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Discussionbees-and-stuff/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:46 AM
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I don’t think women hate that men play video games I think it’s that sometimes we can get a little jealous of it because we’re not getting any attention for extended periods of time if you’re the type of person to game for like 2+ hours straight then maybe we just feel neglected 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:04 PM
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I have a good relationship with my brother I might annoy him a little and we did fight as kids sometimes but I feel like we’re really good friends and we have each other’s back’s now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:40 AM
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I’d be pretty happy about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:26 AM
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Most of the time I’d sometimes is givin it comes with many strings. I avoid “free” things from guys if I’m not absolutely sure of their character. I’m in a relationship now so obviously I trust him but before that , especially if I were to say go out to dinner I would always pay for myself, even if someone offered. I’m not going to have anyone thinking they have rights to me because they payed for my dinner. I’ve heard too many stories of people getting hight rate or even violent when a women re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:34 AM
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Acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:23 PM
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Typically I think it makes them hotter but idk I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:51 AM
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I mean probably but who just wants to meet up and have sex immediately? Like of course a few people might say yes to that but the majority of men want to get to know you, having chemistry is important. Like also on person, I think I’ve only been hit on maybe twice in real life and always by younger dudes so of course when I say my age they’re like sorry not interested so normally no one’s just going off of face value there’s a few factors people like to know and they can be big determiners of wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:56 AM
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I like bi men I feel like they get me. I’m a bi women so it makes sense, unless he plays guitar that’s a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:02 PM
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Like I’m not going to comment on this point because obviously it’s more nuanced then this does or doesn’t happen but I’m getting huge red flags from everyone called the blocker ugly or a troll or something like why is that relevant?? Why is everyone being so mean about these girls appearances that really doesn’t effect how likely they are to get between you and another woman and I can promise you calling a girls friend a troll is a one way ticket to not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:11 PM
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Are you a woman? Because as a woman in my personal experience and the experience of my friends it’s not easy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:29 PM
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Tinder is dead as hell man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:28 PM
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That definitely can happen but I know a lot of women who are going through involuntary celibacy. Like it’s not that easy. Especially is we want to vet whoever it is in any way because you know, we could just die is we do that like there are crazy people out there and maybe I don’t feel like possibly risking my life for some subpar sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:07 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:04 PM
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I’m just in awe of how easy you think it is for the average woman to get laid lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:43 PM
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Ok how about this: women want to be treated nice. Not bargained for, not bought, not coerced. We want to simply find a best friend not someone with anterior motives. And in my experience and the every woman I’ve talked to so far, people with alternate motivation, who want to buy a women, who think they are untitled to a woman, are the people who believe most strongly in their hearts that they’re a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:48 AM
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That’s how I lost my virginity lol but he might have been gay???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:55 PM
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Ok so all of this makes sense but wouldn’t/shouldn’t it be just as applicable to men? Also you kinda need to know more then just a flat number like maybe the circumstances around it. Like someone who was 3 bodies could have gotten 2 by cheating on a committed partner and someone with 10 could have just been hooking up or had a couple shorter term relationships that didn’t work out. I’d much rather date someone with more bodies then someone who has cheated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:46 AM
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I have a lot of guy friends who are completely platonic. As a bisexual woman I also have tubs of women friends who are completely platonic. I don’t know if the bisexuality changes anything,I doubt it, but like these are guys I grew up with or guys I became friends with in school and like don’t get me wrong there have been ones that liked me or vice versa but not only were we able to completely move past non platonic feelings but there are lots of guy friends I’ve had where there are simply no fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:00 AM
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You were so SO close to getting it my dude. Like this is the best most realistic take I have ever seen on this sub HOWEVER Women typically don’t date “less attractive” men to have some malicious upper hand, infatuation is proven to make you see people as more perfect then they objectively are. Almost every single time I see a girl show off a “less attractive” boyfriend I see how absolutely obsessed she is, I see the excitement, I see her fear we’re all gonna say heS not attractive. Like most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:21 AM
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Listen I’ve seen a lot of good people have crazy family’s I really don’t care. I want to know if you’re willing to put in work to make our family good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:10 AM
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As a woman I think sex positivity is great. I think women are much more harshly judged for having sex then men and we shouldn’t really care ether way. Its no ones business really. However I do think that sex industry’s are taking advantage of this movement to manipulate younger girls into joining the industry without serious thought. I have nothing against women who choose that path but it’s incredibly dangerous and it can go bad really fast. I feel so sad when I see 18 year olds in porn. Like y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:07 AM
