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I don't even remember 95% of the rejections... but I remember all the regrets.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 11:47 PM
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She needs to get home before her husband does.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:25 PM
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Sadly, this is a thing
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:24 PM
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Fundamentally you need to treat this as an addiction. It isn't that you love her, it's that your brain is addicted to the dopamine rush you create for yourself when you see her. She is not special. She farts and sucks off other dudes. The heartbreak/attachment is a neurochemical illusion designed to get people to reproduce. You're coming off a drug that tricked you into thinking she was special. You've seen the high water mark for your ability to pull and you want it to continue- my friend I tel…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 03:07 AM
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Read ‘Attached’ Is this a book? A site?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 11:55 AM
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Lapsed Catholic here. You see single women at Mass? Any under 70?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 02:38 AM
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Where do you get $25 semen analyses? I'm a post-vasectomy and post-vasectomy reversal patient and analyses cost me $200 cash PLUS a referral.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:18 AM
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Junk sperm that can't impregnate anyone. I win!
/r/askTRP18/08/18 12:36 PM
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a health condition precludes any martial arts/boxing.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 03:18 AM
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Posture is super important. I do these regularly to try to fight back against my desk job: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LT_dFRnmdGs
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 12:11 PM
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MGTOWs make some valid points but ultimately I din't get giving up on getting laid. Fuck that. I love getting pussy too much to ever quit. I'm in favor of there being fewer men in the SMP. We should be pushing MGTOW to the general public. Like George Carlin said about his support of gays: "more pussy for me."
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 01:11 AM
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Men now line up at social services for handouts rather than showing up at job sites looking for work. This is naive and ignores the horrors of the modern employment landscape... keyword matches to get your resume to human review, people with degrees making your coffee, racial quotas in hiring, the use of the degree as a means of simply culling the applicant pool. Also, you don't get a job by showing up at a job site, unless this is 1950.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 01:06 AM
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That video is workout motivation forever.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:21 PM
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Floyd fucking Mayweather or Conor McGregor would get stomped on by Shaquille O’Neal lmao. Hmmm not so sure. Youtube One hit and the big dude went down, the subsequent hits put him in an early grave.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 10:54 PM
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she ran away after the engagement.. Red pill got me away from committing suicide. I only wish I could have gotten my cousin onto TRP before he shot himself for the same reason... but hell I didn't know about it yet either.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 04:49 PM
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I delete apps from my phone all the time without much rhyme or reason for doing so and then install it again later. Really? Why reinstall?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:06 AM
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I haven't shaved down there - Annie Relevant bpt
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 02:23 PM
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Meditation. How do I start? I don't want any religious shit, no voodoo tantric chakra healing crystal nonsense... I just want to get the reins and saddle onto my mind. Is there a good guide?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 06:50 PM
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Not a strawman at all. You have a 1 in 6 (~16%) chance of being unlucky in RR, while you have a 50+ % chance of being unlucky on your first marriage. The odds are actually better with RR. Rollo got lucky... but even his luck may not last. What happens when he loses his job? Or the market tanks his investments? Two words: branch swing.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:52 PM
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You do know sperm and egg can unite without marriage, and that man and woman can cohabitate without marriage, right? Also, other legal vehicles (power of attorney, living wills, advance directives, et al) handle all the business aspects that marriage does without subjecting oneself to the risk of lifetime alimony.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:52 PM
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Yep. Long before dating apps, but yeah. It always weighs on my mind.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 05:47 PM
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Just because one dude survived a round of Russian Roulette doesn't mean anyone else would be wise to sit down and play.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 05:13 PM
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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I have such mixed feelings about that sub! Theologically I'm a Christian, but I feel like that sub hasn't fully taken the RP because they're clinging to an ancient notion of marriage. Marriage just doesn't work right now because of how society is. Maybe someday things will somehow get better and men can marry again, but that day is not today.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:26 PM
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The number of wives that hit on me would make you choke. Its constant. Same. I've been hit up on the apps by so many "my ex still lives with me" or "we're separated but he hasn't moved out so we can only go to your house" types. Cheating pussy is easy pussy, but you know what? I block all of them. No matter what nudes they send, no matter how DTF they seem. I can hear some of you now. Why, u/beam_me_up2017, would you ever throw away easy no strings attached pussy? Back in the mid 90s I knew a du…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 11:08 AM
