| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago?Normal is a relative term | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/25 04:28 PM |
| 5 | How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago?You can’t expect a straight answer to a ludicrous question. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/25 04:26 PM |
| 18 | How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago?So you want to go back in time essentially? The issue isn’t that women are dressed promiscuously, it’s that you want to live in alternative timeline. Women: are normal This guy: I mean normal based on an alternative dimension slut | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/25 12:06 PM |
| 23 | How difficult is it really to find a young woman who is not necessarily Christian but normal by the more modest and less sex-crazed standards of sixty years ago?Look at your own question “normal”- usually normal refers to the standard right? When you go to the supermarket and see women dressed like strippers? No. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/25 11:57 AM |
| 10 | Is it really a bad thing for an ugly and loneliness bound guy to join the MGTOW movement?So positive interactions necessitate you “getting” something? You say that you don’t have positive experiences with men either, are you willing to cut 100% of people out of your life? That’s unrealistic and unhealthy and you know it. Both women and men, grow the food you eat, pay their taxes in your country, care for you when you’re sick, educate you, volunteer in your community etc. you can’t not live in a society with other human beings unless you go off into the mountains with a wind turbine … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/25 09:19 PM |
| 15 | Is it really a bad thing for an ugly and loneliness bound guy to join the MGTOW movement?Of course they do, women make up 50% of the population. You’re telling me you’ve never had a positive experience with a woman ever? Even in shops? You’re telling me that 1 in 2 people are actively negative threats to you? I’m a woman who wants to help you, this interaction is positive. Unless you only consider positive interactions with women to be sexual. But that’s not the case, women aren’t sexual objects. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/25 03:27 PM |
| 16 | Is it really a bad thing for an ugly and loneliness bound guy to join the MGTOW movement?That says more about you than it does about anyone else.theres not even any logic to it. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/25 12:40 PM |
| 14 | Is it really a bad thing for an ugly and loneliness bound guy to join the MGTOW movement?Nobody wants anyone to die | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/25 11:18 AM |
| 13 | Is it really a bad thing for an ugly and loneliness bound guy to join the MGTOW movement?Women make up 50% of the population. Are you going to check out of 50% of the experience of being human? How will you function as a normal healthy person if you refuse to engage with half of society? You’re limiting yourself hugely, it’s very unhealthy. That plus most guys who do that don’t go their own way because all they do is talk about how much they hate women all day. You’ll feel a lot better mentally if you work on having positive non-sexual relationships with women so you can see them as… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/25 11:15 AM |
| 11 | Update. I talked to my therapist today about my red pill views and me blaming my women friends and he helped. I AM OFFICALLY DONE WITH REDPILL VIEWSThere’s not really much more to be said mate. Would you like to ask me a more specific question and I’ll see if I can expand from there? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/23 02:36 PM |
| 17 | Update. I talked to my therapist today about my red pill views and me blaming my women friends and he helped. I AM OFFICALLY DONE WITH REDPILL VIEWSFeminists are not bad. We just believe that men and women should be treated equally. Redpill gaslights men into thinking feminists hate men. We don’t. I love men. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/23 09:05 AM |
| 1 | is a coffee date acceptable as a first date?I think it depends on how well you know them. I know you said it’s a first date but is it a first date with someone you’ve never met before or is it someone who you’ve known for awhile but are about to start seeing in a romantic way. It’s your first time meeting this person than 100% coffee shop date all the way. But if you guys know each other and you’re more so looking to impress them because you’re more sure about them then I would go for a reasonably priced dinner. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/10/23 02:54 PM |
| 10 | Red Pill delusions when it comes to college and young men.Absolutely. I realised that I was better off alone because if im alone I can make myself happy but with him I was just being made to feel bad all the time. Why be around someone who makes you feel like shit when you can just focus on doing the things that make you happy? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/23 09:53 PM |
| 10 | Red Pill delusions when it comes to college and young men.The sad thing is that we were perfectly happy. He wanted to have sex and I wasn’t quite ready yet because we were so young, I think he was reading up about how to convince women to have sex with you on sexist forums, ended up stumbling onto redpill that way. I guess he thought if he was mean to me, I’d want to please him. But I just felt like shit and didn’t want to be around him anymore. If he had tried to nurture the relationship and made me feel a bit more comfortable, I would have slept with… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/23 09:32 PM |
| 11 | Red Pill delusions when it comes to college and young men.My ex boyfriend got redpilled so I left him. He used to be very sweet and that’s why I liked him. Then he started reading about negging and turned into a completely different person. I didn’t feel loved anymore, so I had to leave. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Can Women give accurate dating advice to men?My biggest ick is when I can tell that a guy is using some kind of “strategy”. It makes me feel like he thinks that I’m an idiot or that he trick or train me into liking him. It makes me feel like he thinks less of me and I lose interest. A guy could be a 10/10 but if he gives any indication that he believes that I can somehow be “achieved”, “unlocked” etc he’s a 0/10 straight away. If you can treat a woman like a person, the same way you would your best friend, that’s the best way to get them t… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/22 10:59 PM |
| 3 | I'm extremely weird, where can I find women who are like me?I’ve been with my boyfriend for five years. When we started dating we had none of the same interests or hobbies and it was actually quite a concern for me because I was terrified that he could get bored and leave. We actually ended up introducing each other to things and also finding stuff that was new to both of us. He’s got me into Reddit, memes and gaming I’ve introduced him to literature, film and tv (like the highbrow stuff, he only watched marvel before) We discovered seafood and craft bee… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Masculine men.For some yeah, remember I said that women aren’t a huge mind? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/22 08:56 AM |
| 15 | Why do redpillers seem to get angry at feminists/women concerning the draft?So would I. I don’t know any woman who wouldn’t. I don’t understand why anyone thinks that women support men being drafted. I’ve never heard any woman support it. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/22 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?I haven’t talked down to you. When I say that you purposefully misinterpreted my comment I don’t mean that you did it out of malice. You did it because you’re in a bad place mentally and emotionally and you need CBT. I purposefully misinterpret people due to my anxiety disorder all the time, that’s why I can recognise it. I was very clear in my original comment that you need to be hygienic, because you’re in a bad place right now (you’re literally a doomer, you see everything through a negative … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?Driven doesn’t have to mean career wise. It can just mean that you have some desires. No one wants to date someone who doesn’t have anything in mind. Even if it’s just where they wanna go on holidays or something | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?I know you didn’t intend to do this but you have misinterpreted everything I said, just as I predicted you would. I didn’t say that you can’t be unkept, tussled or wild looking. I said you should be hygienic. Most red pilIers know will literally come up to me in clothes that smell like rotting flesh with cum stains near the crotch. My boyfriend has long shaggy hair, he puts effort into making it look unkempt and I find it really sexy, but he also showers semi regularly and applies deodorant. Eve… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?Maybe you should try to make yourself look clean then. Maybe you should try being a bit more driven (we’re not talking aspirations to be a millionaire stockbroker) but surely you have aspirations? Surely there’s things you’d like to do in life? When I talk to men my biggest turn off is if they look unhygienic, second if they have no aspirations and are happy enough to sit at home in their moms basement, sleeping in until 1pm, wanking and arguing on Reddit. I’ve had to turn down a few of those ty… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 02:01 PM |
| 5 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?Okay I know this isn’t what men want to hear. But there is a shocking amount of men who don’t know how to pleasure women, this results in a lot of women saying that they don’t enjoy sex. For example in my friend group, two of my girl friends are dating guys who don’t try to make them cum. Once their boyfriends finish, that’s it. So my friends don’t like sex. They don’t understand why I do like it. I like it because my boyfriend always makes me finish. It’s actually quite simple. Like genuinely, … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 12:51 PM |
