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Not even 2yrs ago
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:15 PM
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I did this after a bad divorce. No money, no place to live, but a bit of savings and a STEM degree. Came to NY and went to the social services office. They gave me 3mo of food stamps and a place to stay for close to free for 3mo as well as a little starter job (at a low wage, but hey, its money). Once I got a good job and on my feet, smooth sailing.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:26 AM
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this one still stings
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:34 AM
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That last sentence is case in point. The first crazed accusation I got was "you must have found someone else". To which I just said "no, I just don't want you." The idea that a fairly high-value woman could not be wanted spins their hamsters into overdrive.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:05 AM
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I did this with my last LTR. She had gotten increasingly disrespectful and bratty and I just called her up and calmly ended it without any fight or explanation. She still hits me up for "clarity" over her disbelief 8mo later. The female ego is fragile.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:53 AM
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I miss being blissfully ignorant and believing the lies women tell. I've got a great plate right now who I'll likely upgrade soon who loves to just stare at me and tell me I'm gorgeous and special. Blue pull me would have loved it... now? Lets be real.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:18 AM
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You’re 100% correct. The entire time we were dating I looked past a million things because she was good looking and I thought I needed to be compliant to keep her around. That’s fully my fuck up
/r/askTRP01/10/18 07:13 PM
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Right. My plates don’t usually know I’m divorced, but When they do I leave it at that with little detail. I started seeing a therapist a couple weeks ago at the advice of some men here. I’m sure I’ve made no progress yet, but I’m going to stay at it
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:25 PM
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Stop hit the nail on the head with my view of my ex. I’m going to take some time and reflect on where I put myself in relation to women.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:22 PM
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Ex gf flew from Manchester to NY to knock on my door after I nexted her without giving her a reason.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:20 PM
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34, hasn't hit wall (lol), stripper, "traditional family", needy, alcoholic... you didn't need to read the whole thing lol
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:37 AM
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That’s true for everyone. You’re not that special where people just decide to get to know you because you’re in eyesight. Approach, get rejected, repeat. It’s not a big deal.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:32 AM
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And you think being “extremely autistic” and this socially unaware doesn’t give you a low smv?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:30 AM
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She has nothing you need.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:31 AM
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“Thanks! It’s been a great year” then block 4eva
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:27 AM
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The only true response lol
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:06 AM
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This is the wildest mate guarding I’ve seen
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:53 PM
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Someone died. People get upset over guys dying on the news. Of course she’s upset about a person she knew even if he’s not in her life anymore. You’re being insecure. And why are you in an LTR w a 30something woman? Either way, let it go. Seriously
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:53 PM
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Interesting that you chose to come into a RP setting. Assuming you’re not a troll, I’ll give you my guess from a black male prospective (most on here are white and will not date black women either way. I date all the colors) As I said, I’m male, black. Not much older than you. I’m college educated, live well, above average looking. The first thing that came to me when I saw this was “what kinda low self esteem chick would even ask this here?”. Low self esteem= neediness/clinginess/overcompensati…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:19 PM
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Oh hold on. I don’t have prostitution habits lol. At least not until I take my Thailand vacation. It was my ex wife who was selling herself on the low. But everything else, I see what you mean. I’m not going anywhere with my lifestyle. I just keep making myself more and more physically comfortable and nothing else. I absolutely cannot answer that question. Thanks for that insight.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 11:13 AM
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You’re likely right. I need to reassess what I want with myself other than leisure and income....
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:34 AM
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I stopped reading for a while when I moved and then picked back up a few months ago. I probably read a book a week now and I’ve been picking away at writing a fiction novel, but I don’t think I really give back anymore though. I’ve gotten very me-centric. I can stand to do better.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:33 AM
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also short. I don't mention it unless I know for a fact that she's much taller than me and even then I mention it in passing jokingly and make fun of her for being Lurch in the process
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:07 AM
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A whopping 66” and have yet to find any hard obstacles other than high cabinets (granted I’m in good shape, have a great job and I’m... well, you know..... beautiful)
/r/askTRP22/08/18 11:40 AM
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here to chime in. After my divorce I was broke for like a year. once I caught back up in my finances, I had an extra $900/mo that I couldn't figure out where it came from (even though I was making the same amount of money). Interesting huh? That I should have more money in my pocket after leaving a two income household... almost as if it were being spent from under me... weird..........
