beebeeteepee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I'm finally done with my NVX!	#KickHimOut2020	beebeeteepee	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/20 04:56 PM
1	I'm good listening to myself	THINGS SCROTES SAY	beebeeteepee	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/20 03:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why do these questions rub me the wrong way? This article popped up in my email today! Thanks FBI Agent! https://getpocket.com/explore/item/8-questions-to-ask-someone-other-than-what-do-you-do Great vetting questions in there: "What are you looking forward to? / Where did you grow up? / Is there a charitable cause you support? / What’s the most important thing I should know about you?" I wouldn't even mind being asked these questions in return since they deter Pick Me responses. And moving away from "What do you do" means I don't have to p…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 07:01 PM
2	Rejecting patriarchy is hard. Let’s get that shit straight right now. My grandmother lectured me recently on her disgust with body hair on women. I laughed when I told her I'm not planning to shave anytime soon. I only trim when I can see the hair with my arms down. 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 05:47 PM
11	How To Establish The Emotional Labour Split Early Saving this and might even add it to the FDS section in my journal.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 04:00 AM
7	Rejecting patriarchy is hard. Let’s get that shit straight right now. Hairy armpits solidarity!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 03:37 AM
25	The day I coddle a grown man is the day I die. - I'm not my mother and I'm not his mother, period. My father died when my mom was still young enough to live her life. My grandmother, however, was put through the ringer by my grandfather and still has the physical scars to show today. Yet, she still argues on the side of patriarchy and women behaving as they did in 50's rural Cuban. I'm so very glad to live in a time where it is possible to leave your husband/SO. Finding out that women legally couldn't open bank accounts until the 1960's made me furious and grateful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 03:26 AM
50	Just another movie normalizing grooming and age gaps 🤢 15?!?! Everyday I'm once again convinced that I don't want to raise any children, let along daughters, in this world.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 03:16 AM
43	Saw this going viral on FB. Pick me’s are in the replies saying “hE jUsT wAnTs tO sEe tHe ReAL yOu!” I see the Pickme's side but that's the bottom line I was looking for. I look how I look for me. Period.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 03:04 AM
6	PSA: thank you FDA mods who go over and beyond 💛 Thank you Mods! You really are doing God's work in making sure that we can live our reddit lives in peace.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/20 01:12 AM
10	“I don’t have to put with this.” I love this and need to hear it like this! Using the saying as an affirmation is helpful because in the moment you can say it and immediately make it better. My solution is usually walk the hell away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/20 11:24 PM
71	My abusive NVM ex and his perfect girlfriend are the best lesson I ever received I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I send you all the positivity and love that the internet can send.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/20 09:19 PM
22	This girl is coming for 50/50 culture. A lot of pick me’s are mad bc they just haven’t learned yet Saving this for rebuttals!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 04:33 PM
3	Post on r/ trashy. You should see the comments. Such a young boy already saying "she wanted it". And they find it all funny, the comnents are so disgusting, I have completely lost hope in men. This little boy doesn't even know how to use "it" but insists that his adult teacher wants "it".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 04:25 PM
3	When a LVM sabotages the relationship Deluded is the best way to describe it. I feel like most of the gaslighting he does is so he can convince himself that he's a good guy. Fuck him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 01:31 AM
7	Why do old men think young women and girls dress up for them? There was a post the other day about men not taking care of their infant daughters because of their sexual perversions. They can't accept that there are humans attached to the sex organs, so they can be entitled to sexualize everyone. Those are the same men catcalling in their 80's. 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 01:28 AM
11	Why do old men think young women and girls dress up for them? Entitlement. That's it. They think they are entitled to us (all of us) until the day they die.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/20 07:22 PM
2	Not being around your NVM/LVM means also no longer being around his friends and family, you have the freedom now to be around a group of people you ACTUALLY want to be around. You no longer have to frequent the same shops or deal with the same temper tantrums, being ignored, being lied to Thank you for this! 🙏🏽 I've said for years, every relationship I've had has taught me what I don't want in the next one. Now I'm on that self-love journey and learning that the old me shows me how not to be in the future. Accepting the mistakes and growing from them. Finding the trauma and healing. That's the hard part for me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/20 07:07 PM
7	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020 I'm coming out of a 4 year long relationship with a NVM. I had a few of FDS awakenings about a year before leaving but the trauma bond was deep. I spent one Sunday reading the entire handbook and know that while I don't have Pickme traits I am still holding on to baggage from him. Leaving meant moving in with my mom and downgrading to a minimum wage job to avoid confrontation. The job has since downsized due to Covid and now I'm working on fulfilling my photography dream. I refer to the Mindset …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 10:34 PM
6	When a LVM sabotages the relationship Got a blocked voicemail this morning from my narc ex saying he still didn't know why I left. The only reason he can think of is that I left with another man. I have explained to this man why I left until my face was blue and red. Yet he still doesn't understand why. 🤦🏽‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 07:56 PM