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The book doesn't say to discard emotions- that's like trying to overpower the Chimp. The book specifically says you can't. You have to figure out rationally what is pissing the Chimp off, calm it down, and remain in control.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 11:06 AM
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I'm glad someone read the book. The Chimp = the Beta-self, whereas The Human = the Alpha-self. Um nope. The Chimp is all your impulse, the Human is your rational mind. The Chimp Paradox is a high-level course in Stoicism. The Chimp/Human have nothing to do with beta/alpha or male/female. It's about who is at the controls of your thoughts and actions.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 11:04 AM
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Don't waste months, weeks, or even days "not approaching" a girl. He who hesitates, masturbates.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 11:00 AM
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Relevant Godfather: never let the other guy know what you're thinking.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 10:57 AM
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I suggest reading "Gates of Fire" by Steven Pressfield. It's the more historically-accurate telling of the story we all know from the movie 300. The men were hardcore and the women were nothing to be fucked with either. As an example, Spartan women didn't cry before their men left for war because they wanted the man to be able to die without any fear of leaving a widow crippled by grief.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 10:56 AM
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my first cheater That you know about. Women are slick, OP.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 10:53 AM
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Women need to feel emotional variety the same way men need sexual variety. This is why shit can be going good and they start shit out of nowhere. The solution is to give them a range of emotion through "controlled burns". Introduce anger or sadness from time to time at a manageable level so she gets this need fulfilled, then you can go back to being normal again.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 12:51 PM
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Sledgehammer workout. You can do forearms, like calves and abs, every single day. A sledgehammer is $30 at Home Depot, and as I discovered after walking around for half an hour, they're located with the shovels and picks, not with the regular hammers or even masonry. Guy in the video claims that's a 20 lb sledge. That's not even close, it's 8 or 10, which is more than enough to tear your forearms up.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 01:29 PM
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I'm also jumping on the minoxidil train for the beard gains, hahaha. Hopefully a little designer stubble does something for my sort of babyfaced appearance. I'm pretty lean and have a good build and have a strong jaw, but still get confused for being 18 and am actually 21. Adds quite a bit to a mans appearance in my opinion. I'm 4 months into it. 5% mixture of foam, 2x daily, for 6 months. It's working, I'm filling in some of the empty spots. I'm also popping more hair on my forearms as a side b…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 01:24 PM
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So is a looksmatch always the same #? If I'm a 5, my match is a 5?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:27 PM
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Finding the perfect condom size: https://www.condom-sizes.org/finding-your-perfect-condom-size-in-three-fast-steps I used this and (swear I'm not bragging) I found that the condoms I had always used were actually causing me pain since they were too small. That pain made me dread putting them on, which fucks up my mood and goodnight willy at that point.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 11:48 AM
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Frank Kermit used to have an audio about total relationship management. It was like Ten Rules of Relationship Management. I don't see it on his site anymore, but these rules were gold (yes, I bought it). One of his rules was that women need emotional variety the same way men need sexual variety. This is why your relationship can be 100% tranquil and out of nowhere a woman injects a state change that causes trouble. They need to feel a range of emotion. The solution, therefore, is to have a contr…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 11:44 AM
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Amazing article I found from a professor at Cambridge about how antiquated and discriminatory marriage is: https://aeon.co/essays/why-marriage-is-both-anachronistic-and-discriminatory Even the feminists are figuring it out. Good read. I didn't want to post a whole thread on it and get banned.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 11:19 AM
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If you ever say something that gets that reaction from a woman, make sure you never say that fucking thing again. The #1 turn off for a woman is having to play mother to a man. Whenever you get the "aww" the correct response is "You're not my mother." If she picks your clothes, meals, or makes other choices, she's mothering you- stop her in her tracks (she will let you stop her, she doesn't want to be doing it.).
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 11:17 AM
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Agreed 100%. I just ended a perfectly fine LTR two weeks ago. My scenario should sound familiar to many of you: I'm bored. I suffer from boredom in 100% of my relationships. I love her enough to say she should be with someone who won't be bored with her. She did nothing wrong. I just get too much thrill out of new pussy. I waited for her to get a major promotion at work so she was actually way better off than when I met her.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 11:10 AM
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Whoever controls what you want controls you.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:23 AM
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Current state: shit's going good. OP wants to know if he can add a major change to the situation and still have it be good., in spite of all the stories of foreign wives going Western when they get here. OP, listen to these words: if it ain't broke, don't fix it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:20 AM
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Twice divorced here, can confirm. As the old proverb says: "Know why a bride smiles as she walks down the aisle? She knows she's given her last blowjob."
