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good advice, the only one here who isn't a tool
/r/askTRP26/10/19 07:31 AM
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I think he’s saying when you goes out he is in a serious boring mindset. Girls want to have fun fun fun and to have a carefree good time. They don’t want a guy to be serious, they want him to tease them and be playful
/r/askTRP06/10/19 08:37 PM
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I just put a t shirt over my eyes. May look goofy but it works
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 04:57 PM
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Definitely the anger phase here
/r/askTRP05/10/19 04:00 PM
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Nothing is sure in life but you don’t live your life being scared and always wondering “what if” If you can’t trust the girl you’re with then don’t LTR her, use her as a plate
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:52 PM
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If you want her to be your gf do it now. Text or call and say hey I thought about what you said and I like you and want to take things to the next level. Let’s get together and (whatever date plans) There’s no need for all these games. Waiting a week, playing hard to get, etc It comes down to what do you want? Most guys here are coming from the view that you are going to plate a girl then when that breaks move onto the next one. If you want more with this girl...and I can tell you do...then do t…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:44 PM
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The average guy today only meets girls on tender and is constantly swiping. They don’t have the balls to talk to women in real life. So you making the effort sets you apart from everyone else. Online dating sucks
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:09 AM
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Not sure what the problem is here? You guys are both free to fuck around until terms of exclusivity have been tendered. She has been trying to get you to be exclusive and you keep saying no. So she can sleep with who she wants as can you. If you want her as a gf then say that and stop playing games. If you don’t then keep doing what you are doing but don’t be shocked when she finds someone that will give her what she wants
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:55 AM
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Dude this is pathetic If you want to sleep around cool, but don’t agree to a relationship then fuck around right after. Shows you aren’t a man of your word and quite frankly it comes across as insecure. You’re pretty much an insecure girl.... oh no... she might cheat on me so I have this whole thought up scheme to make myself feel better... What was your question?
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:45 AM
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Age is one of those things girls think is important but when the rubber hits the road it’s not a big deal if she’s into you. If you give her the tingles she is going to rationalize whatever away...including age. My point is you don’t need to lie about your age if you’re game is tight and she gets tingles from you. Lying is a low value trait. You should’ve have to lie about anything. If someone doesn’t like you, your age, your job or whatever the fuck you are trying to lie to cover up, fuck them.…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 04:37 AM
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You backed off and she came back. She thought maybe you weren’t as easy as she thought. If a girl is reaching out to you she wants to see you. Where you started going wrong was the end of that second date when you asked for a hug. Don’t ask...do. You should have just took her and kissed her instead of asking permission. Then you got clingy and texted her time and time again with no response from her. Think of it like a game of tennis. You hit the ball over the net then you wait for her to hit it…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 04:24 AM
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I am convinced that most people here are autistic spergs. Your comment is pretty accurate. I like to discuss game tactics and such but every answer in this sub is pretty much "lift more faggot". OP I think you are blowing this out of proportion. Everyone has their weak moments and things are stressful for you. With that said you don't want to be crying in front of everyone every day but having a moment once in awhile is totally ok
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:14 AM
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That doesn't help me out. I ask a question, say the one above. Where am I going wrong and why can I not get a day 2? I would like an answer and not a knee jerk answer like read the sidebar. What is the point of this sub if the answer to everything is read the sidebar. I come her for specific advise for issues I am having. Where is the "sidebar" article that solves my dilemma? Is it not spending enough time with the girl, is it not escalating enough? is it not enough comfort? is the approach not …
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:03 AM
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I thought the same thing until I brought back a girl that is one of my friends girlfriends friends. Things where going good, we are making out on my bed and I lightly choke her. She stops, gets weird, and says she has to go walk her dog and proceeded to grab an uber and gtfo. ​ I probably should have waited until after I fucked her to do that.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:22 AM
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He offered to pick me up once from surgery, and then ghosted me for days. I figured it out by myself, and I continue to do so. Chemo, work, etc., I can do it on my own, and I don’t ask him for favors. This is why so many people refer to The Red Pill as a bunch of autistic guys. He is just being an ass. So many people misinterpret what is taught here. If he ghosted you for that reason this guy is a chump. ​ Fuck whatever philosophy he has. Go to him and tell him everything. Open up to him and be …
/r/askTRP15/06/19 09:41 PM
