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This was a pivotal moment where I changed my pickme mindset. I used to think that because I am an independent woman, I should be pursuing someone instead of being passive. Reality is that every time I did this, I was a placeholder girlfriend. My ex stopped putting efforts, because I did all the task. Worst was when he didn't break up with me right away, just kept on treating me badly while keeping our relationship because it benefited him to keep me around. Men do not appreciate women that they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:29 PM
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This argument again. Here is from my(f) perspective, coming from personal experience. I don't think women should visibly pursue men(you can encourage him and make it easy for him to approach you, and ultimately him asking you out works on the contrary). I have approached guys before. No, they were not all 'chads, beyond my league' as most people assume. For instance, there was a guy who was very shy in my school, and I knew that he liked me, and I wanted to cut the BS so I pursued him. He was ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:03 PM
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I learned it in a hard way. I did 70/30(me 70) with my ex, supported him through school. I knew he was in student debt at the time, and I was working so I was okay with it. Whoever has money pays, as long as you love each other right? lol. I thought he would reward me later, once he is out of school. Well surprise surprise. He broke up with me shortly after he finished his school and got a job. Then I learned from a friend that he asked our mutual friend out and spoiled her with gifts and dinner…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:07 PM
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