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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	#Believeallwomen This happened with me. I had rough sex with a guy and we didn't use a condom. I told him to pull out but he didn't and when I told my friend she said it was rape.	/r/AntiFeminists	27/05/23 11:07 AM
1	Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men? I'm so sorry you went through that and are still going through it. I hope you remember you have value beyond how any person treats you. Just because society is trying to make you feel at fault, doesn't mean you are x	/r/AntiFeminists	24/05/23 03:54 PM
3	It seems that i don't care if my boyfriend has relationships with other women If you tell him you don't mind then you can set clear boundaries and you could have a healthier relationship	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/23 02:19 PM
3	Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men? Ok. Sorry	/r/AntiFeminists	13/02/23 08:28 PM
13	Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men? I'm not saying most men are "incels"... I don't think any man is tbh. But the men feminists apply it to are only like that because of feminism. Like there were no men like that or even close in the 50s, right?	/r/AntiFeminists	13/02/23 06:11 PM
1	So much of modern culture, and of contemporary misandry, traces back to marketing influence on popular culture So interesting. Thank you	/r/MensRights	13/02/23 05:51 PM
45	Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men? I feel like incels are men who are deeply wounded my an increasingly misandrist world. Feminism just makes them feel worse. And the thing is, so many women are so shallow. I bet these guys are genuinely interesting and nice at first but then are driven further from being cool and chill guys to being a bit hateful because they are ignored or insulted by women	/r/AntiFeminists	13/02/23 05:47 PM
3	A feminist trying to say ‘not all women/feminists’ in response to an answer I posted on Quora before blocking me. The reason she's making that argument is because she knows it doesn't make sense. I've done that before because I knew I was chatting nonsense	/r/AntiFeminists	13/02/23 05:05 PM
9	Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners. A lot of the friends I have whose parents stayed together are messed up because their parents stayed together despite not loving each other anymore. Children need to see healthy loving relationships. Not relationships where they're only together because they're afraid of change	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 09:47 AM
11	Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners. Am I being dense but where have you shown that divorce is a bad thing? I think it's a good thing that people feel empowered enough to say that something isn't working out for them and to move on than to stay with someone they don't love because they don't know any other way	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 08:47 AM
7	You guys helped me a lot last time I asked about "arguments against gender pay gap" for my class. Now I'm back for arguments that The Patriarchy doesn't exist. For me the most convincing argument is to look at the treatment of men under "the patriarchy". Ultimately only a small minority of men have ever benefitted. The wealthy. And if we look at wealthy women, they benefit a lot too. Like... How did the men who worked down the mines benefit from the patriarchy? They were oppressed just as much as their wives	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 09:16 PM
1	What exactly is the deal with the people in here who feel there is some major distinction to be made between “feminism” and modern women in the west, and lambast anyone who dares conflate the two as if there is no positive correlation or overlap between them? That's like those feminists who say that if you're white then you ARE a white supremacist. It's a shit take when they do it and it's not any better when you do it	/r/AntiFeminists	12/02/23 08:26 PM
3	Not only bricklayers: Humanity needs men for extraordinary intellectual abilities of a tiny minority of individuals who are 99% male. This is actually what stopped me from being a feminist. I was told this and went and researched it and actually tried to look for reasons those studies weren't good and the best I found was people saying that it shouldn't have been studied in the first place because it would lead to women being treated differently.	/r/MensRights	11/02/23 07:52 PM
28	What exactly is the deal with the people in here who feel there is some major distinction to be made between “feminism” and modern women in the west, and lambast anyone who dares conflate the two as if there is no positive correlation or overlap between them? I'm anti-feminist and a woman... Although I do know I benefit a lot for being a woman in an increasingly feminist world. I hope I don't get lumped in with the man haters	/r/AntiFeminists	11/02/23 07:41 PM
4	“Radical feminist” declares intercourse is rape and society grooms them to be straight Right... And then schools are teaching these messed up definitions. Like boys and girls are being taught that if both are drunk the girl is getting raped	/r/MensRights	11/02/23 12:40 PM
58	“Radical feminist” declares intercourse is rape and society grooms them to be straight Honestly the amount of female friends I have that claim they were raped is astounding. And then it turns out that it's nothing even close to rape... It's just regret. Worse is they tell me I was raped when it was just rough sex with strangers. Like sex that I consented to was rape because I got a few bruises	/r/MensRights	10/02/23 08:44 PM
1	A society without women Haha thanks... I don't know if women are more emotional than men though? I just feel like we express ourselves in different ways? Like I'm more likely to cry but my guy friends get angrier more quickly lol. I absolutely see and have been the victim of group bias though. I've spent far too much of my life just nodding along because I didn't want to be rejected. And my female friends definitely like being seen as victims much more than my male friends	/r/MensRights	10/02/23 06:36 PM
