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Yes, every time I have incredible sex with a girl I say to myself "I never want that to happen ever again so I'm just going to completely ghost this person and never talk to her again in my life." Makes complete and total sense.
/r/seduction17/05/24 07:15 PM
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Cool I'm going to dm you my cash app...please send me $30 since it doesn't matter to you
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:31 PM
6

How trash your game is and how desperate you seem. You literally asked what she was doing, she said going home which means she doesn't want to hang out. So you text her again that same night for some reason and she says no again. And then you text her immediately again the next morning. And she ends up ghosting. What a shock.
/r/seduction16/05/24 11:47 PM
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You're coming on way too strong and seem really needy and desperate
/r/seduction16/05/24 11:18 PM
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I mean responding to girls the next day, texting her once every 4-5 days, saying nothing at all in your texts. You're basically telling these girls you're not that into them and want nothing but sex. You're definitely way overdoing the "playing hard to get" thing. Or trying way to hard to not be a simp. I mean girls are literally telling you to your face that you don't seem interested. You just need to do a little bit more if you're actually interested in these girls and want something more long…
/r/seduction16/05/24 11:17 PM
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A no name app that nobody uses or has ever even heard about that's primarily going to attract gold diggers? Yea sounds great..........just stick to the big 3 that every single girl out there uses on a regular basis. Unless you really care about how much a woman makes (which most guys don't unless the woman is dead broke). I've read reviews about apps like this and most say they are just for gold diggers looking for old saggy millionaires to give them shit tons of stuff in exchange for sex
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:54 PM
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Because they spend their entire lives inside on Tik Tok, have zero social skills and are scared shitless to talk to women or any humans for that matter. So they're only able to meet people that they are forced to be around at school or at work. And then when any girl gives them the slightest bit of interest, like a smile or a small compliment, their dick gets fully erect, and they don't know how to act normal and become desperate and needy as hell.
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:55 PM
30

Based off this post I would classify you as a beta with beta qualities
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:37 PM
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Yea this dude has some pretty horribly written posts for the fact that he's literally the only person in this subreddit trying to sell substack subscriptions. Like 95% of the words he writes offer nothing of value. I'll probably get blocked by him for this comment though like he does with anyone that questions what he says since he's literally just trying to sell shit and any criticism and negative reviews are bad for business
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:31 PM
1

Are you comfortable and have had success approaching a single girl by herself or a group of 2-3 girls or more by themselves?
/r/seduction16/05/24 07:00 PM
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Yes if you become better looking you will get more women and more women will be attracted to you and you'll have way more opportunities. But looks can only get you so far. Lift weights, do some cardio, eat healthier, get a skincare routine, work on improving your sleep, improve your style, get a new haircut, etc. This is all common sense stuff
/r/seduction16/05/24 12:26 AM
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In the shortest answer possible....yes. You've known this girl for a long ass time and haven't made a single move or expressed any sexual desire towards her while simultaneously acting extremely needy and unattractive.
/r/seduction15/05/24 11:56 PM
5

I've never understood why men think walking around malls by themselves was a good way to meet women compared to the numerous other choices
/r/seduction15/05/24 08:43 PM
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Commenting on pics is good...but you definitely want to avoid opening conversations with physical features and how attractive she is. Women know they are attractive and get the same messages from hundreds of guys on a daily basis. And it shows that you aren't interested in anything at all but her looks.
/r/seduction15/05/24 06:21 PM
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The problem with so many guys like you with cold approaching isn't just the fact that you're not confident. You guys also approach women in the dumbest, most illogical, least efficient ways humanly possible. You're literally going to a random area of the city that you have no business being in (hoping there's women there), spam approaching any random woman on the street that seems cute, at 2pm on a Tuesday afternoon while they're either out running errands, have places to be, strolling back to t…
/r/seduction14/05/24 08:25 PM
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The autism in this subreddit is high today
/r/seduction14/05/24 05:45 PM
17

Have a drink at a bar...it's really not that complicated
/r/seduction14/05/24 05:12 PM
3

