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This is an anonymous account lol
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 06:37 PM
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There’s somebody for everybody. But IMO, when you have a sketchy past, you are going to have to lower your standards. Decide what you are most willing to compromise on. In my case, I am married to a great guy now, despite my extremely high body count. More than 50, less than 100. I used to do sex work, and even porn when I was 18. When I met my husband, I was 25, had just moved to a conservative state, was into red pill traditionalism, and was in training to be a midwife. I have never been calle…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 01:18 PM
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That’s cause they’ll be stoned to death if they’re not 🙃🙃
/r/RedPillWives10/02/23 02:42 PM
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Why doing you just ask him point blank if he’s purposely delaying the wedding
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/23 07:24 PM
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Just don’t discuss it with them. If you want to be polite you can listen to their lectures and pretend to agree, and then just do whatever you wanted anyway. Or you can shut them down and outright refuse to discuss your choices with them. They’ll stop talking to you about it eventually
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/22 06:01 PM
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I’d also add interior design!
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/22 03:59 PM
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Your ability to pair bond is decreased with every new partner, whether you’re male or female. Also, HPV is a concern when he’s been around
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 11:35 PM
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Omg please don’t waste your prime years on this fool. It will be hard at first but think about what you really want for your future and just rip off the band aid
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 05:33 PM
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I never said men don’t take risks when agreeing to marriage. I’m fully aware that it’s typically much riskier for the man. But that doesn’t mean that as a woman, you should just assume the same risks you’d take in a marriage (like buying a house or having kids), without the marriage. That’s extremely unwise for her.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 12:56 AM
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If he wants kids, then he’s really just full of it cause he should be able to see that a good woman would not agree to make that sacrifice without him holding up his end of the deal (marriage). Also that marriage benefits his future children. If he doesn’t want kids, there’s really no reason to even be dating him, since childless marriage doesn’t benefit him and he would never marry you anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 12:46 AM
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DO NOT buy a house together if you’re not married. Terrible idea. Haven’t you ever watched judge Judy??
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 12:38 AM
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Oh good!
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/22 03:23 AM
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Why not get married before having a baby? I understand not wanting to plan your wedding amid all the covid restrictions that are likely to pick up again this fall, but you could still just do a courthouse wedding or an elopement and then plan your actual wedding when things have calmed down. I’m old fashioned but imo, planning for a baby when you are not legally married is putting the cart before the horse.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/22 02:40 AM
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Wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. As terrible as IVF was, I was one of the lucky ones. The transfer worked, I’m currently 20 weeks and this is my first Mother’s Day 🥲
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 03:50 PM
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Yea pretty much but I think minimizing the problem in his head was just his way of coping. Cause the “blame” for infertility was on him. What made me anxious was the uncertainty of IVF. There were a lot of bumps in the road that cost more time and money. And you can never get any guarantee that it’s going to work. I was anxious about the side effects of all the drugs, anxious because of the drugs, anxious about the outcome of the egg retrieval, anxious about how many eggs would fertilize, anxiou…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 03:49 PM
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The first SA had a count of 9 million, motility 64%, and morphology 5%. So the count was very low, supposed to be >15million, but the other two were ok. This was after trying 2 years. I got blood work and everything was normal on my end. We kept trying another year and went for another SA. This time his count was only 4 million, 50% motility and 1% morphology. Which would make spontaneous conception basically impossible.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 03:30 PM
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I did. We tried for years with no luck. Finally we got a semen analysis and the results were not good. He acted like he didn’t care. We did IVF and the process took 8 months from the consultation to the frozen embryo transfer. It was absolutely the worst experience of my life. I was not an anxious person before starting IVF. It really put a huge strain on our marriage, and the hormones made me feel so out of control. I was not myself during that time. Honestly, nothing made me feel better during…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 01:13 PM
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I agree with this. I think of it like a marriage is a family’s boat. If it sinks, you’ll all drown.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/22 08:19 PM
