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1

Well, I totally get your point but still - other countries have much more "similar" (for a lack of a better word) culture. America is the most divided country in the world culturally so that is not a good example. But even if you find a christian in the middle east, they hate muslim shit culture but they are still very traditional. You wont find liberals there too much :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:11 PM
1

Well, you forget the JBW. The reason why asian women cheat is that they crave a real man not some tiny dick manlet. On India they even have breeding parties where indian women get pregnent from white tall chads. And before woke reisim crowd comes in, it is similar when white women love being pounded by big black bulls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:06 PM
3

It is crazy how in normal friendships is is so obvious how being the one invited only after some "cooler friend" cant come or being contacted only when someone needs a favour is shitty behavior. But in romantic relationships being second choice is being a short king and criticizing it make you misodzenist :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:56 PM
-2

Most women love rough dominant bad boys. So bluepill debunked right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:36 PM
6

Arent poor people being mocked not for being poor but how lazy and stupid they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:21 AM
3

"Same. Not working. Never desired it. Never struggled to find money if I wanted it (even large amounts gasp!). But damn if this sub isn’t entertaining. I’ve seen poverty compared to xenophobia and racism. Just pick yourself by the bootstraps and you will find money. It is not the most important thing in life!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:52 AM
4

I wonder what that is. Mocking someones struggles and advising them to "just pick yourself up by your bootstraps" to solve it seems to apply in all similar situations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:48 AM
2

I think it is more redpill what you described. As some people have said, red pill gives you the tools and then ylu choose how to use them - spin plates or get a good tradwife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:45 AM
1

Yes, as with any other applience, you prefer new. I hate the idea of having a used fridge for exampe or used toilet. Nothing to do with unfairness there so I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:27 AM
1

The other guy was saying to approach everywhere but not coworkers. That was response to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:38 PM
12

While I agree that marriage statistics or some other similar stuff is over-rationalizing some inner feeling, I also dont think men dont like it just because it is "ewww, icky". There is some deeper FOMO, missing out, betabox, sloppy seconds stuff going on here. That someone "conquered" that woman and shot a load all over her face while you were studing for your accountant exams and jerking off in the sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:07 PM
1

100 000. And you get to know the people you see regularly. Just by face but still, you recognize them. Ofc I dont mean whole city but the areas one is hanging out or going shopping etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:00 PM
-5

Who the hell is going to talk to some 5'10 random guy for few minutes? :D This is chad territory
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:20 PM
4

And saying hi to someone will get you a date? Obviously we all understand that hi is just the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:14 PM
4

So, not use warm approach in other words because that what coworkers are. Danger of cold approaches is that after few rejections you will be known as that creepy guy who hits on women. Where do you reccommend approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:13 PM
8

Following this advice will result in a talk with HR department or the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:04 PM
5

Best is warm approaching in social circles. The key is to befriend your "target" and see where it goes from there. Danger is to friendzone her but is outweighs the benefit of getting rejected early on. If you get along well you can clearly see if she is into you or no. Or dumpster dive in non-Tinderish dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:00 PM
1

Oh okay, that is fine then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:22 AM
1

So, is unwanted sex rape or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:18 AM
1

"Can we please have sex today?" "Umm, I dont feel like it today, I feel tired" "But you promised." (leaves in angry mood) "Okay fine, lets do it" What about that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:02 AM
1

"Can you please assemble this?" "Umm, I dont feel like it today, I feel tired" "But you promised. I dont have anywhere to put my shoes" (leaves in angry mood) "Okay fine, I will do it"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:38 PM
1

The same way a woman would be "forced" to give sex in relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:33 PM
1

What compensation? I had to assemble furniture for my wife and I didnt get compensation for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:03 AM
1

There are a lot of things that one should do in a relationship. Women giving sex to men is one thing but we call it rape. Is a man assembling IKEA furniture also slavery then or just something one should do in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:46 AM
1

Taking orders from a woman is pretty submissive thing to do even if their pay was on the line tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:52 AM
1

I like how you are a woman barking orders to men and then claim that men are not submissive in general. Noice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:40 AM
1

No, as a femdom you are full of shit and use the "submissive" word only in the context of your kinky sex stuff. Maybe most men dont want cucumbers up their asses but they definately give more power to women in relationships :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:51 AM
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Most men are submissive. You dont have to be into femdoms for that but just the "today also dont want sex, baby we had it last time 2 months ago? Okay..." attitude is also submissive. And to OP, those betamales are the ones getting married. This is where the "but people are just getting married later" comes in. Betamen in their 30s get marries. Cheds get "the milk for free" and not buying cows.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:28 AM
1

