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| 1 | How important is being lean enough in these days for dating and confidenceBeing lean makes you seem nicer, dominant, disciplined, and it's attractive. A leaner face is tons more photogenic. | /r/seduction | 16/08/26 07:24 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I’m not taken seriously>and like I am baby face and like short and they are like taller with like big boobs And *like* you sound *like* a bitch. Seriously, stop using filler words. That's your first assignment for seduction school - filler words are not attractive, matter of fact they are the opposite. | /r/seduction | 16/08/26 07:10 PM |
| 8 | Choose A or B: Is The Seduction, Dating & Mating “Endgame” For You Personally (A) Marriage And Kids, Or (B) Endless Bachelorhood And New P🙀ssy?Did you mean quality over quantity? | /r/seduction | 16/08/26 07:01 PM |
| 20 | How many dates will you go on before you give up trying to smash?Romanticizing the "relationship material girl" and waiting for her to open her legs for you, meanwhile she lives a lifestyle that would make you shit a brick. Work mon-sat, club with friends, sniff blow in bathrooms, fuck a stranger, then back to business as usual. And then there's you, texting her and giving her an anchor of normalcy. Not saying it's always the case. I am saying you do yourself no favors idealizing a woman and waiting for sex. | /r/seduction | 16/08/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | A girl with a boyfriendAttention is oxygen to these hoes. This is what the guy friends can get away with these days. If I were you, I'd have left the second she took sex off the table. It's not your problem to keep her loyal to her BF. Just do not ever try to be in a relationship with a girl who's cheating with you, or anyone else. You'd be effectively communicating that this behavior is OK. | /r/seduction | 16/08/26 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Day 1 of cold approaching 10 women a day till i get a girlfriendI'm going to go out on a limb and say that being direct at first is perfectly fine. I would suggest that over trying to be subtle when starting out. It's definitely newb move. Sooner than later, with more experience, he'll know how to make implications and read emotions. | /r/seduction | 13/08/26 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Looks from girlsI would disregard it. I've slept with high IOI girls who just won't look at me over half the time. I don't believe women are super visually stimulated by men. They have to be both extremely good looking and have high status to get intense attention. | /r/seduction | 13/08/26 01:15 PM |
| 1 | tell me your experiences, how to go to having sex after getting the number?If you give it to her, you just wait for her to ping you, Then you get her out of the house somewhere. If you got hers, remind her of who you are, where you met My usual date routine goes "There you are!" Offer her a greeting hug, then just make conversation as I lead her through the destination. The next piece of the sex puzzle is touch. You must be comfortable touching people, but not abrasively, forcefully, or excessively. There are socially normal moments where touch is warranted, and the in… | /r/seduction | 11/08/26 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Scarcity mindset versus catching opportunityOverthinking. You don't have a female doppleganger in the thousands. All you need is charm. This is seduction, not relationships. You don't need to say you have an abundance of women. Lying to yourself creates dissonance. What you do have it 7 billion opportunities. That's abundant as fuck. | /r/seduction | 11/08/26 12:00 AM |
| -2 | Is anyone too successful that all women put a lot of effort in the relationship and consider him a husband material ?Success with women and their desire to wed you do not correlate. Often times, their interest in you is expressed one way and thought of in another. More than meets the eye, or less. You may be inflating your sense of worth to the opposite sex in relation to a woman who has shown you heavy IOI's. I would almostt guarantee it. | /r/seduction | 10/08/26 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Guys who went from years of casual dating to a serious relationship, how did you make the switch?There's no "Switch", really. You make the choice to be exclusive, that simple. There's pros and cons. Pro, consistent sex. Con, need to maintain attraction. You can't stop spitting game just because she's your girlfriend, there was never a finish line. You also have to account for her periods and ovulation cycle. You could view that as a pro, too, but becoming complacent is all too easy in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 11:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you go from a 28 year old hardcore gaming introvert to a man who's outgoing, confident, charismatic, whitty and actually receives interest from women?Embrace discomfort and take risks. Go out by yourself to bars/clubs and introduce yourself to people, men and women. I'll just go up to a couple wall-flower bros and be *Waddup gang, how's it?* Most men are plenty receptive to random conversation. Matter of fact, you're likelier to find guy's looking to meet other dudes as well - non-homosexually. It's day and night compared to women. Starting your night by collecting bro's will boost your status as well. If almost everyone there knows your face… | /r/seduction | 03/08/26 02:46 PM |
