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| 19 | Eye opening vacationThis would be a good test for a new man you want to get serious with. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 04:24 PM |
| 31 | If only FDS existed a decade ago…Yup. I feel this. Just hit 40 and I wish I could have that time back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:46 AM |
| 27 | When they show themselves in the second message…. Boy bye."Oh what kind of "other" activity?" Make him explain it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:56 AM |
| 80 | Textbook Terrible V-DayYou know it takes weeks to get a flat tire changed in this economy! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:30 AM |
| 61 | Textbook Terrible V-DayTruth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:28 AM |
| 140 | Textbook Terrible V-DayHe doesn't even pay attention to her enough to know she has been avoiding sugar! Like wtf man! Men are supposed to be "the superior sex" with "bigger brains" and all that bullshit but this fool can't even think of something besides the tired, boring, assorted chocolates women get for Valentine's day every year. I hope she follows her friends advice and takes the hints he is giving that he's just not that into her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:28 AM |
| 15 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himI agree with the response and honestly I find the tradition of smearing each other with cake to be tacky, degrading, and waste of a good cake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 12 | red flag: "I can't cook"If he can't cook he also probably has a shitty diet and doesn't take care of himself in other ways too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:43 PM |
| 5 | I'm so tired of seeing 'demisexual' tossed around like it's some sort of aberrant practice when really, it's just HEALTHY to want trust & a connection with intimate partners.Yes this!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 4 | I'm so tired of seeing 'demisexual' tossed around like it's some sort of aberrant practice when really, it's just HEALTHY to want trust & a connection with intimate partners.I am right there with you. I also hate the fact that we have to have special terms for all this stuff. It's exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.I had an ex that didn't brush his teeth...ever. 😬🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.This is my mom and dad right now..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 10:24 PM |
| 39 | men's responses to your job/career situation is a quick, easy way to vetI don't get many sexual comments about my career (chemist in pharmaceuticals), but I do get the following: •Some sort of making meth or other illegal drug comment or that I have access to the "good" stuff. Like ha ha ha you are SO funny and clever!!! I've only heard that a million times, and yes I could make meth but I don't!!! •A comment about how I must be just so smart. Also heard this a million times from lots of people not just guys. I just brush this off as it is less infuriating than the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 02:13 PM |
| 3 | "The fact real women have their own motivations IS A REAL TURNOFF"Men threatened by my motivation and independence are a real turn off. 🖕 Good, be turned off. Bye 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:00 PM |
| 21 | Yet another example of emotional abuse when girls under 20 get groomed and marry older men with significant age gaps. This husband threatens to cheat when he doesn’t get what he wants with his young wife. They have 2 kids…Came here to say this! That is so gross of him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:25 PM |
| 65 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.God and they accuse us of being wordy! And the only one "experiencing hallucinosis" is him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 03:41 PM |
| 6 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 03:49 PM |
| 8 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Why haven't I had kids yet? Why did you have them? 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ No thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 03:47 PM |
| 3 | I salute this woman who built a fence. Good job lady.I'm sure she would need a man to make her a sandwich or cold drink while she's working 😏 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:56 AM |
| 52 | An old but good one on “forgetting the wallet” and restaurants.Agreed. Total shit test. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:07 AM |
| 42 | and that’s on periodtSame. My ex gave me an ultimatum about how I should get on the pill or he would leave. I laughed in his face. Then begged me to beg him to get a vasectomy. I was like its your body if you want one go get one. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 01:12 AM |
| 24 | and that’s on periodtI frequent that sub and a few others. Mostly people are cool and supportive but some people are so very bitter and mean. I think it stems from childfree people not being able to say they don't want kids without 1001 invasive questions about "why don't you want a baybeeeeee how could you not?" Doesn't make it right but I can see where they are coming from. The body shaming is very gross and those people should be ashamed. I don't ask people with kids why would you do that in the same condescening… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 01:09 AM |
| 35 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeMine loved to cook and dinner was always ready when I got home but he absolutely trashed the kitchen EVERY time he made something. I'm talking used all the spoons and shit. Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 11:32 PM |