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There's nothing wrong with giving validation if it is deserved. Validation is currency to women. You give it to them when they act good, you take it away to punish them. ​ If a girl gave me a gift I would say thank you! I really like it or something along those lines and give her some affection. She gave you a gift without being asked to, she likes you and there's no reason to be weird about it. ​ Too many guys here try to be super alpha all the time and act weird. The reality is you need to hav…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 09:06 PM
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Why was your card deactivated? Is your family paying for your stuff? If so you need to make finding a job and being self sufficient a priority. Your family sounds toxic and controlling. You will be in a better place when you move away from them.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 08:32 AM
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Go big or go home. Don't fuck around. Get the number, not social media. Social media girls use for attention and validation. They have a ton of followers on there and even if she does add you it means jack shit. If you get her number she will know you are interested. Get a number, then ask her on a date. Don't fuck around. You want to get rejected or a date quickly so you are not wasting your time
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:41 AM
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I banged this girl back in the day and I literally told her to get in contact with me when she dumps the ex, I'd love to see her and have ghosted her since. I only see her around in social circle situations. Do you know what orbiting is or are you autistic? I literally give her no attention
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:31 AM
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I don't know if it makes a difference but I didn't mention that me and her had sex last year when her bf at the time split. They worked things out and got back together but they split again and since then I have been trying to get with her again. That's kind of what I figured. At the very least I should probably take a step back for a week or two
/r/askTRP20/05/19 09:56 PM
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Yeah I know. I'm not waiting around for her. I just keep wondering if she went back to him because they have history and she was still into him, especially since she was dumped or if I just am not that attractive. Thanks for the answer
/r/askTRP22/12/18 03:52 AM
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Possibly, and that does make sense. But friend girl told me the other girls supposed notch count. No way she wanted me to know that... Not the number she gave me
/r/askTRP05/12/18 09:51 PM
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Yeah girls can definitely be shady and manipulative. I see what you say about that and she has known her longer. But she has also told me things that there is no way that girl would want me to know. Like what her notch count is (it was actually pretty high... Lol)
/r/askTRP05/12/18 09:48 PM
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I don't think I came across as invested or infatuated with her. I think in person and text I was pretty cool. I didn't really get down about it all until I found out she went back to him and by that time we were no longer talking
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:22 PM
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I never apologized or acted needy. She has no idea I was pretty into her. One of my guy friends actually told me I wasn't giving her enough attention (I.e. I wouldn't text her much or replying her, etc). I don't remember us really talking about emotional stuff, we just kind of had fun when we hung out I could tell she wasn't over her ex. He dumped her, she didn't want the relationship to end. I doubt how good I fucked her would have made a difference.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:19 PM
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Thanks for your post, I think it's pretty accurate. I could tell she wasn't over her last relationship and I always thought in the back of my mind that if the guy came back she would go back to him. The first night I made out with her she literally told me that she likes me but doesn't want me to be a rebound. I think it's because this is probably the hottest girl I've been with and that's why I got too invested so quick. Thankfully I'm able to keep things together on the outside so she doesn't …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:11 PM
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She never told me why they broke up, a lot of this info I got from our mutual friend girl. I was about to go on a date with her, but we had had sex about a week before that. Thanks for the response
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:03 PM
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Yeah... Probably a bit of Oneitis if I'm honest. Her actions did say she liked me, especially in person until they didn't abruptly... Must have been when the ex came back. I'm not trying to use my friend as a go between, I tell her not to tell the girl I like anything we talk about. I hope I can trust her... She tells me stuff she doesn't want me telling others so hopefully she can keep things on the DL
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:05 AM
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I think it may be just that simple
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:19 AM
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Your negative points speak for how much you are full of shit
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:14 AM
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Dude, I love shaved pussy. Say what you want... But it looks way hotter than hair down there
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:15 AM
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You're right. My attitude is a mess. I keep thinking if she would have went back with the ex boyfriend if I had want on that date with her. But I'm sure she would have. He dumped her so he had all the power and they have history together. I feel like it would be hard to compete with that no matter how tight your game is
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:06 PM