| 1 | I am confused"Ok" And then walk out. Go home. Don't hit her up unless she's calling you back to dick her down. | /r/seduction | 01/08/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How to exit her frame in dating app textingLol she's just trying to add you to her following. "Nah Don't have it, 605-555-0000." Holding frame is just doing what you intend to do, doing what you say you'll do, and not letting pressure change your course. | /r/seduction | 01/08/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I find you cute - doesn't work anymoreSays you. I'm speaking about real world experience, you don't understand why I said you were sharing an anecdote - that must be because you were toting information you heard online, not speaking from experience. >You cant just say hi my name is, because psychologically it doesnt do xyz and wyx, you cant just tuv. Go talk to a girl, and do it like a normal person. That's the trick, here. You dont NEED a gimmick. You're literally arguing with me about a fuckin GREETING. A simple introduction, minu… | /r/seduction | 01/08/26 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Neediness Is Okay In Long Term Relationships - Strong Independence Can Lead To BreakupsYou're swapping attraction for neediness, then. Neediness, independence, those are 2 extremes. You don't need to be needy when you set expectations and she meets them. The only caveat is you have to be someone she respects. Neediness doesn't get respect, even though it tends to demand it. With women, they operate paradoxically. Less needy, more attractive, the more respect. The more respect and attraction, the more she wants to be with you. If she wants to be with you - you can set expectations. | /r/seduction | 01/08/26 01:15 PM |
| 1 | I find you cute - doesn't work anymoreAssuming rapport is basic social skills 101, actually. Have you never heard "Talk to them like you're already great friends"? | /r/seduction | 01/08/26 06:46 AM |
| 1 | I find you cute - doesn't work anymoreYou shared an anecdote that said exactly that. An introduction is an introduction. You don;t lean on it to have psychological power - aside from displaying confidence - and leading with your name instead of asking theirs is called DHV - Display of higher value. (for solid inner game, you should be convinced that you are superior because you are a man, ancestorally connected to past warriors, pussy slayers, and value/security providers) Confident introduction, and then you could make a comment on… | /r/seduction | 01/08/26 06:37 AM |
| 4 | How to get out of victim mentality and the limiting belief that I will never get a girlfriend in my country, how do I stop feeling sorry and the negativityMove out of Sweden. That is your best bet as a person who goes against the Swedish norm of being a cold cunt. *Acceptance of a negative emotion or experience is, paradoxically, a positive experience.* Learn to accept and love yourself. Get to truly know yourself and treat yourself better than you will ever treat a woman. Write down your fears, your desires, your goals, what drives you forward. You romanticize the idea of having a girlfriend. Yes, the honeymoon phase is real and it feels fantasti… | /r/seduction | 31/07/26 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Only reading tyler durden blueprint is enough to study pua theory?I just watched Fight Club for the first time the other day. What's your intention, to form an army of women you date and erase the national debt? | /r/seduction | 31/07/26 02:10 PM |
| 1 | When I look at these dating coaches I see typical white or black guysFocus on what you can control. You can control your appearance. If you have a shit hairline, grow a beard - keep it trim - and go bald. If you aren't lifting weights, get on it ASAP. If you want to smell better, grab this Amazon.com : Armaf Club De Nuit Intense for Men Eau de Parfum Spray, 6.8 Ounce / 200 ml : Beauty & Personal Care Own a few pairs of jeans, black t-shirts, and some jewelry. A watch and a necklace, nothing too crazy. Nice jewelry sets you apart from average guys on the street. N… | /r/seduction | 31/07/26 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Could you explain to me the difference between interesting and emotional conversation and casual one?Use emotional words. I love, I feel, that feels, I sense. "I love it when I get those butterfly senses everytime I see some hot buns... on a plate. Mmm I'm feeling hungry, bet you'd love a juicy burger made by yours truly." | /r/seduction | 31/07/26 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Field Report + FindingsIt's just a mental trick. No problem | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 12:35 PM |
