed she isn't responding, some guys begging and some guys who are…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 08:12 PM
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I dont think it's accurate in the long run and contradicts the other points. My ex wife was a couple notches below me. Couple things happen. She'll see the moments of weakness. You cant stay perfect over the course of months and years. She got someone of your caliber so she re-assesses and rationalizes that she can get others just like you since she did it once. Social media and movies etc re-inforce that she is incredible despite her flaws. You have to maintain and continuously improve all the …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:58 PM
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Most men like you are looking to replace mommy. I know because before TRP I was also that guy. You want someone who will love you even when you don't love yourself. If you've been paying attention you know where this road will end if you put that burden on a female. Really interesting insight. I had never viewed it as a burden. I figured that comes with the territory of being in a relationship. But I can see it being a turn off. What helped you get past the replacement mom thing and being happy …
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:07 PM
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Im by no means and expert but I broke up this past weekend and have three tinder dates lined up for this coming week after firing it up yesterday. Two are very attractive. Just like in "real life" looks matter to get your foot in the door but have to do more than just say "hi" or "how's it going". Usually I mention something about their pics or our surroundings or maybe play a light game or guess my ethnicity. Softens their guard and gets a conversation going. But if everyone is having much bett…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 01:21 PM
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I don't know, a married lady that says your nice to talk to and a 17 year old doesn't exactly seem much better. I'm probably jaded but I e met a lot of very attractive women on both tinder and real life and the outcome is pretty much the same most often - person doesn't know what they want, getting distracted by people hitting on them etc. Probably just jaded from my recent breakup Still not seeing how this red pill stuff really works. Seems like a lot of rules and tests and games when at the en…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 01:10 PM
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New to this. Aren't women in "real life" all using tinder anyways and getting the validation online? What makes offline any better? I walk into a room and I didn't really get noticed until I started dressing better and lifting aggressively with results. Looks seem to matter offline also. I've matched with attractive women on tinder and in real life and can't really see a difference. Both getting hit on all the time. What's been working for you with meeting people offline?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:37 PM
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But it does certainly prevent you from doing many enjoyable things You're presuming spending time with your kid and molding them into an adult isn't enjoyable.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 07:29 PM
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It's also a good daily morning slap in the face to remember the basics. I've read the sidebar ad nauseum but after reading this I'm realizing I'm starting to slip with one of my plates converted to an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 01:47 PM
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Yep, it's a cluttered mess. Half the subreddits linked for example are dead. Sidebar could use a good hosing down.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 01:45 PM
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I'd give your son a break. He's only four years old. My kid at that age was fine with haunted houses, roller coasters, motorcycles but scared of the Chuck E Cheese mascot. You never know what will scare them. It's great to expose them to a lot of different things, but if they are genuinely scared during an activity it's fine to pick them up and assure them that everything is going to be ok. That's why women are like children - they want to be comforted by someone capable of protecting them. If y…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:16 PM
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Remember AWALT, so the definition of high quality girl is pretty subjective. But if you mean meeting someone who doesn't make you want to lodge an ice pick in your forehead within 5 minutes of chatting, then I'd suggest Charity events/ fundraisers, art exhibits, co-ed sports leagues, professional networking groups etc. You'll meet people interested in things beyond thinking up a caption for their next instagram post. Don't overthink it though, it's a numbers game and putting yourself out there. …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 02:21 PM
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Doesn't matter. If she actually cared about that she would have asked what his life goals are, instead she asks about his cash. Women, especially those with low income themselves care more about how you are spending your money vs saving.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:47 PM
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This is the exact opposite of what you should do. This is a blue pill strategy for finding a replacement mom to support and the opposite of sexual strategy. The only dates your kids should ever be on, are play dates with other kids their age.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 05:05 PM
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Be healthy. Whole bunch of people at six feet and 150 pounds. I don't get it. I'd feel like a cancer patient at that week. Almost every woman I have bed with in bed like to be dominated hard. Love being picked up and fucked against the wall or man handled all over the bed. Can't do that if you can't squat or bench at least a plate.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 07:39 PM
