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| – | 10 Tips To Stop Freezing Up Around WomenYou still said hi. That's a big step up from doing nothing. You don't have to stand in front of her awkwardly, just say hi and move on. Next time, ask for directions. If you're comfortable with that, turn it up a notch and ask her something else. | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 10:31 AM |
| 3 | 10 Tips To Stop Freezing Up Around WomenThese posts provide good content, as far as I can see. What's the problem with advertising a free group, at the end of your post, when the point of the post is not to advertise, but to provide value? | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Don't Wait For Rock BottomOr just hoping that Girls are magically attracted to them, without actually doing anything. Like I did. | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 08:59 AM |
| 7 | 10 Simple Exercises To Build Rock-Solid Self-Belief & CharismaWatch and analyze good stand-up comedians. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Sex On The First Date - 17 quick tips to make it happenpm'd you ;) | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 05:42 PM |
| – | Sex On The First Date - 17 quick tips to make it happenDropped you 2 seperate PMs after other posts, never added me. Son, I am disappoint. | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How to improve your social skills/ game/ small talk?You don't have to know them well to have a conversation hook, you just have to know something about them. You could comment on a jacket, or joke about one guy ordering two beers by himself, or say something about a piece of conversation you overheard. The more relaxed you get in these situations, the easier it will be for you to just have natural conversations. | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 01:04 PM |
| – | How to improve your social skills/ game/ small talk?Get a job at a bar. Might not be possible for many, but you're at uni, so it might work out. I've been a bartender for a year now, and I have very little difficulty with social interactions anymore, especially with strangers, since my job requires me to, well, have social interactions with strangers all the time. The setting is relaxed and social, most people in bars are pretty open. You also have good reasons to talk to people, so it doesn't make you feel awkward as much, and you just get used … | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Girls saying they felt like it was more of a friendly hang out than a date during coffee datesTouch her. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 02:43 PM |
| – | What indirect openers do you roll with in bars and pubs and stuff?Mainly just look for something to comment on. A bit of conversation you overheard that you know something about, comment about something they are looking at, you get the idea. The sort of stuff you would say to your friends in a similar situation. Maybe they are talking about a TV show you know ( " Mabel and Sooss are the coolest ever "), complaining about the waiter taking forever ( " he's usually pretty quick, it's pretty full tonight "), looking at that weird dude across the street you notice… | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 11:08 AM |
| 1 | 100 Women in 50 Days Update, and how I got gamed by a beautiful saleswomanNo selfie this time? :( | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Asking out my Yoga Teacher - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 1I guess some people here just want to fuck as many bitches as possible. To each their own. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 10:24 AM |
| 2 | How to get rid of negative attitude from redpill and incelI agree. I like the the paradox that "absolutes are never absolutely right"... Well, except maybe for this one ;) | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 10:58 AM |
| 48 | F.O.R.D. is a method that helps to know someone better, but is there a method that helps to have fun with a person?That's a silli abbreviation. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 02:36 PM |
| 1 | I was friendzoned for the 3rd time. What doThat was my problem as well. Scared of escalating, so just floated along, because nothing happened she "friendzoned" me. But really it was myself settling in there, there was pretty much nothing else she could do other than jump my bones. I hoped for the latter instead of doing something out of fear of being rejected / not good enough. | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 01:27 PM |
| 4 | The girl is not the goal. The goal is to become a happy, driven, successful, self-assured man.Fucking chicks doesn't equal success with women. Some women may be attracted to the strong, not giving a fuck masculinity of these scumbags. But that's really their only asset. They are imbalancend, self absorbed, inconsiderate, selfish, immature. To a woman that doesn't know what real confidence and strength looks like, these qualities seem to be attractive. What does that say about the woman? The whole "boohoo women like assholes" story is bullshit. Women are attracted to strength and masculin… | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else feels too "damaged" to get girls?Look into the mankind project. Trust me. I'm a stranger on the Internet. | /r/seduction | 11/04/17 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Models by Mark Manson, full audiobook narrated by the authorCheck his website or Amazon. | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 01:36 AM |
| – | Approaching girls out with their parentsArmchair Casanovas at it again. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | 15 Glaring Signs Of Social Incompetence You Want To Avoid At All CostNice trying. | /r/seduction | 29/10/16 04:11 PM |
| – | My personal principles for getting better with women and staying sane when shit hits the fanWhat do you mean by calibrate? | /r/seduction | 15/08/16 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Cynics and Doubters of Seddit. A Powerful Thought Experiment For Your Inner Game5 to 10 minutes a day is enough to start. | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Cynics and Doubters of Seddit. A Powerful Thought Experiment For Your Inner GameYou maybe don't "need" it, but it can surely help you get better anyway. | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 08:53 PM |
| – | Cynics and Doubters of Seddit. A Powerful Thought Experiment For Your Inner GameNope, great for everyone, and not just to improve game. Seeing your thoughts from kind of a meta perspective gives you the freedom to choose which ones you want to follow, feed or accept, and which ones to let go, ignore or weed out. You will learn important things about yourself, your beliefs and reality itself. Also great for improving your willpower and focus. | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 08:51 PM |