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:30 AM
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Delete your whole internet.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:41 PM
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Had he guessed which store to “overtake” and picked yours, you’d still be mad
/r/askTRP21/08/18 12:02 AM
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That’s basically what I said. The coworker did nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 12:00 AM
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I don’t really care about morals. Maybe I’m biased bc I’ve always worked in corporate, but it sounds like he got what you wanted and you’re butthurt and just wanna take it away from him. People get jobs through actually being qualified sometimes, but they also get jobs for saying the right thing at the right time to the right people. He didn’t “push you aside”. He doesn’t owe you shit. It’s his prerogative to get the best position for himself. If you were the absolute ideal candidate, whatever a…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:42 PM
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Dick, jerk, asshole, douche.... those are the good ones. Annoying not so much
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:42 AM
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Should have just asked her if she does price matching.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:24 AM
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“Insecure, defenseless, sensitive...” this actually describes you just as much if her got to you that badly over something so simple. You’re both too old for this. I wouldn’t even apologize. Learn a little stoicism and live your own life.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:50 PM
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It’s not a sign dude. She doesn’t like granny panties. No one does. If she goes to work pantsless, report back
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:48 AM
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You want her in granny panties? Maybe she’s being sexy and feeling sexy for you but you’re too busy being insecure to go fuck her...
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:22 AM
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It’s legit man! Just give them the info. Don’t forget to mention your birthday and favorite color and your first pets name so she’ll feel more comfortable with you.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 01:23 AM
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You wanna join my manlet club? We’re always recruiting.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 12:03 PM
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Seems like if you’re too lazy to buy your own lotions you may not be “really into skin care”
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:00 PM
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Literally the most terrible flower smell
/r/askTRP10/08/18 10:59 PM
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Ummm looks like almost 3wk
/r/askTRP10/08/18 10:05 PM
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Sure thing
/r/askTRP10/08/18 09:07 AM
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You’ve misread my post. I put zero effort into her and have not and have no intention of it. She’s just a hoe I found in a target. What I’m asking is: is it normal for RP guys to let these chicks come back when they get tired of the other guys dick.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 09:01 AM
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She's not nearly the only one. She was one of 6... but now 5 I guess.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 08:58 AM
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this is about what I was feeling
/r/askTRP10/08/18 08:58 AM
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I have plenty of options so have sex with though. its not like she's the last bangable woman lol. Sex was good, but I'm supposed to be the prize right? not the fallback?
/r/askTRP10/08/18 08:57 AM
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This.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:36 PM
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You don’t have to be sure. This situation will sort itself out no matter what you do.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:17 PM
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My bet is it’ll fizzle out once OPs got some plates and/or gf finds a closer Chad.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:38 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with being ok with fucking a girl who fucking other dudes. It’s just life and it means you have enough options. However, chances are unless you’re her ultimate forever alpha and your frame is beautiful, she’s gonna branch swing. Ultimately, you shouldn’t care about that either. IMO, your LTR is likely done, but I’m just some dude on a screen. Don’t over think this. Just move and enjoy life, fuck her when you see her, fuck other when you don’t. Stay outcome independent. Even…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:37 PM
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You cool with her banging other dudes? (bc that’s why you have this magical permission slip) If So, sure. If not, just demote her to a plate. Either way... she’s banging other dudes.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:30 PM
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Ridiculously pitiful.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:17 PM
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Your post history is..... jeez. Work, meditate and go lift.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:23 PM
