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I honestly don't know if marriage is declining, but I imagine if it is it's because people don't need to be married anymore. You can get most of the benefits without the legally binding contract now. I'm also curious how old people are who say things like this? because if you talk to people in their 30's, most of their social circle will be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:41 AM
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I'm just agreeing with you. Europe feels freer for women/sexuality and America in comparison feels prudish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:14 AM
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yeah, a teenager caring about "n-counts" is not unheard of because you're inexperienced and dumb, but his obsessive reasoning is the reddest flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:13 AM
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seriously! this is such a common misconception. america is actually quite prude compared to most European countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:04 AM
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Milan is where they're at. I was actually gobsmacked lol everyone is a model
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:02 AM
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If I were to go to work with 0 makeup people would be asking if I felt okay lo this is always so annoying lol yes, I'm feeling ok you're just seeing the purple under my eyes that i normally hide!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:22 PM
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Reading through this thread it seems I wear more makeup than most people here lol but it still only takes me about 20 mins to do a full face. I also love makeup (as I'm assuming a youtuber does) and like trying new products so it's enjoyable for me to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:21 PM
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sometimes, but it's also nice. i put on a podcast or a playlist and it's nice "me" time every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:16 PM
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the average age women get married in the US is 27. again, you're making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:00 PM
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what percentage of women are single in their 30's because they are waiting for the perfect man? it's a fantasy trope. ask any 30+ women how many of her friends are in long-term relationships or married and how many are single due to divorce or downtime after a breakup, not because they're waiting on a top 20% man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:57 AM
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most people don't go on dates to form friendships. you're wasting their time and possibly messing with their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 03:45 PM
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i'm also in canada and going to be heading to the US to get mine in a few days but damn, the pregnant thing is genius and I wish I thought of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:57 PM
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I don't think that saying really applies to teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:47 PM
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not really because attractiveness for women is extremely subjective. i don't think this guy is attractive because he's not my type but I can think of 3 or 4 friends that would be very into him based on their type.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:48 PM
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what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:37 PM
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there's always one guy in these posts who are like "TeEnAgErS LoVe mY 35 YeAr OLd DiCk" as if it proves a point but don't listen to the hundreds of women who have come into this sub and definitively said on average we would NOT date an older man vs. someone our age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:26 PM
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That's not entirely true. While me as a 30 year old thinks 22 year old Titanic era Leo looks too young to necessarily be attracted to him, I can still appreciate that he was really good looking and that was his peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:25 PM
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oh noooo, nothing in my life or any normal person's life will change!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:49 PM
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a lot of people use sex work as a supplementary income. i don't mean the 'paying my way through college trope', i mean they literally have 9-5 jobs and then post on OF in the evenings. if i had any marketing savvy, i'd probably do it too tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:42 PM
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By the way, if the kind people in my DM's encouraging things like MGTOW or red pill could spare me the bullshit I'd appreciate it. I'm lonely, but I haven't flushed my critical sense down the toilet. Not sure this proves RP is spreading like wildfire..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:33 PM
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they are also clearly youtube personalities who make money off their makeup looks. very different from the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:42 AM
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these women all get paid to do their makeup like this.. it's their job. the average woman is not putting this kind of effort into their makeup. yall are so dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:41 AM
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I didn't say treat it as a taboo topic, I just think saying something like, 'you are so much better than my ex because of xyz' is tacky lol. Maybe I'm 30 and out of touch, but I wouldn't want to date someone if their ex is someone that still matters to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:12 AM
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idk even then it's tacky. your ex is your past, leave them there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 10:12 PM
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20x more than my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:52 PM
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plz don't project on to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:48 PM
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that depends. if it is something that matters to you, sure, but my fiance never cared. i actually asked him and he lied about his number.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:50 AM
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yes lol of course. i'm not ashamed and he doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:48 AM
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Well, my fiance is a normal person so he didn't sit me down and ask me to divulge my sexual history lmao but we absolutely discussed our 'numbers' in the beginning of the relationship. I had some slutty college years, he did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 11:08 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 11:07 PM
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Ask my fiance lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 09:44 PM
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I'm from NY and lived there for 29 years. It was a thing back in 2012ish, but the idea of a 'hipster' has become old news. Any left are just gentrifying transplants from the midwest who think that's what is cool in NY.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 04:35 AM
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he has a pretty visible role so i don't wanna out him by getting specific, but he loves it! fun industry to work in and our house is full of free games hah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:51 AM
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i can't tell if this is genuine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:41 AM
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I am very aware you are male lol. Maybe, but not likely. Women don't become muscular like that easily. You need a shit ton of protein and very strict workouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 09:13 PM
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she's a video game character, babe. my fiance works for ubisoft.. she is not based off actual women of the time lol she was designed for gamers and what they want to see on their screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 09:00 PM
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cellulite is mostly genetic and your grandma probably didn't see it because women who had it felt embarrassed and covered it up. cellulite wasn't invented in the 21st century lmao if you want to see bodies of "ancient times".. go to a museum. according to basically any statue.. most women were pear shaped- small breasts, thick thighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 08:58 PM
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very few tropes are written by women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 08:17 PM
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perfect answer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 08:16 PM
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My question would be, are Manic Pixie Dreamgirls inherently limited in this way?... and Prince Charmings for straight women and gay men? because the MPDG trope is written by men, for men. women do not view men as a vessel through which they can better themselves the way men see women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:55 PM
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who is downplaying it? you can't mention amber heard v jonny depp without someone bursting in shouting 'SHE WAS ABUSIVE TOO'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:42 AM
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Thinking of it, a comparison of it is dumb. should be end of thread. why is this even a discussion? why are these two things being compared when they're completely different situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:41 AM
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Revenge porn will undoubtably damage your image and ruin potential relationships. Most people don’t like thinking about their SO being fucked by someone else, actually watching it is a relationship killer. I’ll be honest, seeing a video of my girl being fucked by another man, even if it was before we met, would damage the relationship to the point it might end. why does everything relate back to men? i swear you people are like aliens lmao. revenge porn is incredibly violating to the victim. it …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:39 AM
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not everything is black and white. stop thinking in certainties and open your worldview a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:43 AM
