bcsoccer4 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident?	Conversation	bcsoccer4	/r/seduction	14/04/20 02:38 AM
3	Is she trying to dance?	Fundamentals	bcsoccer4	/r/seduction	14/04/20 02:23 AM

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2	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? Facts, it's a nice ass boat to be in too tho. We both gonna make it and then we are never gonna be looking back lol. ONS are my thing tbh, and every time I've had one, it's been legit amazing on both parties behalf. That's why I'm trying to make that shit a part of my life every weekend lmao. Let's go	/r/seduction	15/04/20 05:31 AM
–	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? Thanks, I guess it's just a different situation that most people don't really understand. Exactly what you said though. Honestly, I'm not really afraid of girls and I've had plenty of partners in the past. I don't try to be too sleezy I guess? I mean, I already have their attention, I'm legit trying to finish off the attraction and get laid that same night, then do it over and over with different chicks. Definitely some insults and slight jabs thrown among the comments, but I'm just trying to ge…	/r/seduction	14/04/20 04:05 PM
–	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? Hey, thanks for all the advice! You're definitely right in that sometimes I over complicate the process. It's been nice to see what everyone says though! I've never really tried the line idea, which I guess I should since most people are pretty receptive to me and it would be nice to make friends that are more familiar with the club scene. Apart from that, I'm pretty good at the eye contact and laughing part, I'm just a horrible escalator when it needs to happen. Most girls start touching my arm…	/r/seduction	14/04/20 03:53 PM
2	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? Sorry, I really don’t think I’m in a position to give anyone advice. I think it’s pretty common knowledge that we gotta work on our confidence before we get anywhere with our game though	/r/seduction	14/04/20 12:19 PM
–	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? When are you available?	/r/seduction	14/04/20 07:23 AM
2	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? Exactly! I was also in a relationship at some point for a while and I just got so used to that safety net, being single was a complete change. I wish you the best haha, you're going to get some too! Yeah, that's what I have to do. I guess the first step is also learning how to have some idea of what dancing even is. See, I don't want to change who I am. But I also have a very charismatic and joking side as well, but it only comes out once I'm comfortable. Plus sometimes I notice that me being so…	/r/seduction	14/04/20 07:22 AM
–	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? It's not like that either. I do think I am up there. But what difference does being a 9 or 10 mean if you literally have no idea how to use it. Like if a 7 scores and I don't, I don't really care that much cause I don't go looking that hard for sex but it adds up you know? Just cause I have had sex in the past doesn't mean it's a common occurrence either haha. It's just I know how to have some desirable traits, I don't have the game that comes with those traits. Other people know what it takes, …	/r/seduction	14/04/20 07:14 AM
–	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? Yeah, someone else said the same thing actually. I think a lot of the nerve for me comes from the fact that I always feel like I'm afraid to come off as a loser or that expectations for me are too high, you know? I had a sudden glow up (face, skin, muscle, height, hair, and posture) and now people just expect me to know how to handle situations, but I've been bullied really hard when I was in HS and middle school. My self-esteem was so low I actually had to home-school because I was picked on wa…	/r/seduction	14/04/20 07:03 AM
1	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? Yeah, lmao, and girls too Ayy, for what it's worth, I'm starting to feel myself, and once I get into it, I'll be slaying hella. I just want to know what was the next step because I never learned flirting from a young age lol. I had a massive glow up, but I ain't that big of a loser. Just a bitch sometimes	/r/seduction	14/04/20 06:31 AM
1	Is she trying to dance? Lmao, imagine how stupid we look from their perspective. At the same time, it’s funny looking back and seeing the dumb shit I have done too. I know, damn if only it was easier said than done. I’ll start preparing for once this quarantine is over tho	/r/seduction	14/04/20 05:17 AM
2	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? I appreciate all the feedback! I’ve definitely been considering IG, I guess I just have to take the first step. Definitely liked your second and third bullet points though. I’m definitely hoping something similar happens when I get my confidence. Thanks!	/r/seduction	14/04/20 04:14 AM
0	Is she trying to dance? Thanks! I definitely need to keep in mind that girls don’t do things on accident. I know it sounds stupid, but I always assume everything is accidental. I appreciate the advice, thank you!	/r/seduction	14/04/20 04:09 AM
–	Is she trying to dance? Thanks man! I think the problem is also the fact that I'm very oblivious to what is flirting and trying to get my attention and what is just common occurrences. The worst thing that has happened to me was like 3 years ago, some girl was complimenting me and flirting hard, and I thought she was just playing around and mocking me (like I said, low self-esteem). We hung out a lot, went to the park to drink wine, and she even offered to become FWBs. I think the fact that I was oblivious and that she…	/r/seduction	14/04/20 03:42 AM
2	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? I've been working on it in multiple areas. I think I'm actually becoming more confident in everything except for my ability to be with women. I've always thought that sleeping with more women and receiving compliments would help my confidence, but after having done so quite a few times, it hasn't really helped. If it weren't for girls that approach me first, I would most likely be a virgin haha. Thank you for your response though! I'll definitely work on it	/r/seduction	14/04/20 03:35 AM
–	How to approach/seal the deal when you're attractive but not exactly fully confident? Ahhh, I've never been to a shisha bar. I'm assuming they're the same thing as a hookah bar? I've been interested in going, but I've never smoked out of a hookah and the thing is I don't have many people to go with. I'll find someone here in a couple of months once I start my career. For me, that's a bit difficult. I didn't mention it, but I'm actually really quiet/shy haha. I used to have trouble talking to people in college, boys and girls. I'm actually developing into a really social person th…	/r/seduction	14/04/20 03:29 AM