Oh okay, you should have clarified that before because from your writing it sounded like a classic case of halo effect ( a real documented phenomena not just some intsel talking point)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:33 AM
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No, this is the thing. Rouges go against the "bleck poll truth". How is that some 5'9 average looks piece of shit violent drug dealer is more attractive than some 6 foot high tier normie manager or something? They dont even have to be ambitious, they can just sleep in their parent's couch and be happy with 1000$ a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:08 AM
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Most women, #notAll
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:02 AM
1

So, are you then that woman or no who wants a rogue? If not the why did you even dated him at first? Because he was gentle and kind? Is it one of those "it just so happens that I like kind guys but my BF is a drug dealing violent gangster" memes? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:00 AM
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Pretty much agree, yeah. Red pill gets your foot in the door but then being "who you are" is the key to normal relationship. It is very hard though because men tend to lose respect for women who they had to humiliate or play stupid games with to create attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:06 AM
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Ssshhh, dont say it! You cant discuss bleck poll here! You have to let either red pill or blue pill benefit from it (either "see, alfamales are dominating" from red pill or "of course looks matter, noone was ever denying it" from blue pill).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:10 AM
1

You describe the BlkP not RP when talking about being naturally good at attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:56 AM
2

How does that help if you just said it is something you either have or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:56 AM
2

It is kinda obvious though that this is among men's top issues in this topic. But that point might get lost in the "non virgins are icky" and "divorce rates" talks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:41 AM
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Yes, dont you know? The biggest women respecters are the ones who pump&dump them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:29 AM
1

Much respect for that statement, upvoted: "I actually don't blame you for wanting a virgin if you are in fact, a virgin. It's better for a virgin girl to have sex with another virgin, that way they can experience it together, with love." So many bluepillers just cant fathom that if you are some virgin beta boi then wanting virgin woman is totally fine and much better than being together with someone with who you definately dont share any "firsts" and are on different worlds when it comes to life…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:16 AM
4

Damn, I feel like this a very good topic but you kinda overcomplicated it so it might not get the traction it needs. You should add a TL;DR section or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:01 PM
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Yes, it sounds good but unfortunately women are not attracted to low SMV beta bois and attraction is very important in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:53 PM
2

Genuinely curious, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:07 AM
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No, even though I am a bleck poller, even I understand that having good personality AND having an opportunity to display it (social circle game) is how some 5'9 average Joe can get a smokin hot 8-9/10 Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:22 PM
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Betabois dont have what it takes to cheat and if they leave they could turn out to be lonely for the rest of their life. That pityfuck they get once a month is what they live for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:28 AM
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Online dating is all about looks boii, and therefore if you are good looking and have a spark with a woman then being "asshole" later when chatting is benefiting the man. Some random anon guy dissing women is ofcourse a death sentence to your romantic life :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:13 AM
1

Straight up AWALT is stupid, I agree. I use it as a funny exaggeration though to people pushing the "we are a different, trends dont matter" BS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:14 AM
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Doesnt your granny example just say that people change all thr time and there is no point of waiting for some "mature age" to find out who someone really is to choose a partner? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:50 AM
1

Agree. Just goes to show the monolithic AWALT-ness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:41 AM
1

OP claimed that hot women value themselves and therefore dont hook up with assholes like insecure uglier ones do. I tell him that hot women also like assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:38 AM
1

I dont know where do you see that? I always see the opposite :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:36 AM
0

While I agree with you about insecure women not knowing their value, why there are a lot of hot stacys still hooking up with bad boy heartbreaks? Way too common sight to see. Seems kind of monolithic to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:33 AM
0

I dont care too much about the "used" stuff or them being "icky" or something :D But it is true that having relationships that ended badly can damage someone and make them have trust issues etc. So these people are not "fresh goods" in that sense. People love to deny it here and say that changing relationships/partners is just some growing experience and it is fine. No, it can be damaging. Virgins being naive and not knowing what they want is again something I disagree with buf def not offensive…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:26 AM
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Thanks for the detailed answer :) The issue I see though is that you are still that clever, compassionate and sweet person. You didnt go from being an asshole to a saint or vice versa. Reason Im talking this is I also thought about what you said and initially agreed. I have also changed a lot in just few years. But have I actually? I have the same personal traits as I have always had, just more knowledge and experience. So roughly you know who someone is before they finish college. Even if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:17 AM
2

That specific man would probably not crying about it. But if we would then he would be stupid, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:36 AM
2

Maybe in other areas they click together very well, this is why they would still want to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:31 AM
0

She can realize she loves being a cumbucket also, still, would be better to figure it out with a solid partner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:19 AM
2