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:17 AM
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I was solid in person, but she's a traveling sales girl and left town after our second date. It fell apart in the texting afterward.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:25 PM
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Women Everyone likes everything that is rare. FTFY. This is why the price of seawater is basically zero.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 01:58 PM
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Don't forget your running and core work. Boot camp is a lot of "sprint there and back" shit, pick up your foot locker, put it down, pick it up again type of shit. At least when I was in the Marines. 44 pushup sets... tbh accoring to this site the minimum to pass Air Force basic is 45. You should push for the 75 (Warhawk) tier. Don't be satisfied with just the minimum in the military- you only get out of it what you put into it.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 11:54 AM
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went to a funeral. first one I can really remember and first funeral with someone actually significant in my family. quite interesting experience. never felt like that before. Memento mori. We all have an expiration date. We must do as much as we can with the time that is given us. How will you use your time? Will you improve yourself, and then lift up others?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 11:48 AM
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Constructively, your list of items here doesn't mention exercise, but does mention activities that waste time and energy. You should reallocate that time and energy into improving your body instead of gaming and porn.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 11:46 AM
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+1 for making some big changes. Don't rely on motivation though. Motivation is a quick emotional kick in the ass to get you moving. Discipline is what will keep you on track. Motivation won't keep you there long enough to see major changes, but discipline will.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 11:43 AM
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Quit BJJ. This is more a positive for me, as it was adding to my anxiety throughout the week. There's pros and cons here, but ultimately I currently feel better off without it for a few reasons. Not judging you, even though you didn't give your reasons. BJJ has its merits but maybe it's a money issue, or an injury, or a lack of enjoyment. Just make sure you replace it with something active... a sport, more workouts, or another martial art.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 11:39 AM
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But seriously, being fat has no upsides. Whoa whoa whoa. I'm pretty sure they float easier.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 02:32 AM
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As always: Rings don't plug holes.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 11:54 AM
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How many alcoholics do you know who successfully recover by moderating instead of staying sober? Alcoholic here (just passed 1 year sober). I don't know of any of us who can moderate- if we could, we wouldn't go to meetings, we would just cut ourselves off at the second beer and go home.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 11:19 AM
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who fights it tooth and nail? Feminists and women's groups. Reminds me of the Jon Stossel piece on prostitution. The girls at some place in Nevada were content with their lives, but the female prosecutor had the nerve to condescendingly tell them they didn't have the right to sell their sexuality. Youtube She literally tells them she knows better for them than they do. I will always argue that one of the main functions of a prostitute in society is to love the unloveable. Cripples, burn victims,…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 01:40 PM
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Very interesting thesis, OP. I suppose it is supported by the fact that teens in 1950 likely had easier access to guns than they do today, yet the violence is happening now. Something has pushed more of these kids past a breaking point, something that wasn't present (or at least wasn't pushing so hard) 50 years ago. Food for thought.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 01:08 PM
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If you want children Get a puppy. A fraction of time in the uncontrolled pooping phase, super adorable, plus a puppy will score you more pussy. The puppy will grow into a dog which: Will never cheat on you Will never discover some late-life whacko new religion Will never decide at some age to live the rest of its life as a homosexual Will never pick a fight with you before you go to work Will never take you to court and take 50+% of your shit
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 02:17 PM
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If you have to rebrand yourself that means you’re in a metropolitan area where programmers are a dime a dozen, easy target for manipulative time wasters, or thought of as naive beta orbiters. This is life in Silicon Valley to a T. It's a sausage fest, and the few women there are all after that easy BB dollar because there really aren't many AF types around. It isn't hard to differentiate oneself from the majority of the tech dweebs and nouveau riche even while being in tech and making money. The…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 12:46 AM
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I made it to about 35 seconds in. What a tool... and I'm not just talking about his atrocious, sterilization-worthy 8 Mile delivery of the English language. He means to have the viewer believe that he went all the way to Mexico City, (one of the most populous cities in the world), and "happens" to see his ex?
/r/seduction23/01/18 06:41 PM
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Very tall, white, green eyes In Manila, I was bumped up to a 9. You're exotic (to them). Enjoy it, but wrap it up.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 06:19 PM
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Multitasking is a bullshit unicorn fable in the collective corporate mind. I know reddit isn't big on TED talks but this one is about this very topic... the value of deep focus and how the modern workplace is designed in total opposition to it.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 06:13 PM
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Ronnie Coleman Interesting TRP-relevant factoid about Ronnie: he was unsuccessfully sued for child support for children born via sperm he donated.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 06:08 PM
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Unicorns are a temporal state of being, not an object. I like it.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 05:59 PM
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Hi gents. I have a problem, and I acknowledge the problem. I rarely make eye contact with men. I'll spare you the diatribe of abusive childhood and multiple-time victim of street crime, and just say I need to fix it. I feel like eye contact with men puts me in the following bad position: Don't make eye contact, signalling weakness and inviting crime or disrespect Make eye contact, potentially inviting violence by implied challenge OR unintentionally inviting a gay guy How do I solve this?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 01:08 PM
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I've been chewing on the same problem for ~2 years. Let me flash you forward to some hard truths: IT are just "the help." You are not a valued member of your company. You have more in common with the janitor than you do the accountant. The problem is not with your company, and going to another IT job isn't going to fix it. Moving away from the helpdesk is virtually impossible unless you have a crazy employer willing to give you the keys to systems that you are currently unqualified to manage. Ce…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 01:02 PM
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Also, don't fall into the porn habit that your peers have. Avoid that shit like it's cancer.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 12:53 PM
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I once heard it said that a woman is programmed to cheat or move on to other men if, after some time in a relationship, she doesn't get pregnant. If that's true, then the advent of birth control easily explains the commonality of cheating and breakups we see nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 12:51 PM
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The Catholics I know are some of the most hypocritical and psychologically unhealthy people on the planet. Anecdote. I know atheists locked into a state of contrarianism (arguably unhealthy) and I know an agnostic who shot himself in the head (the pinnacle of mental illness). We all know fucked up people.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 12:49 PM
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Catholic here. Seems like all the reasonably attractive (say 7+) and religious Catholic girls were all married within 0.004 nanoseconds of finishing college. The ones that remained were either super unattractive (the Church doesn't regard sexual attraction as a necessity for procreation) or they were loose partying "Catholic in Name Only" women. I know reddit has a very antireligious tendency, but the Bible is a sort of "manual" for living a simple life. It is much easier to be happy when your l…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 12:45 PM
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Women are a lagging indicator of success – If you build it, they will come. Relevant Tony Montana
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:04 PM
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guys her age don't have their shit together I (mid 30s) clean house with women in their mid 20s for this very reason- my competition is a total mess.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:00 PM
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D'accord (il y a deux types de hommes)- La feminisme est un grande test de merde! Je dois etre inteligent, et calme... et ne etre pas evident quand je demande le nombre. Ma source pour les nouvelles: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/4506566/france-wolf-whistling-chatting-up-telephone-number-sexism/ mais cette source a 4 mois, peut-etre la loi ne pas passe?