Yea that's honestly what I figured....I briefly glanced at it once and it just seemed like a more expensive Hinge with less people. I also assume you're using the paid versions of apps but that makes a huge difference too. Having unlimited messaging on Hinge and the ability to filter based on whatever you want makes a huge difference there vs the free version.
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:28 PM
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You just check out this dating app called "The League". It's basically known as an elitist app for people looking for more serious relationships with higher quality people. It's owned by Match group which own Hinge, Match, Tinder, etc. and was created for people tired of the hookup culture of other apps. There's an application process and it costs way more money than the other apps but you could find higher quality people on there. I've never used it and have no idea how popular it is in Arizona…
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:24 PM
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Not to mention the fact that women only care about erect penis size and not flaccid penis size. And there is zero correlation between the two.
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:18 PM
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It's kind of insane too that you've been on 100 dates but you've only been able to label 3 of them as marriage quality girls. It usually takes people weeks to months of dating someone to determine if they are someone they'd like to marry. The fact that you've been on 100 dates tells me that you're just moving on from these women really quickly without even getting to know them at all and just writing them off without even giving them a chance,,,,,just purely on assumptions you're making based on…
/r/seduction10/05/24 10:47 PM
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You just sound really needy and desperate throughout this whole post. You met this girl a week ago and know nothing about her. And she says she's your type flirting/jokingly and instead of flirting back and playing around you immediately ask "When are we going out?" Just makes it seem like you're thirsty and have no options. Then you're letting her lead the entire interaction. Agreeing to the exact day that works for her. Agreeing to go out on Friday after work at the last minute which makes it …
/r/seduction10/05/24 08:12 PM
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Being purely physically attractive matters on dating apps but the quality and types of photos you have are also extremely important. Smiling a lot in your photos, having photos with other people to show you have friends, having high resolution photos, good photo angles, photos with pets and dogs always do well, etc. You can be physically attractive but still have photos that turn women off. Like guys who post mirror selfies. I had a time years ago where all I did was switch my first main profile…
/r/seduction10/05/24 06:08 PM
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Finances kind of only really matter on the extremes. If you're extremely broke, don't have your own place, don't have a car, can't afford to go on dates, can't afford nice clothes, etc then yea it's going to make dating a lot more difficult. And if you're extremely rich it's going to give you more opportunities. But like 95% of people are somewhere in the middle. Like there's not a huge difference between making 70k or 80k or 90k or 100k or 125k when it comes to attracting women. There's not a d…
/r/seduction10/05/24 04:35 PM
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Cool then stop hanging out with him...it's pretty simple. He's not your friend. Or have a man to man talk with him alone when women aren't around. And again it doesn't matter how many hot girls he brings around you if you aren't able to fuck any of them because he's active cockblocking you. It's literally better to just go out solo at that point.
/r/seduction10/05/24 01:35 AM
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Then just be a fucking man and call him out on it and tell him you don't respect what he's doing and if it continues you're going to have a problem. If he likes and respects you and is actually a friend he will say "OK cool" and stop. If he keeps doing it then don't spend time with him anymore. It's pretty fucking simple. How many of the hot women that he's brought around you have you taken home and fucked?
/r/seduction10/05/24 01:31 AM
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Just move on....especially if it's during the initial messages. She's just not interested or not taking the dating apps seriously. If she's not willing to click a couple extra buttons on a phone while lying in bed in order to form a solid response and connection with someone, do you really think she's going to spend hours of her life going out on a date with you? Edit: It would also be helpful to see what you're actually messaging because your message game could just be trash or boring as hell.
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:23 AM
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That's good....as long as you are actively thinking about that and constantly trying to improve you should be fine. Good luck
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:17 AM
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If you are getting over your approach anxiety and becoming more confident you should be working to have longer interactions with these girls and work on your conversational skills more. What you're doing is fine initially for noobs, but approaching every cute girl and collecting instagrams after 2 minutes is a horrible long term strategy because they majority will never respond and it's just a massive waste of time and you aren't getting better at anything. The fact that you're approaching girls…
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:08 AM
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I mean if you were for example a freshman going into a new large university during the first semester this would be really good advice. And it would be a terrible idea to spam approaches at every single cute girl collecting meaningless instagrams like OP is doing. But at a community college during the last week of the semester it's not that big of a deal.
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:56 PM
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Anyone that's struggling like this on the dating apps I can almost 100% guarantee that either your photos aren't that great, you have weird things in your profile that turn women off or your message game is complete trash. I've seen it time and time again. Even when you go to Tinder and Bumble subreddits and people post profiles there's literally always something weird on them. Young men generally also have really terrible text message game. It's super cringey to read what most guys are saying. …
/r/seduction09/05/24 06:20 PM
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Yea he's living such a great life that he's literally spending every waking hour of each day posting 25 times to strangers on a subreddit. Reposting old stories of women he's hooked up with in the past trying to seek the approval of people he's never going to meet. Sounds like a very secure, confident man that's living an unbelievable life. Wish we could all be like him
/r/seduction09/05/24 06:03 PM
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He's just continually copying and pasting old posts he made from years ago....which actually somehow makes this all even worse than actually making 28 different posts over the course of a day
/r/seduction09/05/24 12:42 AM
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I just still can't fucking believe that you went to Northeastern University to approach girls as a 31 year old that doesn't even go to school there. It's fucking hilarious if you're actually from this area. It's literally a super small commuter school on the very edge of the city like 30 minutes from downtown. It's right off the highway and there's like nothing to do around there. Nobody hangs out in that area...there's zero nightlife whatsoever. Only like 5% of people actually live on campus. E…
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:41 PM
1

It's the facial attractiveness and genetics that you just have to be born with...rare breeds
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:47 PM
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Imagine being a 31 year old man in his prime, coming to one of the greatest cities in the US, filled with beautiful women everywhere, and deciding to meet women by driving to colleges you don't go to, on the outskirts of the city, away from all of the most popular spots where all of the fine girls go to. That according to you are mostly filled with "Ton's of 5's and 6's." Are you retarded are you trolling?
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:40 PM
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Well one issue is that there are lots of people like you here nowadays, who are so fucking insecure and narcissistic that they feel the need to litter this forum with meaningless anecdotes about some random time they fucked some bitch or bragging about how they can school dudes that are more jacked and taller than them in order to feed their fragile egos. Who are constantly seeking the approval of random internet strangers that care nothing about them in order to feel better about themselves. In…
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:46 PM
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If you don't care then why have you been making numerous reddit posts on this exact topic in the same day seeking approval from a bunch of strangers you know nothing about?
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:05 PM
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