33	Are boys discriminated against in schools? Boys get in more trouble than girls even though they misbehave the same amount	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 06:37 AM
2	A society without women Absolutely yeah. Maybe I'm being dense but I don't understand why that makes us easier to brainwash.. ELI5?	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 06:21 AM
7	Dating Burnout I'm on this hookup app with a guy friend. Honestly, I'm nothing special. If anything I'm slightly below average in my looks. I have over 2000 likes. My guy friend has about 40 and most of them are gay men or trans women. He's about the same level of attractiveness. Dating apps must be a hellscape for men	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 06:17 AM
4	On the impossible standards required of the MRM Ok but you're looking for logic where there isn't any. There's this weird hierarchy in feminism where it's like white women can't criticise black people and only black women can criticise black men. I can give the full rules if anyone's interested. And then they use the idea of internalised misogyny and false consciousness to say that anyone who doesn't agree has been brainwashed	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 06:12 AM
4	A society without women What do you mean by the first bit? Like what makes us more easily brainwashed?	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 06:00 AM
3	They want special treatment for menopausal women now That's where it goes though, right? That's what employers will think	/r/MensRights	08/02/23 11:13 PM
8	op said women and men should be wary around men because most rapists are men,so i asked her if men are justified in not believing women because most false allegations come from women,she didn't know what to respond so instead reported me and made the mods ban me lmao People need to be really careful quoting rape statistics anyway. In the UK technically no women are rapists. This is because, by law, rape is defined as inserting a penis into a vagina or anus without consent	/r/MensRights	08/02/23 07:39 PM
2	Has feminism fostered a culture where women are praised for mediocrity but men are ignored for greatness? I’ve noticed every average looking girl is “beautiful” and most good looking men are “average.” Weren't the suffragettes quite militant and... well basically terrorists though? The suffragists were much more reasonable from what I understand	/r/AntiFeminists	07/02/23 09:05 PM
1	Has feminism fostered a culture where women are praised for mediocrity but men are ignored for greatness? I’ve noticed every average looking girl is “beautiful” and most good looking men are “average.” I see. I was always taught the suffragists and suffragettes were feminists. Amazing how ignorant even women are kept about how feminism actually is	/r/AntiFeminists	07/02/23 08:46 PM
2	Has feminism fostered a culture where women are praised for mediocrity but men are ignored for greatness? I’ve noticed every average looking girl is “beautiful” and most good looking men are “average.” Can you explain this? Like I absolutely am on board with feminism manufacturing issues to stay victims but surely with things like not being allowed to vote or own property... Well it's definitely not equality	/r/AntiFeminists	07/02/23 07:17 PM
8	Why do feminists say “ah now I see, it’s your personality” or “maybe if you were nice women would like you” when most women are attracted to assholes and turned off by genuinely nice men? Thanks. Me too	/r/AntiFeminists	05/02/23 12:58 AM
8	Why do feminists say “ah now I see, it’s your personality” or “maybe if you were nice women would like you” when most women are attracted to assholes and turned off by genuinely nice men? I've lost friends over it. And not just girls but men too	/r/AntiFeminists	05/02/23 12:45 AM
15	Why do feminists say “ah now I see, it’s your personality” or “maybe if you were nice women would like you” when most women are attracted to assholes and turned off by genuinely nice men? It's genuinely bizarre. Like Facebook groups of black women telling white women to send them money just for apparently educating them but the education is just complaining about how hard life is. Makes you see how entitled feminists are	/r/AntiFeminists	05/02/23 12:21 AM
35	Why do feminists say “ah now I see, it’s your personality” or “maybe if you were nice women would like you” when most women are attracted to assholes and turned off by genuinely nice men? So I used to be a feminist so I can tell you that most feminists actually want to be victims. Or they expect men to be god's. The men they complain about are actually just normal guys but they find any normal behaviour to be abuse. Like my ex had a lot of flaws that annoyed me but my feminist friends kept saying he was emotionally abusing me. That's part of the reason I'm not a feminist anymore	/r/AntiFeminists	04/02/23 11:44 PM
4	Why do feminists constantly talk about how men are abusive assholes when the vast majority of men are not only harmless but would treat women like queens? As a former feminist I can tell you that it's like being part of a fad. One of the things that drove me away from feminism was my feminist friends constantly telling me I was a victim. That I was raped when a guy just made a mistake or that my ex was abusive when he never laid a finger on me and was generally respectful but also has normal human flaws. Feminists want to be victims so they can justify the need for feminism	/r/AntiFeminists	04/02/23 11:13 PM
8	False rape accusation. Same thing as always. She (Alice Pacquet) lied and ruined his life (Gerry Sklavanous). Nothing happened to her. She's living her best life posting on instagram whereas Google has purged all information regarding this case. My friend said I was raped because a guy accidentally came in me. Like it was a mistake and he was apologetic but she tried to get me to report him. That's the sort of thing feminists are saying is rape	/r/AntiFeminists	03/02/23 10:22 PM
2	Is there anything more ridiculous and pathetic than male “feminists” or even worse men virtue signaling/white knighting in comments on social media seeking women’s validation? Nope. My ex was like that and he gave me the ick in the end	/r/AntiFeminists	01/02/23 12:05 AM