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man you need to listen to me because i have been in exactly the same place as you i know exactly how you are feeling right now. you sound exactly like me. and you've made 2 posts in the last day which is what i used to do and someone on here will reassure you with a good comment, and you will feel relieved for a while, but it wont last. it happened on your last thread and it will happen again your mind will create something else or you find some other evidence and then it repeats youre seeking r…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/18 02:05 AM
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i just ended up getting caught up in all "looks theory" terminology you see on sites like lookism and incel sites. basically its the obsession over physical characteristics that make men attractive. its all very objective which differs from the "looks are subjective" ideology its many things, including skull shape, eye area, maxilla, FWHR, hairline, brow ridge, height, shoulder:waist ratio (frame) basicallu its all about the bone structure - thats the central theme. and of course bone structure …
/r/ExRedPill22/08/18 10:00 AM
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yea thats all good points
/r/ExRedPill22/08/18 09:56 AM
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im not an angry incel (im even in a relationship), but i do dtill struggle with the blackpill thoughts in my mind, obsessing over peoples looks. its hard to shake
/r/ExRedPill18/08/18 10:51 AM
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Came across this on my YouTube somehow. Interestingly its a redpilled woman which I havent seen much of. Its interesting I guess because usually RP is thought of as men trying to tell other men what women want, but this is a women? I wonder why she thinks this way? Do you think some of her views are legit? Why would a woman start following RP ideology? (warning: the comment section is a shitshow, obviously)
/r/ExRedPill13/08/18 04:29 PM
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hmm, im in a meaningful relationship with my gf i'd say. i try to think about whether it's looks vs personality. what i'd say is that definitely at first it was about looks. the moment i first saw her i was in awe of her beauty, and possibly for the first few months her personality could have been anything and i probably would have put up with it but definitely then personality does begin to matter, because if i found her annoying or unlikeable, i wouldn't still be with her 8 months later. so i …
/r/ExRedPill11/08/18 07:58 PM
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im also having an issue with the cynicism, the world seeming very bleak and depressing. despite the fact i don't follow RP. every time i go anywhere, im judging everyone's faces. i don't even realise i do it. i went to the pub last night, it wasn't until afterwards that i realised i literally analysed the faces of every person i met - i picked apart their individual features and determined their attractiveness. this has all come from reading the "looks theory" stuff found on sites like lookism i…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/18 02:31 PM
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Thanks that is good to hear. Yes she is lovely. God I hate that I'm the single reason for all the fuck ups! What do you think about the idea of asking if we should get some space. Bearing in mind we are in a long distance relationship. The idea would still be to be fully committed to eachother with no intention of breaking up or anything (so not a "break" either) It would just mean not contacting eachother for those few weeks, with a set date when we would do it again. Do you think that would he…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/18 05:00 PM
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thankyou
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 11:56 PM
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You might also consider a medical option like Prozac. i have. unfortunately i've read too much into it and have now developed a fear of taking them due to possible side effects. particularly the sexual side effects which i've heard in some people can last even after stopping the medication (called post-SSRI sexual dysfunction or PSSD). that's a bit off-topic for this forum tho i suppose
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 10:43 PM
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im kinda concerned he might be right honestly. im not sure why hes saying theres" no way it can be fixed, but what if hes right?
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 08:41 PM
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why will her knowing that im struggling not help me? she believes i can get better, so do i, so why so drastic? well of course i would like it to work. im defending myself because i find it quite suprising you make such a drastic conclusion. i am being logical in the sense im not flying off the handle with her - blaming her for things and such. im self aware enough to recognise the problems that are mine and make sure she knows it.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 07:44 PM
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they might be right. i think i've made every reddit post there is to be made at this point. noones convincing me
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 06:53 PM
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thankyou, i don't really believe it is and i tried to explain why, but still it's not nice to hear that just incase he might be right
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 06:34 PM
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what? what makes you think you know that it will fail? i dont understand why you think it cant last if i get help? its not about her, or desperation for her. its a general mindset on ALL relationships. i simply doubt their success and i doubt ALL people's ability to be monogamous she knows that, ive told her the cause of my feelings and that its not to do with her ive even suggested we have a break so i can correct my problems, but she didnt want to. in what way is that me showing desperatation?…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 05:13 PM
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thanks, im trying it now listening to one on maintaining sexual desire in a long term relationship right now (which is something that i worry about A LOT)
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 04:27 PM
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will do
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 02:49 PM
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i guess, it could all be fake though. she could be fucking other guys every night and i wouldnt know how could i ever know
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 02:19 PM
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I'm starting soon in about a week or 2, its free through NHS for me in UK but i already had some counseling at uni (for 6 weeks) and it didnt change anything
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 02:03 PM
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we are currently long distance (just for a couple more months tho, temporary thing) and it's really having it's effect. i used to worry about her cheating when we were together all the time, it's really amplified when she's not near me. yes i definitely have the feeling of the sex goddess - she went out last night for example. in my head she was dancing and possibly making out with guys that were flirting with her etc. it's like these awful images in my head and this dark fantasy that sends my a…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 12:05 PM
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But what if all women deep down don't like it - even "the one", but maybe they don't realise it themselves? Or wouldn't admit
/r/ExRedPill22/06/18 11:56 AM
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