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Not sure what you mean by "healthy relationship", but I was talking more in the context of freezing up or saying an uneccesary amount of nonsense with an 8 or 9 who is already attracted to you. You end up cockblocking yourself. Also, think there is a difference on how to interact with women you are physically attracted to vs your guy friends. Hopefully you're not trying to get in the latter's pants.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 08:54 PM
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I think you're trying to say "just be yourself" and don't try so hard, don't overthink it with PUA nonsense. Correct me if I'm wrong. Problem is, half the people new to TRP are fucking autistic in social situations. I used to blab no stop when I was talking to women and bullshitting and throwing out jokes and still do when hanging out with the guys. I wouldn't stfu and probably cock blocked myself numerous times. I've learned to shut up, make eye contact and during that brief pause of silence wh…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 08:18 PM
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I hope you are swiping right and matching because they are hot, not their fucking Batman hat.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:57 PM
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Uber. One less thing to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:22 PM
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"Conventional dates". I think that's the problem. Going to dinner and movie and spending a majority of the time interviewing a person and giving comfort usually leads to nowhere but a goodnight kiss and second date. Rinse and repeat and after two or three of these dates who knows if anything happens. Maybe it's my age, but I'm 50/50 if I ask someone outright to just come over to my place. I have the most success not to mention fun with "dates" that are physical right from the start. If she is an…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 04:15 PM
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Ironically, he became a bad guy to get girls and ends up dead because of it. He became "bad" to sell records. The women were a by product of becoming famous. He was a no name when he was part of Digital Underground. He rose to fame once he starred in the movie Juice and embraced the thug persona. I met several members of NWA at a toy store in the 1980's. And after some joking around they all said they say the shit they do for the money. It's an image its not real. Basing TRP on a celebrity perso…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 02:58 PM
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Not any man but many will and it's yet another test they will throw at you. I'll be out with a physician and it's pretty common for them to be getting texts and phone calls from guys who are trying to meet. Some of whom have been pursuing them for years. Better believe these women will make you well aware of how hard they are being pursued and use that as an excuse for the reality of the wall. Somehow this is supposed to make me jealous and falling for them hard. Men with options dont care in ge…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:23 PM
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Once you have a kid with someone you will have a permanent relationship with them whether you want to or not. Best case you share kid's homework, spilt vacations, have each other as last minute Babysitter. Worst case mom disappears with kid for days on a binge or neglects him and you are talking to social services and the police once a week. In most states it's also very difficult to get full custody unless you can show drug/ child abuse or something pretty out there. If having a messy home with…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:19 PM
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Because she wanted to see it alive and ticking. Once you see that heartbeat forget any chance of abortion. Should have taken care of it right away with plan b but hindsight whatever whatever.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 02:55 PM
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So what's your solution. They should pack it in and hope they get re-incarnated as a Greek god the next life?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:06 PM
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I don't necessarily think so. This is kind of like steroid scandal in MLB decade or two ago. Petite, Ortiz, Giambi, all admit they took them, they issue short statement saying they made a mistake. Public is outraged a few days and then you never hear about it or them in regards to juicing ever again. Clemens and Bonds on the other hand fight allegations never admit any wrong doing and to this day they get crucified. Same thing with Trump and the whole birther thing with Obama. Media trying to ma…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 06:36 PM
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Bingo. Met someone yesterday at a bar after work. She ended up blowing off the guy she was supposed to meet up with. At one point she was mocking him saying he was too "needy" since he kept texting her begging to meet up. People with options don't beg or put women on a pedestal. I left her early to meet up with someone else and of course today all night and today she is blowing up my phone. Even if I never see her again or three of my other plates ghost me it doesn't fucking matter. There are al…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 04:58 PM
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They consider brad Pitt in fight club toned. Which is really just working on your biceps, ignoring legs and cutting until you see abs. Not that hard to achieve.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 08:43 PM
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At least those people make it out to the gym. Most people can't even make it that far.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 08:40 PM
