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100%. Recently have grown to appreciate this status for all these reasons. Such an empowering and liberating feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:24 AM
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So right about the hardest step is the first one of trusting oneself with no one else around to trust. It can be so, so hard but over time, with enough practice and by cultivating the right relationships, it builds so much resilience and paves the way the way for the abundance mindset. Needed this reminder so thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:23 PM
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Been wondering the exact same thoughts lately and this thread is just confirming these thoughts lol Similar to OP also, have had thoughts about what would happen down the line; it is likely you will never truly know someone. So much effort is required to do so and most of the time, it's not usually worth it considering the risk and reward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:10 AM
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This is so interesting! Thanks for sharing. Always great to see FDS concepts from a different perspective/discipline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:45 AM
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Sadly been that friend that knows what to do but doesn't want to do it. Thank you for the reminder though that decisions that don't feel right ≠ not the right decision. Much like there is no "right" time for a breakup, when you know it's time to go, it's time no to go. Putting it off for the "right" time will just stop you from making it happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:07 PM
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Because trust me it's much harder to try to walk away after you think you're rejected simply for being you vs being rejected because you behaved incorrectly. This. Exactly why we need to work on ourselves so that we know who we truly are. People will bring you down but if you know you are, you know that your worth will never be in the hand of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:07 PM
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Growing up being called mean, this used to hurt me. I realised over time though I was just someone who didn't tolerate bs and just wanted everyone to reach their full potential! Unfortunately, I also realised that not everyone wants to and not everyone wants the tough love comes along with it. Ooh well energy better spent elsewhere (e.g. myself)! (edit: grammar)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:56 AM
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Best feeling ever 🙌🏼 Such a big advocate for nourishing relationships outside of romantic ones for this reason: you don't have to be in a romantic relationship to feel connected with others. Romantic relationships may come and go but good, platonic relationships will be a constant in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:24 PM
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The "what is the love story I want to tell my kids?" is such a good idea. Been thinking along similar lines: if, years into the future, people asked about how you met and how he courted you in the early stages, would you be proud and get excited to talk about what he did? If you can't and there have been inconsistencies throughout the relationship then it's time to let that man go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:49 PM
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Love this! Main reasons why OLD is a no no for me now as it is so much easier to vet quickly in person. Most of the time, you can easily walk away if you're not feeling and get on with your day. Don't have to think about what this person is like irl, why they're not texting you etc unlike the early stages in OLD. Can also confirm the glare/stare when they step out of line also works. For someone with a rbf and who thinks a lot before she speaks most of the time, I often do this without realising…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:51 PM
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Love this energy! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:03 PM
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So important! Being in a similar situation to OP where FDS was preached by the women in my life, it can be so hard to implement when their experiences speak the complete opposite. Feels like you have to work twice as hard to live and breathe FDS as a result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:18 AM
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Never thought about it this way but is a new perspective for myself. I ended up being the one reaping the benefits of my ex's ex-gf work and thinking about it now, I am grateful for what for what she has done because I would not have known what it meant to be treated by so well by a man. Unfortunately, it obviously didn't work out. Like you however, it does make me more mindful now of finding someone who is also already good to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:08 AM
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It's very easy to fall into the trap of using it as a shortcut way to determine whether someone is HV or not. As noted, goes to show how important and necessary vetting is and how rigorous we must be when doing so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:18 AM
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Can't agree more! I think it is very telling of one's character, how one deals with life during times like these. Easy to live the highs of life but it's often during the lows when we learn the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:28 AM
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Different circumstances (fresh out of grad school!) but have been feeling the same sort of panic every now and then as a 25 year old and not getting married by 30. 30 is most definitely not old and there is so much more to do in life than thinking about it starting/ending with a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:28 AM
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Thanks for all that you do mods and thank you for being so transparent 💕Definitely helps alleviate the anxiety some of us newbies may be feeling. Do also want to echo some of the comments about still learning FDS and hence the hesitation some of us may have about posting. Best way to learn though is to engage and I think this sub does a great job of encouraging this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:13 AM
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Yeees! This is so important. Being in one-sided friendships can be just as bad as one-sided relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:18 AM
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Can definitely relate to the cycle of being on/off on OLD and the feelings that come with it. Realised it might not be for me either 🤷‍♀️So glad keeping off it worked out for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:56 AM
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