| 5 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?Not most | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?That’s exactly what OP is thinking. Good psychoanalysis. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 12:47 PM |
| 10 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?She’s not the minority by any means. Not unless you live somewhere extremely traditional. I’m Irish and all of my female family members, myself included have financially supported our significant others at some stage. Maybe that’s not okay in America or wherever you’re from, but it should be. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?Do men really trade sex for money, security and safety? I have financially supported my boyfriend through college because I love him. I don’t force him to have sex with me just because I buy most of our things. Similarly I would expect the same if our roles were reversed. You obviously either live in an extremely traditional country or you just don’t go outside. Women have jobs in the west, we have apartments and cars. We don’t need men for those things so why would we barter with them? It makes… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 12:42 PM |
| 11 | I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space.You’re a smart person clearly, you’re able to have a conversation in a language that is not your first. I never said that you were not smart. But this a support group and an advice sub. If you don’t want help then that’s fine. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 07:11 PM |
| 12 | I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space.I respect that you’re trying to do this in a language that is not your first. Thanks for starting to use more tailored responses. Your way of viewing women highlights my point. You do not view us as individuals capable of conscious thought. That is clear from your subsequent replies. You cannot be ex red pill until you’re willing to talk to women as equals. If you need to be 100% removed from 50% of the population, who you are admitting to having an issue with then you’re never going to recover … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 06:46 PM |
| 16 | I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space.You keep copy and pasting responses that you have taken from elsewhere into a mess of illegible paragraphs. You’re also doing a lot of assuming about me (likely due to the fact that you’re simply copy and pasting your responses from other conversations). If you don’t want to reply to what I’ve actually said in a concise and honest manner than you’re exhibiting the issue you’re so against. If you don’t respect me enough to read my answer and respond accordingly then you’re not ex-red pill. You ju… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 06:23 PM |
| 41 | I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space.This sub doesn’t work for a lot of men because they’re not actually in recovery. They still hate women. When they come to this space they’re looking to continue complaining about women but without all the other bs that comes with other redpill groups. The most common posts here are from men saying things like “I know I should think that women aren’t all sluts but I just can’t let it go”. If you think like that then you’re not ex red-pill. Then they get frustrated with the women in the comments w… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 03:46 PM |
| 9 | Masculine men.Tommy Shelby who is seen as the definition of peak masculinity is played by an actor who is 5ft 7 | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/22 12:03 AM |
| 0 | Masculine men.So here’s the thing- it all depends on what way you want to interpret the words “tall” “big dick” “handsome” “wealthy” etc. When most women say these words (and I know because I am one) we mean for them to be defined in comparison to us. Not in comparison to other men. When a woman says she likes a tall man, she means taller than her, not taller than other men. When a woman says she wants a guy with a nice/big dick, she means thicker and maybe longer than her own fingers, not bigger or thicker t… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach success a myth?What’s the cold approach? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/22 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?That really depends on your culture/nationality. In most places it’s normal and is expected. I know some people see it differently but fuck them | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history?Why should “sluts” have to change at all? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to escorts.Me: asks you to explain how I have attempted to gaslight. You: HOW CAN YOU NOT KNOW THAT WOMEN HAVE IT EASIER!?!? We will deal with that ludicrous claim after you explain the first section. I’m not going to just let that go unexplained and given into further hilarity | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to escorts.TIL disagreeing = gaslighting. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to escorts.OP did essentially say that. Not those exact words but definitely words that are synonymous with what I’ve said. As to the gaslighting, please explain to me how exactly I did that. And while you’re at it back up your claim about women. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 05:03 PM |
| 3 | I’m addicted to escorts.Women definitely don’t have it easy. You’re also completely forgetting how fucking awful it is to have guys not understand the word no. I was friends with a few incels and they blamed my not wanting to date them on everything other than themselves. I wish I could have told them that it’s because they don’t brush their teeth and have cum stains in their jeans but I just had to smile and politely decline because that’s what women are expected to do. Yet we still get called sluts and bitched for so… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 09:57 AM |
| 5 | explain why i am wrong(actual redpill)You need to give us more information OP. What exactly is it that you believe? Also how old are you? And can you provide us with some biographical background to better help us understand how you’ve arrived at this position? It’s impossible to have a discussion without some basic information. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 07:58 PM |
| 3 | I think my girlfriend is just using me for sex, and unlike the red pill promise, I fucking hate it.We’re the same age so I can tell you in all honesty that you’re being very immature. Maybe you haven’t been around very many children but introducing your SO to your child after only a couple of months is very reckless. If I was her I wouldn’t introduce my child to you until I know that we’re getting married/moving in together long term. You say your needs aren’t being met. What needs? You don’t need to meet her child. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Do women live life on easy mode? Need to have a debate so I can learn more about realityI know more female engineers than women who have only fans. Do you actually think that we’re all out here making money off of only fans? What did you think women did before onlyfans? I only just learned what it is recently. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | So uh… What do women want again?People look for different things in partners because we’re socially conditioned to. Be that through arbitrary patriarchal social norms or an individuals experience as a child and adolescent in the home/with peers/ sexually. Humans are complex animals and we are influenced by our upbringings but there is nothing inherently different about the male human experience and the female human experience in relation to how complex they may be. Being a man is different from being a woman in the same way th… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | So uh… What do women want again?Gender is literally a social construct. There is nothing inherently different between us except for our experiences. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 11:23 PM |
| 5 | So uh… What do women want again?So we’re either equally simple or equally complex either way the result is identical. We are the same. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 11:01 PM |
| 10 | So uh… What do women want again?Right so you get to chose to be unique and different based on your gender, but I have to be a science experiment with predictable outcomes because I’m not human. Grow up childeen, go out and talk to real people and you’ll find that you can’t unlock the secret to a successful relationship. Because there is none. We’re all just here by complete chance and the sooner you realise that the easier your life will become. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 15 | So uh… What do women want again?Right so just like you don’t know what other men want women don’t know what other women want. Because we’re all complex human beings with different thoughts, feelings and desires. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 07:04 PM |
| 19 | So uh… What do women want again?No that’s what YOU want | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 06:50 PM |
| 42 | So uh… What do women want again?So uh…What do men want again? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Is dating easier if you’re white??I think that depends on where exactly these cities are. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/22 02:05 PM |
| 4 | Is dating easier if you’re white??I guess that totally depends on where you live. What country, even what city or if it’s in the countryside. Are white people the majority? Is it conservative? Well then yeah they probably are gonna have better luck statistically speaking. It doesn’t make you unattractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/22 12:16 PM |
| 5 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?I’ve spoken to men about this before who say differently. I’ve heard a lot of men say they think vaginas are ugly until they’re horny. That would mean that anytime you watch tv and there’s a random non sexual nude scene that it makes you hard? That’s definitely not true for all men. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/22 11:23 AM |
