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beencounter/r/RedPillWomen31/08/13 06:19 AM
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Sound advice!
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 04:48 AM
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LOL oh geez. I guess I've been a little preoccupied huh!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/13 01:52 AM
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I'm 26 and I began dating my SO several months ago. It was a long search in the sense that I'd had some awful relationships prior. Anyways, him and I met a couple years before we started dating. He is my best friend's sister. We started as friends and slowly developed romantic feelings for each other. It's been the most fulfilling, happy, rewarding relationship to date (and well worth waiting for). I would say that yes, we began dating knowing that marriage material was what we were both looking…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/13 06:42 PM
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This is exactly what I want and have been building in my relationship. I think of the submission in this way - which is a quote from another post in this sub: "Submission is a gift that one person chooses to give to another person..."
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/13 03:58 AM
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I am 26 but very real. I've always subscribed to the ideals here. You'll find a woman out there that does too, we do exist :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/13 07:00 PM
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Good for you! This is awesome!
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/13 11:29 PM
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Yeah, I agree. Hormonal birth control just makes you feel like a watered down dull version of yourself. And the traditional woman in me feels that if my partner and I aren't okay with possible pregnancy, we shouldn't be having sex anyway...
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/13 04:33 AM
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Especially when they are clearly not redpill!
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/13 07:09 PM
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Those are probably the same people getting divorced before 30.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/13 04:30 PM
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It really is... I am thanking my lucky stars we're not those women ;)
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/13 04:26 PM
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Putting men into neat little boxes like this - like a tool you take off the shelf when you need it - only serves to perpetuate their poor treatment of women, which, in turn, just compounds the issues feminists rant about - but who the hell can blame them?
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/13 04:12 PM
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I can't believe this. Is marriage just a joke now? If women that stupid think they can just hang out wait for a man's first marriage to "end" what makes them think he'd take the second one seriously, if it even happened at all? Do they actually want to be alone? Or is this just a good way to cope with how badly they've screwed up? Are feminists really turning marriage into something this petty? Secondly, of course men want to date younger women. A man's drive is to reproduce, and the younger a w…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/13 04:06 PM
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ಠ_ಠ
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/13 04:37 PM
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Excellent, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/13 08:09 PM
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Nice!!!! We'll have to keep in touch throughout the process :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/13 08:09 PM
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Yes, they do! They are never going to get that type of love from him, and trying for it is just going to leave both of them unhappy and resentful. But, yes, excellent point, I suppose that is what the teenage years are for!
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/13 07:56 PM
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Haha, same to you! He wants it, he just doesn't realize it yet. I don't think he's had a redpill woman until me (even better for me, right!) :D
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/13 07:55 PM
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As you check out this sub you'll find that many of the Red Pill Women here share a distinct, somewhat rare (in women) personality type that views communication more for information . . . Yep. Actions speak louder than words. If he does what he needs to do as a man, that's all the communication we're going to need. Men are not communicative creatures by nature. The woman's role is to do the communicating and to know what the man needs and wants by his actions and emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/13 07:53 PM
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I'm sorry to butt in here, but I'm new to the terminology, what is intj or entj?
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/13 07:50 PM
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Submission is a gift that one person chooses to give to another person. “Loving Submission” cannot be enforced upon a person. Either a person submits of their own free will, or they do not “truly submit”, at all. This is such a beautiful explanation.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/13 07:44 PM
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That is awesome! Congratulations! I am so glad to hear that you and your man are doing well. :) I went through a bout of this as well, I was raised the same way. I would try to tell myself I wanted a career and did not want children, and was about a tenth as happy as I am now. I don't know why, but all of a sudden a light bulb went off and I realized that is just not who I am. I was already redpill when I met my current boyfriend, and I know he wants the "nuclear family" type set up, but I've go…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/13 07:40 PM
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Yes, that is how I see it also. Nothing makes me happier than pleasing my boyfriend, but I do this as more of a big picture thing too. I know if I submit to him as much as I can, down the road when I need him to do something for me, chances are he's going to. I think it helps stabilize the relationship because the men feel they have the control they need and feel that they can trust us. I read a RedPill article that describes that there are only two types of love a man can feel - love for his da…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/13 07:33 PM
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Yes exactly! Of course every woman wants what feminists are suppressing. Its the natural order of things. Our makeup as women creates the biological drive to not only reproduce, but to nurture, give, and be dominated. That is where our strength lies. That is why the only feminists you meet are so angry and pent up. It's got to be subconscious hell going against your own instincts 100% of the time.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/13 07:21 PM
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Allowing the man to have most of the duties and dominance actually gives the woman power in most situations, because by allowing him to dominate he feels stable and in control, which makes it easier for the woman to guide him into giving her what she wants. There is a lot of power in submission!
