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| 12 | Men should always assume a woman is not interested unless proven otherwiseThat's the problem. All these guys are trying desperately to find a systematic way to approach and seduce women that is absolutely risk free in terms of money, time, or ego. They are searching for a holy grail that doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthBecause real life/actionable dating advice is HARSH AND CRUEL AND NOT EASY! LOTS of successful men have tried. I've tried and got downvoted from hell. When I said something about the fact that when first starting out they can expect 8 rejections for every 2 successful approaches that lead to another interaction be it date or whatever. I was told I WAS THE PROBLEM because "men like me" were just shot gun approaching random women and creeping them out and making them hate men or something. As if t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthscooby do shit? How about this? If you introduce yourself to a woman and within the first 5 minutes or so if she isn't turning her body towards you, running her fingers through her hair, smiling at you and looking into your eyes when you are talking to her and is only answering your attempts to start convo with "yes", "no" or "maybe so" Guess what? She's not into you. Politely say you had a fun meeting them and leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 09:03 AM |
| 5 | Men should always assume a woman is not interested unless proven otherwiseSo you avert your eyes to the sidewalk when approaching a pretty woman I bet don't you? When you go to the grocery store you probably keep your eyes in some neutral space and off of any women that might be in there don't you? Bet you are terrified at making eye contact with a woman in general because your mind tells you she'll be terrified of you, or think you are a creep? Well guess what? That's why you feel the way you do. I don't care what any woman thinks about me. If she finds me creepy, I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menYou manifest your own reality and if you go out and just assume that none of the women in the venue you are at read TwoXChromsomes/Teen Vogue/Feministing and bash men men all day. Guess what? You'll discover that they really don't! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:47 AM |
| 6 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeSCREW WHAT WOMAN ON REDDIT/ONLINE SAY WHAT THEY WANT! If they record you and post it on their tiktok. That isn't going to make you infamous or untouchable or a social pariah unless you live in a small town where everyone knows everyone. I don't care what society says or what women online complain about. That's th eproblem with all you young people. You grew up in a world where the online feels like real life. But it really isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:34 AM |
| 4 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeWell duh. There really isn't a lot anyone can do for men who are conventionally unattractive. They'll have to find their own happiness that doesn't involve venting their frustrations on subreddits when more successful men try to discuss the mating rituals of our modern society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegelol No. Actually you introduce yourself and talk for awhile first and if she seems receptive to your advances THEN you offer her the drink. and guess what? It still works today. "They took a look around them, internalized it, and realized what time it was" I translated this in my head "They got rejected a couple times and felt ugly so went online and started sucking down red pill rhetoric online that promised to make them better with women and developed a crappy attitude and gave up." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menPublic discourse here on reddit affects no one's real life behavior. I guarantee it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:17 AM |
| 5 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menYou're responding to guys who if they are lucky get 1 or 2, maybe 3 shots a year. In their mind they can't afford to lose even one or it could be a year before they get another shot. Being rejected even once leaves them crippled with feelings of inferiority and ugliness for weeks or months on end. For a man who gets to shoot a dozen shots a month. He can afford to lose 2-3-4 shots in a row or even whether a dry spell of several months easily. But for a guy who only might have a chance to get lai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menNah.. women do it to men as well. This is the NORM for a dating culture now. Get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for men#2 is what a parent should be doing. From the moment I was old enough to enter a bar legally, my mother took me out and introduced me to women and coached me on how to score with them. It made her proud to see her son hook up with hot girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menYeah but that problem is a 4 out of 10 these days is 200 lbs and has 3 kids of 3 different races by 3 different daddies and works at the Waffle House 3rd shift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for men" when guys do it, they're abhorrent fuckbois and manchildren. " I don't get this. WHERE IN YOUR LIFE is there is a real live female you know who would judge you like this personally and then tell you to your face? Why do you care what women on the internet might think if you are abhorrent? They can't effect your dating life and why do you take the random spewing of internet feminists so personally? I'm a middle aged