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| 33 | When you know what you want but don't know how to get there | DISCUSSION | beastyeast12 | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 08:15 PM |
| 22 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matter | DISCUSSION | beastyeast12 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 08:55 PM |
| 10 | How to stfu? | ADVICE | beastyeast12 | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/17 05:09 AM |
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| 2 | I feel like I should know by now whether I want kids?Yeah, true. She should definitely be aware of that. Go to your doctor and shit, obviously. Know the risks. I'm just using an extreme example to make a point. Life isn't as black and white as TRP makes it. Hell, if you have money you can have a surrogate. You can adopt. They may not seem ideal now or to everyone, but there are options. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/17 05:06 AM |
| 1 | "I know"Great point! I think this is a good idea to use with all people, not just one's SO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/17 04:47 PM |
| 23 | I feel like I should know by now whether I want kids?I'm a little younger, so I don't think about it as much. However, I totally get how you feel. I love RPW, but my opinion may not be a popular one. I'll give it to you anyway. I had super loving parents, and my mom sacrificed her career and everything else to be a mom. She has her flaws like any other human, but she is an amazing, smart and driven woman. I tell her about my worries about going to med school, and how I won't be able to have children when i'm young because i'll be so busy. Having k… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/17 04:37 PM |
| 2 | SMV And The Importance Of VettingYeah you're right. It has definitely opened my eyes up to the way things actually are, and I'm very glad I stumbled upon this sub reddit. I really enjoy RPW as well because it does a good job of explaining how to be a good woman. It's cool you talk to your LTR about it! I was always sort of the socially awkward book worm in high school, so I was never exposed to any of this until college. However, it is very disappointing to go on dates and have guys try to bone you immediately. Even when I alwa… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/17 08:26 PM |
| 1 | SMV And The Importance Of VettingAnd sorry if I came off like that. Sometimes when I read TRP stuff I just get so angry because its my gender ya know? But its probably why I should stop reading it in the first place. It's just strangely addicting.. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 02:50 AM |
| 3 | SMV And The Importance Of VettingGood post. I know girls aren't supposed to be on here, but I'm just writing this so anyone who reads can be a little less disillusioned with the entire world. Not every girl will fuck a guy just because he has high SMV. Yeah, most girls will and all have the capacity to do so, but I know girls who don't. Personally, I have a pretty low n-count and have been single for quite some time now and have been hit on by attractive, rich guys and even though I want to sometimes (not gonna lie), I don't ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 02:30 AM |
| 1 | finally figured out how to apply alpha/beta framework to my lifeI'm happy for you! That sounds nice...I'm from the deep south and am surrounded by mostly white guys to be honest. Hopefully, i'll get to move out of this place soon eventually. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/17 08:03 PM |
| – | finally figured out how to apply alpha/beta framework to my lifeomg you are me...where the hell do you find guys like this i'm beginning to feel like it will never happen | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/17 07:49 PM |
| 3 | I find pleasure in talking to lots of different guys - having 1 LTR often makes me miserable and brings out my insecurities - is RPW not for me?Girl you're gonna be fine..While some stuff on RPW is true, if you simply act like a decent person and not a stuck naggy bitch most people will like you. Same with TRP..Obviously a guy who doesn't put pussy on a pedestal, works out, takes care of himself and is confident will attract women.. It is a broad idea that makes sense, the nuances are up to you to decide. Its your life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/17 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How to stfu?lol nah | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/17 10:45 PM |
| 2 | How to stfu?I just realized apologizing/backtracking/explaining myself too much are my main problems.. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How to stfu?Aw thanks! I hope | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/17 03:51 PM |
| 2 | How to stfu?I do need to start doing this! Was it hard for you to hold back your temper until you got a chance to write stuff down? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | On my best behavior.Love this! I agree that gentleness comes from a place of love not a lack of backbone. Theres a difference between being a doormat and being a loving human. I think often the problem is that some girls (or people in general) just think they know everything and never step back to truly listen and empathsize. I try to remind myself I can be independent, opinionated, intelligent yet caring, compassionate, and gentle. The traits aren't mutually exclusive! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/17 04:32 AM |
| 1 | When you know what you want but don't know how to get thereIf you're starting with the very basics try out Duolingo. Its an app that I have been using to learn Spanish, but there are a bunch of different languages you can choose from. You can set a daily goal. Mine is like 10 minutes a day, but you can definitely do more than that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/17 07:51 PM |
| 2 | When you know what you want but don't know how to get thereYes! Small, defined goals rather than super broad ones. I like this a lot. Thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/17 12:09 AM |