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I have tattoos, no judgement against tattoos! But if you're 19 years old and have face tattoos, I feel bad for you haha. Nothinggggg you decide in your teenage years should be permanent (at least on your face) because you likely won't be the same person 5, 10, 15 years down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:08 PM
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at the same time, red pill guys and MGTOW cry about women not caring about male issues and here is this woman.. bringing attention to male issues but they're mad she's not hot enough? kinda funny. also, neck and face tattoos are such a bad gen z decision right now. we should raise the tattoo age to like 22 because these kids are going to be so sad one day lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:58 PM
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this is a very dated 2012 generalization lol i've lived in major cities my whole life and haven't seen a handlebar mustache in like 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:42 PM
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You're completely losing sight of the original point. The point is, women who were (and are) sex workers have married, and will continue to marry, men after (and even before) they leave the industry. Whether or not that man is 'respectable' in the eyes of some random reddit user is debatable, but the idea that you can't turn a hoe into a housewife is just not true. You can absolutely have your cake and eat it too in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:29 PM
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i don't think marrying a millionaire is on the cards for the average woman, regardless of how hot they are. being a millionaire isn't the deciding factor in being a respectable man. what a ridiculous goal post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:57 PM
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that's not true at all lol what fantasyland do you people live in where hot people get rejected, ever. what even is a 'respectable' man? i know for revenge reasons so many people want this to be true but it's just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:46 AM
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why not have both?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:34 AM
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If a woman goes and fucks 100 men, she just guaranteed that no man who knows who she is will ever marry her. Her value is now zero, unless she lies about her body count. this is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 10:10 PM
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i think i started visiting this sub around the same time as you, 2015ish? there definitely seems to be more incel rhetoric instead of the 'alpha male' and 'okcupid 20/80' stuff that was prominent back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 10:38 PM
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imo she said she liked it and has told the media later that she's not offended so it's not something worth harping on but i do think this behavior overall is wrong. he was more likely to kiss a stranger (during a pandemic!!!!) that would NOT appreciate it and feel violated, myself included. what he did was assault, i agree with that but in this particular case it's kind of not because she did in the end consent. i hope that makes sense and i'm not trying to downplay assault or how important cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 07:57 PM
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do you want to explain yourself further or just keep saying 'that's not how it works' on all of my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 07:41 PM
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PPD meet up at trinity bellwoods!!! bahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:39 PM
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hello fellow torontonian! Yeah that's how I feel. I personally would have felt violated, especially during a pandemic BUT I respect she doesn't. However, I don't think it hurts to remind people that this is only not assault because she was okay with it. I don't agree with telling her she should be offended, she can feel however she wants. The non Asian customer sitting next me to said I should complain to the manager Why? To possibly get someone fired for asking about freckles lol like I don't u…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:18 PM
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yep, i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:50 PM
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because it's not just about her. yes, she liked it but many women wouldn't. encouraging that behavior is a slippery slope. in this case, it's not assault because she's down with it, but it very well could have been and that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:21 PM
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first of all, the internet didn't lose its mind. i'm very 'online' and only saw this story on my city's subreddit because it happened in my local park. second, what he did was gross. we're in the middle of a pandemic! cases are climbing in toronto (where the video is from) and it's risky. and no, you shouldn't kiss random girls you don't know, there was a very good chance she would not have been into it. so if you don't want to call it assault, call it bad manners. this guy is gross, this girl s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:18 PM
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nope, not avoiding it, just didn't need to have it. we were long distance for a lot of our relationship and only moved in together 8 months ago. we currently have our separate finances. we split rent and each pay for things like groceries, household necessities, nights out etc. as needed. we plan on being a two income household and opening a joint account/savings we just haven't got there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:25 PM
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thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 03:59 PM
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It's not an unmanageable amount that will haunt us for the remainder of our lives. I work in the arts~ (TV & Film) so I'm not making $$$ but I have enough to pay for my half of the rent, groceries & our general lifestyle while also saving and paying down my student loans so he's fine with it. I have made it clear that my student loan debt is mine and he doesn't owe me anything towards it. He's also from a country where he went to college for free so he just feels bad for me lol. We've lived toge…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:34 PM
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I’m a woman about to get engaged and have student loan debt AMA 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 01:19 PM
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most do, this post is pretty exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:03 PM
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Yes. handjobs are way more enjoyable if the person isn’t circumsized
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:54 PM
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i'm sorry about what happened to you and i'm glad you got out. i hope you are in a better place now! ignore this kid, he's just here to spew some reject incel vomit all over every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:32 PM
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sounds like someones mom didn't hug them tight enough as a kid :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:31 PM
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Love brunch and pets! Fuck, will have to tell my boyfriend I am a gay man :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 12:59 AM
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men are already quite vocal about how they don’t like makeup and when they say this they really mean eyeshadow and obvious contour because most men can't tell when women are wearing concealer, mascara, neutral shades and eyebrow filler.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 07:26 PM
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i feel about makeup the same way i do about plastic surgery. i'm like, 'yesss, do what makes you feel good, girl!' but i am also not gonna pretend that the reason these things make us feel good isn't because of the beauty standards set for women to ultimately impress men. however, i wear makeup to sit on the couch with my (girl) friends so, i'm truly addicted to it beyond trying to attract anyone. i think it's become bigger than what it was originally intended to be and is now just something a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 07:22 PM
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ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 03:34 PM
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Lmaooo I’ll give that one to you, that was pretty funny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:13 AM
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I can’t even imagine being this obtuse. I’m gonna hope you know that’s not what I mean and just chose to brush over my point because your whole post is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:20 AM
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why do you keep moving the goal posts? you asked us to give 5 songs that aren't about relationships and multiple people have done that throughout this thread. just take the L and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:06 AM
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it's not just about 'men' though. that's simplifying it beyond belief. our relationships define us, male & female, whether we want them to or not. no one wants to hear a song about your boring 9-5 job or how you took a shit today, they want to hear about the complexities and ups and downs of your relationship. that's what is relatable and gives us all the 'feels' art is supposed to give. you can easily find music that isn't about relationships, but it's definitely the music/lyrics most people wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:05 AM
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I can list atleast 20 songs by men that aren't about relationships. Can you do the same with women? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:57 AM
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To add to the list already mentioned.. Madonna, Virginia Wolfe, Joni Mitchell, Stevie Nicks, Kylie Minogue, Adele, Annie Lennox, Gerda Taro, Edith Wharton, Alice Walker, Carole King, Whitney Houston, Annie Leibovitz, Ella Fitzgerald, Clara Schumann
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:57 AM
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6 inch heels - Beyonce Beautiful, Dirty, Rich - Lady Gaga Edge of Glory - Lady Gaga Kill em with Kindness - Selena Gomez Last Friday Night - Katy Perry Waking Up In Vegas - Katy Perry gave you 6 from pop artists
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:45 AM
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Poppy, Janelle Monae, FKA Twigs, Grimes off the top of my head. All of them have songs about relationships but it isn't really the general theme of their albums. It's pretty easy to write songs about relationships though. It's easily the thing we all spend most of our emotional energy on, so why wouldn't we write about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:39 AM
