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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
278	Women see men's lives through rose tinted glasses.	General	behonestoday	/r/MensRights	28/12/23 08:55 PM

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8	Women see men's lives through rose tinted glasses. Are you a feminist? Cos this sure sounds like the kind of manipulative shit a feminist would ask you just to try to switch the narrative. Women are living a better life than men at current, demonise every single thing that men do yet have the audacity to claim that men lead seemingly perfect lives so god forbid men are the ones who believe (know) women are getting the long straw right now.	/r/MensRights	29/12/23 02:11 AM
1	Women see men's lives through rose tinted glasses. All human beings, are guilty, at some point of thinking someone else's life is better than their own. But in general and on average, I am seeing fat more women generalising men and portraying them as having perfect, almost magical lives when the reality is that men are suffering and the very feminists who claim every is international mens day are the perpetrators / a part of the problem.	/r/MensRights	29/12/23 02:06 AM
1	Abused Men: Five Painful Issues They Face I've seen quite a few documentaries about abused men over the past year or so, and having seen many about women as it's all they seem to highlight in the media, the abuse that men face is unfathomable. Women who abuse men often seem to be downright evil or unhinged. No kind of grip on reality - they do everything they can to control men and to hurt them. In the documentaries I saw, the men abused described how women would stick lit cigarettes up their nose, pour boiling water into their laps, br…	/r/MensRights	29/12/23 12:56 AM
10	Just wanted to say thanks I guess Women have been uplifted for so long that they have developed a kind of self entitlement I have never quite seen in my lifetime, where they believe they are somehow worth more than men as well as more vulnerable and a victim at the exact same time, and I am saying this as a woman. Nothing you said is untrue, and men in my opinion, do have a hard time. I know I couldn't live this life as a man, and am also glad that I was born female. I don't want to be abused every day of my life for being born …	/r/MensRights	29/12/23 12:50 AM
16	Looking for a study that asked psychologists whether a bunch of relationship scenarios were acceptable, if the man did it versus if the woman did it Very telling when the exact same thing happens with non professionals in places where questions are asked if a man or woman are being unreasonable. Today, I came across a post where a man was asking if he was being unreasonable about setting boundaries with his ex wife. Every single reply were women assuming he was the bad guy in the situation, that if the ex wife made the post the story would be entirely different and that he was actually the bad guy and multiple people expecting him to go out …	/r/MensRights	28/12/23 10:32 PM
15	Women see men's lives through rose tinted glasses. Unfortunately, during the majority of my life, in situations with other women they were always lacking even a basic level of sympathy whether it be for a woman or a man. Especially if not pandering to their warped ideals surround feminism and men, you receive an immense amount of merciless abuse. I believe that is a reason why there aren't more women here currently. I have seen some women say they are afraid to be attacked or to receive hate in their inbox by other women - whether a good enough …	/r/MensRights	28/12/23 09:27 PM
1	Cluster B personality disorders? I want to say that I fully support you in your experience of trauma and being abused by a woman with BPD. What I find personally distressing and traumatic is how I will always be looked at suspiciously as a possible awful human because I have EUPD and how here, I feel many users have been referring to those who do not abuse others but have a personality disorder as subhumans. There have been so many generalisations/ demonising everyone with a personality disorder as "avoid the borderlines, evil …	/r/MensRights	28/12/23 07:19 PM
2	Feminism claiming the loneliness epidemic? Everything a man goes through is somehow directly connected to women. Men can never have their own thoughts, feelings or struggles. Women suffer? It's men faults. Men suffer? It's because men suffer women and are feeling the consequences of it. Narcissists are the feminists at best.	/r/MensRights	28/12/23 06:58 PM
0	Cluster B personality disorders? A common symptom of BPD is hyper sympathy. A person with BPD often experiences feelings of being the worst person on earth, inhuman, self harms etc. I was diagnosed in the summer after an incredibly traumatic life, self harm, suicidal ideation...I'm not a demon and neither are any of the other people with personality disorders who do not hurt others, only themselves. If you're a man who doesn't want to be punished, demonised or generalised for the 1% or less of men who do bad things - don't demo…	/r/MensRights	28/12/23 06:33 PM
0	Cluster B personality disorders? She should be diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder. BPD, as someone with it, has little to no symptoms that she constantly displays and her clear neglect of all humans who surround her, as well as her abuse and trauma. Disregard and violation of the rights of others Illegal acts Repeated lying Truancy Conning others Impulsivity Irritability Aggressiveness Physical fights/assaults Multiple issues at jobs, leading to loss/job changes Lack of remorse Reckless disregard for safety Consiste…	/r/MensRights	28/12/23 06:30 PM
1	Cluster B personality disorders? As someone with EUPD, people with personal experiences of having been abused by people with personality disorders or those who use it as an excuse to be a cunt should be offered support and not dismissed. Disorders and mental illnesses are not excuses to treat people like shit and to cause them trauma, but notice a lot of comments here not just calling the people they were abused by as "borderlines" but calling, generalising and demonising all those with personality disorders, even the ones who …	/r/MensRights	28/12/23 06:27 PM
1	Cluster B personality disorders? I was diagnosed with EUPD (otherwise known as BPD) a few month back in the summer after suffering in silence since I was fourteen years old (self harm, suicidal ideation, eating disorders, crippling body dysmorphia, age regression due to trauma etc). Treating people like shit or being a cunt is not a symptom of BPD. Yes, undiagnosed mental illness or untreated mental illness can make you act out at times but when you are going around, treating people like shit and using mental illness as an excu…	/r/MensRights	28/12/23 05:36 PM