| 4 | When you know what you want but don't know how to get thereThis is awesome. I need to do this! I'm the same way with guys. Its not hard for me to act on them, but I definitely miss having someone there to cuddle and also miss having sex..I usually just tell myself that i'll be way happier with myself if I do wait for the right person because it will be that much more special. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 10:19 PM |
| 6 | When you know what you want but don't know how to get thereI agree with this. I have also noticed writing a "goal list" and crossing them off when you're done helps. Even if its super mundane things like doing laundry, it makes you feel way more accomplished and likely to repeat the action. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 08:38 PM |
| 2 | When you know what you want but don't know how to get thereGreat point! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/17 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterYeah you're right. I do think many of my blockages come from insecurity. How did you begin to overcome them? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 06:59 AM |
| 5 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterYeah good point. I mainly just wanted women that read the sub who feel insecure not to let the whole ideology saturate their minds completely. Yes, there are inherent truths in RP. However, you should not let them make you feel like crap. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterAgain, let me repeat for the 106th time that i'm not saying that the facts about SMV and sexual strategy given by TRP is not reality. Thats the whole reason I read this sub in the first place. I am not saying that I am some special unicorn. I am not saying I am not going to get old and that my SMV is not going to decrease. I am not saying that constant self improvement and treating your SO with respect and care are not necessary. I am simply stating that things are often so general and overly dr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterYou're the one that is perpetuating the idea that there is only a couple of options....I'm trying to argue that that's simply not true. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 06:47 AM |
| 9 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matter"Comfortable lies" that is sooooooo dramatic. We all agree that modern feminism is making women entitled and disillusioned. But there is a difference between telling a woman she has no inherent value beyond her tight 23 year old vagina and telling her she deserves a perfect 10 Chad that makes 6 digits and will never cheat on her even if she gets fat. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 06:31 AM |
| -1 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterOk lol? This is so intense and unnecessary, but you're the reason I hate this sub. I can't wait for "reality to hit me." Thanks for the luck! I will need it once I hit the old ripe age of 25. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterBut exactly this is what I respect. I like that you gave me real and constructive criticism without chastising me by telling me that men would dislike me because I like to smoke joint every now and then. I do not think I should keep the habit up, but it really did teach me how to chill out and see the bigger picture at certain points in my life. I don't recommend it or think its necessary, however. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterYeah you're definitely right. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterYes to all of this! Ideally, I would love to see more posts about how to add traditional dynamics into a relationship in order to improve that relationship. Not to constantly be told I need to marry young or i'll end up with a beta because i'm a post wall hag. We already know men want you to be hot and how your SMV falls over time. But I want to learn how to improve myself and how to be a better human being in general. I want to learn about how to support my partner so that he can improve as wel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterYes, but being aware of things like that help you avoid being sucked into those roles. Some other person in this thread commented that I think I "naturally" have RP virtues. I'm literally admitting that I did not. I do see many beneficial aspects to this sub. I appreciate the helpful things I have learned. However, I have not seen many quality posts in RPW lately. You can absolutely argue that my post doesn't add anything either, but even in the comment section you can see why there is inherentl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterNo, thats not what i'm trying to say. But you have a right to your opinion | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 04:33 AM |
| 6 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterI'm not saying evolutionary biology does not explain things. Of course you're supposed to want kids when your biological clock is ticking...But all of human behavior cannot be reduced to evolutionary biology | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterNo I appreciate it, thank you! I absolutely agree with you that men come in different flavours! Its not either some pushover who will let you walk all over him or a douchebag who cheats on you and always "maintains frame." My ex cried in front of me before, and I can assure you, it made me love him even more. Different strokes for different folks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterI wanted a discussion and did find much value in some of the comments actually :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterNo. Guess i'm even more opinionated sober. I meant in a social settings. This is more of a journal of thoughts because its anonymous on the internet. I don't go around talking about this crap to the general population. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterLol ok | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterYeah I agree with you, but many posts I have come across are exactly what you stated, "narrowly-defined self improvement." | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 11:16 PM |