| 21 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeLadies if you listen to nothing else listen to this piece of advice. I could have a doctorate now or be doing something amazing but my ZVM ex ruined my life (or I let him 🤔). Now I'm putting the pieces back together and trying to just move forward! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Eye Opening.I agree with this but also when I say I'm not like other girls it's usually to fight assumptions like all of us want kids or like makeup or dresses or whatever. I kind of see it as a way of saying don't make assumptions based on my sex because we are all different. I never thought of it as a way to cut other women down but I can see how it can be taken that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:55 AM |
| 6 | A Totally Innocent Not At All Sexual in Any Way Papaya Eating Contest at 5:10Oh my...😳😳😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:06 AM |
| 7 | I see your lovely dudes and raise you.... Charlie Hunnam in literally any formHoly shit that suit photo... 🌶🌶🌶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:52 AM |
| 147 | A Woman's TouchThat's all my ex left with and he didn't even have a gaming system, just trash bags of clothes. Tried to take my duffel bag and I was like, no dude that's mine. Why don't you take your big hunting duffel bag? Oh yeah, that's right, you don't want to because you left it outside to get filthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:00 AM |
| 10 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’Yes please do me a favor and fucking avoid me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:03 PM |
| 30 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsScrotes be scrotin' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:36 PM |
| 20 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsYes we should be able to work together on a project without fighting and he shouldn't feel bad or intimidated if I know more about something than he does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:36 PM |
| 10 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsSo much this. If you don't know something these days it's no excuse to not go out and find the information when nearly all of us walk around with a computer in our pockets. It's so self defeatist and a total turn off to not even try. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 27 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂I want to see a compilation of some of the things they say. Not because I care, but because I need a laugh now and then! 🤣🤣🤣👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 42 | Gaslighters typically begins gradually, with a snide comment or critical remark disguised as a joke. They may then deny having said or done something, tell blatant lies and eventually wear down your sanity. The more aware you are of their techniques, the better you can protect yourself."Your emotions are your responsibility." Also apparently his emotions were MY responsibility too. 🤦♀️🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:00 PM |
| 2 | I have no words. Don’t incentivise unwanted behaviour! You shouldn’t need to give more of yourself to get the bare minimum back? I AM SO ANGRY.Once all of the stuff in the article is happening, don't you think the love is already gone?! I get that people want to be hopeful but to just keep putting in all this effort for no change is like banging your head against the wall. It's over cut your losses! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:46 PM |
| 144 | As of October 2020, 55% of men say they are satisfied with household labor division, compared with 38% of women. 74% of mothers say they do more to manage their children’s schedules and activities than their spouse or partner; only 3% say their husband does more of this.Of course 55% of men are happy with the division of labor. They're married to the 74% of women who manage the majority of things. The remaining 45% of men that are not happy probably want to do less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:54 PM |
| 9 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 1: LITTERALLY ANYTHING ELSE > MENSo much this. If I could redo my late teens/early 20s I would and I would not be in a serious relationship with a man. I am currently undoing and paying for those things that I neglected during that time. It wasn't worth it and it is probably harder now that I am older. There is PLENTY of time for men when you are settled in your career. Frankly there is too much emphasis on young ladies finding a partner and getting married/having a family in high school both back when I was there and now in 20… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 03:23 PM |
| 9 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastMy ex used to get mad when I came home and cleaned (because he wouldn't) It was always spend time with meeeeeeeeee! We at least had a bed though. Run girl run! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 129 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckExactly, you can trust him all you want that doesn't mean he won't die, leave for someone else, lose his job, ect. Shit happens and things don't stay the same forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:57 AM |
| 67 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:This is absolutely spot on. I've had trouble with this aspect of FDS because I'm financially independent and I don't NEED him to pay my way, but that's not the point. The point is to see if he will put 100% forth without effort on my part. It's a perfect metephor for how the relationship will go just like you said. 👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:56 PM |
| 16 | Came across this today I have no wordsWhy would they, they don't clean anything else! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 09:25 PM |
| 33 | Came across this today I have no wordsFor real, gonna be firing off wristers for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:36 PM |
