bel_esprit_ Archive

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5	Men believe that women exist solely for their sexual pleasure. Vet carefully - if he doesn’t appreciate women’s art/music/literature it shows what he thinks of you. All my favorite books are also by female authors! Women are amazing writers.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 10:18 AM
26	On today’s episode of MEN (TM) fetishists ruin EVERYTHING. 🤢🤢 It’s probably just my workplace (which is majority younger female ages 25-45 with a few ladies in their 50s-60s), but a large handful will do their hair in cute, fun ways. Like pigtail braids, pigtail buns, or high pony braided, a couple pixie cuts with one who dyes it maroon. Lots of curlygirl hair styles, headbands, colorful head wraps, and various messy buns (of course). I love seeing all the hairstyles these ladies come up with. And some don’t do much at all (me lol) if we don’t feel like it…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/21 04:39 PM
153	Honestly never though of it this way, I love it! Def a visual allusion to the snake in the garden of Eden. Sooo good.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 02:25 AM
6	In my experience, most men who call themselves “good guys,” are just comparing themselves to the predatory men they keep in their friend group. and they’ll call themselves the “good guy” in comparison, but they very obviously aren’t because they’re still hanging out with their predatory friends By “good guy”, do they mean just a normal fucking person?! I expect normal people to be “good” and not do fucked up shit. This is the baseline.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 06:13 PM
31	Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen. “A truly logical man” - LMFAO 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 09:25 AM
125	Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them. Me too! My baseline personality is friendly, happy and helpful— toward everyone. I have to change that completely with men bc they always take it the wrong way. They get all excited bc they think they found some elusive, positive-attitude woman who will be subordinate to them. NOPE!!! So now I just avoid them completely or am neutral when interacting with them (mostly at work where I have to interact). The people I am most helpful and friendly to are women bc they aren’t going to take my disposi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/21 09:31 PM
43	Organised Religion is the patriarchy’s weapon. The tenements are written by men for men, to help keep women under - and we willingly bow our heads and slip our own necks in the yoke. Look at the things you are taught critically Don’t forget Mary Magdalene being labeled a “whore” even though it never says that anywhere in the Bible. There’s no way she could’ve been a good friend of Jesus, his girlfriend, or even a disciple— she’s gotta be demeaned as a prostitute.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/21 04:28 AM
41	Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not. Too many of them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 02:00 AM
22	“I don’t even like banana laffy taffys” I think it stands for “foreign exchange” (or something like that). Basically you gamble online based on foreign currency values and their strength/weakness compared to the dollar (or whatever your local currency is). Like if the Japanese Yen ¥ is weak right now, but you think it’s gonna gain strength in the future, you buy a lot of it. Same with Swiss Francs (CHF) or Euros € or whatever other currency. Exchange rates change daily for different currencies, with some more volatile than others, dep…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/20 10:58 AM
-10	Is it a red flag if a woman used to be a knowing Mistress to a married man for years? If the guy likes you enough, he doesn’t care. Only exception are maybe Christian guys, but even then, they’ll forgive you if they like you enough.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/20 10:30 PM
-12	At least you got picked 💁‍♀️ ?? Why not? That sub is awesome.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 08:30 AM
3	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Not to mention, an active lifestyle as you age also helps prevent brain deterioration - aka dementia and Alzheimer’s disease.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/20 11:31 AM
8	Used or new, we will run you over I think it’s similar to prison how men “turn gay” while they are incarcerated bc there are no women around. Then maybe they end up enjoying it and staying gay or dabbling in it sometimes in a more fluid or bisexual way. It’s hard to say. I do feel like these sexually repressed cultures unintentionally foster “gayness” to some extent. Check out the young male Mormon missionaries. They’re only allowed to be around each other (for 2 whole years) and no women. It’s super hush-hush that some of them …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 04:06 PM
45	Used or new, we will run you over A friend of mine is a gay male escort and he says the number of men he gets from sexually repressed countries is exhorbitant (all with pious, fully cloaked wives who have no idea). And they are just as deranged with him as you could imagine.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 10:27 AM
34	If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly? It also feeds their dick egos thinking that women are “fighting each other” over them - UGH! Get real! Literally had an older man one time talking about his HS football player grandson saying “all the cheerleaders fight over him” - like chuckling as he said it, as if I’m supposed to be amused by that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 09:45 AM
72	If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly? Men want women competing with each other over looks— bc it breaks us down and divides us. They don’t stand a chance any other way. Scum!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 07:28 AM
52	If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly? Wear you down until you date him?! So basically be a pest. I’m annoyed thinking about it! My mom is in her 50s and has always been pretty (as I imagine you are). She says the whole thing about men “not being attracted to women after 35” is a MYTH!!! She says they’ve NEVER STOPPED bothering her with wanting dates and sex and whatever else. They act like they only go for younger women, but it’s not true. They bug you your whole life with their degeneracy— they’re beggars at all ages! (As you can s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 07:22 AM