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it's an election year where donald trump is currently president. literally who gives a fuck about toxic shithole people like amber heard and johnny depp. it was more then sufficiently reported on given the content of this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:52 PM
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but it's not proof because the media hasn't stayed silent on it.. which was his whole point in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:51 PM
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i just don't know what men want.. this story has been covered over and over again in the last few weeks. amber heard sounds like a toxic POS and honestly, so does depp. do you want us to take to the streets and riot? like really, what do you want? this is an election year in the US, a very big one, nothing is going to stay in the news right now if it doesn't have to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:44 PM
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i support this message!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:42 PM
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yeah this story has been deffffinitely been covered. does OP want people to take to the streets and riot? when footage of an NFL player knocking his wife unconscious in an elevator circulated, it was about as big as this. a lot of people covered it for a few days - a week and then.. crickets. that's how the media works!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:41 PM
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because of their second point.. the people in power are men. who owns the "media"? men. why is the lack of coverage of this getting blamed on women? ask bob iger or the murdochs why this isn't all over the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:39 PM
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blaming steroid related ED on women is a spicy take
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:02 PM
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it is believed that the modern day engagement ring dates back to the romans giving their wives rings to mark their ownership.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 11:00 PM
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nah i def want an engagement ring
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:56 PM
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it's actually antifeminism tbh. especially engagement rings. it kind of all dates back to men making it clear a woman is his property.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:09 PM
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domestic abusers rarely go to jail. they are usually arrested and do community service or whatever and that goes for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:11 PM
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i mean be realistic, he's johnny depp. if a regular guy lost his job it would absolutely be a different story. johnny depp definitely abused amber heard and she definitely abused him. neither of them deserve fame at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:39 PM
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depends, for someone who is starting out in the film industry, probably but for someone like johnny depp, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:05 PM
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he has not been blacklisted in hollywood lol he has consistently worked since then. being dropped from stuff due to controversy is one thing, but to act like the guy has no career now is insane. he's absolutely fine and has tons of supporters still.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:50 PM
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doesn't seem like johnny depp paid any consequence for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:14 PM
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Without getting into the actual repulsive and vindictive nature of the subsequent accusations that took place which saw him tarred and feathered by #MeToo just because she is an abuser doesn't mean he isn't as well. they are both toxic and that relationship was a disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 02:11 PM
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Going a bit off topic. Just stating that it matters more to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:25 AM
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it means more to men than it does to women, that's all. that doesn't mean you'll never hear a girl wanting a big dick or that it literally doesn't matter at all.. it's just that men care more than women about dick size. their own dick and the dicks of other men. i also can't believe i typed the word dick that many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:05 AM
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because it upsets men.. because they are sensitive about their dick size/being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:01 AM
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it's literally about feelings though.. how women FEEL about big dicks. you pulled out the 'WoMeN LiE' bullshit and then tell ME i'm using feelings. my guy, try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:29 PM
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you definitely sound like you are coming at this from an objective and not at all bitter standpoint so i'm glad we had this talk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:26 PM
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the point is that we don't know and really don't care for the most part as long as they are clean and nice looking. men definitely care more about their penis size/the penis size of other men than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:24 PM
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i can.. because not all vaginas are the same. the average woman probably prefers an average penis and even that is fairly objective since we are not gonna take out a ruler and measure it. if it looks nice, is clean and you know what to do with it.. it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:21 PM
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Men care more about dick size than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:13 PM
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what a leap! she said they were aggressive/pushy and had temper tantrums and that they wouldn't stop texting. that is notttt showing you care..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:29 PM
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i played my life differently in my 20's than you did and i'm really happy with how it turned out. i feel comfortable settling into my career and the marriage/family part of my life now. i don't like the 'work, work, work or you're not successful!' mentality. if you want to take that and turn it into some personal bs telling me i'm jealous and rebelling against my dad (which, what? lmao) and that i hate myself .. that's extra but it's ok! sorry i said stem guys are boring and set you off tbh, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:20 PM
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Peak cope shit right here lmao what? my whole point or "argument" is that not all criticism is jealousy because you accused me of being jealous, twice. and the sooner our society accepts these hard truths then the sooner young people can make better decisions for themselves so that they don’t live with their parents till 30. that's a sad society. the discipline boner in america and the idea that you have to just work, work work !!!! is so draining. i wish more people took the chance and did what…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:08 PM
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the idea that all criticism is a result of jealousy is... dumb. i have the job i've wanted since i was a child and i live extremely comfortably. it's not jealousy lol i'm just tired of the reddit STEM trope and your comment had typical preachy STEM energy, that's really all there is to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:35 PM
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you called yOur GenErAtiOn 'fucking whiney pussies' for wanting to work jobs they actually like so my comment stands lol. Lmao the classic go to insult for people who are seething with jealousy at people like me who’s skills are actually in demand unlike yours. the classic insult because it's true lmao the holier than thou attitude of stem people is grating as fuck. congrats on your online bootcamp certificate that says you can code, i guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:31 PM
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yep, my brother is a cop and makes prob 150k a year but in a very, very expensive part of the country. he has 3 kids and a stay-at-home wife. he's very excited that he was able to budget buying new sneakers for himself in april... so ya, it's possible, but it's not always glamourous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:33 AM
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The sooner most of my generation accepts this truth, the sooner most of my generation will stop being a bunch of fucking whiney pussies. this is such a dumb take. yes, if you want to have a one income family, that income needs to be substantial. however, if you are fine with 2 incomes (which MANY people are) , you can both make less money. childfree is also a growing lifestyle which allows for lower incomes. tired of boring ass stem people thinking they have it all figured out lmao. businesses l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:28 AM
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omg this thread is infuriating. she made herself very clear and you are working so hard to be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:16 PM
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Men are already getting punished...HARD for raping women. in what world lol Women are getting slaps on the wrist (one even got child support from the boy she raped). and thanks to US legislation, many women are forced to carry rape babies to term. we can both cherry pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:11 PM
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I mean if a 9 years old kid was leaking her pussy this is probably the grossest sentence i've ever read on this sub so.. congratulations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:07 PM
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you can work as a teacher (i think more likely as a TA/sub) while you are obtaining your masters degree depending on what discipline you teach. especially at private schools, they are much more lenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:06 PM
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trying to get the kind of sex they once had at that age again i can guarantee you the average 30 year old woman is not nostalgic about the sex she had at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:03 PM
1