| 56 | Came across this today I have no wordsWow my ideal man would also have no body functions (no burping and farting yay!), he would be sterile and free of STDs, no hair where it shouldn't be, and he would smell nice all the time and keep up his hygiene! See we can reduce them in the same way they reduce us!!! This literally doesn't even make me angry it makes me sad he is so pathetic. Grow the fuck up. Fact check scrotes you're animals too!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:34 PM |
| 12 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it. That probably wouldn't convince me but it might help other women on the fence. Modern women should be able to have family and career without killing themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:19 PM |
| 49 | Scrotes mad! How dare we value our time and peace. Have you been blocking and deleting people more since you've learned about FDS?There's a big difference between being passionate and being a dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 7 | Saw This On FB and Loved It, Thought You Queens Would Enjoy It.Thank you I forgot how cool Cher was/is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 02:24 PM |
| 24 | Sexism in MedicineQueue looking for a new Dr. This is just unacceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:18 PM |
| 142 | Sexism in MedicineWell if we are sick we can't do all the cooking, cleaning, and childcare!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:17 PM |
| 5 | If he doesn't prioritize you, he's worthless, booThis is just common courtesy, bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:27 PM |
| 9 | Dear men, we don’t give two shits what you want. Signed, A real womanGood thing caring about what this asshole wants isn't at the top of my list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Only an LVM would be intimidated about your career goals. Focus on gettin the bag sistersHaha that's going to sting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Don’t ask me if I can cook unless you’re prepared to replace my brakes and do an oil change on my car.Yes! You sound like me. I'm not good with my car or gardening yet but I know my way around a toolbox! I plan on learning a bunch of typical "man" things so I don't need anyone. I think being self sufficient is the only way I will ever really have good self esteem because I won't constantly be looking for someone else to fill that need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:42 PM |
| 48 | The cesspool of online dating is pure male delusion, really dude???Exactly. You expect me to respond to your horrible selfies with your greasy camera lens when you're wearing your gross stained uniform from your fast food job? No thanks. Do these guys think these pictures really look good? Ugh self awareness is at an all time low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | No more playing their mommy, therapist or bangmaid. Drop that manchild!Oh don't be sorry that was more sarcasm than anything. My ex still thinks he did nothing wrong so that's why I said that. Bottom line, they always know they're doing wrong whether they admit it or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 05:09 PM |
| 23 | Please never compromise your education and career for a guyI wish my dad had said something like that to me but I doubt I would have listened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Please never compromise your education and career for a guyI am you except I was 19 and now am almost 40. I finished my degree but hurt my career by living where he wanted to because "cOmProMiSe." I always wonder what I'd be doing now if I had just stayed single or at least not allowed our relationship to get so serious so quickly. Looking backwards isn't really helping me though so now I'm trying to focus on what I can do moving forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | No more playing their mommy, therapist or bangmaid. Drop that manchild!At least he sees the error in his ways (kinda). The ex just make me out to be The Worst Person EverTM but all our friends know better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:11 PM |
| 27 | No more playing their mommy, therapist or bangmaid. Drop that manchild!Agreed. They always suddenly want to work it out when you're done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Maybe one day they will get itIn my opinion those women got what they deserved. How dare you silence other women to get ahead. We should be helping each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 10:40 AM |
| 31 | Maybe one day they will get itI also thought of The Handmaid's Tale when I read this. Serena thinks she is valued and above punishment when she is seen by the men as just as worthless as any other woman in Gilead. The men see them all as a problem to be dealt with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:41 AM |
| 15 | Romcoms may have tried to twist our perception of healthy relationships but this lady schools all nice guys into thinking otherwise.(To her new date that just treated her to an amazing night out) Hey I know of a park where this dude plays piano. It would be so romantic...🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:57 AM |
| 11 | Food For ThoughtYour post made me think about the past year after my breakup and all I've accomplished: Bought a house and I am in the process of furnishing it with stuff that is MINE that I chose MYSELF. Cleared up my acne. This is the first time I've had consistently clear skin in I don't know how long. I actually have an emergency fund. Went to a therapist who helped me change my thinking patterns. Everyone says I'm really different now. Completed a 15hr drive all by myself. Taught myself how to cook real fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Food For ThoughtWow this sounds amazing! I am talking to a derm about a weird looking freckle soon (can never be too careful) and I plan on bringing up my acne scaring on my chin and asking him what we can do about it. I've had bad acne since I was a teenager and I finally got it under control but my chin is a real source of insecurity for me. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:40 AM |