15	If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly? Gross	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 07:08 AM
2	Has anyone else noticed that the only men around them involved in church or religious stuff seem to be low-test/effeminate/borderline gay? I definitely noticed effeminate men in my Baptist church growing up.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/20 10:40 AM
17	Has anyone else noticed that the only men around them involved in church or religious stuff seem to be low-test/effeminate/borderline gay? The only problem with Hispanic men (in my experience) is that they tend to be “mama’s boys.” As alpha as they can be, but you will never measure up to his mother. I had a problem with this. I don’t want to be in a relationship with a guy and his mother. Now my fiancé is Northern European. They love and respect their mothers but they don’t put you in this weird competition with them. Thank God.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/20 10:18 AM
7	Has anyone else noticed that the only men around them involved in church or religious stuff seem to be low-test/effeminate/borderline gay? I can confirm this. We live in Western Europe (in Switzerland). My fiancé is very alpha male and he’s not Christian or religious at all. I love it. (In Western Europe this is normal. People are not amused by religion and they do not entertain it. Probably bc many of these countries have a long history of being subjugated by churches and church people, that they openly reject it. Interestingly, places like Germany and Switzerland honor Sunday/the Christian Sabbath much better than the US— literal…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/20 10:01 AM
31	Single & 30 Soon.. I don’t think men’s looks get better with age tbh. That’s more of a myth that keeps getting perpetuated. Their looks aren’t as important as women’s, sure— but they don’t get ‘better’ with age. Source: Every cute guy from my HS/college days look like toads now, and the not-so-cute ones also look like toads.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/09/20 09:54 PM
8	I hate this channel California is definitely better if you live here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/20 06:48 PM
16	Ladies, choose wisely and ruthlessly! It should be an automatic given. The baseline requirement.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/19 02:51 AM
17	How a HVW handles a date request Actually, giving out your phone number can be dangerous these days. There is so much information I can find out about you based on your phone number alone. Where you live, work, records, all kinds of stuff. I didn’t think about this and used to easily give my phone number out until I talked to some really empowered strippers who were adamant about not giving your number to any bozo. Your number is private, like your address, and is an extension of you. Use a burner number or google number (that’…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/19 07:43 PM
10	Had this conversation on tinder this morning. I truly can’t believe some men are like this about self confidence. Omfg this is so true!!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 08:30 PM
4	Body count I’ve found high value men don’t even ask this question of n-count; it shows a lot of insecurity to ask this question. How can you be high value if you are this insecure with your own self? It’s like an oxymoron. And, in the real world, all other things are not equal. An exceptionally beautiful and feminine woman will get a pass on n-count every time, regardless. Men value beauty above all else. Sorry. I didn’t make the rules.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/19 01:55 AM
18	How busy is too busy for a relationship? Yea, I’m not sure. My fiancé owns his own company that he built from the ground up. It’s an international company so he travels all over the US, Europe, and Asia to meet with clients. He always makes time for me, even when we were first dating. Also, I don’t think you should have called him out on not texting you for a week after your date (no matter how well the date went). That comes off as needy and nagging. You only had one date.... even if it was an entire day at Disneyland worth $700, you …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/10/19 10:08 PM
9	Anyone else sad about losing their looks? Right? I’m 33 and feel I look the same. The change really doesn’t start happening until 40s I think (unless you had a bunch of kids or gained a lot of weight...)	/r/RedPillWomen	20/10/19 03:59 PM
21	Anyone else sad about losing their looks? Eh... Celine Dion is probably a 0-1 and have you seen her lately? Super skinny does not always equal youthful.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/10/19 03:57 PM
1	Regarding "older" women... So you’d turn down Melania Trump if she was single and interested in you?	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/19 12:44 AM
7	So I Met Someone This is so cute!! Go on a couple more dates with him, keep it light hearted and fun, and see where it goes! If you guys go on some more dates before his bday, and things are still going well, then I think baking him a cupcake is a sweet idea that he will appreciate. It acknowledges his bday in a simple way that’s not over the top since you’re not at that level yet. I also second the previous commenter about going to therapy if you can! Having parents that are overbearing or sheltering can really…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/10/19 06:38 AM
1	Partner is ignoring me? Wait, so you don’t even know what you did or said to make him act this way? He’s just throwing a fit for no reason? Fuck that, get rid of him. This is psychological and emotional abuse. Good men don’t act like this. And when you do get rid of him, cut him off and ignore him 100%. (Also not mentioned- when guys go rogue for several days, often times they are cheating. So even more reason to get rid of him).	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/19 03:30 PM
