beatfungus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	receding hair line and dont feel attractive Have you approached any girls as of last month?	/r/seduction	15/09/25 01:18 AM
3	Girls are being approached less than you might think I live in Manhattan, so it can happen frequently enough where a girl I'm chatting up is actually some very popular comedian or actress. I'm not meeting Beyonce or anything, but privacy becomes an asset to those who are recognized on the street by strangers.	/r/seduction	12/09/25 02:00 PM
2	I wish I knew how to flirt better- "but I genuinely do feel like if we’re watching anime I don’t wanna cuddle more or something like that" This does not make sense. Watching something together is prime cuddle opportunity.	/r/seduction	12/09/25 06:24 AM
1	I wish I knew how to flirt better- "Hey I can't hear you, but I love it when our lips are so close to each other. Want to step outside with me?"	/r/seduction	12/09/25 06:22 AM
1	I have no success in nightclubs? If you really wanted more one night stands and kisses (and were used to it enough to know that's what you want), your body language would be more confident. And you're right, nobody can really say why someone else is succeeding and you're not. Heck, even they wouldn't know if you asked them. That's not important at all. What is important is that you're going back out there and turning the scary things into fun things.	/r/seduction	12/09/25 03:40 AM
14	Girls are being approached less than you might think Amen to that. Most guys, even the tatted confident looking ones, don't actually have that much game. They get nervous just like any other person. To paraphrase what Ronny Chieng said: "I love how people who didn't go to school automatically think that makes them street smart. No, it's possible to be book dumb and street dumb." Flirting is a skill, just like negotiation, sales, programming, you name it. I don't know why we as a society continue to labor under the delusion that it is not subject t…	/r/seduction	11/09/25 04:08 PM
8	Girls are being approached less than you might think And? Statistically most of them are (more broke, less educated, uglier, less her type, whatever excuse you need) than you are. Have confidence. You know what my excuse is for flirting with celebrities? "They don't want more stress from another celebrity. I can offer them a respite from the public eye that their fellow co-star can't."	/r/seduction	11/09/25 04:04 PM
2	I wish I knew how to flirt better- You had her earlier at least twice. Opportunity 1: You probably could have slept with her after "you're cute" and "that's my wig." The "I left early cuz i was tired" could have easily been sleeping at her place. Opportunity 2: "We eventually hung out on time; nothing sexual happened — just talking, draw, and general chill vibes." I do not know why nothing sexual happened. Kissing or making out is the "standard range" of what you should probably be doing after you and her were making so much effo…	/r/seduction	11/09/25 03:58 PM
1	The Right Kind of Vibe Agreed. A smile is a smile. Even if you "mess up" a smile, you make up for it with conversation. Game is not about "never messing up" every little detail. It's about knowing things are dynamic, yet still creating a good time for you and the girl(s) you're engaging.	/r/seduction	11/09/25 03:50 PM
1	I have no success in nightclubs? I went to a club my first time when I was 23 as well. I had a lot of limiting beliefs, and it seems you have them too. I can identify at least 3 limiting beliefs from this comment alone. 1) You associate the club as a place to approach women (false, you can approach women nearly anywhere in any context). 2) approaching women is scary to you (acceptable, but you will soon need to get over this or learn how to love the adrenaline rush that accompanies each approach). 3) You desire one-night stands…	/r/seduction	11/09/25 03:46 PM
1	I have no success in nightclubs? Not to downplay or disagree with you, but I sincerely doubt that this is possible, unless you don't meet any women, or you live within a very small and narrowly minded community. If you and I walked down any part of a U.S. town with decent foot traffic and just smiled at every woman that we ran into at a CVS, bus stop, or supermarket, some of them will return your smile, and you'll find that some may even smile at you before you do. Contrary to some beliefs, girls do enjoy smiling at men and wom…	/r/seduction	11/09/25 03:40 PM
1	I have no success in nightclubs? Look them in the eye, smile. If she smiles back, then you extend your hand out. She'll either take it or not. It's going to feel nervewracking, and you will face rejection statistically. But some girls will return your smile, take your hand, and even teach you how to lead them. Just muscle through the fears in your mind.	/r/seduction	10/09/25 09:45 PM