yea women want to date men who have jobs and hobbies but are also attractive and nice.. sooo weird..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:06 PM
1

i'm not sure i see what's wrong with that? edit - altho i think i'm reading your comments wrong and if so im sawrrry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:17 PM
1

it's also laziness. i only briefly used tinder but when the conversation died, i just never unmatched because i didn't think it mattered/didn't really think to do it. the men are free to unmatch as well, but most don't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:00 PM
4

we are gods gift to the world because we have a vagina tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:58 PM
1

and badly written fan fiction like who says ""there are so many guys I can replace you so easily that it's totally unnecessary."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:55 PM
1

i don't understand this line of thinking. just because you are older or less desirable doesn't mean you can't think other people are unattractive. your brain doesn't suddenly go , 'oh, i'm not cute so i can't judge other people anymore'. that's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:53 PM
1

Are you just hoping that my internal racism will kick in, and I'll agree that those men over there are bad in general, and you'll nudge me towards inducing that all men everywhere are bad in general? nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:13 PM
3

Even if you want to ignore the poll itself, you can’t change the statistics of violence against women in India. Violence against women is actually on the RISE in India. Let’s also not forget, for every man that is forced into an arranged marriage, a woman is also forced into it. There are so many systematic issues in India. I do not doubt it sucks to live there as a man, but to discount how much it sucks for women is just moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:26 PM
2

it is ranked the most dangerous country in the world for women. you can google that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:11 PM
6

are women not forced into arranged marriages too? what about the teenage girl forced into marriage with that man? men are treated shitty for the same reasons women are treated shitty.. a shitty system run and enforced by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 04:42 PM
5

Imagine trying to use India as an example of women being horrible to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 03:43 PM
1

not arguing workouts can't be tough, just that it's a spin class.. in your house lol no one else is even around. if it sucks, just stop and take a break? no one will know or judge you or care. i just can't agree haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:12 PM
1

maybe if she wasn't already fit and clearly someone who works out, i'd believe it lol it's just really a badly thought out commercial imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:40 PM
2

i actually think it is useful in this case because i don't understand what changed and why it was pelaton specifically that caused that change. if she was bigger and lost weight, ok fair that's obvious why. if she went through trauma and it helped her overcome it, got it. if she was disabled in some way, fair enough! but she's just a fit, wealthy, attractive woman who made a vlog about a bike and i'm nto sure why i, as the consumer, should care or understand how it's related to the product.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:52 PM
1

they'll pick up anything that is good for engagement. sexist commercial = divisive opinions = 100+ debate comments on articles, facebook posts and twitter. girl getting into a car accident while shooting a tik tok = 100+ comments on wHy MiLLeNiALs ArE StOoPiD. it's pretty straight forward and really, really sad that people fall for it every. fucking. time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:47 PM
1

i see it differently. a few people went on twitter and angry tweeted about it. this was picked up by news outlets because they looooove this divisive shit, good for engagement! then people started tweeting "wait, why is it sexist? it's just stupid" and then came the next wave of tweets and comments regarding the poor writing and weird song choice. this is how it tends to go. my boyfriend is in marketing, specifically social media for a huge brand and he has truly opened my eyes to how completely…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:46 PM
2

i think it comes from a lot of different angles though. sure, i've seen a few tweets on it being sexist.. but i've seen more tweets on it just being really, really dumb and poorly written. at the end of the day, i have to assume the commercial was written by a bunch of ad men and they left the ladies out of the room on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:37 PM
2

someone also pointed out what happens if pelaton goes out of business? their classes would stop and you'd be stuck with a 3k stationary bike you could have gotten for $120 on amazon. apparently they don't actually make a profit so it's fully possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:09 PM
4

"iT chAnGeD mE." how? literally how? that's my biggest gripe with the commercial, it was written terribly. What is her backstory? How did it change her? they expected consumers to fill in the gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:07 PM
2

the 'outrage' is created by the media outlets. i too can grab 5-10 tweets from angry people on any given subject and make it an article which will then be picked up by 10-20 more media outlets causing more angry tweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:06 PM
2

if no media outlet had picked up on this 'outrage' aka randos on twitter, the ratio would be fine. or.. maybe not because it's actually just a really dumb ad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:05 PM
4

she looks terrified! "iM SO nErVoUs". It's a fucking bike that doesn't go anywhere, janet! that's whats dumb about this commercial. it's horribly written.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:03 PM
1

nothing is ever outrage. 20 people tweet they're mad at something, media picks it up, more media picks it up, suddenly OUTRAGE.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:02 PM
8

men are in large TERRIBLE at sex. this is the truth and you can tell it hurts by all the comments you are receiving lol. i don't think every man ever is bad at sex FYI, just you're more likely to have bad sex than good sex as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:51 PM
5