/r/seduction18/01/18 12:42 AM
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Catholic here. I've considered trying out Orthodox masses but they're like 3 fucking hours. Agreed though, Vatican II screwed up the RCC hardcore. Softening the faith drove people away. Lesson: if it ain't broke, don't fix it. People will respect integrity.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 01:14 PM
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I'd like to add kettlebells here, probably more under the calistenics/bodyweight category. You get a good functional/core strength from it (moving day no longer kicks your ass) but there's a significant and early cap on muscular gains. Kettlebells will never get you big. Men need muscle. Period. Cardiovascular fitness can be had as you gain, if you aren't huffing and puffing as you go, you lack intensity. Therefore freeweights are essential. My $0.02 from a long-time kettlebell guy that hit the …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 01:10 PM
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they can be turned on by other guys and bring that sex drive to your bed. As was once told to me: in a relationship it doesn't matter how you got your appetite as long as you eat at home.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 12:13 PM
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Have worked on a ship. It's awesome. It feels manly as fuck, you work long hours but don't really notice the passage of time. Telling people you work on a ship gets you major social points too- it's way more interesting to tell stories of being at sea.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 02:21 PM
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I stopped drinking last February. It was easily one of the best choices I ever made. Given how hard it was to go a week without alcohol, I decided to keep going because it was clearly setting its hooks in me. I sleep better. I rarely have nightmares, and when I do they're not the "night terror" grade ones. I have zero risk of DUI. I save lots of money. My dick works better. I take solid shits (sorry about the TMI) Does it cut into your social life? A little. I can't take dates to wne bars. I ski…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 02:06 PM
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This is where I'm going naturally I think. I'm an older guy (mid 30s) and I'm just really sick of fucking conflict. It's tiring.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 02:51 PM
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Dropped two plates this week because I have abundance and therefore I have no fear of being without sex. One was a single mom who was gunning hard for commitment. We would fuck and then a few days later she would assume some exclusivity was implied and attempt to break things off. I would tell her no such implication happened, fuck her, and all would be well. This cycle repeated maybe three times and this week I was like "fuck it, off with you then but I'm not committing to anyone." Especially n…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:48 PM
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I'm asking for RP resources on conflict resolution in LTRs, since most resources out there are going to be BP ideology. My bench press isn't going to help me in this regard.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 02:40 PM
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I've been trying to take on the mentality of speaking things into existence essentially. Why would you believe you have a superpower like this? Why would you attempt to adopt this belief? You have a hard time accepting AWALT but believe that the flow of events in the universe is actively awaiting your command? Tbh a unicorn (the female kind or the magic horned horse kind, take your pick) is far more likely to occur than for someone to have a superpower. The "Law" of Attraction is a bunch of new …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:37 PM
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Problem: I had developed ONEitis over the years. Solution: I have better things to focus on. Men always get fucked up making the woman the goal, the dream, the center of their focus. Women are a condiment, never a dish. You wouldn't order a plate of ketchup, would you?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:21 PM
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Yep. That light switch gets flipped and you go from being their world to being another dude on the street in an instant. It's almost sociopathic how fast they can drop all bonding they had with you.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:13 PM
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I think it's even more important for short guys. Agreed, if you can't build up, build out.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 03:48 AM
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Words of Equivocation I'd like to add the gratuitious use of "Sorry". You should only say sorry if you fucked up big time and you actually regret it. Otherwise "my apologies" or say nothing.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 03:45 AM
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Agreed. Men also forget that if we all want access to pussy without getting married, that requires that unmarried women put out. The easier access to sex we get, the fewer female virgins remain in the market place. We shouldn't shit on women for either a) putting out as men request, or b) pursuing the strategy that works in their self interest (marriage). Marriage is a good deal for a woman- it makes sense for them. They should pursue it. If I ever have a daughter I'm going to make sure she know…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 01:36 PM
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They do want to be locked down. Women want to secure resources/protection.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 01:24 PM
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Listen up. No man should ever seek exclusivity for this reason: exclusivity negates a significant amount of attractiveness/strength you derive from abundance and dread.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 04:27 AM
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I've often thought this, where the cumulative "shit test pass score" determines what will be a fixed balance of power in the upcoming relationship.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 04:21 AM
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Relevant question: if the court rules in favor of the CCRC, does that mean that every "We reserve the right to refuse service" sign behind the counter at many small businesses is rendered ineffective?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 04:10 AM
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Relevant Full Metal Jacket. This quote has been my version of memento mori for years.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 03:13 AM
