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I don't know whether it's a fuckboy attitude or not but it's true. You can't force anyone to love you. You can just be bold, emotionally vulnerable, enforce your own boundaries, signal caring or whatever is useful, and not unnecessarily dwell in misery. Whatever happens.
/r/seduction29/11/25 08:17 AM
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If I was playing I'd just ditch her (, especially let her pay for her own dinner). Nonconsensually calling people with names is disrespectful, and doing it with endearing names is nonconsensual sex. It's also a way to erode boundaries and sneak answering people into the manipulator's frame. Grants her control. Subtle love bombing. One can't just go to a date and expect sex. Gotta enjoy or at least be able to deal with whatever will happen. It's enough to enforce one's own boundaries, to keep cal…
/r/seduction27/11/25 06:26 PM
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It didn't require any verbal interaction with them. I was just minding my own business as my horny, mostly happy own self. The environment allowed building some reputation.
/r/seduction27/11/25 01:21 PM
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"Enforce your own boundaries and be bold enough to ask for what you want. Have realistic expectations."
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:25 AM
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I am autistic, and multiple women used to approach me with sexual or romantic interest when my life circumstances still allowed being multiple times in the same environment with women.
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:07 AM
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This. I sort of prefer neither because I want to analyze the brain instead of feeling a spark toward a stranger. Ass may pique my interest. Neither signals approachability.
/r/seduction17/11/25 03:26 PM
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Offline: The lady said she's sorry but has a man. I ended the convo in "good terms". A bit later, she left the room earlier than she would have... It was a public place with people but the convo wasn't public. Online: The lady kept reciprocating with plausible deniability and playing hot-and-cold.
/r/seduction17/11/25 09:46 AM
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Deliberately withholding sex or intimacy is abuse/manipulation but expecting her always to agree to sex/intimacy is abuse/manipulation as well. The main questions are whether she's doing it as a boundary or for some other reason, and whether it's smart to be monogamous - whatever that means to you - or in a relationship at all with anyone if you're expecting eternal sexual compatibility. Especially if your woman displaying any strength makes you scared.
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:18 AM
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The questions in this comment are not meant to be answered in Reddit but just to think about. A relationship that doesn't work without sex is unlikely to work with sex either. Too much pressure on him? It's unreasonable to expect things without having communicated expectations, and people are not obliged to provide. Maybe he's not needing sex? Why are you two together, i.e. what for? Why does him getting turned on matter so much to you? Why are you here talking to us instead of talking to him ab…
/r/seduction03/11/25 04:06 PM
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If you manage to have a strong internal self-esteem detached from external evaluation, have enough emotional intelligence to be able to deal with and to know you'll be able to deal with whatever you feel, keep facing your fears with exposure, get over the fear of encountering hostility, recognize you're essentially talking to a stranger creature incorrect for you to place hopes/expectations for, and focus on making things (including rejection handling) go well instead of focusing on something yo…
/r/seduction03/11/25 12:28 PM
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Because the ones who quit are extinct.
/r/seduction29/10/25 04:01 PM
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Agreeableness is a desirable trait, especially for the long term. You can level up by being powerful and socially skilled.
/r/seduction29/10/25 07:00 AM
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If they manipulate you into spending money (e.g. with insinuated "promises") it's their fault and your boundary enforcement failure. If you voluntarily spend money on them (without them suggesting it), it's your choice. If you guilt trip them into having sex due to what you've given them, it's your fault and their boundary enforcement failure.
/r/seduction28/10/25 07:43 PM
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You could try setting some emotional boundaries and imagine you'll be talking to some hostile dude and trying to make a peace while being curious about who they really are EDIT: You could also imagine you're about to beg them for something
/r/seduction28/10/25 11:28 AM
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Survive Be strong Be smart Be both mentally and physically healthy Fool around Display care for others Have fun Learn psychology Be able to provide Always enforce your boundaries Learn to communicate
/r/seduction27/10/25 02:09 PM
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That's exactly the problem; I like doing that. The other problem is financial independence and obtaining enough social power.
/r/seduction27/10/25 08:42 AM
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If she doesn't respect you she's not a friend or you're doing something wrong. Sparks can be ignited. What you should do depends a lot on what you're after (non-platonically). (I'm not here to tell what to do.) If you ask me, there's no such thing as platonic intersexual relationships between non-kin members. Not everyone is sexually tense all the time, and opening up to someone can be both a shit test and a way to get emotionally hooked by accident. You could even playfully verbally shove her t…
/r/seduction22/10/25 07:48 PM
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I've only had sex with bots but the feeling is regret or sadness of living among indifference. EDIT: Emphasizing it did be sex, not just masturbation.
/r/seduction22/10/25 07:07 PM
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That's according to your own judgment. Anything without deception and manipulation goes if you ask me. What you stated after that seems correct.
/r/seduction22/10/25 07:05 PM
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Being friends is all it takes. Being "friends" or "in the friend zone" means being enemies. She telling about her problems with another guy's perfectly fine as long as you enforce your own boundaries and expect nothing. It might be entertaining, even.