| 4 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?It makes no sense to assume that though. Have you never thought about how many women are in relationships and are out having sex with men? Loads of us are therefore you must logically assume that we do find men attractive. Otherwise why would we bother? Surely if we weren’t attracted to men we would just stay single. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?I think dating sites are different though. Women are sent dick picks way more frequently and by complete strangers. we see it as more of a violation. If we didn’t ask don’t send it. But if I do know they guy and I like him and he sends me a random dick pic during the day it would probably make me wet af. We don’t really know how guys react to random vagina pics because we know what it feels like when they’re unwanted and wouldn’t do it to anyone else. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?Just add an /s so people know. Edit: just checked and saw that your account is only 20 days old. We add “/s”’s at the end of sarcastic comments so people know when we’re joking. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?I’m not saying that I don’t care just that I don’t understand. I’d like to know. I’m not trying to come across as judgemental. Just not sure what else to say | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 07:23 PM |
| 12 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?You consider an answer from another man to be the only honest answer to a question asking women if they find men sexually attractive. All the while ignoring all the comments from women saying that they do find men sexually attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 19 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?I think women tend to view penises the same way that men view vaginas honestly. Like yeah if you just randomly see one it’s not going to feel sexual but if you’re really attracted to the person and they start getting undressed and you see they have a raging boner then yes that absolutely is sexy and most of us love it. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 07:05 PM |
| 17 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?I understand that people can be irrational when they’re insecure. But it seems so irrational I can’t actually sympathise. Like why would we date men/sleep with them if we weren’t sexually attracted to them? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 07:02 PM |
| 8 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?Yes very much so. (F23) | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many women hereMen ask questions about women here a lot and I like to answer them for them. Simples. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Redpill works, just not on girls you would wantOnce again. I dated a nice guy who turned into an asshole. I left him. I am now with an actual nice guy for 5+ years. As my ex cries while pulling the bollox of himself and spending all his time in redpill spaces. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Redpill works, just not on girls you would wantThe thing he was doing that made me like him was being nice to me. When that stopped I left him. How many times do I have to say it. Luckily I’m with a really nice guy now. Who wasn’t just pretending to be nice to get with me, he really is very nice. In comparison my ex has been single since I left him because no one will touch his toxic ass with a ten foot pole. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Redpill works, just not on girls you would wantI don’t love assholes. Did you even read the comment? He became an asshole so I literally broke up with him. He was extremely kind and caring in the start which made me fall for him. I was going through a hard time with my mental health and he was so kind and helpful. But after a couple of months he switched and became a dick. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 01:00 PM |
| 2 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveWell then don’t try to be masculine and stop reading sensationalised stories for bored single people. Get out and talk to real people and you’ll find way more of us are like you than you think | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/21 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Redpill works, just not on girls you would wantSoooooo…. He was my childhood BFF. I went through a difficult time being bullied and so did he and we bonded over that. He was extremely sweet and kind to me and made me feel safe and beautiful. I fell in love with him because he was so respectful of me and what I was going through. However, once I expressed my feelings for him he became extremely toxic. And became gradually more so as time went on. I would have stayed with him if he hadn’t felt intimidated by me and felt the need to put me down… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Should I forgive a girl?Did you think to ask her what happened? Maybe she was in a car accident or her mom died. Give her a chance to explain herself at least and then see how you feel. Screenshots would help us Op | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveConcepts that change depending on my responses to you aren’t real. Archetypes you decide to believe in depending on your mood aren’t real. You live in a word of comical stereotypes and you’re trying to apply the rules there to the real world. There is no such thing as a “bad boy”. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveYou’re attributing your own interpretations to arbitrary concepts and expecting everyone else to play along. You are deciding what a bad boy is and a who are bad boys. You’re deciding what masculinity is and deciding that you are not it. These are all just concepts that mean different things to different people and ultimately don’t matter. There is no mould that you can force yourself into in order to succeed. People succeed for different reasons using different methods. By being the best versio… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 10:48 PM |
| 9 | The experience that made me blackpilled.No it’s absolutely fucking not and the fact that you would say such an awful thing is disgusting. What is with you people honestly? You’d swear you were the only ones who ever experienced heart break in your lives. You really honestly believe that we don’t feel that shit ever!?? I was bullied relentlessly by boys in school for being ugly and I know lots of other girls who were as well. The fact that people like you compare experiences that most people go through at some stage to literally having… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveSo you agree that women like masculine men that are not bad boys? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveYour argument is changing every time you comment. It’s gone from women like bad boys to women like masculine men so which is it? This is the issue with subscribing to arbitrary ideals. You need to stop with this nonsense, you’re living in a fairy tale world. This is why you’re hearing what you want to hear. Women here are saying “yeah some of us like bad boys sometimes but that’s not really how we look at it”, and you’re talking that to mean, “so I was right! Women love stereotypically attractiv… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractive“I know someone who x” “I read an article that said x” You are ignoring real women who actually exist who are responding to your comments and telling you how we feel. You can’t understand women from one article that one women wrote based on a study done by a handful of women. We’re all different and until you can understand that you will be alone and miserable. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 01:57 PM |
| 2 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveNo I’m really not, I’m basing my analysis on everything I’ve seen ( I read all the comments). You’re basing your opinions of some girls who had just discovered that they are attracted to men and a woman you met in college. You know we make up 50% of the population right? There’s billions of women in the world and you’re judging all of us based off a handful of teenage girls you knew like ten years ago and one person you met in college? It really sounds like you’re spending too much time on the i… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 12:27 PM |
| 2 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveSo your example is stereotypes about teenage girls? You knew teenage girls that were beginning to have crushes for the first time and you know believe that all women, even adult women are only attracted to binary ideals. How old are you may i ask? Because it’s concerning that you said that you used to be in high school. Surely your max 14 years old? Given the way your speaking, otherwise your growth has been seriously stunted and you need to seek some professional help. I’m not saying this to be… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 11:19 AM |
| 1 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveThere’s no such thing as bad boys to begin with. OP’s definition changes depending on how he feels. According to him both Christian Gray and Luke Evans are bad boys. Jason Momoa too for some reason? Are all men just considered to be bad boys now?? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 12:40 AM |
| 2 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveDo you really think that that’s how women speak? How do you know that we like bad boys. When you say that women have told you that they like some form of the ad boy trope? What were their exact words? Because you have a lot of women myself included calling BS | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 12:38 AM |
| 3 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveTotally agree with what you said! Although I don’t think anyone fawns over Dorian Grey, at least not since the 1860’s, I think you mean Christian Grey? Well maybe you did mean Dorian Grey because the logic still works. But I assume you were responding to OP’s reference to fifty shades of grey. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 12:33 AM |