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Drinking? I decided to stop for a day to prove I still could. Then I just Forrest Gumped it.. (got to one day, said I'd go for two, got to two, went for three, etc.) r slash stopdrinking was a huge help (the TRP mod bot won't let me post a link to the sub). That little badge in the sidebar kept me accountable. I never went to meetings, due to convenience.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 11:07 AM
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How do you deal with it being so runny? It's as thin as water.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:06 PM
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Enjoy your individual level of success. I always say: happiness originates in gratitude. You have to be thankful for what you do have. You can still seek to improve it, but you must appreciate your natural gifts.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:04 PM
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Stop consuming alcohol I stopped drinking in February. My belly bloat disappeared, and despite good T levels during drinking (~750) I am only now seeing some of my forearm hair trying to get color and length. I sleep better. I have very few nightmares. I save lots of money. I have zero risk of DUI. I still date and get laid. I never miss a workout due to hangover. Mindfulness has increased- I recognize temper boilovers and can remove myself from situations or try to calm myself down by acknowled…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:52 PM
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the Big Local Sports Team lost, but my testosterone levels did not drop. You did bloodwork before and after a local sports team lost?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 01:49 PM
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Women are a condiment, never a dish.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 01:47 PM
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This is a quality fucking post. Useful information. I like the text on your profile. Succinct. It's the reason we're all on Tinder anyway. this post isn't for you if you're looking for a "quality" woman Nor is Tinder. Best of luck though- the colloquial understanding of "quality woman" refers to a thing of the past. There's probably a few out there, but there's also a 40ct diamond still out there too, and you don't see any of us digging.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 01:42 PM
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today I pick up the wedding rings - at a 12% discount I was really hoping this would be followed by a scheme to sell them back at a huge markup to beta proposing guys in advance of Valentine's Day.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 05:07 PM
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Don't hate the player, hate the game.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 05:03 PM
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Agreed! You just have to be clever about it. I use the company IM to draw out number closes, and then I can just run game on them via text and hookup. I don't know about anyone else, but I spend most of my waking hours at work. My coworkers are my "village." Why wouldn't I try and get with the women I see regularly?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 05:02 PM
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Don't forget "man up, date a single mom!"
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 01:32 PM
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Less males are interested in dating trans women so less chance to monkey branch and be picky. Males in general do not suffer from hypergamy which fundamentally is the bottle neck that restricts female dating options. Loyalty and being content is a more found in male compared to females. Hence why 80% of divorces are started by women. OP, these points are completely untrue. There is no loyalty to mates in the gay world- actually, the opposite is encouraged and is the norm. It's a fuck fest. Trann…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 01:31 PM
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Agreed. It teaches you (hopefully) the point that your oneitis is a commodity to the rest of the male community, and that she likes it that way. Essentially, oneitis/devotion/love is the least attractive thing to a woman, because it gives her power over you, and women evaluate mates based on strength.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 01:16 PM
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I've wanted to become self-employed for a while now. I was fired from a job years ago and I realized that one person (my boss) has absolute power in determining whether or not I have reliable income and can keep myself sheltered and fed. This situation can arise through my poor work habits, or because of company restructuring, or because they only keep employees from their church on over the winter. That's bullshit. I figure being self-employed means that to encounter the same quantity of disast…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 02:52 AM
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+1 for getting a dog for loneliness. Dog: Always happy to see you Cannot cheat on you Can be used to get chicks at dog parks Will love you no matter what you do for a living Doesn't consume a roll of TP each week Doesn't have friends that dislike you for no reason
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 11:10 PM
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Twice divorced here, and this is how: you just hit your threshold for bullshit. You wake up from your stupor and realize these are the days of your life, passing by in misery. Further, these are the youngest days you will ever have for the rest of your life. Don't waste them in an unhappy condition.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 11:04 PM
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Realtors can't even tell you if a neighborhood is x% of a given race; OP should sue, then offer to settle for the sum of a 50% discount on the property.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 09:21 AM
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Introverts spend energy to socialize and draw energy from solitude. Extroverts are the opposite. In a slight majority extroverted society, we have been fed a narrative that introversion is bad, but I tell you no; introversion is necessary. Great human advancement relies on the focus an introvert has. Introverts are not an illness of the human race, but rather a complementary component thereof.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 11:22 AM
