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Was this written by ChatGPT? WTF did I just read?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 02:26 PM
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And you can keep your mouth shut.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/22 06:56 PM
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But it's really hard when redpill is readily available and any women can just lurk redpill forums for hours and hours. Making it harder for us. High value women have known about it for years and nothing has changed. The "Making it harder for us" is all in your own head. They have no idea what you know or how you're going to react unless you tell them or react in a weird incel way. Don't do that.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 02:48 PM
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So much of the motivation here is all about getting women! LOL, you need to read more of the sidebar bud.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 03:34 PM
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Sidebar. Spoiler; read and lift.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 03:32 PM
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This is all 100% your opinion, and you're welcome to it. You should constantly be asking yourself these questions; what motivates you, etc. But you cannot say with any amount of certainty that the way you want to live your life, driving a shitty car just to get by, banging hoes just to get laid, and having just enough of a roof over your head so you're not getting wet when you sleep, is the way every other dude wants to live. Nice cars (trucks for me), nice houses, and decent women do actually f…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 03:29 PM
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Watch your monologue. Do everything for YOURSELF first. This right here. Sums it all up.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 03:24 PM
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I wish someone had told me that my life isn't about me. It's about others. You're going to have a very bad time with this line of reasoning. You're not worth a damn thing to anyone else unless you take care of yourself first.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 06:09 PM
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wtf is my outlet supposed to be for just being held, feeling loved and just getting some affection? Your mom. Then you grow up do man things. Love yourself first.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 06:06 PM
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The change I made was simple but not easy. All it took was becoming honest and congruent. But becoming that meant rewiring my brain and updating my mental models from the ground up. My congruence is her mental health. The way of the superior man taught me the good and bad news. The bad news your excellent track record means nothing to your woman. The good news; your terrible track record means just as little. Rapid change is possible. Consistency is key motherfuckers. Holy shit, your whole write…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/21 05:16 PM
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What ever happened to DGAF? Seriously, why should she matter at all to you anymore? She might as well just be any other chick at this point. If that's not how she is in your mind you need to work on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 03:46 PM
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Number one question; What do you want to do? You're 24 with an education, you don't have to decide on your life's path at this instant. And a basic rule to live by; don't let her decide what you want to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/21 07:20 PM
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They prob just wanta fuck Anything and everything though? It's well known beta trait to have low self-esteem or self-worth, low enough to be willing to fuck anything.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:17 PM
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Good lawyer, write down/record everything, never ever move out of your own damn house, file first.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 08:14 PM
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Along with a captain who can ask for help and advice is respected by his first mate. The problem with this line of advice is that it's too easy to go blue on it. Meaning a guy can fall into the trap of leaning on the first mate for Every. Little. Damn. Thing. Boom, he looks like a weak turd of a human and he's single. Again.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 05:32 PM
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He didn’t try to change her or make her fit into a box it seems, she just was unstable and in denial. He didn't actively try and change her, the "box" was in his own mind. That's where he went sideways and almost got trapped. Some guys will take this to a new level and actually try and change them and get in even deeper. Luckily OP did not.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 04:09 PM
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Potato potato. Being well in the mind is where my happiness starts.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 03:04 PM
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In front of and sometimes at the expense of your own happiness. You can't do shit for others if you're not in a good place yourself, at least not long-term. Be a good father? Of course, no one here is advocating being an asshole father but don't put that above yourself. If you're not well then that'll bleed right through to your fathering abilities.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 02:38 PM
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Dude, AWALT. You just described pretty much all women when they're either bored or on the prowl...or just breathing. edit; grammar, and no I can't leave it be.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 02:46 PM
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What we think of as “beta” is actually the omega. The omega is a submissive peacekeeper that initiates play when tensions among pack members is high, and rarely contributes to the pack asides from play. Usually the last to eat This is a gem right here. I'm committing this to memory, thank you!