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For me, in the early stages, it feels like fireworks. Lust/infatuation. Eventually that turns into a feeling of comfort and safety. Still horny for him, but it’s more manageable and I think more about our future together than our next romp. I’ve never loved anyone as much as I love my husband. I love him passionately, even when our relationship was on the rocks and we had explosive fights. That was pretty early on though. Love alone is never enough to go the distance, you have to actively work t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/22 06:33 PM
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Wtf. This is extremely judgmental and none of his damn business. Unless there was a legitimate medical reason why you shouldn’t have more kids, he has no right to tell you that! What a prick
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 01:18 AM
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Wtf. This is extremely judgmental and none of his damn business. Unless there was a legitimate medical reason why you shouldn’t have more kids, he has no right to tell you that’s what a prick
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 01:17 AM
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Right, either she has an enabler or the state is filling that role for her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 07:53 PM
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Mostly yes. But there are still women on here who pipe up with non RPW advice though. I think it’s very hard to find a group of real life friends who are tradition wives and mothers. That’s so rare these days. I’m lucky to have my SIL who is pretty traditional, but all my other friends from my early 20s are promiscuous single moms or career women now
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 02:49 PM
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Full time mom, but she’s single. Our tax dollars at work!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 02:24 PM
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Sooo you made yourself unattractive to him and now you’re shocked that he’s dumping you? Sounds like he’s already moved on.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 01:02 PM
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What is the point of medical school if your dream is to settle down? Do you want children? A nanny or daycare will be raising them while you work off your school debt. You’ll miss important moments and memories with the kids, and you’ll be an inattentive wife. Your work will consume you. Don’t fall into this “have it all!” mindset. It’s a trap. You CANT have it all. It’s this OR that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 01:12 AM
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This is a really shitty situation and I feel for you. I agree that you did fuck up your life. I don’t know what advice to offer since you’re stuck between a rock and a hard place. But I commend you for the self awareness.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 01:55 PM
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I would think he knows you well enough to know that you don’t want a public spectacle. He will probably do something very sweet and intimate and you’ll cherish the memory forever! Also, my MIL is having her 7th wedding (yes, 7th!!!) and still doing ALL the things. Engagement party, bridal shower, bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, and big extravagant wedding for lucky number 7.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/22 03:34 PM
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When a guy says “I’m not in a place for anything serious right now”, the “with you” is silent. Believe him. You let him use you for a pump and dump. Your first mistake was thinking you could change his mind. Learn from this experience moving forward. If he tells you he doesn’t want a relationship, but continues to pursue you, he is after sex and only sex. And you are correct that him continuing to follow you and view your posts means absolutely nothing. Don’t read into this.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/22 01:51 PM
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He doesn’t want more kids. Can’t blame him for having a traumatic intro to fatherhood. Also where does he stand on marriage? Cause you really shouldn’t be pressuring him into your timeline for kids when you aren’t even married. I think a cut off of 26 when you’re already 24 is too soon. He could propose today, and engagement would be about a year and then you wouldn’t even be married for a year before getting pregnant. Assuming you can get pregnant on schedule, cause that doesn’t always happen! …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 09:39 PM
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Absolutely not. Men DO NOT CARE about your career at all, besides what use would all that student debt be if your goal is to be a SAHM. Totally pointless. Also, you don’t have to go to college to be intelligent. Don’t be lazy though, you should have a job before you get married so that you can pay for your own stuff without relying on anyone. Trade schools are a great option. Before I became a housewife I was a midwife, and before that I was a massage therapist.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 01:40 PM
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Salads, casseroles, and one pot meals
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 12:37 PM
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Idk about percentage, but we are a white Christian couple that loves America. I don’t work, my husband handles all the finances. I always have the house cleaned and food cooked. Right now we live in an apartment but we will be moving to our 12 acre homestead once the house is finished being built. I’m currently pregnant with our first and we hope to have 3 or more. I’ll be home birthing and home schooling. I guess the only non trad thing we do is my husbands crossdressing fetish🤷🏻‍♀️ but thankfu…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 09:56 PM
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You don’t. He sounds like an immature asshole! You are young and can meet someone much better who is NICE to you
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 06:41 PM
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Take satisfaction in knowing that they will be forever alone with their cats.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 01:16 PM
