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ADVICEbchsweetheart/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 06:42 AM
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Your husband is an ass. Is he like this often? In other areas?
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 01:38 PM
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This absolutely depends on the character of the man. I built a life together with my now husband. We've been together 6 years and met while we were both poor students and he lived with his parents. Now we have careers and own a home. No regrets
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 03:03 PM
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There is no reason you can't do it all. You can be devoted to your family and have a job. In fact, the sense of accomplishment you get from your job may help you be an even better mother. For a lot of women their careers and jobs allow them to recharge and refocus, giving them adult conversations and interactions. And besides 18 hours a week still allows you tons of time to spend with your husband and child. Wish you the best OP. Hopefully your husband will come around and you can find something…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 03:46 PM
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To me this sounds like your husband has the issue and needs to step up. He knew from the beginning you didn't want to stay at home and now has seemed to change his mind (or is disappointed that you didn't change yours) Also two hours a week with his own child does not sound like sufficient bonding time to me. Others can help you with specific phrasing but you shouldn't feel bad about communicating your wants and needs. Maybe a neutral third party can help mediate the conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 03:31 PM
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Fellow INTJ here! It sounds corny but if you truly find a high quality man you will naturally respect him. My man is INTJ as well and I defer to his opinion for a lot of things because he knows a lot. However I feel like I've done a pretty good job of maintaining my independence and sense of self. We are both suuupper practical and alike in a lot of ways but we seem to complement each other in a lot of ways as well. We are truly partners. He often tells me how much he appreciates and respects me…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 02:53 AM
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"If you want to be married to a general, you marry a Lieutenant with potential" That's not to say that you need to rush out and find the first charity case you see. I fell in love with a great guy. We were both 22 and he was a student who still lived with his parents. But he showed all the character traits that I was looking for. He's intelligent, caring, sense of humor, polite, handsome. Now 6 years later we live in his house and he makes great money at his job. We grew and started building som…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 10:26 AM
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You.....you don't understand genetics do you. You get two copies of every gene. You only need one brown copy to be brown. Someone with brown eyes can still carry the gene for blue eyes and pass it to their kid if their partner has blue eyes
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 12:13 PM
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This is fairly common in the US yes. One partner takes up the brunt of the relationship and takes over so the other can focus on their studies. That being said you both need to be realistic about future plans. The idea to set up a budget and look at job prospects is a good one. It's also fine for you to decide you don't want to support your partner this way and leave the relationship
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 02:28 PM
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You don't need a girlfriend to grow and become less insecure. The only person who can give you self-esteem is yourself. That being said I think there's a lot that can be learned from all inter-personal relationships but that's not specific to romantic relationships.
/r/MGTOW04/05/18 04:14 PM
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Yeah. It's unfortunate but some people (myself included) just don't have a strong urge to be parents. I much prefer finding fulfillment in my work/travels. Maybe I'll change my mind but right now I enjoy the freedom that not having kids provides me. I'm sorry you're going through this and I think giving your husband some time to seriously consider what having kids will look like is the best option. Maybe you two could read some literature together about the realities of pregnancy/parenting
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 05:03 PM
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Did he ever want kids or was he always unsure? Because it seems like he went from "not right now" to "probably never". And to me it seems like either he never wanted kids and mislead you about his feelings when you got married or his feelings have changed since building this life together and he should have let you know sooner. If you're a definite yes for children and he's a probably not then you are incompatible and divorce. If you stay together one of you is going to end up resenting the othe…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 04:52 PM
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Well the Adirondack mountains are always very pleasant good for hiking and camping. I've done several of the peaks there. And the nearby Lake Placid is a famous resort town within the ADKS. It's about 6 hours from where I am in Buffalo. If you like the water there's also the nearby 1000 islands and Alexandria Bay. I also visited the White Mountains in NH last September on the last nice week of the year. Probably more to do there in my opinion. If you want something a bit flashier, Acadia nationa…
/r/MGTOW26/02/18 09:56 PM
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Tom Buchanon that "average hardworking husband" was a cheater who did nothing but spew racist nonsense.
