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I think it’s also because we have a good template of how to discuss relationship problems without putting your SO down :) I’m happy we exist!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 05:30 AM
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Always better to over-dress than under-dress. Considering how casual people dress during Covid, I always feel slightly more overdressed lol.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 04:18 PM
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Hooray!! Yellow walls are totally underrated.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 02:27 AM
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YES! Grey is cold and not homey. I really like warming up a room with light yellow walls.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 03:06 PM
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I personally find them immodest since they accentuate the shape of your butt. I mean, there’s a reason men love women in leggings/yoga pants. It’s really hard to find exercise pants that aren’t yoga pants. I have a pair of lululemons that aren’t the tight yoga pants and I got a size slightly larger so it’s not too tight in the rear.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 02:47 AM
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I had the same thought with the recent RBG + her husband discussion on this subreddit. They’re considered to be “equals” however, someone in the thread mentioned that she makes most of the decisions, he took care of the household, and he took a step back to allow her career to flourish. I don’t see this as being “equal” unless the majority sees his teaching career equal to her role as a Supreme Court judge. I don’t think “equal” is a thing, personally. Thoughts?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 10:09 PM
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Definitely esp when compared to when I wear jeans. Men look at me and smile respectfully. I’ll sometimes get complimented on my dress by women. Men will call me “miss” (which isn’t common in the part of the country I live in), hold doors open, let me go first, ask if I need help, etc. No free stuff, just smiles :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 04:40 AM
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So glad you found mentorship!
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 10:46 PM
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Sorry for the delayed response! I think that’s great advice. I have dreams about finding the perfect big sister haha, but yes I think getting advice from multiple people is more realistic. Thank you for your words of wisdom ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 10:46 PM
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Totally agree with you! Kinda stuck in this path with lots of debt. I also plan on supporting my parents when they’re older. Would love to learn about what other hurdles career-women have had to deal with and how to face certain challenges.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 03:28 PM
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Honestly, sounds like you’re doing some of the right things. I personally think the trick is to develop some self-confidence and learn the art of story telling (gain social skills). This can be super hard to do if you’re a shy person - there are some great YouTube videos that teach you some tricks. I personally watched some of Ramit Sethi videos on small talk, fixing a monotonous voice etc. The best way to practice is by having really brief conversations with strangers - I started by complimenti…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/20 06:31 AM
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Certainly!! I assume it’s for our safety :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 04:42 PM
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I too would love this and suggested it one time. The mods mentioned that we technically can’t post any RPW meet ups on this subreddit so it would have to be on a private chat :( (unfortunately I’m not from portland 😒)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 06:35 AM
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Not an option for many reasons including debt lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/19 10:19 PM
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Thank you! I hope it does
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/19 10:19 PM
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“You can have everything not at the same time...” quote was really helpful. I really needed that reminder. Thank you for all your advice, I’m literally writing some of these things down for myself.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 06:03 AM
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Thank you for the example. It really helps seeing the other side of things. Yes I can consider a more laid back job after, options aren’t plentiful. See, I can’t believe there are some women like your bf’s sister, when I act the same way without saying it LOL I’m waiting for my epiphany...
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 04:12 AM
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There’s no way I can be a SAHM, I’m too much of a workaholic. I just don’t want me career to consume me. Being very busy at work seems very appealing, but I know I’d regret it if I didn’t spend time with my children. I want to know how I can stop going back and forth...?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 04:09 AM
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18 months?! I have never heard that, will look into this. These are great questions that I think about all the time. I guess realistically I’d have fewer kids..? Ah likely me or a nanny.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 04:07 AM
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Congrats on finding something that fits you :) Without giving away too much, I can’t transfer into another speciality. I have the option of going into a less intense program, but I feel like I’m giving up on prestige/ambition/potential. Which is dumb, I’m waiting to get over this feeling lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 04:05 AM
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I totally agree with you about it being a rat race. I agree with you about not developing your life outside work etc. It’s just when I’m in the work environment, I can’t let go of my ambitious goals and don’t think as clearly. It’s almost like I need a constant reminder and that scares me. I want to know how to learn to make life/family life a priority that I don’t have to think too much about.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/19 12:36 PM
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I live in the Bay Area too!! Do you think women would attend a meet up?
