beerandglitter Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	My only dates in the last 3 months have come from approaching. How can people say it doesn't work? I mean you don’t have to be a 10/10 model to get a girlfriend as a guy. I’m average looking as a woman and my boyfriend is average looking. I still find him extremely attractive and have since the beginning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 12:37 AM
1	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? That’s an insane thing to say. Just because someone has tattoos they have low self esteem??? Like what?? Genuinely asking where the logic is with that 😂 I have 20-something tattoos and if anything they have made my self esteem go way up because they’re beautiful and make me so happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/25 07:09 PM
1	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? You don’t have to stick needles in you to try “hard” drugs? You don’t even have to use needles to do heroin but that’s beside the point. Doing drugs other than weed, nicotine, and (arguably the worst drug) alcohol doesn’t mean you’ve got low self esteem?? You can try something once or do it every now and again and not even become addicted to said drug(s). Most people who do drugs recreationally are not addicted. And even if someone does have low self esteem, so do most people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/25 12:39 AM
1	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? I guess I just don’t understand why. So many tattoos are gorgeous. I love a lot of the ones I see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 01:11 PM
0	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? I mean the ones who are married (my cousin and mechanic) are in their 50s and have been married over 20 years. They very much are attracted to each other. And my friends who are dating seem to be too (I’m friends with the girls too and they don’t seem to have “settled”). And I know for a fact my mom and dad are attracted to each other. My dad’s kinda on the short side too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 01:10 PM
1	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? I don’t think trying drugs or having tattoos makes you abnormal at all. I think it’s normal to be curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 01:08 PM
1	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? Idk if it’s just where I am, but so many people have tried “hard” drugs. That doesn’t make them an addict or mean that they’ll do them again. And I mean people can not wanna be with someone who does weed, nicotine, or alcohol but it’s just wild that you’d expect someone to stop. And I just feel like a lot of people, if not the vast majority of people I know have at least one piercing and/or large tattoo. It’s just crazy to me that people are so old fashioned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 12:20 AM
1	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? Been with less than 2 people, no debt over 20k (so no student loans), must not have done drugs/willing to quit “soft” drugs, no tattoos or piercings allll is crazy because they’re still supposed to be chill somehow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 11:53 PM
0	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? My cousin is 5’6” (he’s like 55), my mechanic is like 5’5” (he’s as tall as me and I’m 5’5”, also in his 50s), my friend Eric is 5’2”, my friend John is 5’2”, and my other friend also coincidentally named Jon (without the h tho) is 5’4”. Hell my dad is only like 5’7” and he’s married to my mom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 11:51 PM
-5	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? That’s not even true. I have a short cousin who’s married, a short mechanic who’s married, and several short male friends who are either in relationships or married. It’s usually not their looks (it’s their personality). Also you can’t tell that some overweight people are overweight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 10:11 PM
3	Q4W: What is on your list of requirements for a husband? My partner checks all of my boxes off: Not misogynistic, homophobic, racist, or transphobic Shares my values and views Has similar hobbies (namely hiking) Kind and understanding Understands that I have a past and doesn’t judge me for it Attractive to me Loves me for me Accepting of my child and okay with not having more Yeah, like I said, my partner checks all of my boxes and I’m so glad I found him. We want to get married and probably will within a few years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 10:09 PM
1	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? These are some crazy asks	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 09:59 PM
–	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? I feel like it’s really tough to find someone with a “normal” BMI. Why would someone who’s overweight be an issue? You can definitely be healthy and overweight. And you might not even look overweight. Obese would be where you’re typically not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 09:53 PM
1	Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s. I’m aware of that. That’s why I said weights are second because in order to gain muscle and tone, you HAVE to strength train. There’s no real way around that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 09:33 PM
1	Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s. I mean I’ve seen it so	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 09:42 AM
3	Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s. Well yeah, it’s definitely bad for you but it’s still very much possible to look great and be chronically sleep deprived. I’d still put weights above sleep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 10:49 PM
6	Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s. I mean you definitely could get away with little sleep and still look phenomenal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 09:03 PM
141	Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s. “To look like a model, I recommend doing an hour almost every day” That’s not going to make you look like a model, it’s not even going to keep you at a healthy weight. The way you eat is the most important part of your figure, weights are the second most important part. Cardio is just good for the heart really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 06:09 PM
2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Bold of you to assume I’m straight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 06:29 PM
1	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. You’re just wrong but ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 05:01 PM