Doesnt seem to be an issue for most women it's an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:47 PM
2

oh definitely not! but as a fairly normal 29 year old, i'm pretty shocked how insufferable i find most people in their early 20's/college students. i feel like we are in completely different stages of life and i'm only 6-7 years older than them. i'm not sure why someone even older than me would be interested in dating them unless they're still living the same lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 08:54 PM
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young people are annoying af. i have no idea why someone in their 30's 40's or 50's would want to spend time with someone in their early 20's. male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:24 PM
2

oh wow, congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 07:09 PM
5

She’s prob cheating. There’s no way you are giving your girlfriend enough attention, commitment and validation that she isn’t on Snapchat sending nudes to other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:04 PM
1

where is the entitlement? a woman over 30 stating an opinion doesn't mean she feels entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:37 PM
3

it usually has more interesting discussions than this. stick around another week or two
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:35 PM
11

we thank you for not getting entangled with us
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:34 PM
2

salt for what? i don't care about you lol. i also just moved here, i won't know them but i do know this city is full of 5's and 6's at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:24 PM
2

lol i live in toronto. please show me these 'bad bitches' you speak of
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:18 PM
9

mind blowing orgasm from ugly man all day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:05 PM
5

good on you for TRYING to understand this stupid ass post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:04 PM
3

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:53 PM
1

this is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:46 PM
3

god willing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:42 PM
1

of course you can, but lets not pretend like most people aren't guilty of benefiting from consumerism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:03 AM
1

33% feminine 44% masculine - apparently i am undifferentiated-androgynous. that also doesn't equal 100% so i don't know what the other 23% is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:32 PM
2

assuming you are typing this from a phone or computer that would have been created in a similar environment and sent over here in the same huge boat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:24 PM
1

did she say you were supposed to know? or just bring up that you weren't doing it for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:10 PM
1

i never said men are expected to know how to please women inherently, but it wouldn't hurt to look into a bit to ensure you have some idea of what to do, maybe a google search and cosmo article?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:10 PM
3

women just don't think of sex the same way men do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:09 PM
1

get new friends wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:06 PM
0

i don't think women don't tell men because MAN BAD. some women don't even realize they're not having good sex because they don't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:05 PM
6

grandpas who spend their time online yelling about feminism are THE alpha males? eek
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:55 PM
2

Have you actually met and interacted with a trans person (that you know of)?? i think you know the answer to this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:53 PM
3

i wouldn't be surprised if there is a connection between some low libido women and low self esteem. if you don't feel sexy, you probably don't want to get sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:48 PM
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put a little effort into understanding how to please a woman. girls are forced to understand 'HOT SEX' from puberty, where are the lessons for men?!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:47 PM
3

not a single woman thinks like this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:45 PM
2

homoeroticism is peak red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:41 PM
1

.. it was a joke based on the conversation. damn lighten up people, it's PURGE WEEK
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:39 PM
1

and every woman represents all of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:01 AM
-2

you sound like an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:00 AM
3

being really thin is actually more aging. you lose plumpness in your face which makes wrinkles more prominent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:22 AM
6

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:52 AM
0

When is purge week?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 02:55 PM
7

confirming Sean O'Pry is a babeeeee. Ideal body type imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 05:33 PM
1

my fantasy world is one where men do not exist at all so.. truly cannot relate to this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:37 PM
1

yes, i know. your original post said that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:35 PM
1

I know erotica is like the equivalent of Pornhub to ladies wut
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:39 PM
3

not surprised that a man who comes into a post specifically labeled 'question for women' is someone who tells their friends to harass girls and brags about it on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:34 PM
7

a lot of it is about control, power and making people uncomfortable because you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:33 PM
4

asking to not be sexually assaulted or harassed is not asking for your protection. it's asking you to stop feeling entitled to our personal space. also, a lot of men do care, if you don't that's fine but don't project your personal feelings :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:27 PM
1

why would a world where a quarter of women get sexually assaulted be a fairytale? what kinda angry incel fantasy...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:25 PM
1

london clubs/bars are the woooooorst. drunk english people have no boundaries. i find europe is worse for harassment than the US overall ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:23 PM
6

you probably don't notice it. men are oblivious to it because you're not looking for it the way women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:22 PM
2

it's easier to tell people they are the problem rather than self reflect on why you suck and no one wants to be around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:06 PM
5

the post is deleted OP, you might want to find a link that works or describe the video
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:59 PM
1

yeah you likely were. i for one do not find alphas attractive. too much competition, too cocky and too into themselves. i'm not an outlier, i just don't think most men understand what women actually like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 01:21 PM
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not necessarily. a lot of people break up in their mid-late 20's and start dating people they end up marrying. almost all of my friends are engaged now to people they started dating between 25 and 27. that's plenty of time to go to school and begin a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 04:15 AM
1

i actually found out about them via an instagram that makes fun of them (beam_me_up_softboi)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 04:10 AM
1

it's their own fault for being weirdos who over-analyze women hah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:49 PM
3

hahah that's how i feel about bald men/receding hairlines so i get it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:47 PM
2

not to nitpick here, but pear is when you're smaller on top and bigger on the bottom haha. maybe an apple?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:38 PM
1

100% agree. soft bois are the fuck bois you should really be worried about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:20 PM
1

i wouldn't take the guys here to be a solid example of most men in their 20's hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:18 PM
2

aw, this is actually really great to read. happy you're doing well! are you still in london?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:16 PM
0

it 10000% does. i am fully in the camp that appealing to a woman's emotional side rather than being a cocky chad is the way to get into her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:15 PM
1

not necessarily because they do get fucked and they don't really pretend to be nice. the soft boys i've dealt with are like 'im so damaged and have mommy issues' as a way to appeal to your emotional side to get you into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:14 PM
1

I’d put my foot down if her waist size was bigger than her hip size does this usually happen? i can't think of what that body type would look like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:08 PM
0

look at tiktok and instagram, it's all nobody sad bois looking into the camera feeling their feelings and girls are loving it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 01:37 PM
1

haven't yall heard of sad bois? girls are eating that shit up. the sadder, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:01 PM
1

while i don't subscribe to the idea tht you need to love yourself in order to be loved, i also don't think you should drag people down with your shit. as long as you deal with your issues and don't put the stress of it/ lay all of your emotional baggage on a partner, it's fine. i just find most people can't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 05:45 PM
0

women who like to keep up to date on their interests can't also have good sex lives? that's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:13 PM
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i believe he lives in france. which is interesting because in my time living there, i would not describe french men as 'civil' overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:08 PM
8

