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might want to read this Thank you for this link, I'm reading now. How timely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 10:39 AM
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Can confirm, NVM ex did all of these. Towards the end he had escalated to pushing me, throwing things at me, slapping my arm, trying to control my movement, screaming at me and calling me abusive names. If I stayed it would have for sure escalated to full on punches, which he had threatened to do. He had even threatened rape. I doubt that was an empty threat either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:56 PM
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Thanks for posting 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:25 PM
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This is absolutely horrific. Why do they make us suffer so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:28 PM
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Focusing on myself, my goals, my career, my health and happiness has brought more joy and satisfaction than any relationship ever could. My last three relationships were absolute shit and I’ve taken my healing and progress more seriously than anything before. I feel fully myself and for the first time in my life, not beholden to anyone for anything. Someday, I’ll be with someone who is worthy of my attention and love. As of now, I’m so in love with me that I don’t have room or care for anyone el…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:47 AM
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Ahhh like when men MUST point out every woman they find attractive in real life or film (when literally no one ever fucking asked) but get weirdly quiet when I return the favor by stating my preference for super hot, tall, muscled male specimens with large penises. Yup. I know allllllll about it. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:15 PM
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Yes! Op’s comment about her mother is very telling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:58 AM
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Omggg yes you put into words exactly what I was thinking while reading this shitstorm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:53 AM
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We need more people like this queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:02 AM
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Wow where to start. Some highlights: -Always dresses like an absolute bum. Smelled awful. No style. Balding. Bad teeth. Small dick. Ejaculates in under 1-2 minutes. Short. Weak looking. Ugly. -Never had a proper job or any semblance of a career. Thinks he’s entitled to fame and success and a partner without doing anything to earn it or advance himself. -Sadly, embarrassingly dumb. Ignorance of basic facts children learn in grade school. Hated educated, intelligent people. -Moved back to in with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:49 PM
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Thanks for the article!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:45 PM
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“I’m a feminist.” No the fuck you aren’t, scrote. Men can’t be feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:11 PM
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FACTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:03 PM
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Ew no. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:06 AM
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Fantastic insights here, helpful for us in recovery from narcissistic abuse (esp from covert narcissists) and for those of us dating to watch out for these freaks. ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:04 AM
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(Can’t personally attest to #1) 100% spot on with everything in #2. Small dicked guys are obsessed with dicks and size because they are inadequate and know it deep down and it crushes them. Sucks to suck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:38 PM
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Facts. My NVX isn’t in contact with me because I kicked him out and blocked/deleted him on every possible platform/device, reported, etc. He still tries to make contact — even leaving notes under my door like a child. (More evidence for police/other authorities of his harassment/stalking, what an idiot lol). I always wondered why he didn’t have social media when we were together.. probably because he tried this obsessive shit on his exes as well and had to quickly cover up his tracks when he got…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:23 AM
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Never. Again. Notice how a lot of dudes with big D’s don’t need this pandering. They know what they’ve got 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:39 AM
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I remember when a scrote blocked my walking path with his car when I was 19 and tried to abduct me in broad daylight. I managed to jerk my arm free from him and ran the whole way home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:30 AM
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It’s downright embarrassing how often I faked orgasms with NVM in the past rather than just leaving when the sex was trash. (I still wager that’s more embarrassing for them than for me, but I digress). My last NVX wanted frequent reassurances that his dick was big — it was on the small end of average at best. (I did not provide said assurances). And he NEVER lasted more than two-three minutes. I tried to be the nice cool girlfriend to be sensitive to his little problem. 🙄 🤮 Very likely early por…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:07 AM
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This this this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:57 PM
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If you’ve ever had the misfortune of dating someone with narcissistic qualities, you learn that in their wild accusations, they are actually telling on themselves for their own shortcomings and wrongdoings they’ve committed against YOU. (“You’re lazy,” “I can’t trust you,” “you’re lying” “you’re too sensitive” or my own personal favorite: “YOU’RE a narcissist” blah blah blah). 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:26 PM
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Fuck. 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:06 PM
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Uhh who is this?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:33 PM
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Yes yes yes 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:32 PM
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😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:31 PM
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Also avoid avoid avoid any guy whose entire personality is centered around their one hobby. 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:26 PM
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I turn the focus back on the guy if I’m being grilled, which works because they loooove talking about themselves. It’s a great opportunity then FOR ME to vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:07 PM
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Same. I should’ve avoided the ugly ones always. They are the most abusive/narcissistic subset of NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:46 PM
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Asking lots of questions, especially personal ones early on. It’s to make them seem like brilliant conversationists who are entirely focused on “getting to know you.” In reality, it feels more like an interrogation, by someone who is not wholly interested in what you have to say, and is collecting intel on your potential weak areas/traumatic past they can manipulate and exploit later. Deviant, sick minded predators. Edit: words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:36 PM
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Yes yes yes 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:57 PM
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Oh my god me too! 😢 I had an ex who wanted to get all their loser tshirts. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:47 AM
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YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:15 PM
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🤮 🤮 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:27 AM
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This is very true. But I’ve been on a few dates with someone who definitely uses soap (I could smell it)... AND he still has this weird funky man odor that is just. repulsive. Whatever the source of the smell is, I’m just not having it. I consider it nature’s red flag. Where there’s foul odors, there’s LVM. Block and delete, smelly scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:31 AM