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He’s not pursuing you. Or if in his mind he is, he is just too passive to make anything happen without you being the one to chase and be overtly forward. If you don’t want to do that, this isn’t the guy for you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 01:47 PM
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People are nicer and more willing to do things for those with pretty privilege, which makes life much easier more opportunities, which often means earning more money it’s easier to make friends it’s easier to date the guys that you really want More confident about appearance, which boosts overall self confidence As a woman, so much of our worth is based on our physical appearance. It’s not fair but that’s just how it is. So if you are a pretty woman, you are living on easy mode. I’ve never been …
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/22 04:12 AM
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And that’s if she can even get pregnant at all!! Infertility is 1 in 8, and those stats are based on data that’s over 10 years old, it’s probably more like 1 in 6 now. But everyone still just thinks they can have a baby whenever they want!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 11:32 PM
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Exactly lol. I was with the same guy from 16-24. I then dated a much better guy for a year and married him 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 08:06 PM
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One room at a time. Work my way from the back of the house to the front. Certain chores (clean fridge, steam floors, wash sheets, do laundry, wipe baseboards, scrub shower) done on a weekly or bi weekly schedule that’s on my whiteboard
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/22 02:38 AM
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Enjoy being a single mom. He’s never going to live up to your expectations even if he was eventually able to buy a house and pay all the bills so you can be a SAHM. You’ll always be disappointed. Your mother taught you to aim high in your expectations of your partner. Seems that fell on deaf ears. Why would you allow yourself to get pregnant by a broke dude, while also being unmarried? That was a very poor decision, and hopefully moving forward you will learn from this. If you do decide to keep …
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 07:46 PM
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Definitely don’t be playing house with a man who’s not your husband. Personally I didn’t even think about being a housewife until I got really serious about having kids. Then it was just the logical issue of not wanting to have someone else raising them so I can work. I was a midwife before I met my husband. And stopped working now that I’m pregnant. But I was already working a lot less once he got a great paying career. It just made more sense for me to stop working as much at that point, and n…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/22 01:18 AM
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It shows a lack of love. Perhaps an incapability to love. It’s just hedonism and nothing more. I would NEVER allow this in my marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 07:58 PM
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Because you are convenient and comfortable, for now. He probably does care for you on an emotional level, to some extent. But it will never be enough to marry you or even be faithful to you. If you stay with him it will go nowhere and you will inevitably become very bitter and resentful. That’ll be when he decides you are no longer convenient and comfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 03:47 PM
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I’ve read through your other comments. This is VERY obviously a dead end relationship and you should have realized that early on.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 03:40 PM
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I started trying at 24. I wanted to have 3 or 4 kids. I thought I’d have one every other year and be done by the time I was 31. I ended up having to do IVF at 28. Male factor infertility and then later found out I have some reproductive immune dysfunction issues as well. I’m finally pregnant now and I still want to have 3 or 4. I’ve just had to accept that I’ll be an older mom. Fertility ain’t fair. But I do plan to stop by the time I’m 35
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 02:47 PM
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I was just thinking about this and wishing there was one!! If we started our own, what would be call it?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 03:57 AM
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I don’t think it’s possible to objectively calculate your own value. There are things that definitely increase or decrease your value. I think we all know what those are. But then there are things like your own personality, social skills, and intelligence can’t be judged objectively.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 03:55 AM
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Come up with 4 meal plans. 3 squares and 3 snacks a day. Get glass Tupperware if you don’t already have it. Make a shopping list for that week. Prep and eat that for the week. It’s a lot easier to stick to home cooked meals when you aren’t trying to figure out what to cook on a daily basis. You just buy enough food for a week and then you’ll only need to cook about twice
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/22 03:33 PM
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I always pack my husband’s lunch for him to take to work. If I didn’t do it the night before, I’ll bring it to him before his break.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/22 03:21 PM
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You should move. Plain and simple, dating is hard enough and living in a city where the vast majority of men will not share your values adds a whole new level of difficulty. I lived in the Bay Area, California most of my life and then moved to Utah. 2 years later, I got married and now I’m a housewife. This wouldn’t have happened if I stayed in the bay
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 03:48 PM
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