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Social media has turned every attractive woman into a D-list celebrity in her own mind. A thousand IG followers? You post a photo of yourself and get 200 likes? That would go to anybody's head. It isn't normal. This is why many true celebrities become egomaniacs- it's the natural reaction to so much validation and adoration... the normal reaction to an abnormal condition. The difference is that social media allows regular people to synthesize that state.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 11:12 AM
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No, this is basic game. Women date "up." If a woman's SMV goes up, so does who she dates. If you got in at a low price (e.g. before some weight loss) after the weight loss her IG orbiters will inflate her ego and she'll be cruising downtown for stockbroker dick.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 11:12 AM
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OP your perception is miles off of where it should be. You had a threesome. Would you really want to stay in a LTR with the sort of chick who would have a threesome? Insert Borat high five here. You had a threesome and you found out your girl was a ho with zero consequences. It was a good day.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 10:15 PM
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I'd like to add the nuclear family is often a cheap substitute for the extended family, because sticking grandma in a nursing home is so much more aesthetic, amirite?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 10:49 AM
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Adam Ruins Everything - Circumcision Basically it comes down to a masturbation-phobe from the corn lobby and "appeal to tradition." Remember: for centuries an uncircumcised penis was an indicator of being a Christian, yet a century ago it got adopted like crazy across the board.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 10:30 AM
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Hopefully not too late to the party, but how do you deal with pussy boredom? I have a great gf. Cooks, cleans, doesn't party much, looks good in photos, etc. Not a unicorn since there is no such thing, but a great gf. But I'm bored with the pussy. Happens in all my relationships- around 9-12 months in, I just want new pussy. How do you stay interested in the same pussy so you can maintain an otherwise good relationship?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 10:24 AM
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This x1000. Turn her off with betaness. In the meantime, sneak (yes sneak, I was married to one of these women) your valuables out of the house, keep them in a sotrage unit, safe deposit box, or a friend's house. Birth cert, passport, computer, checkbook, weapons. When I was married I hid my laptop in the wall where she couldn't find it because she didn't want me using Facebook (before smartphones). Record/document what you can. When the lease ends, you tell the landlord you're moving, they will…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 10:11 PM
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You might be pretty, but there's Salma Hayek pretty (approachable/welcoming) and there's Angelina Jolie pretty (unapproachable/ice queen). You might be pretty but unapproachable. I would ask women how to solve that issue, because it is common.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 10:03 PM
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1) Your chick is a whore and this guy smoked her right out of her den. 2) You need to get those marriage fantasies out of your head. Maybe it took a year for this to be exposed with her, but what if you marry someone and five years after she comes up with this shit? Your refusal could spark off a divorce (70% of divorces are initiated by the woman) and cost you half your shit. Learn this: Marriage is a guarantee of income for a woman- it is not a guarantee of sex or fidelity for a man.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:57 PM
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I have no words to adequately express my joy, only gif
/r/askTRP06/07/17 02:05 PM
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You were with a skank... honestly those guys did you a favor by exposing her. Maybe now you'll think differently about engagement/marriage. There are no unicorns, and AWALT. Literally- all women are like that.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 02:03 PM
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I work in IT also, and I know what OP's talking about. The question is, is he a male model/bodybuilder working in computers, or is he a computer geek looking to buy his way into the market? Based on his experience, I'm thinking it's the latter, i.e. the frame issue you mentioned.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 02:01 PM
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As an aside, you did your bloodwork too late in the day- T needs to be measured as early as they will test you. But your numbers are good (looks like PrivateMD maybe?).
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:15 PM
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Yeah, the validation drip-feed from Instagram is really awful. Orbiters used to silently admire, through likes/upvotes they actually raise the price of a good they were never able to buy to a point where it makes our lives more difficult. Those of us who do actually mate now have to deal with an attitude of "I've got 500 Instagram followers that will fuck me tonight if you fuck up." The funny thing is, most of those orbiters aren't mating worthy to her. They're "nice guys."
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 08:01 PM
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Cold turkey doesn't work long term. This is very subjective. I quit smoking cold turkey in 2003. Cold turkey is not for the faint of heart, but there is a certain motivating effect of turning it combative- drawing a line in the sand and saying "no more ____." Gaming is sometimes an escape but sometimes it's a substitute for too much free time. Between a full time job, a workout routine, cooking/cleaning, etc., one should not have enough time on Monday to Friday to play games for more than an hou…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:49 PM
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Cutting off your dick is a violent act of self-mutilation while playing video games is an act of benign past-time Depends on the degree. You play GTA for an hour after work to let the rage out? Probably fine. You know more people in game than in real life? That's a problem.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:38 PM
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U2's Adam Clayton on sobriety: "I've never met an alcoholic in recovery that doesn't believe that this is the best thing they have ever done." I never had a video game problem as an adult (might have played too much as a kid) but I definitely had a drinking problem. I'm 140 days sober and I've saved piles of money, I have the waist of a teenager (old school teenager, not contemporary fat teenager). It's awesome.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:35 PM