| – | First date at a music festival?I'd say it is a pretty good environment to practice. Everyone's more open and social, usually there is a playful and relaxed vibe. Just don't take it too seriously, don't get too drunk, relax and have fun. Don't focus on "getting her", you will end up in your head, overthinking. Try to touch her more than you usually would. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 11:00 AM |
| 1 | U.K. Wanted tips to improve on my unnatractiveness...God damn it. Thanks for the heads up, I was just about to waste my time on him. Why does he do that though? Surely he must realize that people will recognize him. So... I don't get it. | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 05:37 PM |
| – | U.K. Wanted tips to improve on my unnatractiveness...What? Has he asked that before? | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 02:19 PM |
| 2 | The Fundamental Characteristics Of The Attractive Man – And The Only One That Matters (AKA I interviewed dozens of women, and here's what they said, and here's why it sucks)Some will even like that. | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 02:04 PM |
| 1 | U.K. It's impossible for an ugly guy to be treated as a person by girls....Your perceived ugliness is only in your head. Get your head straight about that, maybe see a therapist. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Minor posture tip: Fight back against computer neck!I think this is a pretty good summary of different methods to improve posture. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Minor posture tip: Fight back against computer neck!Thanks... Already noticeably less head forwardness. Upper back feels less rounded and more relaxed. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Minor posture tip: Fight back against computer neck!Been doing them for a week, already seeing improvement. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Minor posture tip: Fight back against computer neck!I think he means use a pillow at first and work from there until you don't need it anymore. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 09:21 AM |
| 57 | Minor posture tip: Fight back against computer neck!This might or might not work, depending on how often you think about and care to use your willpower to do it. It's more effective and efficient to do the exercises in this video | /r/seduction | 11/02/16 02:28 PM |
| 1 | I've been told that I come off has being too serious or even intimidating. How do I chill the fuck out?That's what I mean with caution. Educate yourself about what you are about to do and decide if it's the proper way to go. Make sure you are in the right mindset and prepare properly. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 06:27 PM |
| 0 | I've been told that I come off has being too serious or even intimidating. How do I chill the fuck out?Proceed with caution, especially on high doses. Might want to try microdoses, though. Might help your situation. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 04:51 PM |
| 2 | How To Get A Girlfriend, The Obvious Reality That People Often Avoid And Wish For a Magic Pill InsteadIf you have serious mental health issues you should see a professional about them. Heck, even if you don't consider them serious, it will benefit you greatly. How long have you been meditating? I feel like well being and mental health go hand in hand, so I don't get how it can be one but not the other. When you meditate regularly for longer periods, you become aware of all the processes simultaneously running in your brain, and the more you watch them without getting sucked in, the more control … | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 02:50 PM |
| 3 | How To Get A Girlfriend, The Obvious Reality That People Often Avoid And Wish For a Magic Pill InsteadMeditate. Daily. This is really the first thing to establish. Declutter your mind, the rest will be much easier from then on. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 12:40 PM |
| -4 | I can tell that a married mom likes me. I'll plow her if it weren't for the fact she's engaged, but I behave awkwardly around her now.Hahahaaa | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 05:34 PM |
| 2 | I have a somewhat odd name. What to do?If so, he could beat two birds with one stone. Someone tries to make fun of his first name, he just says : You know, that's because everyone was fucking impressed when I was born. | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Law of Attraction: Conor McGregor [Facebook]Any other sources for the video? | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | On a trip to austria, Small town and a lot of locals pass by, should I start a conversation oder nicht?;pSwabian here, can confirm... Seriously though, there are cool people and assholes everywhere you go. | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 07:46 PM |
| 4 | On a trip to austria, Small town and a lot of locals pass by, should I start a conversation oder nicht?;pGerman here. Try it and see. You can't really tell in advance. Some people might be really friendly and open (probably the younger ones) , others not so much. Young people generally speak English pretty well. You also got the exotic bonus,so... You might just get lucky . | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Three Critical Things Every Guy Should Know Before SexGood ideas, thanks for posting. I really like the safe word and the nonadjusting, new ideas for me. I personally have experience with "dropping the ego", since I never assumed I was a sex God from the start, so I kept trying to get better. I never took the direct route of asking however, I'm sort of inhibited doing that (ego in the way?) . I always check for non verbal clues, wich has worked well so far, but I think there is more potential. How do women react if you ask them directly? Where ther… | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | "I don't know how to dance....So I won't dance at all"Thinking of people who have never danced before, especially with low confidence , I think it's mandatory for them to try and get comfortable before going public. They are certainly going to get paralyzed if they try to do it on fly. | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 10:18 AM |