1	I have no success in nightclubs? All of them, every single time? Impossible. Make clearer, unbroken eye contact, hold your hand out to spin her around, take her hand.	/r/seduction	09/09/25 11:40 PM
1	I have no success in nightclubs? "they just dance with them and the kiss comes." And you already wrote the answer yourself. Just start dancing with them. The nightclub environment favors the bold. The loud music is not there for you to talk.	/r/seduction	09/09/25 02:11 AM
2	What's with girls telling me they're busy? They're conditionally busy for the unattractive version of you. I've stopped girls talking with their friend on facetime, or on their way to catch a train. Girls will give you a chance, but you have to keep them interested, like toddlers who laugh when you jiggle the keys.	/r/seduction	09/09/25 12:31 AM
1	Why do women randomly ghost lol Then that's a tool too. I go up to girls on the subway with "can I ask you a question?", "do you think people fall into patterns of futile efforts?", [doesn't matter what she says, just that she doesn't shy away from me and is interested in dialog]. "well I noticed you scrolling through what is likely 100 or 1000 likes on Hinge. Firstly, it's a subway, so you're not gonna have reception. Secondly, what do you hope to accomplish with an app that is financially motivated to keep you lonely with gu…	/r/seduction	09/09/25 12:06 AM
2	Why do women randomly ghost lol Correct, but distribution matters too. If we follow that Genghis distribution, then she's stuck in a recurring pattern of talking to or sleeping with guys who won't commit to her or are otherwise not desirable to her. She's always looking "for more." Right now, she's getting the same type of "options" over and over. If she thinks you "break the mold", then you rise to the top of her mind.	/r/seduction	08/09/25 11:58 PM
1	Why do women randomly ghost lol Do "you send a playful message to re-engage." Yep! You've got it. Just something light. Match her (non)-effort with a simple: "hey trouble", or "I didn't know you were into that sort of thing." This is also why Instagram is nice. You can use context more efficiently. You can also invite her out to events you're doing anyway and if/when she doesn't turn up, post a picture/story of you and some girl you met. It's all about the intrigue. As you've probably discovered, it's almost better to have her…	/r/seduction	08/09/25 11:54 PM
1	How can I approach a girl in a club that has a group of friends and isn’t willing to roll away alone? What do you mean by "get a specific girl"? Do you mean you have a type? Or is this some mutual friend you've been pining for? Either way, you should grant yourself permission to "fail" because rejection is a normal experience for all humans (men especially). As far as the best way to start the conversation, there's plenty of advice on good openers. I personally like to use immediate context. It doesn't even have to be fancy. For example: "Hi, I noticed you looked at that wall for a while" or "Yo…	/r/seduction	07/09/25 11:53 PM
1	Cold Approach Will SAVE YOU. The places that make you feel the most uncomfortable. I do the subway twice a day (the train and the station), the street about three times a day, 1-2 retail employees, girls sitting at restaurants, etc. I also recommend trying to talk to the girls in "oh I shouldn't talk to her" situations. For example, if they are on the phone, or appear to be running towards something. My personal favorite is when they are walking with their mom (the mom often makes better decisions for her, and will quickly …	/r/seduction	07/09/25 10:32 AM
1	Cold Approach Will SAVE YOU. "It's truly not complicated" is the only part I disagree with. It looks easy, but we all know that if someone is making something look easy, they're probably very well-practiced. By your own words, "it took a solid year and a half before I started seeing any type of consistent results." The version of you at 17 months was not the same version of you at 1 month. Like any other skill, this is going to take a lot of time, a lot of messing up, a lot of "maybe it's just not meant for me" moments, and…	/r/seduction	07/09/25 10:15 AM
2	How can I approach a girl in a club that has a group of friends and isn’t willing to roll away alone? If there are guys in the group, begin by introducing yourself to the guys. Learn from them what the purpose of the party is (whose birthday is it, whose going away party, graduation, etc.). One of the guys will usually be chill enough to tell you who is okay to hit on and may even make the introduction for you. It is your job to identify this guy expeditiously. If all the guys are hostile to you, this is a sign that some of them are friendzoned guys. Go to the next paragraph (treat this like a g…	/r/seduction	07/09/25 10:03 AM