| 38 | Why do dating problems and fixing yourself always seem to be centered around men and not women?Probably because you don’t hang out in women’s spaces, buy products for women etc. Women’s magazines and websites are full of this stuff. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | What is with red pill saying that all western women are trash? Why do they say that they would rather get a European woman instead of western women?Yeah but anyone from eastern countries (India, China etc) would consider Eastern European’s to be westerners. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/21 04:34 PM |
| 2 | What is with red pill saying that all western women are trash? Why do they say that they would rather get a European woman instead of western women?Since when are Europeans not westerns? Wtf, Europeans are classified as westerners too. r/shitamericanssay | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Try not to say "Women".So you believe that your opinions are entirely based on your own experience and believe that your experience is limited yet won’t acknowledge anyone else’s experiences? You literally said that you believe what you believe about women because of your unique experience, and then went on to say that your opinion changed when your experience changed. Yet, you won’t believe me, or any other person who tells you that you’re current outlook is also pure bullshit? Edit: and you’re the one with the hard … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/21 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that Black Pill is true?It’s not voluntary. I’m a woman who is literally telling you that I know lots of women, especially over weight women who are desperate to get with anyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/21 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Redpill works, just not on girls you would wantThank you for telling me what I (a woman) like. You are a man, you don’t know what women like. You don’t know me or any of my friends or female family members. You’ve met a small percentage of women in the world. You don’t know us. We’re not some hive mind that all like the same thing. Stop treating us as though that’s the case. You remind me of the girls who say that men only go for sluts. This is obviously a gross exaggeration and is only an excuse to justify your shitty personality. Edit: als… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Try not to say "Women".How would you know it’s around all men if you are not all men? It’s not anymore difficult to talk to women as it is to talk to men. You just find it more difficult. As to why women don’t like you I can promise it’s not because you’re a tar gremlin, I have plenty of tar gremlin friends. It’s because you said something that put them off. Something that was likely reflected in your original comment when you let on that women were a collective and inhuman. Girls don’t want to fuck guys who think tha… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/21 11:54 AM |
| 6 | Try not to say "Women".Around all men or around you? Because if it’s around you there’s a common denominator if it’s around all men then you’re lying. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Do you think that Black Pill is true?Yeah absolutely, I couldn’t agree more. Conversations like this are really important to me as a woman because it’s important for my well being just as much as yours that we’re all treating each other with respect and dignity. Men and women need to view each other as the same and deserving of the same amount of respect because at the end of the day we’re all on the same team. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 04:27 PM |
| 9 | Try not to say "Women".You literally just did exactly what what OP is telling you to stop doing. Stop saying “women do x” We don’t do shit. There no council of women where we decide to all take a unanimous response to men’s advances. Stop thinking this way, it’s damaging to everyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 03:10 PM |
| 6 | Try not to say "Women".This is literally the most important and first step. I’m a woman who puts a lot free time into this sub because I believe it’s a really positive thing and I really want it to work. But I get really upset and frustrated talking to men here who haven’t actually fingered this out yet. And they just keep insisting that women are some kind of hive mind and that once they find the secret to unlocking the hive mind they will understand all women. I can’t get it through to some guys here and it’s meltin… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 01:49 PM |
| 11 | Do you think that Black Pill is true?You can’t really cite YouTube as evidence that women always get men. I know so many women who have been rejected. It just doesn’t seem equal because usually men ask women out. Most of the time women will go without putting themselves forward rather than trying actively get with a guy because socially it’s not acceptable. I think if it was acceptable for women to approach men like that, a lot more women would be outright rejected. But instead of being rejected we just don’t get approached if that… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 01:29 PM |
| 12 | Do you think that Black Pill is true?I completely disagree. I think that men don’t realise how difficult it can be for unattractive women (especially overweight women) to get with men. I always hear men complaining about how even ugly women have lots of sex. They don’t, trust me I know plenty of them. And they’re just as lonely as you are | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 01:07 PM |
| 15 | Do you think that Black Pill is true?Lots of men betray their friends to get with women. Everything that women do men do too. It works both ways. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 01:01 PM |
| 15 | why so much age shaming for older guys?Hello again. I assume you’re referring to my comment where I was talking about how creepy men in their forties try to talk to me a twenty year old? You responded saying that I just didn’t like them because they’re bald. You then ignored my response where I said that I didn’t turn a creepy older man down because he was bald but because he was a creepy man double my age who was old enough to be my father. If a 34 year old man spoke to me because he was a friend of a friend and he was normal and no… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?It was probably a mixture of the bald head, wrinkles, bad teeth, middle aged clothing style and the fact that he was with other men who looked over 40. Men love to assume that women are so unintelligent that we can’t even tell a mans age. I didn’t turn him down because he was bald or because he was ugly or for any other reason you want to believe so you can continue feeling sorry for yourself and justifying your loneliness. I turned him down because he was old enough to be my father and it didn’… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/21 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?Your using biological differences to request the answer to social interactions. You will never find a list of things that like/dislike etc. One simply does not exist. How many times do me and others need to comment on this post for you to understand, that there is no uniting belief or desire that women share. I’m literally a woman and I’m telling you this I’m all honesty. There’s nothing that you are missing, there’s nothing that other men have figured out and are using to be successful with wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/21 10:46 AM |
| 8 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?Because some women feel that people that they consider to be friends should have more respect for them. Others enjoy the attention and some reciprocate. Women feel differently about things at different time just like men do. Stop trying to make us into something you can define. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 06:01 PM |
| 13 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?“I really dislike the advice “women are humans”, of course they are…” Proceeds to talk about women as though we’re not human. There is no easy way out buddy. There’s no guidebook you can consult or study you can quote. Nothing will unlock what you’re missing. There’s no instructions to follow. We’re all on our own in this and we have to take each and every person as they come. Edit: and you should know that as a woman I don’t trust you. Nor would any other woman I know after seeing this post. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 23 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?“Can we finally make a list of the biological and social differences” No, no we absolutely cannot because they don’t exist. Every single person on this planet is unique and our dating preferences are all influenced by our experiences. You people need to realise this. There is no cheat code, there is no algorithm. We are clumps of cells on a floating rock that only exist by chance. There is nothing to this! The sooner you realise that you can’t unlock sex from making an excel sheet and start look… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 02:02 PM |
| 2 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Did you just say that men today suffer more than women because they don’t get enough attention? Omfg, as a woman that sounds like a fucking dream. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 08:33 AM |
| 1 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.I mean you and I know that that’s what they think. But I wanna see their justification for it. I guess there’s a reason OP and the other red pillers that were answering questions earlier didn’t answer mine, despite it being one of the first. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 08:29 AM |
| 6 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Why according to red pill ideology is it perfectly acceptable for men to sleep around, have children outside of marriage and be overweight but this is unacceptable for women? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:22 AM |
| 3 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?You provided a link to prove that women over thirty are over weight that only provided data for under half of women over thirty and full data for women under thirty. Your link is completely useless. You’re the one making strawmen by saying that I supposedly like using double standards, yet there’s no indication that I do in any of my comments, you couldn’t even mention what said double standards are that I seem to relish so much in. I don’t know if you realise this, but double standards are a ba… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 11:54 AM |