| 2 | "I don't know how to dance....So I won't dance at all"I think it would be a good idea to get some experience with moving your body to music on your own, instead of having your first ever dance experience in a room filled with people. Take 5 to 10 minutes out of your day, put on some music you enjoy and just let go. It might be beneficial to make sure not getting 'caught', just to help you get started. Enjoy yourself and the music, the anxiety comes from the feeling of other people judging you, try an have a good time with yourself and the music. St… | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Southerners of Seddit, what's the deal with Georgia girls and people of the state in general?I think it is also a problem of the demographic. Hispanic girls who are happily fucking black dudes won't end up there, because, duh, they don't need to. I think a large percentage of people go there because they have problems with dating / meeting people offline, and not just to supplement their normal dating life. I don't think that should be seen as representative. | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 09:35 AM |
| 8 | How can i pick up women if: i live with my parents, i live in a small town and i don't have any friends here.Well... Move out, bigger town, get friends. Seriously, get your shit and the basics of life together and you will have a good foundation to practice your game. | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 04:57 PM |
| 15 | How to Approach a GirlBut saying stuff like 'be alpha' is even worse. I really can't hear it anymore. | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 05:21 PM |
| 1 | (23, m) I have Asperger's and I'm ugly (pics included), I feel totally inadequate around girls and don't know how to deal with itThat is precisely why you should try out a nicely groomed, short full beard. It can do to wonders in compensating not so ideal facial proportions. And don't forget to smile. | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | (23, m) I have Asperger's and I'm ugly (pics included), I feel totally inadequate around girls and don't know how to deal with itI agree you are not ugly at all, some fine tuning can do wonders for your self esteem though. As has been said above, try a new haircut and try growing a nice full beard, works wonders for many guys. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Incredibly low self and social confidence .. how to overcome ?I think a lot of guys have the problem to assume that women judge attractiveness the same way men do. That's not the case, at all. Because men are so focused on looks when choosing an attractive partner, we think that women do the same. I'm not going to tell you that looks don't matter, because that's not true, but they matter far less than you can imagine. What's way more important is your self image, so stop judging yourself for things you can do nothing about and start appreciating the good t… | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 03:27 PM |
| 3 | How do I practice smiling more?I developed a little trick when I was feeling down once. I started to imagine everyone I met with a big, honest, happy smile. All the glum faces on the bus in the morning? All beaming at me. I noticed this considerably improved my mood, which led to more smiling on my side as well. | /r/seduction | 14/06/15 11:50 AM |
| 6 | Just 3 months ago I was scared to even look at a girl, today I've realized how far I've come.Especially not to yourself... If you can help it, that is... | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 03:25 PM |
| 6 | Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few doI can't seem to picture the position in my head, care to elaborate? | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 10:49 AM |
| 18 | How to induce girl-girl jealousy?Dude, you are clearly overthinking this. Just get the two girls to the party and see where it goes. If you keep analysing everything like you do now, you will stop being in the moment and end up in your head. Keep it fun and playful, and adjust course according to the situation. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Alright guys, how do you start a fight?This dude | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting everything from scratch. Where do I start?I second that | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 07:18 PM |
| 67 | I'm starting everything from scratch. Where do I start?Models by Mark Manson, everything you need... | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine?Models by Mark Manson No more Mr nice guy by Robert glover | /r/seduction | 19/12/14 06:27 PM |
| 19 | I have no problem meeting girls and talking to them, but I have no idea how to cross the "just friends" state and escalate things further romantically.Kino, physical contact, makes all the difference. | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 01:06 PM |
| 8 | Becoming TOO outcome independentSo you are worried that having a good time and doing what you feel good doing will keep you from improving your score? | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Other 'underground societies' similar to pickup?my guess is the theme you are looking for is self-improvement and better understanding? bodyweight training personal development (steve pavlina for example) bushcraft psychonauts meditation lucid dreaming conspiracy (yes, some nutters, but some really legit) parkour / freerunning | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Couple of quick tips that have helped me. Maybe useful for you as well.how do you spin her? | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 12:02 AM |
| 1 | How To Be A Real Man - The Ultimate Understanding of Masculinitythis guy is straight to the point, thanks op | /r/seduction | 19/03/14 08:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR]From study buddies to friends with benefits.oftentimes it is not about building the attraction in the first place, more about not fucking it up. | /r/seduction | 19/03/14 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson - How to Attract Womensame with me, i gotta start cleaning it up though... :P | /r/seduction | 19/03/14 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson - How to Attract Womenupvote for evernote :-) | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Co-worker taught me a lesson, time for a new approach:* | /r/seduction | 21/11/13 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Co-worker taught me a lesson, time for a new approachhahaa great | /r/seduction | 21/11/13 11:17 PM |
| 44 | Co-worker taught me a lesson, time for a new approachhahah, that would be great to watch :) "hello, i'm frank and i find you attractive and am interested in learning if you'd be a good romantic, slash, sexual partner for me." | /r/seduction | 21/11/13 02:45 PM |
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