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Ok self confidence and feel human emotions are not mutually exclusive. Many women are self confident but still express themselves and are open. I know this is due to gender roles and expectations that men are expected to uphold but I truly believe a man can have both qualities as well. Also neither of these qualities needs to be in an extreme. You don’t have to be confident 24/7, just have a level of pride and positivity when it comes to how you talk and feel about yourself. You also don’t neces…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:48 AM
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I’ve been approached a couple times, mostly when I was in late high school before COVID. It was normal in an after school setting as well like walking home. It was flattering (so long as they were respectful) I’m normally very thrown off because my social skills aren’t amazing so it takes me a minute too act like a normal person lol. All the times I’ve been approached I have been in a relationship so I say I am flattered and I appreciate the interest but I’m taken
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:05 AM
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Lmao please tell me this is satire
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:57 AM
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I think you’re overshooting a little. Because I’d say out of all the men I’ve met my age I’d say 90% were good dudes with nice personality and good hygiene and the only time I see them tripping up is when they lack the confidence to try or they over think. Most of y’all are standup guys and could get a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:20 PM
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Listen I don’t think anyone should actively be aroused by someone’s tears but I don’t think that’s what we’re talking about. Basically like, I don’t want you to cry in the same way I don’t want to cry myself. I don’t want my partner to experience pain or sadness that makes them cry. However when my partner cries it doesn’t make me think differently of him. If he feels like crying I’ll be a shoulder to cry on all night. I want him to get all his emotions out and I want him to talk to me and I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:08 AM
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Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:37 PM
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You’re missing my point. My point is that relationships are not something you should think of the same ways as finances or health. You think I go to the er every time the doctor tells me to? Nah. Because I know what’s up with my body. You know why that’s different? Cause I have no idea what’s going on with the other people around me even if I have the statistics to assume what might be happening
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:25 PM
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Yup see you in two years my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:23 PM
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All of my friends do the exact same things for their partners literally all of them. It’s probably a 50/50 on who asked who out but all of my friends in happy relationships give at least an equal amount of effort. I think this is pretty normal for younger people maybe the times are changing? I know there’s at least as sizeable part of the woman population that will happily do these things for someone they love. As far as men being as successful I think even tho success varies wildly from individ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:22 PM
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Ok?? Serious* relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:45 PM
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I ask the majority of the people I’ve dated out. I plan the dates. I bring my boyfriend flowers and gifts and write hum notes and make him things every chance I get. I cook for him and pick him up and take care of him when he’s sick. What’s involved for men that isn’t for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:43 PM
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Have you been beat up because you’re disabled? Have you spent a week without sleep because you have to stay up every night making sure your friend doesn’t kill them selves? Have you been beat because you accidentally woke an alcoholic? Have you wrestled a knife out of someone’s hand only to have to pry them back in from the window? Have you had ever flaw and insecurity divulged to someone thrown back at you and used to publicly humiliate you? Have you been groped and assaulted by someone you tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:39 PM
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I know you didn’t state that but you seem to be pretty hell bent on saying yours can’t change and that’s sad, like you have no hope left
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:30 PM
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We’re all just convoluted messes on the inside
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:28 PM
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I’m just gonna keep talking the dating advice from my parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and soon to be in laws. All of which are happily married. I feel like they know what’s up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:27 PM
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My current partner and I have been best friends for years, we know each other better then anyone else. Our goals and plans align. Both of our parents did the exact same thing at our age and are still happily married Just because we’re young doesn’t mean we don’t have a serious relationship and doesn’t mean we can’t be engaged
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:25 PM
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I know I don’t know much. I do however talk to my elders every day about relationships and I get my advice from people who’ve been happily married longer then I’ve been alive so I feel like I’m on the right path
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:18 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:15 PM
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Ok?? Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:14 PM
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I mean that’s helpful yeah, but you still need initial courtship to get to a stable relationship. If you decide in your brush with this person that they won’t fit your long term goals then it would be best to keep looking obviously But if you find a person you want to get serious with wouldn’t it just be best to have open conversations about goals and stats. If you’re going to apply stats to a human relationship you should at least include the other person in the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:13 PM
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Is it possible, even a little, that as a woman, I might have insight on what women like?? Also I’ve dated women. I see women crush on guys they passed on the train who literally looked like they haven’t slept in a week, women are not exclusively infatuated with one type of person. Just find a neich man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:07 PM
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I’m sorry you have no joy in life sir but there are other experiences then the on you’re living
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:04 PM
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The reason we’re waiting is because we want to finish university first lmao nether of us are hesitating just being financially responsible. Also why does my value drop drastically in 2 years but my partners doesn’t? Why will he be the one to decide he doesn’t want me? Many assumptions from someone who has no idea what’s going on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:03 PM
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Lmao also I’m flattered that you think I’m a) conventionally attractive And b) white Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:00 PM
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Listen my life hasn’t been sunshine and rainbows I’ve seen the bad parts of people much more then I’d have liked to. But this doesn’t mean I give up on the generally nice and kind nature of a large portion of people. The fact that we can be marketed to doesn’t negate the fact that there are great divides in various populations. Take for example two opposing groups when voting. They often prioritize or feel very strongly in different ways and I think that there are very few issues on this earth t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:59 PM
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Dating for anyone can be a numbers game but personally in my experience I believe that basing your strategy too heavily on the numbers game trips you up. Because while it may be a numbers game you’re still looking to form a complex and intimate relationship. And take it from an autistic person who’s been trying to quantify human relationships all my life It really just doesn’t work out well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:46 PM
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First of all why are you taking this so literally, I made a rushed comment at 4am because I realized sometimes my long posts are convoluted Second of all can I just change the amount of marbles to several million and say you don’t put it back in the bag you chuck it across the room? Is that better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:43 PM
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Yes that’s pretty much it exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:40 PM
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Sir my only qualifications are being a woman who’s had multiple long term relationships and is currently engaged. I feel a less mathematical approach does wonders in dating. That was the point in trying to get across, that when you stop looking at relationships as a commodity, no matter how right or wrong that view may be, that you’ll have more luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:37 PM
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See this is what I’m talking about congratulations man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:34 PM
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I have it yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:32 PM
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I dated Men there’s literally 4 men in this situation who were in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:32 PM
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Well I guess that just sucks for you then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:29 PM
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2 years, 6 months, one year, 6 months in counting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:00 AM
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Idk I’ve got game I guess I’ve had 4 long term relationships and probably 10 thar didn’t get too serious is that not enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:57 AM
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Why don’t you just edit your post then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:52 AM
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I do greatly apologize for stating things that you already knew. I wasn’t attempting to call you an idiot I promise. But you know, as a human person with experience in a wide range of relationships and situations who has found a genuinely good relationship I do feel that my take might have I donno… some weight? I’ve had shitty people and amazing people around me my whole life I know that you can find and be a good person if you put the effort in. Good people aren’t scarce. People are typically i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:51 AM
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Sorry :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:43 AM
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I didn’t look at how many comments there were I assumed that asking a question on a public forum was a request for honest opinions and that mine was ok to add without reading every comment already made
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:42 AM
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As OP I’m very sorry my wording was not to your standards but what’s the alternative to looking at every marble you pull out? If you don’t look at every marble you have a huge chance of missing the marble you want
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:41 AM
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Dress size is a much more informative thing to ask! Also I was just scrolling does it matter when your question was asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:25 AM
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I’ve been in tuns of relationships that were frankly unhinged at points. I have an understanding of how things work so yeah I might be young but I don’t think that devalues my statements. I don’t think my post should be written off because I’m a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:20 AM
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I’m also on track to be married in 2 years so who’s having more success here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:12 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:11 AM
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Well I can give you much better stats to ask for in that case! You might want waist line or perhaps shoulder hight if you’re an over the shoulder hugger! Weight can be incredibly misleading because things like hight and muscle density can have a huge impact on what that weight looks like on the person and there’s always body types to consider because I know some very tall, very muscular women who happen to way quite a bit more but have smaller waistlines then me. Weight is generally unhelpful In…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:10 AM
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I mean that may be your Experience but it’s not mine and if you keep looking it doesn’t have to be yours
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:57 AM
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Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:56 AM
