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Escalation & Calibrationbeaumande/r/seduction10/02/20 02:27 PM
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Field Reportbeaumande/r/seduction25/02/20 07:15 PM
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To be fair, me being self-righteous does not better my chances at all. So you think it is a good strategy? To pretend youre something youre not to get one one stands? We both know not getting any one night stands has nothing to do with putting only one night stands in your bio or not, but everything with how attractive you are.
/r/seduction23/12/20 01:20 PM
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Well, than become that personality (more). You allready know what is he like right?
/r/seduction23/12/20 12:55 PM
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I think you should only sweet talk a women after mutual attraction is established. Else it will make her barf in her mouth.
/r/seduction23/12/20 12:54 PM
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Funny thing is, the timing your text thing is pretending to be not needy. If you answer immediatly, you create an image of someone just waiting by their phone. So instead of pretending to be someone who is not constantly waiting by their phone, become someone who actually has a ljfe and is not waiting by their phone.
/r/seduction23/12/20 12:52 PM
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So you just lie about everything? How about change the things you feel are undesirable. It is pretty deplorable to get a one night stand by pretending to be interested in a long term relationship. It is also a lie, allmost no one is only interested in one night stands... . Women want kids okay? When 30 comes around time starts to run out, so they dont want to waste every 2 3 months getting to know guys and cycling them. Is it their own problem? For sure, they had a decade where they hoed their w…
/r/seduction23/12/20 12:47 PM
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100% this. If you feel good about yourself, chatting up girls becomes easy. For some reason you are happy and you just want to laugh, joke and do not give a fuck. You are 100% out of your head and into the moment. The opposite is when you are down. You hate your job, you hate you still live at home, you have nu fun i the weekends, you dont even know what you find fun, you are burried in this hour long monologue in your head, the idea of chatting up a person mortifies you, because you do not want…
/r/seduction19/07/20 05:52 PM
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I think we fully agree on this
/r/seduction16/02/20 04:58 PM
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I have only read models and how to win friends and influence people. Models is really great for eyeopeners and detecting some fundamental flaws on your character, you maybe do not notice because you do not have a birds eye view of your life, eg you think the way you are is the norm because you are most familiar with. Especially about being high value and not needy and showing high value does not equate body builder or loaded with cash, which lots of guys assume. One thing to remember is that how…
/r/seduction16/02/20 04:56 PM
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Just my 2 cents, I dated, had casual sex and relationships with 6s, 7s and 8s, maybe a 9, but on Tinder I mostly get no matches and an occassional match with a 1, 2 or 3. But it is hard to calibrate because IRL I have little succes either atm. The kind of pictures and profile text matters a lot. I changed some photos and added some text, to better my profile, but instead I got even less matches, like significantly less
/r/seduction16/02/20 12:41 PM
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I said to a black girl once that I wanted to stuff my face in her big black ass, ofcourse this wasnt out of the blue and we had been dancing and chatting and this were heating up. She liked it.
/r/seduction16/02/20 12:30 PM
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I would fuck you for half a minute and than Ill cum.
/r/seduction16/02/20 12:27 PM
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I have no problem chatting anyone up, I do it al the time, strangers, colleagues, cashiers, w/e. But when I am out, at a bar, my mind runs dry..., the pressure is enourmess and I have this idea I should have anecdotes about everything, so lioe she says I like fish I have to say o wow last summer I went swordfish fishing in the carribean, no no I like gold fish, oh yes last month I went to see the worlds biggers fish container, actually a buddy of mine runs the place and I helped count the blabla…
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:27 PM
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Thanks for the heads up buddy, so basically keep it low key and keep her in the dark a little, not showing all your cards right away. Well at least now I know why this girl from work is probing me on and off for the last half year. When she joined, from the first chat I had, I knew she ticked my boxes, but I knew it couldnt be, because younger, intern, colleague and me not in the right place. So basically I decided to just totally ignore her, just politely saying Hi. Ever since she is trying to …
/r/seduction10/02/20 07:19 PM
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Yes we are allready friends on LinkedIn, I was thinking along those lines also. Allthough I read in the book models that dates during the day leads to female friends, proposing something else like drinks in the evening or a real date seems way to needy and premeditated. My guess it should be message, meet up casual, and during for instance the coffee try to polarize and set up a real date? Escalating during coffee seems really hard...
/r/seduction10/02/20 03:51 PM
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Well, that is some good advice, but I am especially concerned with the approach.
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:56 PM
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I think you did pretty well, you did polarize all of them, which is the most important thing, to bad they werent interested. In number one I should make up my mind whether I want to hook up with her or want to be friends. If you want to hook up, I would just politely refuse translating her hookups, saying something like I am really not interested in your hook ups, you should take care of that yourself.
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:51 PM
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