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if you’re so red-pilled and accept this, why do you still get so angry at women for cheating? Agreed. True swallowing of the RP means one must take this view when their woman cheats. Don't rage, but don't tolerate the behavior. It's a woman doing what she is commanded to do by bad upbringing, toxic culture, or DNA. Next and move on.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:29 PM
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One of my goals in self-improvement has been to talk less shit about people. It's ugly and makes me look like a jackass. It originates in judging others instead of focusing on my own shit. When you hate other guys, you're really hating yourself. You've got me wondering about this. I'm from a place where the working class people talk piles of shit, and one's ability to talk shit moves you up the social ladder (within the working class). Maybe that tendency developed as a way to cope with a seemin…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:21 PM
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Fuck having a six pack. You're 5-11 and 140 lbs. Bulk bulk bulk. You shouldn't plan on cutting for a year or more.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 08:27 PM
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However I would ask, do you really want to work for a company where the sort of environment is allowed to become normal or accepted? Personally? I want the most money for the least time input. I'm not as concerned with the effort I have to put in. If anything, crazy busy makes the days pass quickly. I will work like a beast to have a guaranteed maximum of 40 hours. I don't take smoke breaks, I lunch at my desk without complaint (saves $$$), and I'm not a Facebooker. As far as how other people ge…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:25 PM
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Also, if you're too good at your job, you're less likely to be promoted. The Peter Principle applies.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:05 PM
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Develop a Bullshit detector, fast. You’ll meet plenty of people in large companies who get paid for doing absolutely nothing. They push paper and attend meetings without getting anything done. Avoid these people like the plague. If anyone says they are “Busy” they are either horrendous at organising their time or lying. People with a high workload generally get stuff done and don’t need to inform people how “Busy” or “Important” they are. They also tend to use a lot of meaningless buzz works & p…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:59 PM
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As individuals, we cannot correct the course society is on, but we can provision for ourselves some joy, acquired through adaptation to the times. Online dating is the new normal? Great, sign me up for POF, OKC, etc. Obesity can climb or dive, either way, I'm going to stay in shape. Stay fit. Make money. Don't marry.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:54 AM
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women don't actually want monogamy and commitment from the vast majority of men. The state of the SMP proves this. Society is full of men who would happily sign on the dotted line at the county courthouse to get a faithful and reasonably sexually-intact bride. Supply of these men is high. Why? Supply is high because women aren't buying their product. No demand = a warehouse full of unsold stock. If there were demand, these men wouldn't be everywhere as incels, MGTOWs, herbivore men, hikikomori, …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:48 AM
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white guy fucking up a pronunciation If it isn't his native language, why should he automatically know how to pronounce it correctly? There's millions of Chinese in the US, and I can safely assume that my Chinese pronunciation is total shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 01:52 PM
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As a fellow polyglot, let me say this is an AWESOME post, OP. Duolingo - teaches vocab very well, but no sentence structure. Memrise - teaches you to memorize and repeat phrases, not to build sentences. Immersion is awesome, and like you said, subtitles in your target language help you link actual spoken language with the words you learn. I would also add: Keep a basic journal in the language. You don't have to write "Dear diary" shit in there, just stuff like what you did that day, what you hop…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 01:47 PM
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I met a guy who was RP long before there was an internet, and he said "pussy has no face." He got laid constantly because he had no problem taking one for the team, and he had no problem telling people either. Sometimes he got hot girls, sometimes he didn't, but he always got laid.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 01:35 PM
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Stealing this - as someone four months sober, I have needed an answer that ends that whole line of questioning.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 01:17 PM
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yourbrainonporn Amazing site, it should be in the sidebar/FAQ. Avoiding porn seems very much in line with the TRP theme of sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 01:06 PM
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Canda doesnt have free soeech like the us. Seems pretty similar. Link "1 It is hereby recognized and declared that in Canada there have existed and shall continue to exist without discrimination by reason of race, national origin, colour, religion or sex, the following human rights and fundamental freedoms, namely,... (d) freedom of speech;"
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 08:03 PM
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This story reminds me of a relevant video I saw recently. The little dogs don't have a chance to mate, but they follow in the heat pack anyway.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:53 PM
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Why move somewhere just for women though? This. Many STEM grads will make better career progress by initially moving to a lesser city where they need brainpower, as opposed to a big city where brainpower is in abundance because everyone wants to be where the pussy is concentrated.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 05:26 PM
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Dudes out of Ivy league college's are pulling in 150k+ at age 25 working on wallstreet. You can't compete with that, they'll steal your chick in a heartbeat. Agreed. I prefer to be a medium fish in a medium pond than a small fish in a big pond (getting branch swung/AMOGged) or a big fish in a small pond (not maximizing the value I've built).