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/13 07:18 PM
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My favorite "red pill" song may not be a tearjerker but it describes perfectly what I/we want .. Where have all the cowboys gone...
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/13 04:36 PM
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I don't consider it submission either. I prefer to call it respect. You've got to have enough respect for your partner to keep your arguments private and in the bedroom. And it really is uncomfortable. It's horrible to see. My friend does this to her boyfriend in front of us all the time and it's sickening to even watch. She better not expect a ring from him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/13 04:14 PM
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Excellent advice. Contradicting or arguing of any kind needs to be done privately. I would imagine that being contradicted by a wife is bad enough, but being contradicted in public would be devastating to his ego and masculinity. He will harbor resentment for quite awhile.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/13 05:06 AM
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Yep, I can't really see anything "ridiculous" here. I suppose the author forgot to compare the divorce rate from the 50s with the divorce rate today!
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/13 10:40 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/13 10:39 PM
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Finding this group, and others like it, has been such a sweet surprise. I love this comment. Finding this sub was such an amazing moment for me too. I was starting to think that women that share these ideals were a thing of the past and that I would be burned at the stake for wanting a red pill relationship. It is so wonderful to converse with you ladies that feel as passionate about this as I do. I've got a couple girlfriends that like the idea, but none with the conviction that I have. I reall…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/13 09:59 PM
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Can you link to the actual story? Clicked twice and got directed to a main news page. I really want to read this!
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/13 09:48 PM
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Realizing this changed my life. Happiness really is a choice. If you decide you want to be happy rather than expecting life to give you happiness, you will find it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/13 09:43 PM
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Pleasing others brings so much joy. Especially my man. It is so amazing to see him smile and know that something I have done, large or small, is the reason behind it. I wish that more women would give this a chance! His happiness can become your happiness, and shared happiness like that will just strengthen your bond and bring you closer together. It is such a wonderful feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/13 09:34 PM
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This is perfect! When I submit to something I may not completely enjoy, all I have to do is remind myself how amazing he is and how awful it would be to be alone and without him. It works every time :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/13 09:27 PM
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Late to the thread but I want to comment. I have always been naturally red-pill. I believe 100% in traditional gender roles and would not be comfortable in any other role for myself. I find myself wanting to submit to my man naturally. I would not be comfortable in a role that puts me in the dominant position. I believe that as a woman, it is my duty in life to serve him and bare him children. This would also give me a sense of purpose and complete fulfillment in life. Now, the interesting thing…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/13 05:23 PM
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And she shouldn't. Taking the man's name is one of the cornerstones of marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/13 05:12 PM
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Always choose the dress whenever possible!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/13 06:55 PM
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Yesterday I attended a wedding and witnessed this first hand. It made me very angry and a bit revolted. I was standing there in my dress and heels, and this cow of a woman started going on and on about how she never dresses up for anything and would never wear heels. She said she doesn't even understand how or why woomen wear them. I did not even bother to join the conversation. I think we have a duty as women to dress up for our men no matter the occasion. If we don't, I think it puts an enormo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/13 06:54 PM
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Perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/13 11:40 PM
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This is exactly why they are being so cruel towards to you. They cannot understand that you are not one of "them" and will not be joining them in their feminist escapades. They are not happy. They are alone, and here you are with a wonderful man. These "friends" are jealous of what you have, and by admonishing your lifestyle, they are assuming they can break you away from your man to join them in their misery. Don't listen to them. You are making the right choice. Your marriage will be better fo…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/13 10:16 PM
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Feminism has only succeeded in cheapening women. Now it's acceptable to dress and behave like a whore? To refuse to have a family? To refuse to let someone provide for them? Well, no wonder we aren't taken seriously.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 10:12 PM
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Society encourages women to be like men. So if the message is for men to go out and so their seeds, then women are given the same message. WHY does society encourage this?!? IMO, women get the better deal in traditional gender roles. Who the hell wants to do the heavy lifting? I sure as hell don't. We are different for a REASON. But being different does not mean being less or not being equal! It just means we need to re-think our differences as our strengths as genders and embrace them!
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/13 07:47 PM
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What I have never understood is how feminists seem to think that this sort of behavior and lifestyle is a benefit to them! It is much more beneficial to be a with a stable, strong, providing man then to date 100 guys for five minutes each and end up alone. Oh, sure, you're independent and you're modern, but you are miserable. I realized years ago that I subscribe to TRP principles and that that is what I genuinely want out of life (before I discovered this subreddit or reddit itself) and the rea…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/13 07:43 PM
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