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bdove382/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 10:51 PM
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As a guy, I can say there’s a lot of guys out there who don’t care for hot girls. I’m one of them. However, all my friends talk about is hot girls and their plan to get with them. Never interested me, I’d prefer to have a girlfriend (which I do. hookups don’t do it for me.) I think it all depends on the person. I feel that less insecure and more emotionally intelligent people are usually the ones who don’t often participate in hookup culture and casual sex. That being said, one should just stick…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:43 PM
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It’s hard for me to empathize because I’m not a POC. I really hope you don’t hurt yourself, and in regards to you being quirky, weird, or not matching stereotypes I used to feel like there were expectations placed on me that I was scared or knew I wouldn’t meet. At some point, you just don’t care. Live for you. Nobody else. I don’t believe that if you don’t live up to the stereotype, people will hate you. You find your own people. People who respect you, and trust me they’re out there. lBeing re…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 02:41 AM
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Yeah, see that’s where I’m confused. Some of the red pill shit doesn’t seem baseless at all, and I’m sure it applies to some instances, especially in college. So I don’t really know what to believe.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 05:58 PM
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Yeah. I was pretty fucking depressed and anxious recently because my self esteem plummeted after indulging in RP content for hours on end. Healing now. Have definitely made progress. But damn, for a week or two I was feeling like complete shit. Glad you could get out too. Great post
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 12:03 PM
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When you put it like that , it sounds stupid. I meant just fantasizing about celebrities in general. Women of all ages do that. Men of all ages do that. They have a few celebrities that come to mind instantly. It’s normal
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 09:26 PM
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It’s hard for the first week ish. I stop eating at 8 PM and start eating at 12 the next day. You really think that’s hard? Not eating for 16 hours a day isn’t worth your self esteem? Wow.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 03:58 PM
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I guess, but you’ll never win with that mindset.. Would you get jealous if your girlfriend has a celebrity crush that she openly talks about? If so, then you are the problem. There’s always someone out there better than you. I’ve acknowledged that there are prettier women out there than my girlfriend, yet I wouldn’t even remotely say that I “settled” for her.. I have celebrity crushes myself.. your viewpoint is very unrealistic
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 03:56 PM
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Intermittent fasting - it will change your life. Can go into detail if you want, but I suggest you look it up. People lose insane amounts of weight on this. I was skinny fat with no visible abs 4 weeks ago, and now I’m pretty cut. I reccomend this to any of my friends trying to lose weight, because it’s literally a piece of cake while doing this. Try it man, you’ll thank me later, I do this every summer to cut
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 10:49 PM
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Lol, this doesn’t even make sense. You’re not seeing progress because you’re not on a program. Are you getting 1 gram of protein per body weight? Are you eating enough calories and counting macros? Training consistently? It’s impossible to not see results, that is if you’re doing it right. It’s not like you have a condition where you can’t build muscle. Sounds like you don’t want it that bad.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 09:47 PM
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Also, why not just start working out? Wouldn’t that solve everything you’ve mentioned ?
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 08:10 PM
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What u/mskopeck said is exactly what I was trying to say. Here’s how I think of it. The muscular bad boy type will oftentimes get the attention of women, but only briefly. They won’t hold that attention for extended periods of time. That’s why you see attractive women in a couple with a less attractive dude. I’m trying to make it make sense, you just have to realize that there’s always someone out there more physically fit and more attractive then you. It’s why almost every single person (even t…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 08:09 PM
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I’m 17, and have ruminated on close to all of the subjects you’ve mentioned. I feel the same man. At the end of the day though, it really has to do with our own insecurities. Probably two or so months ago, I was about to self sabotage my own relationship because I was worried that she “settled for me” and that I’m the “safe option.” I knew that there were guys out there 1) more muscular and athletic and 2) more charismatic than me. It isn’t baseless at all, so don’t think that. Women are attract…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 02:36 PM
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I used to think like this, although I’m 5’11. I’m 17, and probably done growing if I’m gonna be honest. Wanted to hit 6 feet so bad. I was very insecure about my height for a long time. However, there comes a point where you realize that height doesn’t always matter. “What’s the point If I’m gonna be seen as undesirable forever by the opposite sex?” Is that a joke? You are aware that there are many 5’6-5’8 actors who women strongly, strongly desire? (Tom Holland, Zac Efron) The idea that women O…
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 03:48 AM
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Agree with everything you said bro👍
/r/ExRedPill29/04/21 08:31 PM
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Thank you, totally agree.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 12:14 AM
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Obviously not to that extent, but that doesn’t invalidate what I feel? “Not taking it too serious” is easier said than done..
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 09:18 PM
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Thanks for the shitty insight.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 08:05 PM
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Yeah, I’m 17. Should probably make more sense now, as I can’t picture an adult saying anything like that. Trying not to overthink what she said, hopefully there was no mal intent
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 04:21 PM
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Why so?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 03:58 PM
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end of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 09:50 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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