man who dates/hooks up with all kinds of women of all ages and if I worried abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: Why is being “clingy” seen as a bad thing for men and womenBut no man is THAT strong.. not many anyway. I know a lot of players and I guarantee you not even they are capable, 24/7 of keeping their "guard up" and constantly analyzing the social situation between them and their girlfriend so they can walk this fine line between "not enough" and "too much". At SOME point a man HAS to be able to let loose and feel SECURE. What you suggest is impossible to maintain longer than a few months-year or two for most men. What you are saying is a man can never rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women.As far as I'm concerned. Random internet red pillers who have almost zero experience flirting with women, learning the subtle signs of attraction in a woman, etc.. have no business expressing an opinion on any method other men may choose to use to meet women. You don't know anything about cold approaching and have probably never seen it properly done in your life. Why do you have this qualifier "if your trying to get a genuine relationship"... hate to tell you buddy. Sex comes first, the relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:26 AM |
| 0 | romantic relationship is a privilege not a right, i think understand that would solve a lot of issues between men and womenThere is no help for the bitter, angry soul like that except through his own getting sick of being that way and taking active and radical steps to alter his lifestyle in a way that is more conducive to gaining those privileges and enduring every psychological agony and torture it takes to achieve said privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:01 AM |
| 0 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menMeh.. it depends on the woman. I'm pushing 50 now but I still occassionally get to hook up with women in their early to mid 20's. It is what it is. Being in a relationship is not better than being single for a lot of men. One day I'll meet a woman in her 40's who isn't hung up on her recent divorce or happy "having it all" except for a regular man in her life. But until then, if I have the body and the attractive personality younger women are willing to tolerate for a night's fun I see nothing w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives?As one. I hate that PUA's are lumped in with red pill. We were doing our thing long before the red pill was even a thought and as a man very, very experienced with female psychology and playing it to my advantage. I see Red Pill is as just a few PUA techniques and ideas cribbed onto an ideology that is definitely not in touch with actual reality in the field IRL. If you are actually in the field, 3-4 nights a week and have talked to hundreds if not thousands of women. You swiftly realize that mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 03:50 AM |
| -1 | Shitty Bluepill dating advice creates entitlement, not Redpill talking pointsThe "solution" to the problem most men have is very f'in simple. They grew up on Call of Duty or Anime or whatever garbage the internet spewed at them. All the while being raised by helicopter parents who never let them out of the house without a specific reason, destination, etc. Very few are social and the simple fact is if you do not have much of a social life. If all your human interaction is done at work and you then come home, pet your dog/cat and put on your headset and grab the controlle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Age gap relationships end in divorceI guarantee you an average looking male between the ages of 40-50 years old who is in shape, well dressed, well groomed and well spoken who is brave enough to approach consistently, confidently and in good faith can routinely attract women between 25-30 years old. It happens all over the place every day. I'm actually out there in the bars/clubs 4 days a week consistently and I know what I'm seeing and experiencing and it isn't anything like many jaded denizens of this sub think. I'd kill to have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Autistic men struggle to hide their keenness/attraction and this puts people off.My heart goes out to autistic people, but especially men. As a man with mild ADHD symptoms who is constantly struggling to consciously control is various social tics when out in public. I can empathize a bit with them. The problem is there is no real systematized way to conduct a social situation. Some things are predictable. You can predict an initial approach and opener. But beyond that it's down to random chance because this isn't a Chat AI you are talking to but a smart, vibrant person of qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 11:19 PM |
| – | I don’t understand the notion about men waiting until their thirties to be successful financially as well as at their “peak” and then date women in their upper teens or early twenties who are in their “peak”"They never clued in and they will spend many miserable years chasing something they can never have.." Utter BS. I'm 3 1/2 years out from my last relationship and I'm now 46. My ex was 13 years my junior. I'm currently FWB with 2 girls, one 29 the other 30. I've had random hookups with girls as young as 25. None of these girls are sugar babies. I pay for dates but nothing really fancy. No expensive dinners, no fancy vacations, no extravagant gifts. I'm very good at finding reasonably priced date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 10:20 PM |
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