11	Virginity is like a trophy. The high value man I am currently engaged to dated a virgin before me. Once he found out this information he lost all desire for her and discontinued the relationship bc he felt she would become clingy and attached to him once they had sex. He preferred a woman with some experience bc confidence (that only comes with experience) is incredibly fun and sexy in the bedroom. Men love this bc it makes them feel good and inspires them during sex, and it honestly isn’t something a virgin can provide. A…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 07:53 PM
14	Should I dye my hair blonde? Are men more attracted to blondes? Oh you sweet, summer child. What you need is confidence. And a great body. Men do not care what color your hair is. (Some might think they care, but they don’t). I am a natural brunette, have never once dyed or highlighted my hair, nor would I ever. And I’ve never dated a guy that didn’t want to get married. I’m currently engaged to an amazing man, but when I was single, I couldn’t keep them away. It’s how you make them feel. And it doesn’t have to be sexual, either. Having confidence, a nice fi…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/19 05:13 AM
2	Real reasons to leave your spouse... Aren’t they the best?!? I feel so lucky to have him. Congratulations on your marriage!! :)	/r/RedPillWomen	05/08/19 07:23 AM
3	Real reasons to leave your spouse... Who said anything about male feminists? My fiancé is liberal bc he respects the environment, believes in universal healthcare, and what else I mentioned above. Are you a US citizen? English doesn’t seem to be your first language...	/r/RedPillWomen	05/08/19 07:20 AM
9	Real reasons to leave your spouse... It’s probably cultural since my fiancé is European, but he is very liberal and the most masculine man I’ve ever known. He is the definition of an alpha male. Physically, mentally, emotionally, financially- he is an amazing captain. Takes care of me completely. He’s reserved and humble, quiet but confident, and very secure with himself. I’ve never been in a room with him where he isn’t the natural leader of that room. Other men look up to him as a mentor. He has so much respect from everyone arou…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/08/19 06:50 AM
8	Ladies, do you want a relationship/marriage with no kids? Me and my fiancé have reflected a lot on this. Right now we have a beautiful, fun relationship where we share so many activities and hobbies together. We sail, hike, swim, go bike riding, ski in the winters, and are taking kite surfing classes. We have an adventure relationship and it’s so much fun. We feel like we’re experiencing so much and making so many memories. We enjoy doing our hobbies and activities together. We go out dancing and find cool and unique places to visit, restaurants to eat…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/19 09:29 PM
19	Should I insist? Is chasing unattractive? Something my mother told me when I was younger that rings true: If a man wants you, he will let you know, one way or the other. They can’t help it when they like you. Guys don’t beat around the bush if they like you. You should be able to tell, even if they’re more reserved. Women are the ones who are more elusive about it.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/19 07:59 PM
7	I feel bullied by women. Meh. I’m physically attractive. People ask me all the time if I model or tell me that I should. I’ve never had issues with women and make friends with them easily in real life (at work and elsewhere). Most women are nice. Maybe bc I grew up with sisters so I “get” women, but I honestly have never felt put off at work, or anywhere else, by the women there. It’s actually the opposite and we get along quite well (as far as work relationships go). This whole narrative of women being jealous B’s and …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/19 09:25 PM
22	Red Pill Parenting? I’m friends with a very successful Silicon Valley exec (his product is a household name). His kids have old Nokias.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/05/19 03:51 PM
5	Are Moms Doomed to Get Fat? Don’t eat processed foods and you won’t get fat. Don’t feed your kids processed foods and they won’t get fat either.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/19 04:05 AM
16	Are Moms Doomed to Get Fat? Come to Southern California. It’s rare to see overweight women at any age.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/19 03:59 AM
1	Homemakers, how did you start transforming your home? Why are you guys paying less than minimum wage for a housekeeper? It’s funny to me how SAHMs say it’s “the hardest job in the world” and they’re worth “a six figure salary,” yet pay the actual workers peanuts. It’s just so tacky to me. My cleaning lady that comes is excellent. She deep cleans my entire home for about 3 hours every 1-2 weeks. I pay her $120 for those 3 hours and my home looks amazing. I couldn’t imagine giving her $15 for all her hard work!! That’s nothing! Or something you’d giv…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/03/19 02:59 PM
16	I’m meeting the president... What to wear??? Here’s another picture of a girl from last year’s event. Her dress is navy. Classy, cute, and perfect for your age with that length and style. It looks quite comfortable to sit/dance in. The only thing I’d probably change is the shoes.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/11/18 12:55 AM
1	I’m meeting the president... What to wear??? So I actually know a girl who attended the WH Christmas party event last year. She met the president and Melania and everything. She’s a model so her dress was a little sexier but you can see what she’s wearing and also what Melania and Tiffany wore. Friend wearing the long red dress, but Melania is in a shin-length red lace. Tiffany in knee length silver sparkle. I think you can find any of these styles in a department store.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/11/18 12:37 AM
2	Did Meghan Markle hit the wall? If so, when? Meghan isn’t old, though	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/18 10:33 PM
3	Did Meghan Markle hit the wall? If so, when? 45 is young. My mom is 56 and gets hit on daily by men of all ages bc she is beautiful and has a youthful personality and appearance. She told me the male attention has never stopped. Look at Kate Beckinsale, Melania Trump, Jennifer Lopez, the list goes on. These women are stunning and are all around 45 years old. It is becoming extremely common to be beautiful and youthful at age 45 bc of better skincare techniques combined with staying active and healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/18 10:23 PM