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Sounds like a fun way to not be the same as everyone else while also meeting a bunch of women (who are into pole dancing). I lift 5 days a week and I'm also enrolled in a ballet school. nothing wrong with branching out.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:55 AM
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sounds like normal flow of normal people conversation. Answer or don't. If you said you were at lunch she would ask where you went. be normal.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:53 AM
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fuck.. you just described my ex down to every detail.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:03 AM
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Dude I absolutely cannot read this without a paragraph break... I want to, but I can’t
/r/askTRP02/08/18 01:57 PM
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I have a well paid 40hr job but I randomly do other side gigs (weekends/off hours) just to make more savings money and meet new people- especially after relocating. So far I've done Uber, Lyft, a part time art display assembler, weekend retail and campaign work. Lyft was the best socially. All yielded some pocket change and a few women.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:22 AM
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So when you say “ask out” you meant commit to? Ok then... I stand corrected. I still say plate her and move on. Either the fiancé is fake and she’s trying to make you feel like she’s hot merchandise and you better move quick or the fiancé is real on which case she’s trash and still not LTR-able. Pick another one. There’s lots.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 10:14 AM
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So in 10wks you haven’t asked her outcast which means you haven’t fucked her and she didn’t mention a whole “fiancé” and you’ve considered LTRing this person... whom you’ve not fucked. Either fuck her or nah. You’ve already invested too much time.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 10:09 AM
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Wait I’m confused... how long were you “hanging out” with this princess to even decide that she’s LTR-worthy without noticing this elusive fiancé?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 10:04 AM
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Girls in LDRs are single.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:36 AM
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this. If they want you, they wont gaf. just make sure your sheets are clean and there's no nastiness in your room. I used ti have a shithole studio in the deep hood (roaches included). i'd always preface with "my place is shit, but my wifi connection is strong af"
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:36 AM
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“3.... oh you said WOmen?”
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:43 PM
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I’m barely 5’6”. 150lb. AT 30YR OLD. Just own your shit. Lift. Build your frame. Women don’t know wtf they want. I have 5 plates right now. 20-28yrs old. Only one is shorter than me. Just be confident and give good dick.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 09:46 PM
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My first message is usually some sort of smart ass half-insult and I usually get a “omg shut up 😂” “haha ssshole”. Then I immediately make a full plan and tell them to come (eg. I’m off all day Friday. Let’s go to x and get ice cream. What’s your #?). Make a plan and include them. Assume they’ll just be free. You should get a yes or at least an offer for a specific different time. If not, they aren’t interested in you. She’s just bored on tinder
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:05 PM
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this was hard to read. I read it over a few times to beat it into my skull. You're right. I've walked away from, ghosted and been ghosted by at LEAST 20 women this year alone and didn't give a single fuck. I guess when its someone who I felt was more of my family its a bitter harder to go NC. I'll learn from this and move past him. Thanks for the honesty.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:03 AM
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18 19 and 20 are all the same age
/r/askTRP01/07/18 12:29 PM
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Book stores, museums, yoga class, kayak/bike events, jogging, volunteer events, the random hipster part of my town where people just walk around window shopping. I don’t go to bars/clubs (not my scene and don’t really deal with women who party) but bring home 2 number a week without much effort. Just leave your house and get some hobbies.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 09:12 AM
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Can you make this short story longer?
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:55 AM
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upvoted for armpit lick
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:46 AM
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Usually plans for a second meet up happen for me at some point during the first. “Man this food mediocre at best. You should come by Saturday. I cook on weekends”. If I don’t bring up a plan for a second date (aka thingy veiled sex) on the first, I’m not interested enough and wait to see if she initiates and regains my interest to hook up.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:41 PM
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I must be the odd one out. I’m only free on Friday nights and Saturday’s. So even if I ask her on a Sunday morning, I tell her I’m busy and “book her for the weekend”. I’ve never had a girl flake on me. At the most, just a time frame change (eg 7pm instead of 6pm).
