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Looks like it's time to evolve your paradigm. I recommend that you keep at it with the self-improvement and keep digging deeper with your whys. Why do you want to attract women? Why does sex feel good to you? Why do you try to do anything at all? And so on.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 05:07 PM
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AWALT is only "bleak" because you haven't truly reached acceptance yet (the end of DABDA). Once you truly accept this, it will not invoke any negative emotions. It just is.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 10:43 PM
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This seems reactionary and over-compensating. Your overall uneasiness, and her (and her circle's) reaction indicate this. This zero-tolerance, all-or-nothing, knee-jerk, nuclear approach seems like the default redditor response found in /r/relationship_advice, except TRP fueled. Remember "Cut Contact, Delete Facebook, Hit Gym"? It lacks nuance.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:54 AM
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To everyone saying that others are "white-knighting" and justifying her actions, please consider DABDA: Denial: "She has a right to find happiness!" (true white knight) Anger: "She's a whore! She's to blame!" (to whom this is addressed) Bargaining: "Maybe if I keep improving myself, I'll find the one unicorn that won't cheat on me!" Depression: "Holy shit, this is hopeless..." Acceptance: "All women are like this, and that's ok." (what you think is white-knighting) Take solace in the fact that y…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:06 AM
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TRP had seen it coming before it even happened. This is what you should expect from a woman when you don't handle your own shit. Even if you are the billionaire-body-builder-apex-alpha-Chad, this can still happen. Bitter pill to swallow, but once you accept that AWALT, then you can proceed with the rest of your life. Those who find that this behavior is unacceptable, or don't prioritize women/sex over other endeavors, may go MGTOW. The rest will have to find ways to navigate this landscape the b…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 02:23 AM
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If you starve a dog and then drop a steak in front of it, would you blame it for devouring the steak? Are we here to console the fallen, or are we here to provide actual help? Blaming her may or may not be "correct", but it provides no value either way.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 02:13 AM
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not white-knighting, AWALT
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 02:07 AM
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the vapid nature of most college girls This is a bitter way to approach the dating scene. You're already setting yourself up for failure with this attitude. Try to find the good in people (not limited to just girls). Interactions will will be smoother and more pleasant. When you get better at showing sincere appreciation towards people, more people will want to be around you. This is part of the "abundance" that you should be seeking to create. full attention on self-improvement for a while This…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:43 AM
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This feels too good to be true. Red pill circle jerk material. OP didn't even try to win any favors from her audience. Regardless, it's still a good story and a good example of stoicism.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 12:57 AM
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Don't follow them. Lead the way. Walk in first. Make sure your clothes fit well. Untucked, off-the-rack dress shirts tend to run a little long. Pay the short guy tax by going to the tailor. Have a commanding presence: stand/sit up straight, open body language, loud voice, take up space, slower movement, strategic pauses in speech.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:40 PM
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Kevin Hart has more than compensated for his height through his talent and his career, giving him a lot more freedom to deal with his insecurities. The video gives you something to aspire to, but realize that he'd worked hard to get there.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:26 PM
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When you assume others' opinions of you, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Assume negative opinions: you grow insecure, your body language starts closing in, your voice tapers off... contraction. Assume positive opinions: confidence grows, open arms, open mouth, life of the party... expansion.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 09:34 AM
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When you give up your frame, you give the other party room to air out whatever irrational, emotional turbulence that they have bottled up. This applies to any heated interaction, from CEO to girlfriend to toddler to mob of SJWs. Imagine how your alpha male role model would've handled it. Would he angrily argue back? Would he back down and meekly comply? A frame battle is not won by offense or defense, but by stoic standoff (paraphrased this video).
/r/askTRP24/06/16 03:49 PM
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lol trying to fix the sink when the house is on fire
/r/askTRP24/06/16 06:12 AM
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I only see a couple mentions of "holding frame" in this thread, which is a little disappointing, since this is r/AskTRP, not r/TwoXChromosomes. He handled the interaction poorly by falling into the security guard's frame. The further he relinquished control, the more irate the guard became. Sound familiar? I'm not here to eviscerate OP, but this is one obvious area of improvement that many here have left on the table, and instead opted to pat him on the back for whining until he got his petty re…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 02:43 AM
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Quick tip to reestablish frame: a calm pause before responding. It minimizes your reactiveness, and demonstrates that you answer on your own time, not his. I typically apply this in the early stages of an interaction; don't do it for every response unless you want to seem try-hard, socially inept, and/or slow in the head.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 02:29 AM
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