| 4 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterMaybe I should have but i'm glad a couple of girls in this thread said that it helped them to discuss this. I'm not saying you shouldn't improve...that doesn't even make sense | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 11:10 PM |
| 7 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterWhy even make that comment? Not only does it add absolutely nothing to this conversation, but you have not even slightly tried to see a point of view other than your own. I get what you're saying. I'm not advocating all women to run around and make out and fuck anything with a pulse. I'm just saying that it seems reasonable to me to chill out a little bit. I will do me. You do you, bruh. If I die of a brain tumor at age 27 i'll be very happy I got to be a "slut" and made out with some cute guys … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 11:02 PM |
| 4 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterIdk what this is supposed to mean? Sarcasm? Any woman would be lucky... Does that mean that he is spinning plates right now because he knows this? Possibly. But he was kind to me and didn't push me at all. He was a decent human being, and I appreciated it. Would I have had boned him had he not been decent to me? No...it would have just made me upset and made him a douchebag. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 10:57 PM |
| 4 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterI agree! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterOmg...y'all are killing me. Again, whether you believe me or not, I don't do that on the reg... It happened a couple times when I was younger. They were cute, and I don't regret it. I haven't even kissed another guy since me and my ex broke up around 5 months ago. I have improved in many ways, and I'm very proud of myself for not running to some other guy because I felt truly lonely and devastated after the break up (was due to long distance). | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterYes exactly! This is basically a more eloquent TL;DR of my post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 10:21 PM |
| -1 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterBy that logic every post on TRP and RPW is hamstering lol. I'm looking too much into a sexual strategy? Yeah.... But yeah I agree with you on the self-improvement. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 10:17 PM |
| 10 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterThat may be true, but thats one of few reasons I appreciate RPW. It makes you aware of things like that. You can avoid being that girl by being self aware and realizing that you aren't a princess that deserves only the best. RPW is humbling, and I respect that. Many times I talk to girls that are my age, and I can tell what kind of woman they will grow up to be because they lack awareness. Too self absorbed to see beyond themselves... I was guilty of that before RPW. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 10:14 PM |
| 14 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterI don't deny any of those facts. You don't think that I realize i'm going to get old and my beauty will fade? You don't think seeing 18 year olds on social media that are better looking than me in every way doesn't make me obsess about my own SMV? Why do you think i've kept my n count low? I know it will only benefit me. Yet I know women who have a stable family and achieved it with a low n count that are on anti-depressants. The world isn't as black and white as this sub makes it out to be. I a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterLol I said I enjoy alcohol. It doesn't mean I'm an alcoholic. Again, how are you going to make that incredibly broad generalization and give me advice based on an assumption? The last time I had a drunken make out was 2 years ago in New Orleans with this really cool guy. I'm sure he wanted to go further, but we ended up talking about our goals and aspirations for like 30 minutes. According to TRP he was a beta male and I lead him on. He wasn't. He was attractive and smart and had a lot going for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterI love this so much! It is exactly the response I was hoping for. Thank you kind stranger | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 09:53 PM |
| 11 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterOk? My whole point in writing this is that its ok if your personality is not completely in line with everyone else in RPW. You can pick and choose what you like and apply that to your life, yet not feel inadequate that you aren't a "perfect woman." You're not fucked for life if you've hit the Wall at 35 and have an SMV of blah blah blah | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterI'm talking about having a random drunk make out session college. Not with someone who wants to date you, obviously. If they know you just want to make out for a minute and not have sex, its not leading anyone on. I'm not saying get shit faced and make out with every male specimen. I'm saying its ok to do it a couple of times in your life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Why I can never be an RPW but why it doesn't matterNo.... I understand it completely. Its just crazy to me the extent that TRP relies on broad generalizations. Everything is linked back to evolutionary biology...Its not how the brain works, nor does it dictate all interactions and all people. Its a good tool and it holds a lot of truth, but its not the end all be all that everyone makes it on this sub. You cannot reduce everything to evolutionary biology. Its absolutely nuts. Feminism may be the new extreme but TRP is no different. I'm not tryin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/17 09:40 PM |
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