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Examine why US health care costs are so high to begin with in the U.S. Everyone loves to blame politicians, doctors, insurance companies etc. while thinking they are special snowflakes who can do no wrong. "Nationalized" works if your country doesn't have 4/5 people who are obese and have no accountability. You go to a doctors appointment in any other country with pre-diabetes symptoms and the doctor there will tell you to stop filling your fat fucking face and send you on your way. In our count…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 01:18 AM
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How did these guys successfully convince the courts the same standards apply? Sounds great, but seems like 99 percent would crash and burn if they tried taking these things to court.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 08:14 PM
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I dunno. I paid $5k for a vocational evaluation and it didn't do shit other than make the evaluator five k richer. Think it really depends on the judge and how they are feeling that day. Family courts are a shit show for men. Can't see how spending good money after bad and partaking in the same nonsense as women helps any. Best to just get in and out of the system as fast as you can or avoid it altogether.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:58 PM
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Improves your SMV? Where do you live? My area it just puts dating twenty year olds in hard mode. Not complaining though love my kid and forces m me to up my game with in almost every facet of life.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:47 PM
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Even if ex is abusive and underemployed how is pursuing it cost effective. The amount I'd spend chasing it down with employment evaluations and lawyers filing paperwork would probably exceed the amount of money I have left to pay. I guess this could make sense if you have lifetime alimony of a significant amount each month, but if it is only 2-3 years, seems better to stay course and ride it out.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:29 PM
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Exactly. X number of days left on this planet. Only so many to reach your full potential. How can you do that with no goals or accomplishments? Probably why the definition of happiness is so subjective and people, especially women spend years trying to "attain" it. No focus or goals or something they are working towards.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 04:35 PM
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Saw this posted in the_donald subreddit a few days ago. You killed it. Everyone else was cringeworthy. I was so hoping they'd show more responses from you after that media whore quip but I presume they edited it out. Did you get in any other responses or was that the only time they went to you?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 04:50 PM
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True, she'll probably ask for 125%, but settle down at around 60-70%
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 07:54 PM
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No, he shouldn't. He should wait until after divorce is final and on the books. During discovery, his wife's attorney is going to ask OP for all his financials and guess who is going to be asking for 50% when they see all this cash flowing in.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 01:35 AM
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I wont lie and say i am thrilled to lose six digits off my net worth, but you can do a lot without any money, something I didn't realize until this past year or so. That's the liberating part. Realizing you dont just live to work and consume and spend. Getting rid of the dead weight that just wants you to keep working and upgrading your lifestyle to make them happy. None of it is memorable and fulfilling anyways. My coworkers deal with it by drinking, doing lines and cheating, but that seems des…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:11 PM
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Passion is actually derived from the Latin Passio which means "suffering" and to endure. Consider that when a woman tells you she wants your relationship to be full of romance and "passion".
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 07:27 AM
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It only ruins your life if you let it. Otherwise it is very liberating. This coming from someone has spent $100k so far on his divorce.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 07:15 AM
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I disagree with the analogy. Yes it will cost you -ALOT - to get out of it, but its worth it. A hefty fee for making a naive decision to get married to someone that is intent on destroying you and holding u back. Also, co-parent issues dont disappear once your kid turns 18, it lasts their entire lifetime. But again, so worth it. I no longer look at my credit cards statements each month wondering where hundreds of dollars in shopping charges came from. I dont get guilted for pursuing hobbies and …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:57 AM
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As a guy in his upper 30s I'd only consider someone 35plus if they are paying their own mortgage and have a secondary degree minimum. If all they are is attractive, then go with someone younger, equally attractive and with way less baggage. I found this sub a few weeks ago after having dated a few 30+ year olds. Holy shit some of the things they would say are exactly what I read in posts here. At the time I would just nod and not really know how to respond (e.g. why is this girl telling me her f…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 01:52 AM
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Yep that superman actor, 40lbs of muscle in a few months "naturally". Yeah right.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 02:03 PM
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