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:04 AM
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There's no real reason you can't be this theoretical Chang. Like everyone will tell you: sidebar. lift and learn game. You're 3in taller than me and weigh 10lbs less. I know a "Chang" he's one of my best friends. Chinese, about your height, but well built. He has interesting hobbies, takes care of himself, is fun to be around, pulls chicks like crazy. You dont need a procedure. get a good haircut, wash your face, go to the gym.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:25 AM
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I have nothing extra to contribute. Just cant stop laughing at Chang.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:19 AM
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You can be in my club bro. We do luncheons and walk under women’s skirts.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:57 PM
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ignore. the opinion of a woman you have no interest in penetrating is white noise. Manlet lives matter. source: see username
/r/askTRP22/06/18 05:25 AM
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I don’t think you should be asking US if you need to mature or change or adapt or whatever. I’m assuming you’re a grown man. You know what and who you want to be. If you’re finding that you’re conflicted, then take some time and self reflect of what you want. Drinking or not, you’ll have to still loosen up enough to be unbiased on what you think of yourself in party mode. Health? Social standing? Fun? Mature? Sober? What you want, man? Do that.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:46 AM
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All alcohol does is created a more uninhibited version of you. Just get comfortable with you even when (mostly) sober. I haven’t had a drink in 2yrs. People don’t even realize I’m not drinking. Loosen up.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:27 AM
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Probably a dude. Who knows? I’m still exploring Absolutely. I have 3 separate families I’ve fathered. Are you ok with 5somes?
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:53 AM
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Have you tried putting a little bit of lube inside the condom? Making sure your wrapper actually fits you (I say everyone needs to try MySize brand)? Have you tried relaxing a bit and letting it happen?
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:34 AM
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This is the route I’m leaning toward. Plus someone has to make sure I end up in a nice nursing home.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:02 AM
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I work 70hrs a week, commute an hour a day, go to the gym 5 days a week, volunteer and take a Hebrew class once a week. It’s sometimes a month before I get a girl out with me. I figure if she’s interested, she’ll wait. If not, there’s others.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:54 AM
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Sounds gay. Let’s do it.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:14 PM
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exactly. Most women will conjure up a rapey story at some point (hence #MeToo). While I do know and recognize that rape happens and its not acceptable, a lot of them just want to find themselves in a victim frame and make men feel like they need to comfort them. Nearly every woman I've gotten to know longer than 6mo has some story of a boyfriend, uncle, husband (yes! "my husband forced himself on me when I was tired and i feel used"). I literally just say "oh wow thats craaaaaazy" and move on.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:10 AM
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what about in the case of being unable to reproduce. Would you say its worth it at that point for the sake of just raising/teaching a child that carries on your ideals and memories if not your genes? Actual question from your local broken nutsack guy.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:05 AM
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ha. I was a young teen when this song came out and didnt get it. Now I'm 30 and anytime I hear the phrase "IDK i've never tried that before" I hear that whole song in my head.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 06:40 AM
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I shave all my body hair down to a 1 guard and wax my bum entrance. No idea what plates think. Don’t really care though. It’s my body hair, they can take it as is or find something their taste.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:24 AM
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Top notch barbering skills
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:23 AM
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As interesting and fun as she is, her culture doesn’t even allow her to date or move out until she’s married lol. I’m only the second man she’s been with and I fully believe it. Plus we’re different races so it’s a hue no no. A million red flags for anything beyond letting her sneak to my house in between her studies lol. It’s why I was so confused that she would shit test me. I don’t see how she could consider me really dateable at all. But then again... she’s a woman
/r/askTRP14/06/18 07:21 PM
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Application denied. <68” to be considered.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 10:52 AM
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Haha 5’6”. Little spoon material. Am I your type? Lol
/r/askTRP14/06/18 10:45 AM
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That's what I was thinking. So was her point to try to manipulate me into showing some sort of jealousy? or maybe lay claim to her? I'm used to older women and a different type of manipulation lol. Plus I don't use any social media as a main way of interaction. She completely ignored my response and just jumped to confirming the date of our next meeting. Its kinda funny now
/r/askTRP14/06/18 08:14 AM
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I opened this hoping that someone would give solid answer as I'm about in the same boat as OP. This was the answer. Something I needed to take to heart.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:54 AM
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