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You didn't read my post. She did respond, she said oh yeah? Lol. Let me check my agenda. Then I didn't say anything for 10 days Look up what a natural is
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:15 PM
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Except my natural friend said the same thing. He's a guy with over 250+ notch count
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:12 PM
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I would have to if she had said "oh are you? Lol" I would have said yeah I am, my magic 8 ball told me so. But when she more or less said let me look at my schedule and get back to you I thought she was blowing me off
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:16 PM
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1 - how is shit this fucking complicated? God damn 2 - how is there so much disagreement on this? I feel like I'll never be able to get game down
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:14 PM
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Thanks man. I've been beating myself up all night thinking I fucked things up over a stupid mistake
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:01 AM
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Technically didn't double text. Her last text was the let me check my agenda one. I didn't respond to until today saying what are you up to.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 07:58 AM
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I thought the same thing.... But my natural friend said she was flirting. Our mutual friend said she wanted to hang out with me but I didn't respond. And this girl was totally into me in person. I don't know who to agree with anymore. I can't figure out this game
/r/askTRP30/11/18 07:41 AM
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I thought the same thing until our friend told me she wanted to see me. She has no reason to lie. But at least I'm not the only one who read that wrong
/r/askTRP30/11/18 07:38 AM
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Not her brother.... Her friends brother
/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:25 AM
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I appreciate any kind of advice I can get. But you clearly did not even take the time to read my post. We did bang once already.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:50 PM
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I get what you're saying.. I just don't want to be on friend zone... I didn't bang her before so of wanted her to know I'm not going to be a basic bitch this time
/r/askTRP18/08/18 05:12 AM
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Thanks. Probably no way to settle that all over text.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 05:50 AM
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The problem is it's never just sex with an ex. You will get attached and I grantee you will get your heart stepped on. You decided to dump her. Live with that decision and move on.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:15 AM
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Question for you. We ended up hooking up for 3 days straight. Everyday after a few drinks she would get sad or cry and say she wished we would have dated and she wishes she would have let me take her out. I asked why she didn't and she said she was afraid of commitment and she regrets that she didn't see where we could be. Is that saying she saw me as beta before and not now or could it be that the answer is really that simple? She obviously wanted a good fucking before she moved
/r/askTRP30/11/17 03:56 AM
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Yes sir
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:07 PM
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We fucked last night. After a couple drinks she pretty much threw herself at me
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:07 PM
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We fucked last night. So fuck you. Nice try though keyboard warrior
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:06 PM
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The bar
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:03 AM
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Thanks. She literally just came out and said she wanted to fuck. You are spot on
/r/askTRP27/11/17 04:48 AM
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Thanks for the answer
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:38 AM
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First time I've posted this question homie
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:22 AM
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So what's the point in this sub if you don't ask questions?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:22 AM
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I have a girl coming over to my place and I'm trying to ask if I should make a move on her or not. Has nothing to do with oneitis dipshit
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:01 AM
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Read my edit. Literally a week ago she said we can take things slow and that she had feelings for me. If that's the case she wouldn't have moved on so fast. Guess it doesn't matter now
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:11 PM
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About a month later she sent me a couple snaps and we talked a bit. She then drunk texted me and asked why I left her and why is she not good enough for me. I ignored and the next day she apologized and we texted a bit. We're supposed to hang out in a couple days. What does this mean for the relationship dynamic? Does this mean she is cool just hanging out and banging if she can't get a relationship out of me?
/r/askTRP26/05/17 02:41 AM
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I mean you will probably be OK if you did. I would use your own condoms with a spermacide on them to be safe. Just to make sure she isn't putting holes in them. But I am a paranoid motherfucker like you and I wear a condom and pull out. A lot of people think it's weird but I like playing that safe.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 10:37 PM
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