It's a well known fact that women are generally brought up to be overly polite and forgiving. exactly. it's kind of where this sort of pushback movement is coming from right now. telling women it's ok to not apologize for everything (especially things out of their control) and to say no when they want to etc. it seems bitchy because it's not expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:04 PM
1

idk if i'd necessarily call getting engaged 'bigger things', but i appreciate your life mostly moves along a certain path and i'm really happy for everyone if they're happy for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:55 PM
2

i'm mostly kidding, and no i'm not engaged. i am in an LTR, but I'm a little younger than most of my friends and i miss when we would get wild, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:48 PM
5

my 5-6 closest girl friends were alllll slutty. all different body shapes and 'looks'. now everyone's engaged and it's annoying. slutty friends > engaged friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:23 PM
3

nobody wants to watch real life. fantasy is always better. i worked in reality tv for years and people always complain 'it's all scripted' ya.. because real life is fucking boring and real people are fucking boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:43 PM
3

i feel like we watched two different movies.. she wasn't rejecting him because he was a nice guy. he brought up the baking thing, after she slept with him and pursued him, which made her uncomfortable and come face to face with her own insecurities which then caused everything else. how did you completely miss that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:40 PM
3

jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:07 PM
12

yeah that sounds equally unpleasant for the woman tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:05 PM
1

my boyfriend bought me a really nice wok after we spent the summer traveling and living off homemade hostel stirfrys that we'd cook together. we were long distance and i thought of him/the summer every time i used it. also i now make v good stirfry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:51 PM
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this is suuuuuuch a specific type of person. i also live in manhattan and i wouldn't say this is the average young professional woman at all. this is like the 20-23 year old transplants who are excited to live in the big city and think this is how you're supposed to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:51 PM
-1

damn, my boyfriend is well off but still expects me to cover my half of the rent/bills/groceries/housework requiring me to have a full time job. i must have done it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:46 PM
2

i don't think that's it.. but go off!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:45 PM
0

there's been a lot of shitposters on PPD over the years, but this guy has to be top 5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:27 PM
-1

getting free cash because vagina? please let me know where i can sign up for my free cash. i'd also like to no longer work, lemme know how i can set that up. thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:26 PM
5

yeah are we just gonna ignore that college tuition and expenses have steeply climbed in recent years while wages and opportunities have remained pretty stagnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:24 PM
3

can't imagine your experiences and the experiences of those you associate with have anything to do with the fact that you belong to a group called 'Men Going Their Own Way'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:22 PM
6

sounds like your sex life has been with mostly uninterested partners then, idk. i've always stimulated my clit when i wasn't gonna PIV orgasm. there are also countless articles and discussions on it, it's definitely a thing women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:18 PM
9

the point wasn't IF she will do it, the point is CAN she get it. the answer is, yes she can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:10 PM
2

many women rub their clits while having PIV intercourse, i'd still consider that an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:02 PM
7

who said they have to attractive? they just have to be willing for women to be ABLE to get them. doesn't mean they want to or will, but they have the option because of those reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:01 PM
2

it's not about being able to afford it. most of the women i know who aren't on birth control stay off it because of the side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:58 PM
4

logan paul is annoying, his videos/personality are grating as fuck. he's also a shitty person whether he manipulates children for money or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:46 PM
8

it definitely doesn't prove they do either though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:46 AM
15

yeah i think makeup and weight loss helped the most. i did have minor plastic surgery which improved my looks, but if you look at pics from when i was 19/20 compared to now you would assume i had a nose job, lip fillers, liposuction etc. it's crazy how much a little weight loss and adding eyebrows can do to your face!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 07:06 PM
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I'm 29 in 2 months but better looking now than I was when I was late teens/early 20's due to lifestyle changes + my face thinning out the baby fat. i'm also more interesting and more confident. def would be pickier but i fully believe i could find a better looking mate now than when i was younger and based off the type of guys that hit on me that seems to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 05:18 PM
1

people find love and partners at all ages. also, divorce is common enough that you can catch someone on the other side of a marriage that just didn't work out!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:02 PM
1

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:33 PM
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but if that's the case, then no guy would marry a woman near her early 30's, which is the average. well, you don't just get married immediately after meeting someone. the average person probably dates 2-3 years at least before taking that step. i'd say most people who are going to get married are linked up by around 24-25. Do you think that women getting married and pregnant at 29 is good thing, bad thing, or it doesnt matter? i think it's a good thing, less likely to feel that 'grass is greener…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 03:45 PM
1

damn you really went far back. because of beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 08:47 PM
5

i think rating your partner is tacky, no matter what the number is. telling your partner they are beautiful/handsome/sexy etc. is normal. rating them is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 05:41 PM
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I have never seen a woman who didn't feel a mix of negative emotions after finding out her boyfriend views her as a 6/10 (and he's content with her). uh yeah, why would you feel anything but upset about this? it's one thing to say something about an item of clothing or a hairstyle or just anything that can be changed, but to rate your partner as anything less than a 10 out loud? weird. i also can't imagine dating someone i didn't personally think was a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:23 PM
2

i hover-hand when taking group photos because i feel weird putting my hand on someone elses body unless we are close friends. male/female doesn't matter. i just feel weird. it could be simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 07:13 PM
1

yes, of course they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:31 PM
3

i guess i meant i don't buy into the whole 'the man is the head of the house' stuff because that was never my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 10:54 PM
1

just getting her to a professional is enough. my dad was diagnosed during couples counseling because they could see through his blatant bs and lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 08:55 PM
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my dad is an actual diagnosed narcissist/pathological liar and an alcoholic. so my view is men are trash :) kind of kidding - but i certainly think my upbringing lends to my more progressive/bp ideologies as i had to watch my mom do EVERYTHING for everyone. she was def the alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 08:01 PM
2

the fuck is UMC?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 04:06 PM
8

this is such a dad comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 02:52 PM
1

omg lewis, what happened to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 02:14 PM
1

the only time i'd disagree would be for LGBT couples or people who for some reason can't have PIV, but otherwise, yep, this is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 02:13 PM
2