Because in some rare occasion you get sex though and damn, that feels like heaven for poor beta Brian here. He just havent experienced sex before his 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:18 AM
-1

Isnt figuring out your compatibility something you want to do with your partner as a journey together? I wouldnt want my wife to get pounded by fifteen chad bulls only her to realize that she doesnt like sex all that much of something :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:12 AM
-1

This is the best comment in this thread and a good debunking of the "I want experienced woman". It is much easier to mold an unexperienced girl than to teach "old dog new tricks".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:09 AM
-3

Most likely virgin woman will get a better husband, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:02 AM
1

That agrees with OP then. Fake virgin got a divorce which is more likely for non-virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:00 AM
3

You can peek into deadbedrooms sub to broaden your horizon
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:55 AM
1

What is entirely different about you when compared to 3 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:49 AM
4

Sex in media has a strong probability of being between two wanting sides unless it is some kind of sitcom. So there I could see sex being that natural hot stuff. Age/time etc is def not a red pill term. Older couples living together for many years usually initiate sex just like the "lets have sex after credits roll, what do you think" way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:41 AM
1

I love having the "relationships are fucking complicated and different duude" mindset while at the same time being not able to imagine how common dead bedrooms are actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:35 AM
3

What are those offensive stereotypes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:27 AM
3

Depending on your age and looks and everything. If I get answers from women dating chads in their early 20s then sure. But some betaboi in his mid 30s with his settle down starfish wife? Nah, no spontaneous hot sex there. Which experience is more normal you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:21 AM
2

How they were dysfunctional then? Relationships with bad boy heartbreakers usually have the best sex even, this is why women want to be with them even if everything else sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:14 AM
2

Then we are in square one again. We can learn together or I can teach her if I am more experienced. Wanting experience in something that can be learned in few hours is pretty stupid imo but it is a good blue pilled answer I'll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:12 AM
4

Who someone is as a person has a lot to do with someone's "stats" though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:05 AM
2

Then to have a nice roommate :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:01 AM
2

Sexual incompatibility can be found in any relationship. I dont go around asking women "do you like anal?" or something. Later in bed I find that out. I could live with just having boring missionary sex I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:01 AM
3

Why you felt the need to add the "sexually healthy" part? Most relationships are not sexually healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:58 AM
1

For any other reason women settle down with betabois then. Maybe just to have family or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:56 AM
2

So, after few long nights man has "trained" the woman pretty well. For serious commitment it should be a valid effort to put in relationship, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:55 AM
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Your partners are/were been lucky :) I know but that kind of "initiation" comes after being beaten down after years of woman ignoring the better ones. It becomes transactional in a weird way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:53 AM
2

How many years it is taking time then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:48 AM
6

Yes, that actually seems like a good blue pilled answer. Funny how that commenter is probably some gigachad and because of that she could actually be so naive and bluepilled to think that :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:47 AM
0

I mean in most relationships sex isnt some spontaneous team effort. It is usually more like: "hey babe, we havent had sex for 2 months and it is by birthday. Is it okay now?" "But Brian, I dont feel well today"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:40 AM
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Yes, he just happens to be tall and she just happens to do tiktok videos titled "the height difference I deserve". It all just happens
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:36 AM
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Most relationships dont work like that. There is also the betaboi having to initiate because the startfish wife doesnt care. Or the other way around also can be as written in this post but not sure if that is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:21 AM
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To get the betabox to pay for her. It suits most women just fine when their not attractive husbands dont initiate sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:16 AM
3

Exactly, and maybe she is 5'11 herself so that "her height" man is actually also tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:12 AM
1

Thats fine, that is sociopathic behavior and there is nothing wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:07 AM
1

I genuimely dont understand the "you sayd trends though" comeback to me saying that we can see a trend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:34 AM
1

If you didn't know that before then ofc unless he is a child. But your answer was very telling so I am thinking that you are a sociopath :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:33 AM
1

You mean the plural of trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:27 AM
2

Good, you are the outlier then though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:25 AM
2

Foreign bullshit? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:21 PM
1

Andrew Tate is the ultimate redpill boii
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:20 PM
6

I love being high n count male (for high tier normie standards). And yes, half of them are hooker (total hookers + regular women around 40 or so). Most of regular women I creampied. This is what giving me confidence to be a settle down beta bux now because I know I had my fun not only my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:19 PM
2

He probably does
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:16 PM
1

Thought is ofc what counts lol Or if someone wants to prank you by throwing shit in your face but you actually have a poop fetish, would you like him more than the guy giving you flowers but you have an allergia to roses? Sorry for that retarded example, but I want to get to the bedrock of why you have that weird mindset :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:11 PM
2