| 5 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?I would say that women are approached by men frequently. No matter the age. I guess it depends on your social circles and where you hang out. If it’s a place that forty year olds don’t tend to hang out then I get chatted up by younger guys more. What I have found is that generally speaking mean of that age will approach me in clubs. Usually these men are single probably don’t have kids, they go to the clubs alone or with one or two friends. They offer to buy a drink. They don’t take no for answe… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 11:45 AM |
| 3 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?You said that men don’t want to date middle aged women because they’re overweight and then provided a link to that stated that women aged 20-34 are overweight. Your point is about middle aged women so why mention that at all. Secondly this is not a uniquely American mindset, incels all over the world believe this bs. And people who use Reddit aren’t the only people that matter. According to the world health organistion 39% of adults aged 18 years and over (39% of men and 40% of women) are overwe… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 01:33 AM |
| 5 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?Okay so there is just so much wrong with all of that. First things first, the study you linked to was for women aged 20-34. Since when are twenty year old women considered to be middle aged? Secondly you only provided a study done in the U.S which is known for having one of the highest obesity rates in the world. And thirdly for every woman who has a child with a man she’s not married to a man must also have had a child with a woman that he is not married to. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 01:14 AM |
| 3 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?Yes absolutely. My boyfriend is a month younger than me and I don’t personally know any couples our age who are more than a year apart. Any single women I do know who have an expressed a desire to date older men it’s clear that they’re talking about men who are only a couple of years older than us not a decade. It suits Redpilled men to say that we all want them because they’re older and want to believe that we want them. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 01:10 AM |
| 3 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?Exactly! Like at our age when someone says that they want an older guy it’s fair to assume they mean someone who has just finished grad school, has a car and maybe an apartment. Maybe they’ve just started their first proper job so they have a small income. But red pill men think we mean we want to date men who are old enough to be our fathers. I just want a guy who who can drive me home and buy me pizza when I’m on my period lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 12:25 AM |
| 7 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?Except for the fact that it’s not most women in their thirties but rather some women in their thirties and for every overweight woman with a child who made bad choices there is an overweight man with a child who made bad choices. Young women shouldn’t have to deal with predatory older men because they don’t want to date women their own age. It’s not our fault that you made bad decisions when you were our age. And encouraging us to get into toxic relationships with perverts will only seek to crea… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 12:17 AM |
| 9 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?I will never date someone who is more than five (give or take) years older than me. We would be at completely different maturity levels. There would also be too extreme of a power imbalance. As a woman I would not feel comfortable being in a long term relationship with someone who has far more life experience/money etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 12:12 AM |
| 4 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?Yes, very very frequently. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/11/21 11:59 PM |
| 4 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?Thanks but honestly I’ve lucky enough that I’ve had company and the men weren’t too much bigger than me. I don’t know would I be as brave is I was alone and he was big | /r/ExRedPill | 18/11/21 06:09 PM |
| 12 | In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy?So even though I am on my early twenties I’m often mistaken for a teenager. When a man comes up to me who’s much older than I am he really doesn’t know how old I am and I even though I’m twenty two I could be 17/18. The fact that this 30+ year old man feels comfortable approaching someone who looks like they could be underage is a massive turn off for me and I will tell them that I think that they are a pervert and that I am way too young for them. This usually takes them by surprise as though t… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/11/21 04:18 PM |
| 7 | The Importance of Platonic female friendsBeing close with women can definitely help men to understand us better. But I honestly wouldn’t advise this for people who are only starting to get off redpill. I have never had a guy friend who hasn’t tried to get with me before (and that’s not me boasting, it’s just a fact) a lot of the time they take the let down well and we stay friends. Other times, when the guys were more socially inept it lead to arguments/ sexual assault. So from a woman’s perspective: yeah absolutely go out there and ta… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/21 12:55 AM |
| 7 | Redpill works, just not on girls you would wantRed pill ideology breeds assholes. They’re one and the same as far as I’m concerned. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Wake up momentFYI this question is asked all the time here. That’s okay though. It’s a common conversation here and an important one. I’m a woman so I was never red pilled I just hang around for moral support. But if you take a look through the sub you’ll find loads of posts asking the same question and you can take a look over the answers. Also there’s a lot of supportive women here so if you have any questions for us do reach out. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/21 10:20 PM |
| 22 | Do women really start to have a crisis when they start to age and realize they aren't pretty as before?No this isn’t a thing in the red pill sense of the word. Lots of people experience the “oh fuck I’m old” thing. Someone younger than you says something and you don’t know what they’re referring to and you think “wow I must be getting old”. But it’s not specific to women by any means and isn’t limited to simply physical appearance either. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/21 11:49 AM |
| 15 | Redpill works, just not on girls you would wantMy ex boyfriend was red pilled and I think that a lot of red pill men don’t understand how much their tactics can psychologically fuck up the women they’re using them as much as it fucks with them. My boyfriend would neg me, put me down all the time, make me think that I was lucky to be with him and then anytime I thought about leaving it would switch to “I’m so depressed, no loves me because I’m ugly, I’m going to kill myself” etc. When I did eventually leave him I felt such tremendous guilt fo… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/21 04:22 PM |
| 11 | Had a date, still terrified of herBest of luck mate | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/21 10:35 PM |
| 1 | "Father ‘shattered’ after court rules wife can keep children in Poland Irish courts allowed wife to bring children on holiday but she kept them there"This one doesn’t mention ovulation at all | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 07:28 AM |
| -1 | "Father ‘shattered’ after court rules wife can keep children in Poland Irish courts allowed wife to bring children on holiday but she kept them there"It says that women want men with “a masculine body type and facial features, dominant behavior and certain scents” that’s very different to saying that women want “bad boys when they ovulate”. Yeah some women might be hornier whilst ovulating because it’s when they’re most fertile, so they would have more of a desire to have sex and if they find particular characteristics attractive than they’ll likely be looking to have sex with someone who has those characteristics. If you’re attracted to men,… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/21 01:50 PM |
| 0 | "Father ‘shattered’ after court rules wife can keep children in Poland Irish courts allowed wife to bring children on holiday but she kept them there"“Women prefer bad boys around ovulation” link or it didn’t happen lol. I don’t understand how women don’t even seem to know when we’re ovulating so how would you know that we collectively change our “type”? When I’m ovulating I’m not thinking “mmmm leather boot wearing motorcycle guys with shaved heads” I’m thinking the exact same as I normally do. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/21 07:45 AM |
| 14 | About women who support red pillI feel like most red pilled women are actually just red pilled men. You see it all the time: “Hey guys I’m a women and I hate women! They’re so superficial…” note they will nearly always refer to themselves as a women not a woman or they will refer to themselves as a female. They will also proceed to refer to other women as they/them rather than we/us etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/21 07:25 AM |
| 3 | How can I obtain a charismatic personality when I was born a dull, boring person?Nobody is born anything. Stop thinking about yourself as an already predefined entity. You are influenced by your surroundings. Change your way of thinking and then you can be whoever you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work?Um I guess. But like it’s not a conscious thing. I definitely wonder if he has a nice body. I may not be specially thinking about his cock and balls but I would be hoping that they’re nice and the rest of his body is sexy. Like legs and chest. Which are also massive turn ons for me. My boyfriend told me that he never knew he had nice legs until we started dating but knows now because I’m a bit obsessed with them lol. And bums. Men’s bums are the best. Edit: just so you know nice doesn’t equal bi… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 08:57 PM |
