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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Am I being too `controlling`?		bear32	/r/askTRP	07/10/14 05:16 AM

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1	Am I being too `controlling`? I have a strong belief that any girl WILL cheat no matter what if seduced by the right man, and that is a thought that is commonly shared in TRP. I believe that a woman, if tricked into feeling the right emotions in the right place, will most possibly cheat no matter what, then later feel guilty about it - this is what I noticed by observing my plates, female friends and by reading about TRP. If I trust my girl? Of course I do, we have been friends for a long time and she has never disappointed …	/r/askTRP	09/10/14 04:20 AM
1	Am I being too `controlling`? And what should I do if she misbehaves? All I can think I can do is dump her, which I would promptly do, so I would like to try to make her avoid her from doing things I would not like (hence my clear No response when she asked to go out with her friends) so I don`t get to the point of having to dump her.	/r/askTRP	08/10/14 08:37 PM
1	Am I being too `controlling`? I appreciate the advice and think you have been a bit more helpful and clear now, but I believe you minsinterpreted what are my feelings toward this girl.	/r/askTRP	08/10/14 08:31 PM
1	Am I being too `controlling`? It may be something cultural but where I live, if you go to the cinema with a group of people, its a normal thing friends do, but when you go to the cinema with a friend of the sane sex and 2 other persons of the opposite sex, its a date. Also, I am talking about a LTR, people expect things from each other when in commited relationships, I dont believe the "just let her do whatever her want because you are too high value and she wont find anyone better and just dump her if she does something wro…	/r/askTRP	08/10/14 07:33 AM
1	Am I being too `controlling`? I dont consider this to be good advice for a LTR but I am thankful for your input. Why? Because from my experience and from what I have been taught and firmly believe, most women (mainly teenage girls) are conditioned to be slutty, and always "slut up" when not kept in check by a strong man. What I gather from your post is that I should just wait until she sluts up then dump her?	/r/askTRP	08/10/14 07:20 AM
1	Am I being too `controlling`? I firmly and respectfully disagree with you. I dont believe that the "normal" girl can be conditioned to "WANT to follow your lead", not in my country which is plagued with feminist ideas and any (teenage) girl that is "submitted" to her man is shamed by her friends. Also, what is leadership if not telling people what to do?	/r/askTRP	08/10/14 07:13 AM
1	Am I being too `controlling`? I understand, I just had a conversation with her where I explained that there are some things I would not be comfortable with her doing and that she has to do what I expect of her to stay my girlfriend. I do believe I came off a bit too controlling in my words, but I still think going to the movies basically alone with a man of past history of being not a respectable person is not something anyone should be okay with. Do you think that is the right frame I should have? "I am not okay with you do…	/r/askTRP	08/10/14 07:01 AM