| 11 | "I think the golden rule for men should be: If you're a man, don't say anything to a woman that you wouldn't want a man to say to you." There, fixed it. Location doesn't matter. #WomenArePeopleToo #WomenArePeopleNotResourcesYeah I think so and I think he genuinely never thought about it before because he is a big guy himself. I think for a lot of guys they just don't even think of it in these terms. It's not a thing they deal with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:01 PM |
| 112 | "I think the golden rule for men should be: If you're a man, don't say anything to a woman that you wouldn't want a man to say to you." There, fixed it. Location doesn't matter. #WomenArePeopleToo #WomenArePeopleNotResourcesThis is how I explained to a male friend of mine how women feel about men they don't know. I said imagine a man 2x-3x your size coming on to you and you don't want that attention but you are too weak to fight them off. The look on his face when he realized. I felt like I really got through to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:53 PM |
| 11 | Do you trust him to take care of things?This is exactly what I want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:00 PM |
| 4 | *internal screaming, forever*Oh. my. god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:02 PM |
| 17 | Omg Sis, you are so lucky! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 #blessedhunYeah picking up after a grown man tends to make me tired.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Another cautionary tale of the dangers of choosing a LVM: they will not hesitate to hurt you to sexually please themselves, even when you might be literally dyingYes you dumbass, you are an asshole. This would be like, if he got dick cancer and they cut it off and his wife saying, why didn't you get a bigger one? Wait silly me he would just get a bigger one anyway. Still a dumbass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:48 PM |
| 42 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesThis is my #1 reason. I don't want to wreck my body for some asshole who begs for kids and then does nothing. I've seen it many times. I don't even want kids bad enough to go through all that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Let’s call out scrotes more often, publicly!Omg yesss 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 97 | How I teach men not to talk over me: from one queen to another, when basic respect is lagging and conversations are impossibleAs a scientist, I'm familiar with this. The only time I will engage like OP said is in a professional environment. If I have to keep advocating to speak in my personal life I am done talking to that person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏Or the girls that were seeing teachers?! Yuck. I've done some dumb things but even I knew that was fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:05 PM |
| 23 | 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it’s this seriousYes!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:39 PM |
| 3 | This subreddit helped me leave my bf of 5 years the other day! Thank you:)For real. It's cramping my style. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:22 PM |
| 2 | This subreddit helped me leave my bf of 5 years the other day! Thank you:)Tap into that feeling of relief when you are lonely or miss him or whatever. It's a year out for me and I still have days when I am so lonely. When those times happen (today is one of them) I just ask myself if I would go back to that for the companionship (no, it's not worth it) and it does help. I have so much peace in my life now. 🕊❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 6 | Tell me one thing she said wrong👍 Men should be icing on the cake. Your life should already be fabulous without them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:25 PM |
| 8 | This subreddit helped me leave my bf of 5 years the other day! Thank you:)Congrats! You are going to be so much better off. 👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Never put yourself down for your past choice in menReplace it with "For No One" "She wakes up, she makes up, she takes her time and doesn't feel she has to hurry. She no longer needs you." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:41 PM |
| 29 | Never put yourself down for your past choice in menThis, Queen, this. I hear you so much. 17 years for me. I stayed for companionship, love, ect. He stayed to use me. I am moving my life forward too. I'll be closing on a new house in 10 days. I could never have done this with him still around. 👑👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 22 | Never put yourself down for your past choice in menI also feel like a mega fool for wasting so much time, energy, and youth on some dbag. All the signs were there I just refused to take off my rose colored glasses. I try to make myself feel better by being nice to myself and re-working my negative self talk. "I was so stupid," becomes "You were young and didn't know any better," ect. I've been reading into Stoicism also and this has helped. "Worry about things you can control," I could not control how my ex acted so I do not need to worry about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?For REAL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 43 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?Men want children but most don't want to do any of the work. A lot of relationships I've seen are really imbalanced in this respect. I think this has had a big impact on my child free status. I'll be damned if I'm going to be stuck with a kid I barely want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:12 PM |
