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DISCUSSIONbeezy__/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 09:40 AM
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Also the fact that you can cite that statistic (that I have no idea where you got) tells me this is a deeply personal thing for you to stand against, so I’ll leave it alone and let you have your own perspective. I don’t think making OP feel weirder about it is in her best interest tho.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 11:33 PM
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Ok well 98% of the women I’ve ever met are bisexual, we’ve had different experiences.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 11:29 PM
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If you make it a weird, uncomfortable thing you have to confess, it will come across as weird and uncomfortable. I think bisexuality in women is more common than not, and no one I’ve ever come across (aside from ultra religious ppl I guess) has ever thought it’s weird. In fact it’s always seemed like an unspoken assumption that women are at least slightly bisexual. Try to practice self-approval, and don’t worry so much about it.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 10:49 PM
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Leave, or at least set firm boundaries on being treated that way. I would not put up with that.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/23 03:59 AM
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I wasn’t the one who coined the term I swear lol It comes from the manosphere so it’s quite blunt
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 02:13 AM
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Women settle whether they’re in their 30s or not out of desperation / time-crunch, which is what you’re already doing to yourself now. I wasn’t asking you what you offer in terms of looks, but in other areas. Looks are incredibly important but they aren’t why men decide to get married. I highly recommend reading some marriage-orientated RPW books like Fascinating Womanhood or The Surrendered Wife and do serious research into what kind of woman a man is happy to marry / stay married to. A major w…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 02:06 AM
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I don’t think it’s sarcastic, and I agree, it’s a great plan but it shouldn’t be for this guy. It should be to improve your image, confidence and to gain more respect for yourself. And to enjoy life more because you will feel more like your true self. If you do it for him specifically, you’re likely to resent him (even just subconsciously) for rejecting you / only being interested in commitment after your glow up.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 01:55 AM
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“If I got married it would be more stable” Do you mean the relationship would be more stable? This seems a bit like people who have a kid to fix their marriage, it really doesn’t work that way. Are you hung up on this guy specifically, and that’s why you’re asking? Or are you just wanting to be married? And either way, what do you see yourself bringing to the marriage? What can you offer him besides what you mentioned (appearance)? I really don’t mean to come across harshly, but this does seem n…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 01:47 AM
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Cock carousel
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 01:27 AM
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I agree with what others here have already said, and I want to chime in with some things you may not have considered yet. I’m also INFJ for what it’s worth. The second paragraph you wrote describes my first boyfriend exactly. He and I were together from ages 14-24 though, so I got to see how that plays out long term. It’s not fun. He’s most likely not going to change into someone who cares about his education, getting a job, becoming better, being moved by the “depths” of things, etc. You may id…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 06:20 PM
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Sorry but if it means being willing to endanger your children fuck your religion and culture
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 01:10 AM
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Get a hobby
/r/RedPillWives24/01/23 12:28 AM
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I was also in a LTR from 14 til my mid-20s but that lasted way past it's expiration date... Lotsa wasted years if you think about it that way but if I'd met my husband when we were younger neither of us would have been the people we fell in love with (we both had to go through some intense character backstories lol)
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 06:19 PM
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Started dating my husband at 25, got married at 30, I'm 31 now The timing has been largely dictated by the fact that we're from 2 different countries
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 06:12 PM
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Is there any component of psychological attraction? Is there any way he could behave, or certain things he could say to you that would spark the attraction, even if the physical attraction isn’t there? Physical attraction won’t always be there and won’t always be controllable anyway, life throws at you age and illness etc.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 10:07 PM
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I finally found a man I was willing to stfu for lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/23 06:45 AM
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The only one that comes to mind is Bryan Dechart and his wife Amelia Rose Blaire (dechartgames on twitch) I started watching them because they’re actors in one of my favorite games (Detroit Become Human) and watching them play the game they’re in is really entertaining, and they’re actually a super sweet couple who are really cute together
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 02:38 PM
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Fascinating Womanhood has a section about childlike anger that helps with situations like this (not in a manipulative way but as a way to soften your reactions and the overall situation) It should come out in a way that feels natural to you and not forced. It can be playful and lighthearted while also getting your point across. And it can be done in a way that asserts the quality of your character and your own self-respect while also boosting his masculinity. The book has some good examples (I m…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/22 03:50 PM
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Just putting it out there that this isn’t the actual book (by Helen Andelin), but the principles are basically the same as far as I know
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 07:04 AM
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https://www.amazon.com/Fascinating-Womanhood-Timeless-Woman/dp/B07WTQ9KNY It's the updated "Timeless Woman" version, but as far as I know it's basically the same :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 04:56 PM
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They actually just released a FW audiobook the other day :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 05:20 PM
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My boyfriend is half-Japanese.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/18 06:41 PM
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Thanks! \<sup>\</sup>^ And yup, it is. I've been reading a book about it called Cupid's Poisoned Arrow. It's pretty fascinating and I'm really curious to see the effects of going a month or so without.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/18 06:31 PM
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Exercise at least 3x a week Work on music at least 5 days per week (1 hour minimum) Daily Anki reps (20 new kanji per day + reviews) 1 hour of Japanese audio immersion per day (during housework) Abstain from orgasm Meditate for at least 10 minutes per day Fast for 21 days (not consecutively) Here's a spreadsheet for accountability
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 02:19 AM
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July's a good time to start writing again, lots of people are doing camp NaNoWriMo :) Also, if you happen to be doing keto then 15 is realistic, (though a lot of that is just the initial water weight loss)
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 01:40 AM
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Sure (: it's called Toggl
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/18 02:12 AM
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\^ This. My relationship has a DDlg dynamic, and it's so fulfilling for both of us, and quite RP. I can still be childlike and work toward self-improvement. In fact, he keeps track of my productivity (we use an app for it), gives me goals, assignments, deadlines, a schedule to follow, (all based on the things I want to study / practice / improve upon), etc. That in and of itself is super attractive to me. He enjoys it too. I've changed SO much for the better because of him, and all the while I g…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 08:11 PM
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I'd love a list of blogs to follow as well! (:
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/18 03:33 PM
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