beautyjunkielife Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	A minor peeve but still annoying	PICKME CULTURE	beautyjunkielife	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/21 07:08 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy. I once dated this guy (also named Ryan!) who made me split the bill and was a cheapskate in other ways, and was a picky eater (which is fine, but I’m not) and would always wave away the dessert menu whenever we were out to eat. I also always got judgy vibes whenever I would finish a burger in front of him as he picked at his salad or whatever. On our last date, I could just feel his withering looks as I ordered a second sushi roll (I think he didn’t want to pay for one) and sure enough, he waved…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 07:41 PM
27	New reddit challenge: try to find a thread on dick size where women with a preference for larger dicks aren't downvoted/ignored and women with a specific preference for smaller penises aren't upvoted. And they think we're the ones coping......Not saying people can't prefer smaller but hmm.... I think it’s all relative! I know for me, some of the worst sex I’ve ever had was with a really tall guy with an almost 10 inch D. Firstly, our heights were mismatched so it was awkward getting until a position that was comfortable for both of us. And even though I was “ready” for him, he just could not quite fit, and he kept squishing me when he was on top. I don’t think it was that great for him either! Some of the best sex I’ve ever had was with a guy I used to work with and am still friends …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 04:21 AM
25	Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth. And yet, (sorry if TMI) somehow almost every man I have ever been involved with wanted to lick my butthole all the time. Clearly not a problem for a man who’s truly attracted to women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 05:26 AM
106	Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth. Unfortunately I think this would only encourage/excite them 🥴😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 05:20 AM
83	short women. be extra careful about men's "pReFeReNcEs" for your body type. I've definitely noticed that unfortunately a lot of tall guys who like short women, and short women who are with a tall man, are kind of defensive about it. I think that alone is a red flag sometimes, tbh. The ones who are in actually healthy relationships can easily admit that sometimes it's a problematic pattern, but the ones who get upset as soon as someone even hints that it might be worth unpacking, I think are extra defensive because they know it's a little weird but it's almost part of th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/21 09:49 PM
3	A minor peeve but still annoying Oh, bless you for making me laugh out loud today. I feel like that was her exact thought process!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/21 07:29 PM
10	Creepy male teachers I had a creepy teacher when I was 11. In class when we were quietly doing our work, he would walk around the room supposedly checking for cheating. When he did this, he would pause to stroke my hair and run his hand down my back. The contact was sort of minimal but something about it felt so sinister and pervy, even though at the time I didn't know what exactly was wrong or how to articulate it. He would also make up reasons to get me in trouble and make me stay after class. I knew it was a ruse…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 10:20 PM
2	Men and spitting Noooo! I'm horrified for you. I am so glad your friend finally left him. Ugh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 05:47 AM
3	Men and spitting Men do this ALL THE TIME and it's disgusting. Even when I was a child and a man did this in front of me it used to disgust me. I think it makes me mad because not only is it gross, but it's disrespectful as well. Not that I want to go back to Victorian times at all, but it used to be considered insulting to do that in the presence of a woman, and tbh I still feel that way!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 05:46 AM
34	Just watched American Murder: The Family Next Door I had the same thought watching it. It was so chilling to me how he seemed so devoid of emotion in the videos she filmed of him for social media. Like she was so bubbly and trying so hard and he just looked like the life had gone out of his eyes. But at the same time he was going through the motions convincingly enough that others didn't catch on and she kept trying to connect with him and blamed herself for the emotional distancing. It's so so dark and it made me sad. She and her kids deserved …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 06:32 AM
5	Acknowledging you have no HV friends in your life and deciding to go forth alone...? Anyone experience this? Oh god, where to even start? Well, one has had an extended fling with a married man who's too old for her. He would come over for blow jobs and sex and wouldn't even bother satisfying her, and then would ghost her and as soon as she would start to move on, he would breadcrumb her to bring her back. This has gone on for years and she still entertains him sometimes. Another friend had a fiance that was acting funny on her and to "save their relationship," they took a trip together. She of course h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 07:11 PM