| 4 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Ok prostitutes are guaranteed. Just because you buy me dinner is not a garantee. Therefore Me =/= prostitute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Ladies! Here I present psycho fiancé version 3.5.8 who tried to cut his future wife’s birth control insert out of her arm using Box cutters while she was fast asleep.No. Just no. Why is leaving even a question? The question should be "Who can I stay with????" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣Same. He requested I go to therapy and said he would too. Instead of it "fixing" me, it backfired on him and gave me the tools I needed to leave. Also: "If I am so horrible, why are you still with me?" His reaction: 😯😲🤡 Exactly, mother fucker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:56 PM |
| 16 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣It will get better. I found it helpful to study something, start a project ect. It kept my mind busy and gave me something else to focus on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Make it make sense! Most of these LVM don’t have any “gold” anyways 😂Fools gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 39 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣How dare you have expectations!!! /s I wish I could upvote this a million times. The same thing happened to me. He did all the cooking but never cleaned up after himself or took responsibility for anything. It was always someone else's fault. I started pushing for more like don't leave your trash around and start helping with the cleaning more because I worked all the time and felt it was the least he could do. Instead of just stepping up and doing a few small things his behavior just got worse … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | LVM Example Part 3I have an idea, how about he use his 98 IQ to read your profile! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:51 PM |
| 6 | LVM exampleMatt ya dipshit, location is on the profile for Bumble. facepalm Goodbyeeeee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Age, job, education, mattress statusI scrutinize the shit out of the background of photos on dating apps for this reason and more. It's amazing what people will take pictures in front of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:30 PM |
| 12 | Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace.They get so sure of themselves don't they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:41 PM |
| 30 | Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace.I second this. I was not ready to leave when the man I was seeing for several years suddenly became a different person. I made myself ready and left anyway. I am now struggling with l, "If someone can change after several years do you really know anyone at all." You don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:29 PM |
| 112 | Elite vibes 👸I love the look she gives to the camera, "I don't need that shit." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:03 PM |
| 31 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?This. I used to feel kind of bad like there was something wrong with me or that I was a prude because I don't see the interest or really 'get' porn. I had kind of a "It's not for me" attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:03 AM |
| 11 | Am I TA for leaving my wife because she can’t be my incubator? 🤨I saw this. I can't believe his hypothetical family is more important to him than his wife who exists now. I can understand being upset about the cards you are dealt but he seems to be upset with her that she wanted to wait on kids. I hope she leaves him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 33 | High standards are a form of self-careMy therapist told me this too. She said be assertive and stick to your boundaries. This alone has improved my self esteem loads. Also she told me people's actions are really about them, not about you as a person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:41 PM |
| 3 | I am officially deleting all my dating apps. This is the second time in two days that shit like this has happened to me. FUCK MEN!Yikes dude! That shows a total lack of ability to plan. What else will he need assistance in figuring out. I saw your update post....good move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:04 PM |
| 78 | Don't get it twisted, you're a Queen.Because that's easier than stepping up and fixing yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 6 | They want women with low self-esteem so they can be manipulated easierThat guy is a dickhead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:36 PM |
| 47 | The lie misogynists tell about female/male happinesHaha nice! All the guys my age look 50!!! I look like I'm 30. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:23 PM |
| 61 | The lie misogynists tell about female/male happinesAs a lady in her late 30s you aren't giving me much hope! 😂😂😂😂 Maybe I just need to look at younger dudes! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:12 PM |
| -15 | LVM and their livesr/womenwritingmen 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 04:44 PM |
| 6 | Take mixed signals as a no.It's so hard to stay out of that trap. Not sure what it is that makes my mind do gymnastics to make the evidence fit the story I want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 12:25 PM |
| 12 | Take mixed signals as a no.I needed this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 12:59 AM |
| 2 | "When was your last relationship+why did it end?"Haha trash took itself out! It might be helpful to keep a note somewhere you can copy from if you feel yourself fumbling to send a message. Glad I could help! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | "When was your last relationship+why did it end?"Oooo l like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 01:05 AM |