That being said, a virgin who's given a lot of handjobs is still a slut. jesus that sounds like the saddest life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 02:12 PM
1

Blowjobs dont count. I mean every woman would have triple digits if that were the case. where are these women that give out blowjobs and don't have sex? blowjobs/oral of any kind usually leads to PIV sex. maybe not every time you have sex with the same person, but certainly in terms of N count
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 02:06 PM
8

if we wanted to, sure, but most women don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 03:22 PM
3

i'm not at all, where has this been claimed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 03:06 PM
2

The only emotion Kit channels is 'i don't fucking want to be here' and the occasional sad face. He is such a low effort actor that it's actually insulting haha. I'm also a Sansa stan so I'm 100% biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:48 PM
3

No one believes all women are SJWs. Women of color tend to vote majority left, but white women go red pretty consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:46 PM
2

he also had a ton of chemistry with Sansa, but I feel like Sansa had chemistry with almost everyone she was on screen with so yeah, I blame Kit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:35 PM
2

speaking of female led entertainment - everyone should watch 'Dead to Me' on netflix. It's so, soooo good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:32 PM
1

“Just make your own shit”. they do, and there are a lot more female lead projects now (mostly in TV, but still) but you can still make an all-female Oceans 8 because.. why not? it's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:31 PM
1

generous of you to assume we are all chads and stacys :D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 02:29 PM
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maybe, it would be cool to put faces to usernames, but i don't want to meet incels IRL and feel like they'd show up in droves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 02:26 AM
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yeah, i'd sit in the corner of the bar or whatever and observe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 02:25 AM
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do you have to ruin everything? can you just let PPD bask in this rare nice comment on a sunny friday afternoon?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 07:15 PM
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this wholesome ass comment is what i needed today. thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 03:40 PM
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masculinity is spending zero time with your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 01:39 PM
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I know, basic logic and staying on topic is a hard thing for you ladies to get your head around. why say things like this? do you think it hurts our feelings lol, so weird. i don't know why you're not understanding our point. she likely regrets her decision because she personally terminated the pregnancy and at 6 months, it actually looks like a baby. i can't imagine what that was like for her. on top of that, it fucked up her body for life. all of those things are incredibly traumatizing. i fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:56 PM
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genocide of infants.. come on mannnnn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:47 PM
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She doesn't want other women (or babies) to suffer the same fate as her. That's her entire motivation. the whole reason she 'ruined her life' was because she gave herself a botched abortion at 6 months. it's very different for women who willingly go in at 7 weeks and decide to terminate a pregnancy. there's no reason to compare what happened to her to what other women go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:32 PM
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i would have an abortion in all of these scenarios. i'd be a terrible mother at this time in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:13 PM
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if a woman is lifting as much as she can and a man is lifting as much as he can, is she really putting in less effort than him? edit - but thank you for actually reading the fucking conversation and not just yelling at me that the gap isnt really -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 06:23 PM
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i think it's because they didn't go to PP, most probably wouldn't know regular doctors that perform them in their own surgical units.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 06:17 PM
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ahh, could be that none of them went to PP, they were doctors that were apart of our (yes, we all share a gyno, like a coven) gyno's practice. What's funny is the clinic she works at doesn't even do abortions. All planned parenthood clinics are abortion centers though!!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 06:17 PM
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Have they ever been in this situation, or are they just spouting hypotheticals? surprise, surprise. it's the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 06:09 PM
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i've gone with 3 friends to their abortions and have never seen protesters and i live in NYC. i have no doubt they exist, but I am surprised so many people have experienced it. that's awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 06:06 PM
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damn that's really sad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 06:04 PM
2

but you don't support abortion for women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:45 PM
2

