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Serial orbiter that got no contacted after I dared to ask her out and then said no to my place being her personal PO box. We'd known each other for years, she'd lived with me for months while unemployed, helped get job etc.. Went into a tailspin when she starting dating and pulling away. Not a good look when the mirror broke and I realized how weak minded and beta I was to have this break my view of the world.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 08:59 AM
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/r/askTRP30/10/14 07:25 PM
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/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:00 PM
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I'm still working through my beta stage.but here are my most idiotic moments: 1) Freshman yr, hot girl walks up to me gets my number. Repeatedly asks me to come study with her, literally rubs herself against my back in class. I didnt do anything because I thought I was in an LTR ( hint I was the only one in the LTR) 2) Sophomore yr, female friends find out that I've never been kissed , want to know if I want to practice with them. I want to wait for it to be special ( facepalm) 3)Girl is in my r…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 12:17 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 09:44 PM
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Yeh well I guess I've learned a lot. Lol
/r/askTRP01/06/14 09:41 PM
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Thanks this is encouraging, much appreciated.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 09:40 PM
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You're right, it's like my mind wasn't even processing the lie /slip that she made. I didn't even realize how beta I was until I got home. A part of me is angry that she thinks she's in control of the relationship again,and wants to confront / call her out on it. Another part feels like the best thing to do would be to fade, and move on and not let this get to me.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 08:18 PM
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Thanks for the detailed response, this is definitely part of my problem. I have been more focused on the dating aspect more. I've been working on myself (down 25 lbs now), but I have given the dating aspect a lot more weight. Back to basics it is.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 05:53 PM
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Thanks, I need to reinternalize everything because clearly I'm not getting it.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 04:03 PM
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I agree completely, I guess I didn't realize how much beta was in me cause it just kicked in and I rode with it with this girl.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 04:02 PM
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I meant clearly I haven't learned the principles and internalized them as well as I should have. I'm going to need to be able to do that to move forward.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 04:01 PM
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You're not wrong. I'm going to have to go back to basics again, this was a complete slip back to zero.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 03:32 PM
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This is it. In my mind this morning I was like "I'm over this, I'll just throw this Msg out forms closure". Nope, I'm still an idiot and the top comment is probably right. I'm not even sure I want to salvage this, she's been gone this long and I've survived. Now I've got to figure out what to even do in the convo, seems she might be out of town with a guy.. Duh smacks head.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 08:43 AM
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I wouldn't say an excess but they are definitely there. Also I think she started seeing someone, and all of a sudden our daily dinners and convos went silent. She wouldn't even say anything about the new guy/s though , most of our convos went to :"I don't want to talk to you about that", while still expecting me to help her with stuff etc. Obviously my view is subjective, but it's the lack of trust openness that killed me. cue beta " what would happen if we dated?" followed by her fading , but n…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 07:08 PM
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Right in the feels. This is happening /did just happen. Put me in a tailspin I'm still trying to get fully out of. On the upside I've lost 20 lbs and found this sub. Sucks to realize how replaceable you can be.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:22 AM
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Thanks, read the article and definitely need to get into monk mode... right after this okcupid date that popped up Friday.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 11:17 PM
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Yeh buddy, it sucks. It fades though, after a couple of days of working out and focusing on work /studying it's almost completely in my rear view. Even got a decent eye fuck this morning as I walked past a cute girl in a coffee shop. Lesson learned though, this happened and I know what the consequences are next time this crosses my mind!
/r/askTRP30/04/14 11:14 PM
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Happy hour with the class graduating this year. Studying hard for finals, grad party tomorrow night with another grad from another school, interviewing potential tenants to increase passive revenue stream.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 09:24 PM
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Yeh, I believe I do need to moderate, just had a Tinder date also come out and say that she had a lot of fun but things were escalating too quickly for her. Still in the process of setting my aggression boundaries after TRP.Back to the drawing board/rather reigning myself back closer to my personality!
/r/askTRP21/04/14 05:39 PM
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Hey ,this might be random but just updating. Just spoke to her and she said she doesn't feel comfortable alone with me. I replied that that sounds like we shouldn't be dating and she agreed.Her thought was that I was too aggressive. I'm not really phased by it ,had a decent date last night and another tonight. I'm starting to see a pattern though apparently I'm "intense" when on dates,but not in a bad way ,because they definitely want a second date.I just have to figure out what that means in th…
/r/askTRP18/04/14 11:46 AM
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Thanks for the advice it's much appreciated. I'll definitely need to be careful going forward! I'll be PMing you if anything.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 12:35 PM
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I think you're right. Smh she mentioned going out of state to party for some weekend. Probably planning on fucking random dudes while playing these games with me. Advice/tips (besides nexting her which is an option)
/r/askTRP13/04/14 12:22 PM
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Thanks! Hopefully I can start this right, have 3 dates within the next weeks, let's see how it goes!
/r/askTRP03/04/14 12:52 PM
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This was an amazing if not slightly depressing read, it's spot on down to the caretaking
/r/askTRP03/04/14 12:51 PM
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+1 on the frustration and unease, it's definitely boiling over and it's a cycle I've been in for a long time and that it's time to break. They're lying to themselves, you've been lying to yourself saying it's okay and how it's supposed to be. This rings very true for me now. I'll definitely be reading up the sidebar and additional materials This should make you question the nature of your friendship. It definitely has, mostly by thinking of myself as the bad guy for wanting more, but you're righ…
/r/askTRP01/04/14 10:51 AM
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Duly noted and amended
/r/askTRP01/04/14 08:28 AM
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