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 11:55 AM
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Hey there! Let me tell you about myself quickly. I’m in podiatry school and currently in an LDR with a med student. I decided to do podiatry because although it’s 4 years of school, residency is surgical, is 3 years, and the lifestyle afterwards is great. Getting in isn’t difficult. My ideal plan is similar to yours - having a kid in residency, although almost everyone I meet warns me about this. Medicine is super cool and you’ll feel important, but like the other person mentioned, you really ha…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 01:07 AM
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Interesting perspective, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 03:46 AM
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Oh boy! Yeah I definitely will. Thank you :) Edit: I like your makeup! You’re very pretty :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 03:43 AM
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Ah I see, good point.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 03:42 AM
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Agreed. But don’t you think beauty standards have changed? The baseline is higher now.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 02:53 AM
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Thanks! Tati is so beautiful and classy, I find her makeup to be really heavy, though though it’s very beautiful. I wear at most 5-6 products on my face when I’m going out (including face, eyes, and lips) and maybe 2-3 products on a regular day (eyeliner, tinted moisturizer, and concealer) Do girls typically wear more?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 11:07 PM
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Hahahaha 😂
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 09:12 PM
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Thank you for your response! I just talked to him. I don’t think he understands what makeup is lol. He meant that he likes me wearing eyeliner when we go out. In some scenarios, like the gym, it seems really unnecessary.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 07:17 AM
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It was a “preference”. He said it’s like me asking him to fix his hair or shave before we go out in public. I prefer he looks clean. It feel more sensitive than asking him to fix his hair though for some reason.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 07:15 AM
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Yes, I can definitely list a ton of things he does that shows me he appreciates me. I think a part of me hates being told what to do lol.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 05:17 AM
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Thank you so much. You were pretty objective. I think you’re exactly right. I think I value things like cooking extravagant meals and being clean where he cares more about my looks so I don’t put as much effort into that as I do with cooking/cleaning.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 05:11 AM
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I think it’s ridiculous too, but I guess guys are very visual creatures. I can’t tell if I’m losing myself because of his demands. Something I need to figure out. Thank you ❤️❤️
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:46 AM
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Hi! No you don’t sound mean or aggressive. You’re totally right. I think my self esteem issues makes everything he say sound horrible. I agree with everything you’re saying. It does make sense to try hard for someone I like if I don’t see them often. It’s just hard to hear so many suggestions every time I see him (which isn’t often). I watch YouTube videos of girls doing makeup a lot but it’s so overwhelming. It’s always so over the top lol. Do you have suggestions for something practical? And y…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:45 AM
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Hey, thank you for responding by the way ❤️ I have decent skin, no redness, just some hyperpigmentation from acne here and there. I wear concealer under my eyes almost always since I have dark circles. I feel like foundation + eyeliner everyday is a lot. I don’t really understand how much makeup other girls are wearing every day. I wear non-yoga pants and a top (I can’t compromise on dressing modestly, but he prefers that too). I guess next to a “hot gym girl” in yoga pants, I probably need to d…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:19 AM
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I do my hair in a certain style/clips but don’t need to straighten it or curl it, it’s wavy on its own. When we’re together. I almost always wear a dress (sometimes skinny jeans + top), I try to buy a new outfit every time I see him. I do wear makeup (eyeliner + foundation) when we go out but I don’t think it’s necessary to do so at the gym. I just feel like he doesn’t like/notice the effort I put. Maybe I haven’t figured out what he likes? Edit: I think it’s unreasonable for him to expect me to…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:02 AM
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I felt the same way when I first discovered it! You’re not alone :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 07:11 AM
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British baking challenge! Edit: it’s actually called The Great British Bake Off*
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 05:37 PM
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I think your gut is telling you something. Otherwise you wouldn’t have read about this online, nor would you have posted about it. Think about what commitment really means to you. Can a man be committed to you if he’s sharing himself with other women at the same time? What do you really want in a relationship? What do you think makes a relationship stronger? Do your values line up with his behaviour? I think you should step outside the situation and think about the things that are important to y…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 05:17 PM
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I’m in Podiatric medical school (doctorate program in US not UK podiatric program) and many of my friends are in MD school. Half the battle of getting into and doing well in the medical field is to learn self discipline because honestly motivation is NOT enough. There’s very little room for procrastination if you really want to do well in medical school. I know so many people that said “If I studied for hours a day, I’d be able to do get an A” or “I’m smart enough to get into med school if only …
/r/RPChristians25/06/18 01:31 PM
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Why are you preparing for a divorce when you haven’t even gotten married yet? I suggest you direct your energy to thinking about why your previous relationships didn’t last, what you’ve learned from them, and what you can improve. You come up with many hypotheticals, instead figure out some things you can work on :) It’s great to be realistic but if you go to far, you’ll become pessimistic and be further away from reality.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/18 12:44 AM
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The answer to your original question: go to a sperm bank. Somethings to think about: It takes more than just money to have a child. It’s great that you’re able to afford a surrogate and babysitter, but who will raise your child? Statistically, a child has the highest likelihood of being successful and being happy with a mother and father who are married. It honestly sounds like you want to have a child for the sake of having a child and you’ve never expressed your desire to have a child. If you …
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 02:05 PM
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“I know it’s wrong but maybe it would work” I think you know that this is extremely dishonest. Why hide the existence of your child? Because you know your chances of getting a guy are low when you’re a single mom? Then there you go.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 02:00 PM
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Omgosh I love all the dresses! They seem very fancy though, not for everyday? But I’ll definitely keep this bookmarked!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 02:34 PM
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Do they ship to US?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 02:32 PM
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Oh I like the idea of capsule wardrobe!
