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yep. Ideally it should be 4 or 5 messages back and forth, and you should ask for the date or the number. Any girl who says "she's not comfortable yet" if you ask her after 4 or 5 messages probably won't agree to a date.
/r/seduction28/02/13 05:54 PM
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not going to lie, this girl sounds like a huge bitch. especially if she had no problem humiliating you if you were simply being AFC.
/r/seduction07/02/13 05:31 AM
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good point. If the girl's annoying though, drop her and ignore her. Abundance mentality.
/r/seduction01/02/13 05:55 AM
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then you might want to remark that a bar is not the best place to have a serious discussion about that. You can then go on to suggest going back to your place, or a date (if you like the girl). Or if she keeps pestering you like that, keep playing it off or tell her to stop.
/r/seduction01/02/13 05:14 AM
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best way to handle that is with humor. something like "I didn't know I was supposed to be keeping track" or "you mean in the last few hours?" or "are we saying prosthetics or no prosthetics?" Seriously taking about it might be something reserved for a relationship.
/r/seduction01/02/13 12:58 AM
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it might just be nerves, you get nervous because it's your first time and you go soft. Try having a little bit of alcohol, it'll help calm the nerves. also, always wrap it. Unless you're 100% sure she's clean and she's on birth control, always wrap it.
/r/seduction23/01/13 04:14 PM
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Dude, you sound exactly like me. I started out with a stutter and couldn't say R's or S's in elementary school, and it's progressed to the point where I have a stutter extremely similar to yours. It will come in spurts, and I can get through entire paragraphs or conversations and then it'll just come up and there's nothing I can do... like you said, we just freeze up and start making a weird face or get stuck on a word. I've learned too that a lot of my stutter is tied into being anxious about s…
/r/seduction15/01/13 10:32 PM
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I tend to do that too thinking "oh they just don't understand, but I can help them to understand", but honestly, it's not worth your time and your effort will probably be fruitless. There's plenty of other people who won't be a dick about it.
/r/seduction10/11/12 12:30 AM
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very true. If they're going to be a dick or a bitch to you about it, they're not worth your time.
/r/seduction09/11/12 10:44 PM
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Good post. I actually have a problem similar to this. I have a speech impediment as well (stuttering) that is fairly mild and I've improved it a lot, but it still comes up randomly and can completely stop me in my tracks. Does anyone have any tips for this? I was in speech therapy for most of grade school and it got to the point in high school that I had gone almost a year without any improvement and therapy just wasn't helping anymore. I'm under the impression that this is instantly a red flag …
/r/seduction09/11/12 09:35 PM
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UNC Grad here. Chapel Hill is a great opportunity, lots of attractive girls and plenty of girls open to having fun. Just be aware that most of them are pretty damn smart, and some of the gimmicky stuff won't work. They won't be afraid to shit test you early and often. He's not, East End, Goodfellows and Backbar are all great places to meet girls. Bub's and Pantana Bob's can be good, but they're huge greek life hangouts. La Rez is also a big greek hangout. have fun, you're in a great place to try…
/r/seduction17/10/12 10:12 PM
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