| 4 | "When was your last relationship+why did it end?"So sorry you went through all that. It's boundary setting time and this is a good place to start. I know it can be hard. I would say: "My last relationship ended about a year ago. We just wanted different things in life." I like this because it gives an opening to talk about what we both want. If he pushed for more information, I would state that that is all I feel like sharing and I have put it behind me. I really can't think of any other details that would be beneficial for him to know at an e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 01:03 AM |
| 6 | Interesting considering they need us more than we need them. 🤷♀️ And dick is a dime a dozen.I had to explain the difference to my (male) co-workers. I prefer to go by Ms because my marital staus is really no ones business. Also to me, "miss" is a young unmarried woman and I consider myself to be neither. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:26 PM |
| 11 | I feel so bad for this girl. I hope she finds us.Oh man yeah I feel this. I tell myself a lot that its "just chemicals." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Best thing I never hadWhew! Dodged a bullet there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | It is emotionally and mentally draining. Never again.Is she too busy to make plans? Does she cancel and not reschedule? I'm all about giving people leeway because we can all have busy lives and I realize I may not always be the top priority. However, observe how she is treating others. Is she too busy for them also? She may actually be busy. Does she schedule things with others all the time but not with you? I made another post about about a situation that I am dealing with that is similar and the discrepancies I've noticed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:20 PM |
| 4 | It is emotionally and mentally draining. Never again.Low effort in general. I have/had this friend where we would go out about 1x per month and sit and have coffee and talk for a few hours. We would send each other texts, snaps ect. Then I started getting excuses. I'm busy, I don't have time to send snaps, not returning texts at all ect. No effort coming from her side to reschedule, text back ect. However I see her on Facebook posting stuff, posting things to her snap stories, I see her on social media out doing things. So she is not too busy to t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:15 PM |
| 29 | My personal dating strategyI had this realization the other day. Why do I need to be spending my time on men. Isn't there better shit for me to concentrate on? YES! They will come to me because I am so awesome so I don't really have to try. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Why What He Spends MattersThanks for this post it's making more sense to me now! My thoughts have always been: "I don't need his money I can pay my own way." That way he has no right to demand anything in return, sex or otherwise from me. BUT, he doesn't have the right to demand anything from me regardless if he pays or not! I'm not looking for a provider because I don't plan on having a family. However, I do want an equal partner who pulls their own weight and I see now that this is the way to find out if he will actual… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:28 PM |
| 18 | Praise!Yes this exactly. I wish someone had just said this to me 20 years ago. Who knows if I would have listened though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Thank you FDS! I found a HVM and I'm very very happy! I never believed it could be possible for me to love myself.I'm in the same boat feeling the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Thank you FDS! I found a HVM and I'm very very happy! I never believed it could be possible for me to love myself.Caps in general are hard working, honest, and loyal. We can be cold or brutally honest. I don't know about the guys but I am a capricorn and those traits definitely fit me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Thank you FDS! I found a HVM and I'm very very happy! I never believed it could be possible for me to love myself.So happy for you! I want this so much but I have some more work to do on myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | This is the kind of man “Castle Doctrine” laws were put in place forHell yeah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?See also: the rise of the beard. Men don’t understand a poorly maintained beard doesn’t make you look like a pirate/a Viking/Jason Momoa. More like a homeless Santa or a dirty wizard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | anddd... blocked!!!You dodged a bullet sis! Well done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | anddd... blocked!!!So how many threats of deleting your number is he gonna give? Do it already she isn't begging. Ugh such a lame low effort attempt. The self deprecating, pathetic, "poor me" attitude is gross too. Gag. I dealt with that shit for years. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 12:39 AM |
| 30 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandYeah it's really no longer necessary. I don't plan on changing mine now. Maybe when I was younger, but I've had this name for 38 years and I'm not changing it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:58 PM |
| 6 | This sub is turning into a LVM hall of fameI disect, but only to understand and increase my ability to see and avoid the behavior. Then, I turn my attention to myself and improve my value internally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Man has rare self aware moment he has nothing to offer womenUgh and that defeatist attitude. You're not even gonna try to become better??? LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Sis, If You Have to Write A Whole Essay Here To Ask Us Whether He is Playing You and You Should Move On...Yes! My mom doesn't even have to see me she can hear it in my voice. Also if it feels wrong/suspicious/weird/ whatever it probably is. You don't have to know why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:52 AM |
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