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“...but men have special ways of ruining good things.” So true, well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:44 AM
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Know that you are not alone. So so far from being alone. What’s more, most women wont have the revelations about men that you’ve had... ever. Try to redirect the feelings of regret into self love. You’ve been through so much and you need to stop punishing yourself more with blame and shame. Of course you’ll still feel it at times, and that’s okay too. Life doesn’t end in our 30s, and for some of us, it’s just fresh beginnings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:46 AM
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Like others have said, save all evidence of his interactions with you. Don’t respond. This guy is a moron who gave you damning information clearly stating his intent. Stupid idiot. While I don’t think it’s cause to be worried for your safety, I take all threats seriously and advise you report accordingly. Get it on record and don’t stay quiet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:31 AM
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This is such a great (and timely!) reminder in the midst of my current breakup. I was indeed tempted to write my NVM ex a stupid email detailing all the ways he failed me ... but I decided FUCK THAT. I made my needs and wants very clear to him from day one and he fully CHOSE to ignore all of it. Because he just. doesn't. care. Don't give LVM's a CRUMB of attention, ladies. Negative or not, it's still attention and he's still living rent-free in your head. And all NVM/LVMs loooooooove that. ​ Als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:34 AM
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Holy fuck where do I even start. My first boyfriend when I was 18 was banging a mutual friend behind my back. He ‘fessed up eventually... moments after having sex with me. Said I should be “happy for him.” He was smiling the whole time. We broke up and then he stole my debit card. He stole it, apparently, to get money to buy me a promise ring to win me back. He was sure to reiterate it was a PROMISE ring NOT an engagement ring. (No it didn’t work, I didn’t take him back.) 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:53 AM
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Thanks for this. SO OFTEN we are blamed for being abused, especially the “not all men” camp. “Oh you must like being treated like shit.” “You must have issues and seek out bad boys.” “You have daddy issues.” “You must have low self esteem.” If any of that were true, NVM wouldn’t have to lie, manipulate, and fake their personalities to get women. But they do, because N O B O D Y enjoys or actively seeks out being treated like shit. Edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:05 AM
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Dogs > men And a Goldie too! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:59 AM
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It’s never too late to plan your escape. Good luck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:56 AM
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“Why do you hate my nest?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:32 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that.. but I highly advise leaving at the first early signs of LVM before you’re too emotionally invested and it’s more difficult to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:29 PM
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Thank you! This sub really helped me keep my wits about myself and to trust my instincts when I couldn’t process what was happening to me. Can’t wait until his negative ass energy is fully out of my goddamn apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:27 PM
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This is 100% true. I didn’t realize when I started dating an ex that he was LIVING WITH ANOTHER WOMAN and going on tinder dates while she was out of town. He was fully planning on lining up a replacement (me) while living in her place FOR FREE. (He met her on Tinder too). The WORST fucking people are on dating apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:56 AM
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Right here 🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:19 AM
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Love your name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:23 PM
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I literally thought he was the walking dead. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:22 AM
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Brits still do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:53 AM
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Replying to myself as I just saw the below comment that he got her drunk and/or drugged and then raped her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:26 AM
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I’m fairly certain it was coercive sex, aka rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:25 AM
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Also in my 30s... and with you 100%. I started deleting and blocking scores of dim witted “guy pals” I made back in my pick-me days off all social media. It’s crazy how they will be lurking in the background for literally DECADES, just waiting for their chance.. 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:21 AM
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All my male friends are gay. I don’t believe that straight men can carry on having real friendships with women without the ulterior motive of eventually sleeping with them. Don’t trust them, don’t need any of that shit in my life. Nope 👎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:55 AM
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Okay I’m still reeling from this cannibalism “fetish” horseshit. HOW IN THE FUCK IS THIS REAL LIFE. WHO. WOULD. DEFEND. THAT?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:00 PM
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This hits home. Looking back through my pictures of when I was dating a narcissist NVM, I barely recognize myself. My skin was dull and lifeless, my eyes looked sapped of any energy or spirit. My hair was falling out. Even my face shape seemed distorted. Just an absolute wreck. Thank fuck I got out of that nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:19 AM
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Good riddance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:13 AM
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It’s not just a USA thing, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:40 PM
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Thank you for this post! I’ve read so many posts on Reddit just this week starting with “my boyfriend doesn’t want to marry me buuuut he wants to buy a house together, should I do it?” or “I own my own home and my boyfriend wants to move in and add his name to the deed but is adamantly anti-marriage.” WHAT THE FUCK Internally screaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:22 AM
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This is so beyond fucked up I cannot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:21 PM
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It’s not just abuse. It’s torture and potentially murder. Edit: spelled murder wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:29 PM
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High body count means lots of brief, typically one-sided sexual encounters where they don’t learn how to pleasure a woman. Just a 2 minute pump and dump and onto the next. It’s no surprise that they’re so shit at sex. They don’t care about our pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:29 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:09 PM
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WHY is he laughing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:04 PM
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Yikes 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:52 AM
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Exactly this. “I would never cheat I love my wife!, But I feel like you’re special and different 🥺”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:26 PM
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YES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:56 AM
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YES YES YES THIS THANK YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:16 PM
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Haha so true! Moisturize, people, moisturize!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:07 AM
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Keanu is a badass and a national treasure. Also, I disagree SO HARD with the trope that “men age more gracefully than women.” NO. Men are ALLOWED to age. It’s “sexy” to have salt and pepper hair and wrinkles! Silver fox! Women aren’t allowed to age at all. That’s the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:55 AM
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