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 05:23 PM
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115 days sober Gave notice on the apartment that had me locked into an economy in which I cannot find sufficient employment. Crosscountry move incoming, but I figure it's a case of going into the maze to find new cheese when the old cheese disappears. This act gets me closer to my goals because with cashflow, so much more is possible.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 07:53 PM
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If you take a woman's virginity she won't forget you, ~~especially if the sex was good. ~~ Struckthrough because women always dream of their first... the one that planted a flag.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:49 PM
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Relevant Tyler Durden "I felt sorry for guys packed into gyms, trying to look like how Calvin Klein and Tommy Hilfiger said they should. Is that what a man looks like?" reach greater heights This is the problem, and the core of my point: the ordinary people of society are no longer good enough. The accountant, the Army cook, and the guy in OK shape aren't even close to acceptable in the public eye. To get respect now, everything must be at the extremes. Like in Fight Club, we have a society of p…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 02:49 PM
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this story sounds FAF Probably right, but so is Batman and I'll watch that shit all day.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:20 AM
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Certainly did nicer by her than she did to him.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:17 AM
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Stay strong brother, I'm glad you're out. Just don't get married again, rings don't plug holes so there's no benefit of marriage for men. AWALT is the truest law I've ever seen in human relations.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:16 AM
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She cheats and calls you selfish. The hamster doth spin fast with this one, OP.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:12 AM
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I don't see what the problem is with having a moral code. One can have a moral code and still believe that contemporary marriage is a shitty deal for men.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 03:51 AM
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90 days without alcohol. Each month is easier than the last. The first few days were brutal. Also increased my workouts from 3-4 supersets/3 days per week to 1 superset every hour for those 3 days. I'm not working so I have the time.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 08:48 PM
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Rogan is a lefty at heart One can be on the left end of the spectrum and still be pro-masculinity. It's just that the left rarely argues on behalf of men because they're focused on gathering votes from everyone else. :\
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 07:38 PM
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best time of my life so far. This part concerns me. It seems like you've put her on a pedestal to some extent.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 04:22 PM
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Interestingly, your cardiovascular system is so fucked that it won't. High pressure intuitively seems like what you want, but low pressure allows for easier blood flow.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:22 PM
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Use that blocking liberally. A-fucking-men. I joyfully deleted a third of my Facebook "friends" two months ago, including some family. Why? I've kept a mental record of people that I have directly messaged (via PM or a wall post) that never replied. If we're "friends" or "family" and I ask you something, you should fucking answer, otherwise you're exactly the same as nobody to me. If you can't be bothered to respond (though you made plenty of political posts since) then I delete you. If you don'…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 05:39 PM
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I think it was in NMMNG that eliminating those words was strongly recommended, and using "my apologies" instead. The latter shows an uncertain degree of concern while the former takes concern to the extreme of submission.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:20 PM
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Lots of possibilities here. I'm not commenting on the rightness/wrongness of OP's choice, given the concern you raised. That said: OP has a passion that isn't income-oriented and realizes that there is more to life than money. OP may be thinking "it won't happen to me". It sounds like prior to training OP has seen a fair number of streetfights, more than your average person I think. Some people gravitate towards that sort of thing. I'm not theorizing on what causes that gravitation, but most of …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:07 PM
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Please do not spam lift bruh, dress bruh, keep eye contact bruh advices. You forgot "lawyer up bruh"... so I can tell you to lawyer up bruh. Ha. In all seriousness, how would you define an "authentically cool guy" since you don't equate that with a Chad? I think the thing you feel is missing is some leftover clinging to the romance storyline we were all fed by Disney and a trillion love songs. Does it happen? Probably, but the shit is so rare it may as well not be real. Better to focus your ener…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 11:48 PM
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Thank you for your response, I was (unfortunately) anticipating a rage. I might be burnt out on online discussion. Anyhow, very good video. I'm more or less in agreement with Nietzsche in that anything worth having is probably going to require some amount of suffering (i.e. "if it was easy, everyone would do it"). I'm also a fan of abstaining from alcohol as it, amongst other things, serves as an opiate and distraction. It seemed like Nietzsche's ideas as presented in the video were all in relat…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 01:49 PM
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u/verybusydude I could not disagree with this guy any more. By his own admission, he's historically been a bully: I became the bully The crux of his argument is "my shit was worse, therefore you're weak." It's an argument that fails to acknowledge that no two people are at the same point developmentally at the same time. Bullies are easily identified by their lack of empathy and their need to assert dominance (one-upping you/putting you down). In his case, he was beat up a few times and is happy…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 05:03 PM
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I see so many posts about the best diets for weight loss/more T/ smaller waist/bigger dick/whatever, and I never see anyone mention quitting drinking for 90 days. Alcohol: Depressant Empty calories Metabolized by the liver into body fat, liver fat, uric acid, and cholesterol Inflammation Swelling/bloating Aggravating of other health issues Lowers T Hangovers either reduce your max strength at the gym the next morning or keep you in bed altogether making you fatter Before we get to the point of i…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 06:15 PM
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You're wrong that meat causes disease. At least coronary disease. Low fat diets (like the low fat vegan diet in the video) are unhealthy. Sugar is the real enemy- the liver metabolizes it into cholesterol and other nasty things. But don't take my word for it. This guy is an MD and a professor of endocrinology, and studies obesity/metabolic syndrome extensively. I will continue eating meat, avoiding soy, avoiding sugar, avoiding shit ingredients, and eating lots of fiber. My T is great, my bp is …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 04:23 AM
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It's interesting how in an increasingly gynocentric, male-negative society, these father figure types are rising up and helping so many men when so many grow up without quality male presences in their lives. It's sad that it has to be this way (i.e. sad that divorce ruins families, that some dads are absent or shit, etc.), but it's good that the vacuum works as a market demand for content like Jocko, Joe Rogan, and the works of other public figures.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 07:47 PM
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People and other girls around you, seeing that rejection, will think less of you because you just got rejected. Nah, at least not with bar game. They won't even recognize you an hour later. Worst case scenario you go to the bar next door, instant clean slate. Preselection is real but memory is short, especially with alcohol present.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:31 PM
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