1	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. This does happen tho, I’d never do it if I had a boy (I don’t), but parents do do this. And lifelong neuroticism and self-centeredness? Like what? Most women are NOT like that. At least from my experience as a woman who knows and deals with/have dealt with a lot of women in her jobs/current career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 01:29 PM
9	If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitter I don’t agree with that. Does that mean you’re an incel? Plenty of people on here have SOs and get laid. I have a boyfriend (an amazing one at that) and am on here for the debates, it’s fun for me personally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 06:35 PM
2	If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitter Why not? I don’t get how being on here correlates negatively to “killing it”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 06:22 PM
22	All Women Are Essentially Sex Workers” — Tate’s Harsh Truth, Explained He absolutely does not	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 10:37 AM
1	Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enough He’s literally an old man now and he’s not many women’s flavor of man. Which is fine, he doesn’t have to be attractive to everybody. And he’s not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 11:51 AM
1	Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enough How is he a top 0.1% man?? Maybe I’m just not into conventionally attractive men or older guys or something but he’s just not it. I think my boyfriend is more attractive than him by far. But my boyfriend is also my age and I’m very much in love with him. Edit: Plus Brad Pitt has some abuse allegations against him from Angelina Jolie with witnesses apparently. Makes him even less attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 01:29 PM
-1	Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enough Most women don’t want that tho. And Brad Pitt isn’t even that attractive anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 02:35 PM
1	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics How so? You’re telling us our experiences aren’t correct? I’ve been with a lot of men and a lot of them are like this. I also know a lot of women, not to mention see a lot of posts on here that echo this comment. So it seems you’re the wrong one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 10:16 AM
2	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics But they are correct about this?? Like I’ve had the same experience. So many guys are hypocritical and get upset and go off on us for watching porn or reading smut when they’re watching too, like they said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 09:16 AM
2	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics It’s a negative trait. Idk why you’re choosing that out of the whole comment to make an issue lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:40 PM
6	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics Toys ARE a life hack, but sooooo many men (and I mean lots) are very insecure surrounding them and are therefore against using them together…or the woman even using them without him. It’s mind boggling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:49 PM
7	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics it’s a valid question to go with the discussion??? u/SnooCats37 was correct anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 03:02 PM
14	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics But that’s dumb and screams insecure. But I have experienced sooo many men who do go off on girls (me included) for watching porn or reading “smut” while they also watch porn which is equally as dumb. If it’s not an addiction who is anyone to judge about that? My partner and I both watch porn, sometimes together, and it’s literally a non issue, as it should be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 02:30 PM
21	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics They’re not few. Plus so many guys aren’t okay with toys in the bedroom, like why???	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 02:15 PM
14	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics I’ve seen plenty of men like that online and I have experienced men like that in my own personal life. Just like the men who refuse to use toys in the bedroom because they think “women shouldn’t get off to anything but me”. It’s bizarre.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 02:14 PM
2	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can I mean you’re wrong about wet dreams happening only if you don’t ejaculate regularly. It can contribute to them occurring but anyone can get them Even if you’re an adult who has regular sex. Though they are less likely in that situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 11:11 AM
3	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can You don’t remember all your dreams, that’s impossible. It’s just a fact that you dream and don’t remember it sometimes. That happens to absolutely EVERYONE because every night you’re in REM sleep. Having a girlfriend has nothing to do with having wet dreams or not, that’s hilarious that you think it does tho lol Also, if it were playful and didn’t hurt, probably not. That’s how that looked to me. He was beyond happy to be peed on it looks like, I know she asked the crowd before bringing someone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 06:22 AM
6	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can “Kicked the shit out of him” shares video of her hardly kicking him It literally looks like she playfully kicked him. Vampire is about a toxic/abusive relationship. It’s not inherently misandrist. Also, just because you can’t remember a dream (because you’re not going to remember all of your dreams), doesn’t mean they weren’t sexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 01:06 AM
1	Why don't men want to date single moms? Those two things don’t even remotely match up with one another. Banging someone else in front of your man =\= watching porn with your partner tf?? I watch porn with my partner and it’s a lot of fun. Porn (in small doses) can be normal in a healthy relationship, whether it’s together or separate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 09:24 PM
1	Men have no options. You’re projecting	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 09:07 PM
1	Men have no options. Women literally get unalived for saying no, you can’t seriously tell me that’s better than a negative reaction, which can come with the territory. Violence, however, should not come with the territory, but often does for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 09:06 PM