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 02:32 PM
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Will do thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 02:30 PM
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I really like madewell even how simple their clothes look. It seems a big expensive considering the simplicity. Is the quality worth it?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 02:29 PM
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I have actually. I’ve found some things I like actually. I just get impatient with looking through so many clothes haha.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 02:08 PM
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Haha love pregnant Elsa. I’ll check out amazon, don’t know why I didn’t think of that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 02:06 PM
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I usually wear plain clothing. I’m hesitant with accessories because I don’t know how.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 02:05 PM
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I’ll check it out thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 02:03 PM
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Love Anthropologie but seems a little pricey. Is the quality worth it in your opinion?
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 03:08 PM
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Hi! Thanks for the advice. I do sew, but I can’t see clothes. I like the idea of making a wrap dress though! Is there a YouTube tutorial you use? I’ll check out eshakti as well! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 03:07 PM
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That’s a good point. I’ve been doing quick videos on YouTube that are maybe 10-20 minutes long but they’re tough. If I don’t do that, I do an uphill sprint and a weight training. But it might be an in unrealistic goal. I will change my goals to 3-4 times a week and if I do more, then great! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 01:10 PM
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Goals for the month: - go to church 3 times this month - work out 5 times/week - get 7 hours of sleep every night - only eat out once a week Edit: changed goal of working to 3-4 times a week to focus more on being consistent.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 06:51 AM
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I'm looking for companionship, someone like a sister. As long as they are kind, logical, and are constantly working towards being a good person.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 02:10 AM
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Okay, I'll look it up. Thank you so much! :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 02:08 AM
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That's very true. Good advice thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 02:07 AM
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Omg you know exactly what I'm talking ahout! Yeah I'm getting to that point too. Not sure if I should bother trying to be friends with her again or just wait for her because she's the one that's mad about something so unimportant... ...it's easier being friends with and debating a guy eh?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 02:06 AM
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Where do you meet online friends??
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 03:04 PM
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Aww thanks, I'd love some suggestions. Non-denominational ones are fine too!
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 03:03 PM
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I haven't had the same experiences as you, but to clarify: I am a female and am looking to make female friends.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 07:07 AM
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Job searching is tough, I hope that you find something soon. During times like this, I realize that it's so important to be confident and love yourself for more than just your "work-self". If that makes sense. If you ever need a stranger to talk to, you can always message me :) I can relate to everything you're saying! It's the friends that are obsessed with social media stuff that also have a hard time getting along with people like your boyfriend. It's great being friends with married people -…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 02:54 AM
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20s are old now? Oh great :( haha just joking. But yeah I'm really noticing that...
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 02:48 AM
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Even "church shopping" is hard lol! I'm in the SF bay and it's hard to find a traditional church. Can you suggest a denomination? Haha yeah I love married people, but I too doubt they want to hang out with a 20-something yo.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 02:45 AM
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That's amazing! I'm happy for you :) I too am very close to my mother but unfortunately I don't have any siblings. What do you look for in a deeper connection? I look for similar opinions on what a relationship/friendship means, working hard towards being a good person, (and the other things like sense of humour, common hobbies etc). Why is this so hard to find?!
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 02:21 AM
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Thank you for your honest comment. That's the reality of being an adult now eh? :( Do you have any ideas of hobbies I can start with traditional women in their 20s and 30s? Edit: that other traditional women are interested in**
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 02:17 AM
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Ugh yes! I've been temporarily defriended by my oldest friend because of a political disagreement. I don't know if it's better not to discuss those things or only to be friends with those that aren't sensitive enough to defriend me. The transition from acquaintance to dating makes me feel like a guy haha I find myself getting nervous asking people to hang out or asking or their numbers. It can be worth it though :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 02:15 AM
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I like your perspective, I'm slowly realizing that friendship almost like dating. My problem is also finding women that I click with on a deeper level.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 02:12 AM
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Glad you decided to post, thank you. I've had the same thoughts as you and I've actually started going to church, but it seems like everyone is older. I don't mind making older friends but I'd like friends in my age range too. Thoughts?
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 12:56 AM
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