39	Acknowledging you have no HV friends in your life and deciding to go forth alone...? Anyone experience this? I have been "editing" my group of friends in the last couple years. Not in a mean way, but just distancing myself from anyone draining or annoying. It's normal to outgrow friendships, and while I still care about those individuals, it's critical to limit my interactions with them for my own sanity. I choose to spend more time and emotional energy with the HVW friends. Quality over quantity. I spend more time alone but I'm much happier. The friends I've distanced myself from, the more I step away…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 02:08 AM
14	Self Care Day I'm so sorry you've experienced this but just know that these two deserve each other and he's her problem now and you're free. You are the enviable one, not her, and she'll probably contact you years later to say, "you were right"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 09:54 PM
7	Reposted to adhere to rules: woman gets proposed to by man drawing ring on her. “We” find the same ring 7 mo later in a thrift shop. Glad you got picked! The nails tell me she doesn't really prioritize herself and it shows :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 09:50 PM
7	Reposted to adhere to rules: woman gets proposed to by man drawing ring on her. “We” find the same ring 7 mo later in a thrift shop. Glad you got picked! OMG I totally saw this while scrolling and wondered when it would end up here LOL. I have so much secondhand embarrassment for this poor woman. The aesthetics. The dustiness. I'm sure people would call me shallow but I would never ever allow someone to be this damn cheap with me. It's one thing to be on a budget (I come from very humble roots myself) but surely there are classy cubic zirconium rings options until you can afford a nicer one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 09:49 PM
3	This is the kind of attitude we need to have👏🏼👸🏻 Mainly I'm thinking of two friends who I'm still close with, who used to be friends with him but have now distanced themselves into polite acquaintances towards him. They agree he's a dirtbag so that's probably why LOL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/20 05:32 PM
46	This is the kind of attitude we need to have👏🏼👸🏻 Ughh I could have written this. A guy did this to me a couple of years ago. It hurt so much for him to basically be my boyfriend for a period of months and then tell me I'm not relationship material and he can't picture himself feeling romantically towards me. Like wtf?? And the weirdest part is, he pursued me for years and it was like once he had me, he was bored. It was awful! He's also the one who told me I needed therapy and gave me an ultimatum at one point that he wouldn't continue with me…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/20 06:14 AM
2	Not only polyamorous, but also wants to bring down capitalism and patriarchy! Wow, so amaze, such woke. And also some greasy dandruff for good measure	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 03:18 AM
28	FDS is anti polyamory Thank you thank you THANK YOU for saying this. I am not ok with polyamory and I would never ever accept it. If other people want to conduct themselves that way, that's fine, but I hate that there's this pressure to accept it as a normal or healthy choice. It's supposedly consensual but I guarantee you 9/10 times, someone was manipulated into it, and it's usually the woman. It's risky emotionally and physically. And yet people that participate in it are so defensive about it! The women that parti…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 06:21 AM
3	How to quickly get over your LVM ex: Create a collage of his repulsive behaviors & then view it every time you think of him! Lmaooo ok this is actually quite therapeutic and might be my saving grace. Thank you, sincerely.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 06:59 AM
21	Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by an ugly dusty you gave a chance and he ended up playing you? I was once suicidal over a dusty coworker of mine who was in a relationship with another woman (I was a side chick and didn't know - when I found out it was like a knife in the heart - I found out on valentine's day which was one of the worst days of my life) - and the worst part about it is, objectively, I'm the cuter one who also happens to be smarter and funnier! But he wore down my self-esteem until I thought he was the only who would tolerate me. Sometimes the sex was good but one time he t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 01:13 AM
5	This is what I mean when I say we need to call a spade a spade with our girlfriends The relationship advice subreddit is a dark place full of stuff like this. Today alone there was also a "my boyfriend showed me a video of a dead body, should I leave him?" and "my boyfriend makes fun of me and says my vagina smells" and "my bf beat me and tied me up, should I press charges?" - obviously some of these are more serious than others but it just shows a pattern of TERRIBLE male behavior being normalized. And women second guess whether they should accept it or not. I've been that gir…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/20 08:53 PM