| 9 | Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work?This is such red pill mentality. Women are attracted to men for the same reason men are attracted to women. Your bodies and personalities. The whole “women are different:more complicated/hard/ impossible to understand” is damaging and only seeks to justify sexism and allows red pulled men to feel comfortable in their decision “not to even bother trying”. I like men with nice cocks and good personalities. That is all. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 08:17 AM |
| 1 | I cannot overcome my subconscious misogyny.Well then you need to start retraining your brain. Maybe some counselling or medication would help. I have an anxiety disorder and I found it very hard to change the way I think. Everything was a threat to me, every-time someone spoke to me it was a backhanded insult, then I went to counselling and got some medication for my anxiety and things just seem normal for the first time in my life. When someone says something to me I can take it at face value, I no longer believe that I’m gonna get tack… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/10/21 11:04 AM |
| 1 | I cannot overcome my subconscious misogyny.Okay that’s interesting. Would you consider someone making a false claim about you to be literally dangerous? Or someone falling in love with you before realising that they no longer love you after a period of time? If you fear receiving an allegation how are you ever going to engage in normal healthy sex? If you fear divorce how will you ever build a long term relationship with someone or get married? Are these things that you would like to do? Would you like to have sex with women and are you … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/10/21 10:20 AM |
| 1 | I cannot overcome my subconscious misogyny.You said that you regard women as dangerous. How does validating them make you feel in danger? I’m not trying to dismiss you at all. Just trying to understand you better so I can help. *don’t read this comment as accusatory. I’m genuinely curious and looking to help. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/21 10:12 PM |
| 2 | I cannot overcome my subconscious misogyny.What is it about women that you find dangerous? Some women find men dangerous because we’re scared that they will beat, rape or verbally abuse us if we look at them the wrong way or give them a false signal. Why are you afraid of looking at women? What do you find dangerous about us? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Does waiting for sex make men actually respect you more?Does waiting for sex make men actually RESPECT you more? No. Does waiting for sex make some men more attracted to you. Yes. Men who don’t respect women simply view women as lesser regardless of their sexual history. Ask yourself this. Do you really want to be with a man who judges your worth on whether or not you’ve done something completely natural or would you not rather be with someone who views you as a highly respectful woman because of say your academic prowess or your career or simply bec… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | One of the tenets of theredpill is having no clue what Toxic Masculinity really isYes words change over time but that’s not the point. The word toxic is being used to describe aspects of masculinity which are toxic. If people are getting their knowledge from anti feminist sources then it doesn’t matter what word you use, they’re going to intentionally misinterpret it. So changing the word isn’t going to help. I agree that we should make sure that people know the definition of the term if it’s being used. But honestly way too many people just deflect from engaging with positiv… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/21 03:09 PM |
| 6 | One of the tenets of theredpill is having no clue what Toxic Masculinity really isThere’s plenty of it. I’m not American but from what I’ve seen frat culture looks like it can get pretty toxic. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/21 11:47 AM |
| 2 | One of the tenets of theredpill is having no clue what Toxic Masculinity really isNo, we need to stop this idea of replacing words because people don’t like them. It’s the ideas they don’t like and they deflect by claiming to not like the words. The word is fine. And saying that it’s pseudo isn’t true either. The toxicity is masculine, it’s just not the type of masculine which is positive. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/21 11:43 AM |
| 2 | One of the tenets of theredpill is having no clue what Toxic Masculinity really isI don’t think it’s the choice of phrase. I think it’s a mix of people wanting to misinterpret it and lies from the Red Pillers. Like it’s not that hard to figure out. If masculinity was inherently toxic then no one would add toxic at the start. It’s just not how words work. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/21 11:42 AM |
| 4 | I feel like shitWhat a massive generalisation to make when you have no proof. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | I feel like shitKinda of goes to show though doesn’t it? These people genuinely think they’re on level with and can debunk an academic philosophy. I think that if it was focused on women no one would question feminism because it’s roots are so incredibly deep and sound I nearly feel like it’s being anti science. Not the exact same thing but close. I guess they think it’s okay to rip apart something that solid when it’s about women because it mustn’t be legit. Sometimes I wonder how some of these guys would reac… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.You brought in an entirely unrelated event to try to skew the argument into something you could talk about. Literally fuck off with your irrelevant ramblings about international men’s day no one mentioned it. Also how can you take OP literally saying that they have received support from women and take it as women are trying to disband men’s groups? The initial question posed is irrelevant. Yes he says that some people have been against but never specified women. The only thing he says about wome… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/20 10:00 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.I mean we basically are but anyway he says multiple times in response to people that there hasn’t been animosity from anyone in regards to the group so that completely disproves your point. Please only link academic or non biased sources and at least have them be even remotely relevant to the conversation about men’s clubs also. I’m not going to have any respect for you if your only sources are random articles on third party websites about how women are mean. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/20 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.Just to put this question to bed because I didn’t realise you wanted a definitive answer; yes I would use the term toxic Christianity if I was speaking to a Christian in relation to the more toxic aspects of their church. And if someone used the term toxic femininity in front of me I wouldn’t bat an eye because I know how language works and that person isn’t calling femininity toxic they’re talking aspects of it which are. I think a lot of people like to argue about words to avoid talking about … | /r/MensRights | 15/10/20 10:31 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.His comments don’t say anything about women trying to infiltrate the group. He says several times that women are supportive of the group. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/20 09:46 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.I understand that masculinity is big part of many men’s identity and that’s okay, I would never dispute that or try to take it away. I love masculinity for the most part. But I can’t pretend like there aren’t aspects of it that need to change. As a former Catholic I can say the same about the church. I loved the sense of community involved but hated the toxic aspects of it and often speak to people still involved with the church about this and I would use terms such as toxic to describe the way … | /r/MensRights | 15/10/20 09:33 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.So you’ve completely ignored the point I made that you’re reference made no sense. There’s no need to insult me and I’m not lecturing to you because you’re a man. I’m literally telling you that women love and support you. If you want to go to a club like this we won’t stop you and we won’t try to join in. Go enjoy being with other men if you want to no one is stopping you, least of all women. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.But surely the reason people react negatively to the term is because they don’t like the idea. There’s nothing inherently offensive about the term. It’s not used an insult, merely a way of describing something. Many people on this subreddit react similarly when they hear the term feminist. A word and a concept that have existed for hundreds of years. We don’t change words because people don’t like them. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 09:19 PM |
| -4 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.A link to a Reddit post on this subreddit about a similar group in Canada with no reference to women or feminists at all is your response?? Me-women support men’s groups You-no they don’t see *inserts link to a post about a men’s group. Not seeing the relevance only that these groups are popular in other countries too?? Edit- just checked the comments. OP is literally talking about how supportive women are of the organisation! | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 12:23 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.So you don’t mind the term but are offended when you hear it because you’re a man? Then who can say it? It needs to be said you can’t just limit its use to certain people | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 12:13 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.You’re upset because a totally valid term is being used by people that you don’t like. Capitalism can be toxic as can Christianity and femininity and masculinity. All of them have healthy aspects too but you’re just dismissing what you don’t won’t to hear rather than acknowledging the problem. Masculinity can be toxic. Heck I can be toxic and so can you. It doesn’t mean that these things are all inherently toxic at their core. That’s not the claim that is being made when the term is being used. … | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 07:33 AM |