""we don't have a lot of social trends", as in "our trends are limited". NOT as in "they don't exist"" How is that not us not having a lot.of trends but they still exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:41 PM
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The trend is whoring around and getting railed by alfa bad boy heartbreaker. The reason for the trend is not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:39 PM
1

Yeah, okay. We have some limited trends but they are pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:38 PM
1

I really like/liked talking to you. Even though you are delusional I think you are pretty cool :) But saying that, I start to feel some bad faith in you. Like really, demanding same standards as other people is just childish tantrum not demanding respect. This is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:36 PM
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You started with "we dont have trends" and ended with "you are always gonna have social trends".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:32 PM
1

Mmm, thanks for agreeing with me I guess :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:29 PM
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I dont have to ask, I get mostly lies as answers. I observe who are they fucking or dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:28 PM
1

Yes, and I would be mad about having self respect. Comlarison is about self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:24 PM
3

Can you explain a bit. Even without marriage we are still talking about relationships. Or is the programming "me, woman, has to blow him, a man, because he is a man" or something :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:25 PM
1

Again, I understand and respect your point. But it is wild that you dont get the point that someones self worth does not let him/her to be with someone that went out of their way to please their ex and does the bare minimum to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:23 PM
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Prior to marriage is what we are talking about if the topic is hookup culture and whoring to cheds to find a BF.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:18 PM
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Mostly men are having less sex. Cheds and women are having more. And another funny thing from study that proves dominating alfa ched bulls are having more sex: "On the other side of that coin, one finding Herbenick is especially interested in exploring is the increase in rough sex. In this latest study, a significant number of those ages 18 to 29 have reported experiencing things like punching and choking during intimate activity. This is happening to many young people during their earliest sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:16 PM
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Not from that, Pigeons original point was fine - people are different. But since in society we can see trends on some direction then we cant just dismiss the whoring problem by saying just "oh, people have many preferences and reasons" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:10 PM
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So all (social) trends should be dismissed because people are different? Do you really believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:46 PM
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Oh, I get that and previous guy said similar. But the implication is that women should be some sex machines because you know, men want sex. But nowhere is this kind of thing promoted when raising kids. It is all about being celibate etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:44 PM
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If my bd present was some stupid calendar bought last minute without any thought put into it and her ex's was some detailed painting about one of their best memory or something then yeah, I would have cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:43 PM
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Well, you can clearly see trends so the "all people arw different" claim doesnf cut it Im afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:44 PM
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Where are they raised like that? Isnt it the opposite of find a nice guy and get married or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:43 PM
1

Why not though? If someone gave me a painting that they painted themselves in couple months then I would still appreciate it even though I dont care about the painting itself as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:39 PM
1

So the fact that your bf put a lot more effort into dating his ex than you is just fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:05 PM
1

Umm, okay in that backwards way I understand you. But lets flip the example. what if you dont care about fancy dinners too much. They are nice to have but kinda meh in general. So you cook for him or eat some plasticy tv dinners all the time. Now imagine your bf taking his ex every night out to different fancy restaurant and even plane ordering fresh food from France or whatever :D Do you understand how "why should I change my standards" sounds a bit strange now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:03 PM
1

Hard disagree bro. Why do you even think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:16 PM
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That women care mostly about height and looks. Mainly height
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:23 PM
1

On the opposite, it shows you habe respect for yourself so others should also respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:18 PM
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Why you dont have sympathy for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:09 AM
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A disagreement with OP that is not "but what if I am a virgin but witnessed butša massacre" or something. Respect for that and I generally agree. It is about relationships not the bodycount itself. A happy go lucky hoe can be much less traumatized than someone who were in 1 toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:28 AM
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Mmm, where do you live? I live in a reserved northern country where interactions in streets are very little and maybe because of that I dont get same outcome (I domt have exotic also but a thirdgen firebird which is kinda like exotic in Europe :D).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:26 PM
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No, it is just a sour grapes kope. Ofc men want their gf to be virgins (either to "conquer" them for alphas or to just share intimate firsts as normal guys).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:05 PM
1

What does status mean to you then? Sure, you can change few things out in my example but the point remains the same. High status comes from your place in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:59 PM
1

Status is actually the most important thing BUT status does not mean having a 6 figure income, ferrari and a mansion. Status means you are the bad boy with hundreds of FB friends and instagram followers. You are the one people are high fiving and girls are gossiping about. That is status. No amount of money can buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:16 PM
1

Sorry bre, you lost me at the end. As a beta liberal feminist, I say that men are scum by nature so rape is a male thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:03 AM
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