bebeyoda22 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR? Wait for him to bring it up. If he wants to DTR, he will. Don’t beg.	/r/askFDS	12/09/20 10:36 PM
70	I don't know what to do. This is really hard, and I sympathize with his situation in terms of his mother’s health. But, you aren’t 100% to blame. He did not communicate well and didn’t give you any reason for you to think he was doing anything except ghosting you. You guys were together for two years... why did he feel like he needed to keep this a secret? Even if he didn’t want to talk about it in-depth, he should have filled you in. Also, how did your friend find out if you didn’t know??	/r/askFDS	12/09/20 10:35 PM
7	I guess I'm just confused about a lot of things here... If you consider things like “You shouldn’t date.” or “Women have different lived experiences than you.” to be attacks... that’s a problem as well. Once again... defensiveness. It’s one of the major downfalls in a relationship.	/r/askFDS	04/09/20 02:09 AM
11	I guess I'm just confused about a lot of things here... One of the weak spots might be that, when people offer you criticism that you literally asked for, you’re very defensive. If you don’t actually want to learn and grow or you already do think you’re great, then maybe you shouldn’t be on the sub?	/r/askFDS	04/09/20 12:54 AM