| -4 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.Contrary to popular belief is feminists are very supportive of this kind of thing. It’s good for men to be able to go to these kinds of things. Also I don’t know what you’re talking about they are advertised, these kinds of groups are very popular in Ireland. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/20 10:19 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on this? In Ireland, there's a "Dublin Boys Club" that encourages men to share their real feelings, to explore healthy masculinity and offers a safe place to be vulnerable.Yes both exist. Toxicisity can occur to literally anything it doesn’t make that thing inherently toxic. There’s some extremely toxic aspects of femininity and Christianity and Islam and communism and capitalism but that doesn’t make them all inherently toxic. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/20 10:07 PM |
| 0 | The universe did not abide by her plans.Okay I think I understand it now. But honestly I still don’t agree. First things first it’s way too emotional and one sided. As to your point about reductionism- I’m not playing a game. Reducing someone is wrong no matter their gender. I don’t believe that you can fight fire with fire. Just because some women (and let’s face it’s a minority because I’ve never even heard of that claim before but obviously it exists because you’ve heard it) make the claim that men who want to date women under thir… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/05/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | The universe did not abide by her plans.I just don’t see how slut shaming or shaming of any kind achieves anything. You’re right that I didn’t see the comments that have been deleted but did you know that they were all women? Did you know all of their relationship statuses? Are you certain enough to make such a bold claim as to call an entire group of different people on a basically anonymous website whores? I’m just saying you can’t say that they generalise you based off your opinions and call you names and then turn around and do th… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/05/20 11:30 PM |
| -1 | The universe did not abide by her plans.I’m not denying that women’s fertility decreases as they age. It most definitely does. What I’m saying is is that it doesn’t happen at the rate that some people like to think it does. I’m gonna get ripped apart for this but it needs to be said. A lot of men like to use this decrease in fertility to justify hating women. Sometimes people blow up the figures or ignore a major part of them like how yes a woman might only a 5% chance of getting pregnant on one particular cycle but women have 12 cycl… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/05/20 09:52 PM |
| -2 | The universe did not abide by her plans.I haven’t seen any comments from women on this post. 90% of the comments are people slut shaming. Even your comment. I’m just trying to have a civil conversation here. I would expect moderators to be a bit more civil rather than referring to people as rabid whores. It’s a bit hypocritical to say you enjoy rational discussion and then to act so emotional by referring to people in such a way. I’m not sure I really want to continue this thread anymore based on what I’ve seen. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/05/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | The universe did not abide by her plans.So I guess what your saying is that it varies from person to person right? Your wife has unfortunately been infertile all her life while my aunt been basically the opposite. I’d be happy to leave it anecdotally but I think it’s important to factor menstrual cycles into this conversation which no one in the comments section has done and which i think is really important. From age 25 to 34, a woman has an 86 percent chance of conceiving after trying for a year. Her chances of miscarrying are 10 pe… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/05/20 04:56 PM |
| 5 | The universe did not abide by her plans.Karma doesn’t mean anything to me I’m just shocked by the pettiness of people in this sub and on reddit in general. Just because someone tells them something about their life that not even disproves their view they feel the need to express their distaste. To me my aunt is not an outlier. My mum and my aunt had miscarriages in their mid to late twenties. Several of my aunts has perfectly healthy children in their late thirties to mid forties and one of them at 49. I’m sorry of people don’t like h… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/05/20 04:32 PM |
| -6 | The universe did not abide by her plans.Weird. My aunt had two perfectly healthy children at 47 and 49 with zero complications. Downvoted for telling a true story wow. I’m sorry that ye don’t want to hear about something that happened. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/05/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?I’m no not really. Just pointing out that there are men who believe that women owe them sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 05:23 PM |
| 0 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?They keep resurfacing under new names. And just because they’re banned doesn’t mean incels don’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?Take a look at any of the incel subs mate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doAlright. It doesn’t work like that but you do you. | /r/MGTOW | 18/10/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doOf course you are. | /r/MGTOW | 18/10/19 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doI do pick my battles. I argue with people who deem me to be subhuman, I actually have a fight worth fighting for. | /r/MGTOW | 17/10/19 11:23 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doRead you’re own comments and communicate please. You will find that the word implication is used very lightly. | /r/MGTOW | 17/10/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doNot women’s fault at all? What’s not women’s fault? You don’t even know what your own argument is. You’re just spewing shit and hoping it will stick. You’re absolutely right though, the secret inner truth is on a fucking subreddit. Of course why didn’t I think of this before!? | /r/MGTOW | 17/10/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doThe divorce rate is actually very low at the moment, I don’t know where you got that from. People are being more careful with who they chose to be with. That’s not a bad thing. Men are expensive too, this works both ways. I fully support my boyfriend financially because he’s studying. I pay for everything for both of us. To me men are expensive, you can’t honestly believe we’re still living in a society where men are the sole providers. | /r/MGTOW | 17/10/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doId like to give awards to everyone who combats climate change. I don’t know what hypothetical award you’re talking about here but she hasn’t received anything other than publicity which is a good thing because it raises awareness. Maybe you’re bitter because you don’t see that what she and other people are doing are working. Plastic straws are hard to come by where I’m from now, haven’t seen one in about a year. It’s because big supermarkets stopped selling them. Primark (a major clothing and ho… | /r/MGTOW | 17/10/19 10:15 AM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doWell that’s what it implies. You’re either a pedophile or an idiot, you can’t be both with a comment like that. Let’s just agree that you weren’t aware that words meant things and you’re not a pedophile okay? Just stupid. | /r/MGTOW | 17/10/19 10:05 AM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doWhy would I look on the posts in this subreddit? It’s blatantly biased. I’d much prefer to read genuine sources, all of which stare otherwise. | /r/MGTOW | 17/10/19 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doFrom your perspective maybe. But you see it as “women are expensive fuck that” whereas most other people see it as “marriage is expensive fuck that” You’re saying that the cause is women, when it’s not, it’s the whole idea of marriage in the first place. | /r/MGTOW | 17/10/19 09:55 AM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doI have absolutely nothing to back up my point because my point is to disprove all of your points which I’ve done. Men aren’t opting out of marriage. Millennials are, both men and women have stopped getting married for cultural and financial reasons. You can’t just take things and put your own little twist on it. Do you think that men have just had enough of women and have now collectively decided that marriage isn’t worth it? Oh honey no, that’s not what’s happening, you’re little counter cultur… | /r/MGTOW | 17/10/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doYou’re just assuming that, there’s no basis for it. And then you go on to say stereotypes exist for a reason. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men do“She’s legal in her home country” if you have to bring that up you know you’re a fucking pedophile. There’s no technicalities here. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doMost false rape accusations are made against men because most rape accusations are made against men because most rapes are caused by men. More men are raped by other men than are raped by women. Stereotypes are wrong no matter what, and you can’t use them to justify further stereotypes. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doSo your basing your opinion off a fake show and then you’re own personal experience with your mom? Yeah still not seeing anything solid here, come back with some science next time. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doImplying that you are more knowledgeable than other people because you believe in construct you made up is pretty hierarchal. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doYou’re basing your hypothesis on episodes of Maury? Wow no wonder you’re so disengaged. If that was the case all men would be looser alcoholic dads who can’t stop cheating. That’s the worst argument I’ve ever heard. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doDon’t know about the us because I don’t live there but it’s a well established fact that there is far less false rape accusations than their are genuine ones, also most of the false ones are made from people with severe mental disabilities. Also you’re completely missing the point, you can’t argue against generalisation with more generalisation. It’s wrong to stereotype, you can’t just do it because other people do too, that’s a shite reason. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doNice of you to assume I’m American. Greta is a European like myself, my country is doing plenty to combat climate change. She’s not talking about America, she literally never mentioned it. You’re just living in a bubble. I never said she could make a change to the corporations she’s speaking to. I said she’s trying to. There’s a difference. You can’t hate a child for trying. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men do“Why should I not generalise women when you and their lot do that on the daily” Do you see the huge oxymoron in that sentence? Like it’s literally gaping. It’s not common behaviour anyway it’s a misconception created by people who are disengaged from society. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doIf I’m a government agent why am I not getting paid? Get me big daddy on the phone, he hasn’t been doing his fucking job. I think I’ll stay until you start making sense or I start getting my compensation. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doDude you seriously have an issue. You were more than happy to speak with me until you found out my gender that says a lot. I think I’ll stay here, considering all I had to do was press on a link to get her and didn’t have to send a picture of my dick or anything. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doSorry I wasn’t aware there was gendered subs (that’s a bit fucked up) I just found this from a cross post. Kick me I suppose. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doIt is most definitely sexist to make a generalisation about half the population of the world, you can’t down play that. They fact that you’re even trying to is extremely worrying. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doShe’s trying to change it from the top, which will ultimately have a much greater affect. I can’t believe you hate a child for wanting bad people to stop doing bad things. This isn’t about the government or anyone’s taxes there’s 195 different countries involved in this. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doShe didn’t even say that. You just take everything personally. Women aren’t out to get you. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doI’m a woman lol nice assumption there lovie. Still would like to know where you got the tinfoil hat? | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doNot at all. She wants big companies and countries to try to make a change. Would you rather we change nothing at all? | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Women scream - Men doTo make Americans more taxes? Not to I dunno stop climate change globally? | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 12:16 PM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men do“The government...the government...the government” there’s a hundred and ninety five countries in the world. The Irish government isn’t planting trees to try to make Americans pay more tax. The Swedish government is paying a little girl to force Americans to pay more taxes. There’s no “government” climate change is a world wide issue. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doWhere’d you get your tinfoil hat? Did you make it yourself? | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doI didn’t say that they would. I’m replying to the incorrect statement which says she was only addressing the United States. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doI’m not mgtow. Because you’re a hypocrite, don’t engage in subreddits that are supposed to be wholesome that encourage men to live their best lives if your just a sexist bitter asshole. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 10:49 AM |
| 0 | Women scream - Men doIt’s not a mean name. You literally called her a fuckhole. A hole for fucking. You fucking pedophile. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doNo, grow up. You’re not better or more woke then anyone else, you’ve just subscribed to this theory to comfort yourself. | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 10:47 AM |
| 3 | Women scream - Men doShe’s Swedish | /r/MGTOW | 15/10/19 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Women scream - Men doLife isn’t the fucking matrix | /r/MGTOW | 15/10/19 11:17 PM |
| -2 | Women scream - Men doI wonder why she was speaking at the United Nations???? Perhaps because she was addressing multiple hmm I don’t know nations? Stop being so ameri-centric, not everything is about you. | /r/MGTOW | 15/10/19 11:15 PM |
| -2 | Women scream - Men doGo your own fucking way already and stop bitching | /r/MGTOW | 15/10/19 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Women scream - Men doGovernment of where? Do you think Sweden were like let’s send a 16 year old over to the states so Americans will have to pay more tax?? What kind of logic even is that? | /r/MGTOW | 15/10/19 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Red pills leaking to the main pageYou’re just stereotyping half the population of the world. Women don’t “prattle” some women you know do. It’s not an inherently feminine trait. The world isn’t that simple. | /r/MGTOW | 09/10/19 09:35 AM |
| 0 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.Because you never implied that the reason why you were worried was because of your sons race until after you were called out. I would ban someone for saying “I’m worried my son will be falsely accused of rape” because it’s a stupid and inconsiderate thing to say. Saying “I’m scared because I live in a country with systematic racism and I’m scared that because my son is black he will be falsely accused as rape because it’s more common for white women to accuse black men” You have to remember that… | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 09:34 AM |
| 0 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.To be fair though you are telling two very different stories. | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 07:59 AM |
| 0 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.I don’t see why it doesn’t. The African American thing I won’t comment on because I’m not American so I can’t understand that experience although I’m sure it’s real. However, I don’t see why you need to make a bigger deal out of the sex thing than it is. Someone asked if he wanted to and he said no. That’s it. There’s nothing more to it. It doesn’t make the girl bad for suggesting it and it doesn’t make him bad for turning it down, it works the same way the other way around. | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.No, you need to read up on things before spewing shite. Third wave is inclusionary feminism i.e women of colour and different religions. Fourth wave mirrors second wave in that it’s to do with reproductive rights, except in the 70’s feminists wanted contraception now it’s things like corporate sexism and me too. | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.Understandably | /r/MGTOW | 16/09/19 06:49 AM |
| 4 | Red pills leaking to the main pageCan I call ya white? | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 11:15 PM |
| 19 | Red pills leaking to the main pageBecause people use their real names on reddit, Mr Shadow | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.Yeah call it as it is. Don’t call people retards and don’t mistake your waves of feminism. This is clearly fourth wave | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 10:26 PM |
| 0 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.No women don’t mind mgtow if they actually go there own way. You do you, literally no one cares. | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.Just teach him to respect women and then there won’t be any ambiguity. | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.Good thing stereotypes work both ways | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.Mate...what is your life? | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Believing that you were raped because you regretted sex is a new level of idiocy. I don't think there is a word "heavy" enough in the English dictionary to describe how retarded these women are.Ah yes for the mone-y wait no the eh fuck...hmmm we want the general collective sympathy of the world yes! That’s it! Like all the people who claim they were robbed when they weren’t! And those fuckers who say they were assaulted but weren’t! You know those guys ?? | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 10:21 PM |
| -1 | Red pills leaking to the main pageWhat the fuck is an emotional tampon? | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Red pills leaking to the main pageMaybe women who think that acting normal makes them different because they feel like acting normal isn’t womanly. Saying “I’m different because I have actual thoughts and feelings” because they’re lead to believe that women don’t have those things | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 10:16 PM |
| 25 | Red pills leaking to the main pageIt’s definitely a man. They use they when describing women | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/19 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Saw this in a high school. Thought it was interesting coming from a class room of kids.But dramatic there bud | /r/MensRights | 29/05/19 12:56 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter