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2	Rules for setting expectations? Casually talk about previous relationships. See what has bugged her about her exes or why her relationships ended. If she talks bout how her boyfriends never give her enough attention or "always picked his hobbies/friends over me" then run away. It's a good indicator of what her expectations of you would be. You want someone who is happy on her own and doesn't need you to be her lapdog.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 05:00 PM
2	first date went well except for the part where she has a live-in boyfriend Haha actually I'm a female	/r/seduction	03/04/12 12:27 PM
3	first date went well except for the part where she has a live-in boyfriend The terms cheating and faithful are such relative terms. Lumping people into "cheaters" is so short sighted. What's important in a relationship is openness and honesty: a lack of this is what makes cheating painful. For most humans, sexual monogamy isn't part if our nature. We just choose to be monogamous to the person we love. However, if there is complete honesty, there is no deceit in fully disclosed flings outside of a relationship. I realize most folks may disagree with this, but to each th…	/r/seduction	02/04/12 01:48 PM
18	[FR] Something a lover taught me years ago, do most people know this? The leg trick... Most of this stuff I would normally consider bs. There's no surefire way to know if a woman is into you. But as a woman, I can honestly say this is true. It may not be 100% accurate. Although, id be conscious of it when it happened, due to how aware I am of my personal bubble at all times.	/r/seduction	12/03/12 06:08 AM
1	Feedback on a date idea, please? One of the first date ideas my guy came up with was fun and unusual like this. His ability to be goofy and spontaneous totally worked. Don't overthink the approach: your suggestion speaks for itself (adventurous, fun, outside the norm). If she's a cool girl, she'll go for it.	/r/seduction	11/03/12 05:33 PM
5	Text chess, dissect my past moves and help me plan my next one As a girl, I think she's into you. However, from your texts you give away that you're REALLY digging her. Cool if you know each other really well and have established this; not so much if you're just getting to know each other. Remember: be sweet, be funny, but women don't respect people who totally kiss their asses.	/r/seduction	11/03/12 05:26 PM

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