/r/MGTOW18/07/17 06:32 PM
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You do realize that women use BC hormones for things other than pregnancy, right? Cysts, irregular periods? Male BC would reduce demand yes, but not nearly to the extent you think
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 10:18 PM
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BC doesn't protect against STDs. Condoms do. They will never stop being used BC (even for men) has side effects. Not all men will be able to take it meaning their female partners will need it. Or will use condoms (see point 1) Having male BC doesn't mean females will stop using their own BC/condoms. They may want the added protection from pregnancy/STDs, their partners may not be able to use it/want to use it or have more casual hookups where they partner can't be relied upon. As long as there i…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 09:03 PM
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Yeah. It's very traditional that way. It's certainly not for everyone. Personally for me sex is an important part of any relationship and should only be done when it feels right for both parties. I enjoy sex more while being in a committed relationship. Your mileage may vary
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:11 PM
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Do whatever makes you happy. Just be safe and use condoms and bc to prevent STDs and pregnancy. Your health and happiness should always come first. Just be aware that not everyone will be supportive of your choice. It's also important to be honest with yourself and your partner(s). You should also be aware that this will make your pool of dating/potential partners smaller in terms of finding someone to settle down with later on but I'm guessing you don't want the type of men who would shame you …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 05:48 PM
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I think it's more of a curiosity/fascination thing. Logically I understand the reasons you guys have sworn off relationships/marriage and I even agree that some of the things you address are problems (unfavorable court rulings, custody battles that sort of thing) but I just don't think the problems you guys are pointing out are as frequent as you would have me believe (at least in my personal experience and not in the extreme cases) In general relationships are kind of the luck of the draw and t…
/r/MGTOW08/10/16 12:41 PM
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And I agree. Often it's the people who shouldn't reproduce who usually do
/r/MGTOW08/10/16 12:08 AM
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I mean im not opposed to having kids and reprodicing. I just don't feel strongly about them. And IUD actually. For a year now. Cannot be tampered with. By anyone.
/r/MGTOW08/10/16 12:06 AM
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I have no debt. But my bf has 150k student loans....so yeah. And i dont really want kids. If it happens it happens but I'm not gonna ever push for it. I have 10 years of solid fertility left
/r/MGTOW07/10/16 11:52 PM
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They're not perfect. Some guys might overlook them because they're overweight or socially awkward or not exceptionally pretty or virgins. But they are quality/fairly average women. Birds of a feather flock together. Statistically not every woman can be a total shit show
/r/MGTOW07/10/16 11:34 PM
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Essentially a quality woman. One who won't cheat. Low n count. Is educated, (reasonably) attractive. Cooks and cleans and sucks dick.
/r/MGTOW07/10/16 11:25 PM
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See this is the problem I have with this sub. I'm asked a question, give a thoughtful and honest reply hoping to create a dialogue and share my perspective and I'm mocked for it. And you didn't even refer to me by name
/r/MGTOW07/10/16 11:22 PM
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The ones I'm talking about I've known since middle school and the rest I've known since freshman or sophomore year of college. Generally they've only had serious relationships and boyfriends. Like ones that last a year or several years. Never really a lot of dates. I know roughly how many partners they've had and they value intimacy and the boundaries of the relationship. They aren't promiscuous and I personally avoid girls who are or would would cheat or superficial. I find I don't enjoy their …
/r/MGTOW07/10/16 10:16 PM
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Lady here. I think the IDEA of MGTOW is solid. No one should be in a relationship if they don't want to be. Self improvement and hobbies and personal achievement is one of the noblest and most important things a person can strive for. I'm a strong believer in live and let live. And I can understand if you guys have seen others who have gotten raw deals from girls before or gotten burned yourselves. However I don't agree with all the women hating or the women can't keep it in their pants or women…
/r/MGTOW07/10/16 09:54 PM
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I would agree with you that their pursuit of Katniss is maybe a bit unrealistic. In reality they likely would have given up after being rejected multiple times. And as with any fiction some suspension of disbelief is required.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 09:22 PM
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I would argue Katniss fits that bill pretty well. She definitely grows into the role of figurehead and rebel and comes into her own. She values her beauty insomuch as it's a tool she can use to grab people's attention who would otherwise overlook her many positive attributes. And she never despises women. Only those who are actively trying to kill her and if she does it's not because they're pretty or feminine. Glimmer and Clove really didn't need to be portrayed as feminine. And I didn't really…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 09:02 PM
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First of all I don't think it's fair to put Bella Swan in the same group with Katniss. Bella Swan is a terrible role model and fictional character. She has no personality and really does nothing. She waits around for her "Love" to save her. If you remove the love triangle aspect of the books there's absolutely no plot. But with the Hunger games series without the romance Katniss still started a revolution. She was self sacrificing, humble, strong and brave. These are the qualities that attracted…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 03:55 PM
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You could try adding veggies to things he'll already eat like mac and cheese or rice (turn it into a sort of pilaf). If you use things like butternut squash he may literally not even pick up on the difference. Also instead of pasta or rice use one of those veggie spiralizers to make veggie "noodles" and use them instead. I also love using spaghetti squash in place of regular pasta
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 02:18 PM
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I appreciate your honest answer. I just want to say that I agree with you. There exist some very open double standards and a lot of men get the shaft. (Why is a drunk man able to consent to sex but a drunk woman isn't? Why do women almost always take custody. Why is it funny to make male domestic abuse jokes?) And realistically when you compare direct relationships, the wage gap shrinks significantly. Women just choose lower paying careers and take time off/avoid promotions to have families. (As…
/r/MGTOW24/09/15 08:38 PM
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Of course not. I'm just wondering if it's a deliberate choice or if she doesn't like it/had bad experiences.
/r/MGTOW24/09/15 08:22 PM
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Out of curiosity why don't you support feminism?
/r/MGTOW24/09/15 07:54 PM
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