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If there are 10 marbles in a bag. 9 red, 1 green. I want the green one. If I draw a marble out of the bag and refuse to look at the colour and just throw it back assuming it’s red then I’m being a fucking idiot because yes there are more red marbles but I didn’t even look I just assumed it was red. That’s my post ok dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:55 AM
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I did read your post however I fundamentally disagree with you because many women are just curious and low key might go measure out your hight to see what hugging you would be like and you can ask her the same question and how a cute conversation about sharing sweaters or something but you completely eliminate any chance of a positive interaction be being snippy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:50 AM
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Why don’t you just ask her hight?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:34 AM
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Pft no id be so anxious if I couldn’t text my partner to see if he took his insulin. But like for real it’s the best time in history to be a woman especially if you also like women. I brought home a girlfriend once, you think that would fly in many other time periods? Me and my long term partner are both disabled and in a lot of other time periods we wouldn’t be allowed to get married or have kids and we would probably have died by this point in our lives anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:32 AM
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As a bi person I would want a man or a woman I wouldn’t really care. I look for a deep friendship in a relationship. My partner will always be my best friend. Having a long term relationship is amazing to me because I just get to be around my favourite person in the world every day and omg they are just as happy to be around me. It’s like why do you want human connection with anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:29 AM
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As a woman reading these comments I’d just like to say ew first of all but more importantly Women are taught and targeted by the beauty industry from an increasingly younger age. Beauty= success is ingrained in our heads from the princess stories we read before bed to the commercials that are in almost every part of life. Don’t get me wrong this industry is also incredibly harmful to men but it acts in different ways and to an extent is less damning because as many point out in this thread men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:26 AM
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I think that you should just ask whatever woman you talk to her feelings because you know what I’m a woman and I could care less that my partner makes less as long as he’s happy and doing something. I know there are women with more strict standards, they want their partner to strive for a good paying job as they themselves will and I also know that there are women who like the whole being taken care of thing. It’s going to be different levels of important for everyone which I believe you know bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:07 AM
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If a man has no right to care about a woman’s past the. Women have no right to care About a mans past***
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:01 AM
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I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:55 AM
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Overall I found the experience sad and I often felt like I just wanted to go home. It wasn’t nice. I’m not meant for those kinds of relationships. I don’t even likr sex that much… I didn’t actually even have sex with anyone it made me too sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:54 AM
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The real red flags are how the insecurity is handled You’re insecure about your partner going out so you have a talk and communicate your concerns and where they may come from. Your partner takes this seriously and you think of ways to ease the insecurity. You possiblygo to a professional for advice Green glad. You’re insecure about your partner going out so you tell them they can’t wear nice clothes or they have to text you every 5 minutes or they just straight up can’t go outside without you H…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:49 AM
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I personally am happy to see the birth rate go down a bit. The plant is crowded and people live a lot longer it’s not going to be sustainable. I understand that this has economic repercussions but infinite growth was never possible in a closed system anyway. I think that woman’s reproductive rights also not only helps gently curve our population growth but leads better quality of life. A parent who doesn’t want a kid for any reason should not have to go through with it and asking them to risk th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:45 AM
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I don’t care how much my partner makes as long as he brings in some income or is doing something productive with his time. For most of our relationship I’ve made more then my partner. I don’t care and he thinks it’s cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:37 AM
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I think the best thing anyone can do is basic hygiene. Get a haircut or learn to style your hair. Have a shower every couple days. Make sure you’re teeth are brushed, deodorant is applied and your clothes are kinda clean. Clothes are also important. Do a little research into styles you like and how you can best wear the clothes you have plus what kinds of garments you might want to get in the future. When you’re clean and put together you feel better and more confident. Do these things for yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:35 AM
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I see people talk about wanting alternative/punk/soft/ boyfriends all the time… probably more then I see people wanting a jacked one ???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:48 PM
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Personally I wouldn’t be able to date a sex worker of ether sex because I couldn’t emotionally handle my significant other banging other people but I respect the profession and think people who don’t have the same emotional hitches are perfectly reasonable to date sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:42 PM
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I meant playing field?? Sorry for my typo I guess
/r/AntiFeminists11/12/21 09:37 PM
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The “original” feminism movements in North America were not particularly good. The suffragettes stepped out the heads of women of colour in order to gain approval. They were racist and homophobic. The concept of new wave feminism specifically intersectional feminism or feminist sociology was more or less coined by bell hooks. Her studies found that things like race, gender, national, SES, and many other factors play into one’s experience of the world and they cannot be separated. This led to the…
/r/AntiFeminists11/12/21 09:30 PM
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