| 2 | This is my final post.Help meYou said there was a group you wanted to chat with that had a pretty girl in it, not necessarily indirect approach. You can directly approach them and talk about work or tell them something you heard. Self amusement could come in handy. Say something unexpected to them and throw them off. | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 12:35 PM |
| 1 | I find you cute - doesn't work anymoreThat's you. If you're being rejected 10/10 times with a normal introduction, the scope is beyond that. Perhaps you're skipping Step 1. Be attractive. | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid time wasters?"Is this aligning with my goal?" If no, leave. If yes, stay. Try the kiss twice, if she doesn't take an interest - Move on. | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Best Book for Confidence With Women?It's called "Get chewed TF up and spat out a man" by Life Lifingson | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 12:26 AM |
| 1 | People here ..what do you think about women who tease and low key roast you?It's called "Shit testing" and there's a whole encyclopedia on it since the dawn of the wifi. Go find it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Field Report + FindingsAt the end of the day, if you're going to approach a girl just envision yourself as the super alpha chad and stand up straight. Embody it and then approach. Don't give yourself a few seconds to let doubt seep in. | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I find you cute - doesn't work anymore"Hey, thought you seemed nice. I'm _____" Easy as that. | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 12:22 AM |
| 2 | This is my final post.Help meThe trick is, the education is IN the sets. Saying "hi with confidence" is *that* alpha shit. Just don't go all oogly eyed, drooling all over their feet. "Hey, thought you seemed cool. I'm mr.definitelynotdesperateAF. You?" | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 12:20 AM |
| 2 | 50+ approaches done but approach anxiety keeps coming back. why?That intense feeliing you get about approaching can be interpreted as excitement. View it as such and you'll feel better about it. | /r/seduction | 29/07/26 02:27 PM |
| 1 | how to stop letting money psych you out?Avoid the internet women, they chase clout and money. There are normal hoes out here. I'm broke as hell right now and have been having great luck lately. If you can, get a job as a bouncer at a club or bar. Guarantee the baristas have some friends you can meet. | /r/seduction | 29/07/26 12:56 PM |
| 2 | 50+ approaches done but approach anxiety keeps coming back. why?>Anxiety Excitement. | /r/seduction | 29/07/26 12:53 PM |
| 2 | I’m confident talking to women. I just need a “conversation, escalation and maintenance framework” to follow.If you're one on one with a girl, you can always shoot for the palm reading. It breaks the touch barrier. Tell her to place her hand palm up into yours, then use your free hand to trace her palm. This shit is ASMR, and gives them a little tingle up their back. It's exciting, shes wondering what youre going to say. If you're feeling ballsy, say "Oooh many orgasm in yo futchaaa" -.- Or tell her "Ah, full moon sigil. going to have a lucky night ;)" | /r/seduction | 29/07/26 12:50 PM |
| 1 | How to stop obsessing/thinking about a particular girlThe trick to stopping a feeling is to embrace it. When you fight anxiety, you're paradoxically more anxious. There's nothing wrong with liking one particular girl, there is a problem if you don't embrace the concept of her promiscuity - especially in 2026. Perhaps, you're a quality over quantity type of guy. I am myself, I don't care to juggle 6 girls. 2 at a time is fine for my harem. If I feel great about a girl, I just embrace and observe it realistically. I don't bar myself from sex with oth… | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Real talk how do you approach 10s in places with competition?You start with not trying to "show" anything. Do you want to go talk to them? Go talk to them. You don't need a reason. Start with the basics and compliment their nails, ask a question, if they don't feel you then that's their loss. Just starting a conversation with a hot women for the hell of it will send you ahead, and you'll start doing it more until you have one in bed with you. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 10:37 AM |
| 23 | What is your go to line when wanting hookup?Talking, kino (touching), eye contact, kiss her. I'll take her hand and lead her back to my place. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | How to make women feel the "spark" for you?We call it tingles and you should look good, smell good, and just be confident. Don't worry about what she feels. Worry about if you're going to make a move or wuss out. A single act of courage (I.e kino -> kiss) is enough to make her like you. If you focus on "making her like you" You're not your mental point of origin. Be your center of mass and make your decisions based on what you want, and feel. Not her. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 01:39 AM |
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