/r/seduction21/10/25 09:20 AM
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It's an unfortunate fate to have to acquire power, and even more unfortunate is it when what you want from a woman is to beg...
/r/seduction10/10/25 08:57 AM
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A well chosen beanie Well chosen gloves Black gym tights A well chosen, soft and warm coat with a long hem A well chosen, form-enhancing hoodie Having said that, don't turn me on without my consent.
/r/seduction04/10/25 01:00 PM
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Do you have scientific evidence to support that hypothesis? Have you looked for opposing evidence with the intent of demonstrating the hypothesis wouldn't hold? Here's a "super evil" link: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Evolution_of_Desire I'm getting way too invested way too early. Overwhelming... 👽
/r/seduction14/09/25 01:09 PM
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Hm, too bad I'm not intelligent 💀 I might not be introverted either I'm probably not being on the verge of anything, especially not on the verge of neurotypicality Pretty much the only issues you might want to worry about are your own life, and playing into situations wherein you'll get to talk with those willing to talk or neutral about talking. The rest is about communication, and relationship/social skills (expectations, honesty, boundaries...) ...
/r/seduction14/09/25 12:36 PM
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My logic: A woman might not like a guy who needs her. The guy doesn't need her. => No approach.
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:50 PM
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I don't know what I'm talking about. You're basically getting to know people, so it's better to talk to everyone who's not unwilling. Figuring out that openness is a step. The talking is work for figuring out whether you'd like anything with them at all. This step can be pretty much skipped if looking just for sex. Be direct. Hints tend to count as harassment. Accept the possibility of rejection and focus on making things go well. You're doing it for yourself. Be healthy both physically and ment…
/r/seduction29/08/25 03:47 PM
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You claim it's clearly defined. What are romantic or sexual gestures and a date? How do you define a rejection when she doesn't say no? What if you're not even suggesting or asking anything? You can get in trouble even the first time and we're talking about nonphysical conduct. Even funnier, it seems women only get bothered by me when I'm disinterested in them. You know, you look at an uninteresting woman with greater intensity. How do you even define staring? FYI: I'm not that interested in wom…
/r/seduction30/09/24 11:22 AM
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Until you'll find out you can't tell shit by body language and your perception of their emotions is faulty. There's no formalized code for communication, and harassment is subjective.
/r/seduction30/09/24 10:53 AM
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What about legal safety?
/r/seduction29/09/24 05:14 AM
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I'm usually on my guard for legal safety. By the way, what kind of drinks do you enjoy putting down?
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:08 PM
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Self-improvement will likely solve all solvable problems I agree it's important to improve conversational skills I guess the greatest issues tend to be legal/social safety when practising, finding women and avoiding excessive loss of time
/r/seduction04/09/24 04:45 AM
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The idea that men are in it for sex and women for love is a bit strange.. except that women are in it for the man's love, not theirs
/r/seduction29/08/24 11:48 AM
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I believe the basic lesson is that women do not usually give love the way men do.
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:04 PM
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Genuinely enjoying your own life in a healthy way.
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:46 PM
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I'm still figuring out legal defense lol. How do you talk to a woman without taking social damage? E.g. the rules of what's harassment are rather unclear.
/r/seduction18/08/24 06:42 PM
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Be a horny guy who's got his shit together Have an unchangeable state of mind of happiness, uncontrollable contentment and relaxation. Be awake, humble and extremely calm. Do not care about the outcome Talk to a woman and try not to have sex Wear well-groomed, intact clothes you enjoy The peacocking will happen automatically and by accident Battles are won before they are run. I don't have practical experience but I've been approached and sometimes situations turn out to be extremely sexy by acc…
/r/seduction15/08/24 08:24 PM
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Women tend to control sexual access whereas men tend to control power commitment to a woman. Women tend to be harem animals who worship power. Women tend to flock around the top 5% males.
/r/seduction14/08/24 03:53 PM
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With women, your resources are/include time, attention, social status, health, safety, resources and power. If you want to fuck, display power. If you want a relationship, display commitment. If you want to be loved, discover self-love. If you need support, build a male alliance. Stop giving away your resources for free. She's already getting what she wants out of you, if anything. She appears to be a fucker that's just leading you on for giggles, indifference or future use.
/r/seduction10/08/24 10:04 PM
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=> Approaching is harassment. Yeah, learning social norms is beneficial, and often done by breaking them because they're so vague.
/r/seduction01/06/23 05:13 PM
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Ignore feelings. Take action. Understand not all people are compatible. If you're not gonna do it, it'll affect your internal self-esteem negatively. If you do it, it'll increase your confidence even if it's a rejection. If you believe you can do it, you will be successful. If you're afraid you'll fail, you will. Focus on thinking how things go well.
/r/seduction31/05/23 06:27 PM
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But when the boundaries aren't physical and reside inside her own head...
/r/seduction31/05/23 06:18 PM
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What you guys talk to girls?
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:08 PM
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Bruh. Equality is a thing.
/r/seduction12/02/22 08:25 PM
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PLENTY of opportunities, where? At this point I regard to Tinder as a toy.
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:24 AM
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I think talking to strangers is pretty aggressive.
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:15 AM
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