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 04:05 PM
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I hope everyone in here who posts knows the problem is them, and not women. Duh. If you would have read literally anything else on this sub, or the sidebar, you'd know this is the truth.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 04:02 PM
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There is more to life than getting laid, but trying to turn this little internet forum on Reddit into some kind of whole-life philosophy is stupid. Who the hell bases their life on an internet forum? I'm sorry dude but this is autistic as fuck. Where does a LARGE percentage of knowledge and learning come from these days...that's right, the internet. And while a forum such as this is but one small piece of the world in that regard, there are guys out there that are using it at least in part, to b…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 03:55 PM
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If everyone here had a clear goal in mind, you'd be amazed how quickly you can move towards it. Completely this. How is it that so many of us have made it through decades of schooling and decades of life-lessons just to find out that we need to set goals as a baseline to life?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 04:21 PM
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Funny story...this is actually true! I thought maybe the dead mouse was able to get all that damn peanut butter out of the trap before getting whacked until I caught another mouse eating it right next to his deadass buddy!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 04:37 PM
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Or doing coke. So?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 04:34 PM
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It wasn’t until I had a similar conversation about having a limited amount of time on this planet and spending it where I get the most fulfillment that she really understood it wasn’t about her any longer and I wasn’t trying to get her to change but rather it was her choice if she wanted to stay in my life. This is why I come back to these posts after a few days and re-read the comments. Great nugget right here.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/19 09:15 PM
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Did you just get gifted the comma key on your keyboard? Uff.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 07:53 PM
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Assuming there’s no mental disorders involved. And that's a big assumption; damn there's a lot of women on happy pills these days; wtf?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 02:45 PM
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I'd say it's about an 80/20 split. The 80/20 rule strikes again. You're right on IMO. There's only so much you can do in LTR selection, the rest is up to you.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 04:33 PM
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Worse than she already has? AWALT probably applies here so, yes.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 04:27 PM
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I think there's a fine line between competition anxiety and just good old dread. Your oneitis becomes your sole source of intimacy and when she knows this, the relationship is in her frame. Even if she IS your sole source of intimacy (why would you tell her she is?) she doesn't have to know it. This is where dread comes in. You keep doing you; lifting, reading, and growing, independently from her. I do agree with your main point though; monogamy shouldn't be your goal.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 04:02 PM
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"I understand why you feel that way" I've modified this with ""I understand that you feel that way", because honestly I don't usually understand why she feels a certain way but I do understand that she's actually feeling that. Maybe it's just semantics but it works for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 07:18 PM
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I’d think you’d want to make sure when they bounce off the ground in a situation like that they arrive in a brand new reality if you want it to keep up. Key right here. You'd really want to have your own shit together to make this pan out well. Otherwise she's just going to start pulling on the end of that rope again post-haste, when she sees you haven't taken the helm.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 03:49 PM
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More often than not, I will do things because I know that regardless of how I feel, the last time I did it, I came out of it grateful. So I know the negative feelings I have in the now usually only make sense for the right now. Man this is so key, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 01:53 PM
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Wouldn't you agree though that presenting from a perspective of asking the questions puts you in a more powerful position because you can do ask and answer and control the conversation? Also: I wouldn’t have a $400/hr bill rate. What sort of design work?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/19 02:08 PM
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I hated him but I loved him even more. Does it get any more obvious than that?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 04:45 PM
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Seemed like a Deadwood reference to me...
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 02:53 PM
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I really respect your approach but I think we should consider that nearly every situation is going to be different and it's going to have its nuances. Some situations all but require us to confront them head on while with others we can afford to take a more tactful approach. I think it's important that we recognize that fact and that there's not a one size fits way to bring guys around to TRP. Personally, if I had a good friend come and tell me about a similar situation, at this stage in life I'…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 08:26 PM
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Stop giving energy to the things you cannot control. This is golden. I repeat this to different people every damn day. It's the f'ing weather/climate/whatever, get over it and go on with your life. JC.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 02:57 PM
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My wife also suffers from depression. Serious question; are there any that don't (suffer from depression)? From my albeit limited experience a larger percentage do.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 07:41 PM
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I was thinking the same thing myself. It leads me to believe there is no such thing as A main event but rather more serious shit tests than the day to day stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 07:35 PM
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It's the idea of using a man's values or moral code against them. "The self-sacrifice moral code has been used against him for years. The self-sacrifice moral code allows worthless men to make outrageous demands of productive men, who feel morally obligated to satisfy them. Under this code, a productive man supports a gang of parasites, martyring himself in the name of selfless service." -Online cliffnotes Woah, this is really really interesting. Thanks for posting! I'm borrowing this one for ce…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 08:38 PM
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Hard to have an abundance mentality without actual abundance. This right here, 100%. Thanks for posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 05:14 PM
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