ahhh how could i forget? he's always waving those little baby fists in the air when he yells about how unfair the mainstream media is to him for reporting exactly what he does!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:17 PM
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genius level bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:16 PM
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i think masculinity in earlier generations relates more to the fact that they had to go to war at 18 and the pressure to move out and start your own family at a younger age than it does the father simply existing in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:00 PM
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You gave that DNA away! bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:58 PM
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you clearly didn't pay attention to the context of the conversation and then answered a non-yes or no question with a yes. do YOU need help?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:57 PM
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because it was totally unrelated to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:55 PM
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i didn't bring up the wage gap tho, the original commenter did. i was asking what biological factors would contribute to that because that is what he was implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:45 PM
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Whatever it is they were doing was working, apparently my point is, masculinity didn't come from their father then because they weren't around enough to leave any sort of impression other than 'provide for your family'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:33 PM
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you're being willfully obtuse and it's annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:28 PM
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wholeheartedly agree. Clearly you don't need to be all that bright to get a STEM degree these days. oof, prepare your DM's. angry STEMlords will not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:17 PM
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what..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:14 PM
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the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:13 PM
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BTW what in your opinion was your dad's responsibility to help you "fully develop as a man?" Or does he get a pass cuz penis? you know the answer to this. people love to talk about how this generation is fucked up because there are more single mothers, but do you think the fathers were ever home taking care of their children in the 50's, 60's, 70's etc.? hell no. they went to work and came home after the kids were asleep. so what about that teaches 'masculinity'?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:10 PM
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You may not like it, but this is what peak masculine virtue looks like. he throws a twitter tantrum anytime he doesn't get what he wants, he lies about everything because he literally cannot face the truth, he surrounds himself with 'yes men', he watches day time talk shows and throws rallies so he can feel like people like him. physically - he has a weak chin, bad posture, never wears suits that fit properly and he's fat. he's just really, really loud. he's not masculine at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:59 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:55 PM
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because it was also his choice to engage in sex. look, i do understand and i know it's messy because you can say the same thing to argue a woman shouldn't be allowed to have an abortion. biologically though, the fetus is in her body, not the man's and that's an inequality that was given by god (if you want to believe that) so, there's nothing that can really be done about it. the world would definitely be a better place if men could give birth too, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:32 PM
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and if she does, neither parent has to financially support the child. i don't see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:28 PM
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men are responsible for pregnancies too, ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:27 PM
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But I'm also for impressing on them the seriousness of what they're doing well that's where education comes in. with proper education, teens may think twice before engaging in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:26 PM
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both parents carry financial support
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:24 PM
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what biological factors result in women deserving less money for the same work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:23 PM
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When free birth control is provided, you're essentially incentivizing irresponsibility. studies have shown everything i have mentioned decreases when birth control is free and available. teenagers/young adults are going to have sex. they always have and always will, but let's make sure they do it safely so we don't all have to pay for it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:31 AM
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wow, can i move to the perfect world you live in?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:30 AM
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that means nothing coming from someone who literally cannot make the sacrifice. that's how this conversation started. why would i say this to a woman? this conversation wouldn't be happening if you weren't a man. so your question is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:25 AM
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the woman doesn't always make the decision either. birth control fails and yes, pregnancies can result from rape. plus, my fav, the men that finish inside you when you tell them not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:20 AM
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i would certainly put more value on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:19 AM
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it's not just on them though. the poorest states have the highest rate of teen pregnancy. there is a direct correlation between these things. now you're paying for programs that allow children to have free school lunches, give their parents food stamps and it's continuing the cyclical poverty that effects all of us as a society. free birth control and better education have been proven to drastically lower these things and is less expensive in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:18 AM
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that depends which scientist you ask ​ ​ i also would like you point out, you are using your feelings to dictate a woman's life.. or did you forget your decision to ban her from aborting a fetus would affect her as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:13 AM
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i do.. but that wasn't the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:12 AM
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but that's literally what you're doing. you feel it's a human life, i feel it's not yet. which one of our feelings gets to decide?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:10 AM
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nothing you do will ever do or experience can help you relate to pregnancy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:06 AM
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absolutely not, but we are talking about a specific sacrifice here and one that cannot be compared to any sacrifice a man can make.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:05 AM
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hances of it failing are very low. ​ but you admit it can happen? people have gotten pregnant using condoms + the pill. it happens. its almost irrelevant. If having children is a huge risk for you, don't have sex. i'm not denying the logic, in a perfect world this could absolutely be a solution. but we do not live in a perfect world. states that teach abstinence only have the highest teen pregnancy rates. people are always going to have sex. a better solution is education and access to free birt…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:01 AM
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well that's where we differ. i don't consider a fetus a 'human life'. to me, they hold nothing of value unless the woman carrying it puts any value on it. do you know how many women miscarry before 6 weeks and never even know they were pregnant? do you weep for those fetuses as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:57 AM
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Sexual responsibility: Plenty of people manage to have sex without getting pregnant, so why did you? Sexual responsibility part II: Why are you having sex with people that you're not ready to have children with. We have disconnected sex from procreation, and modern people seem to be incapable of understanding that one goes hand in hand with the other. ..... really? do i have to explain to you that birth control fails?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:52 AM
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For me it comes down to, do we protect all life or no life. how do you feel about immigrant children at the border? or children in west virginia who are starving in poverty? what about refugees in france sleeping on the street? what are you doing for these kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:50 AM
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that means nothing coming from someone who literally cannot make the sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:48 AM
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but it's not a newborn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:47 AM
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Not sure which one. both
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:44 AM
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yes, but we know why that is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:43 AM
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If there's a chance that baby can survive outside the womb unless for medical reasons I don't support it. you mean like a baby at like 6-8 months? because if so, those are only aborted for medical reasons. they're called late term abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:39 AM
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not with abortion. you are limited to 12 weeks, most women will know likely between 5-8 weeks that they are pregnant. you know what you are going to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:38 AM
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they really do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:37 AM
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There is a gap in reproductive rights between men and women. because only one of us carries a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:36 AM
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i'm annoyingly empathetic, but i really don't understand how someone can compare a fetus at 6 weeks to a woman with an actual life, friends, family, aspirations, memories etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:35 AM
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you can want children and still complain about how horrible it is to birth them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:32 AM
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men.. on themselves.. because they almost always skip leg day -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 09:04 PM
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i love a guy with a round ass
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 08:48 PM
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First men are wearing tight sweat pants thank the lord
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 06:21 PM
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that looks like a red carpet event where there is a lot of flash and bright lights similar to a set.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 06:17 PM
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i think this is true too. i will never leave the house without makeup, so my boyfriend only sees my bare face when we go to sleep/wake up. i don't think that matters as much to him on a superficial level as it does that i look good when we're in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 06:16 PM
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we're not wearing makeup to trick you into thinking we are naturally pretty. women are very aware that makeup looks like makeup most of the time. however, filling in your eyebrows, putting on mascara and using some concealer to brighten can do wonders for someone without really looking like they're wearing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 06:13 PM
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men age worse than women both physically and mentally and dead bedrooms happen because women are no longer physically or emotionally stimulated by their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 04:00 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 03:54 PM
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6 inches? I'm ghosting anything below 8
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 03:19 PM
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ahhhh, okay. thanks for explaining!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 01:56 PM
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yes, there is literal science on what is deemed ideal as far as being attractive, but most people who do not fit those standards (men and women) find people attracted to them. you don't have to fit the perfect mold to be beautiful to someone. sooo, what i'm saying is.. who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 01:28 PM
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Women are generally attracted to only one type of guy: the typical fit male model muscular type this is not true either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 01:26 PM
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so women who have naturally larger butts are supposed to do what? be insecure and try to hide it? but you can be proud of your flat ass? strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 01:26 PM
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It would. It’s not the kids fault they aren’t yours, and ditching would hurt them more than the mother. Plus most people would probably have a bond with the child anyway that they’d want to stay in the kids life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 10:26 PM
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ven when they don't specifically identify as feminists, almost all of them hold feminist beliefs. Which is why I was very careful in my choice of wording. ok that what is the issue with that? there have always been women who believed in gender equality. do you think this is a new idea born in 2019? Easier for less desirable women. It's harder than ever for less desirable men. We can see this from recent statistics. Almost 1 in 3 men below age 30 don't get sex. That is a self-reported statistic, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 09:03 PM
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almost all women hold feminist beliefs Around half of all women identify as feminists. most of them act slutty casual sex is not new, however it is easier to get now for less desirable people thanks to apps. they usually sleep with multiple men so same point as above, cool. they marry later buying a house, raising a family, weddings etc. are expensive. people don't have the money/don't want to spend it on these things. they are more likely to cheat in LTRs than ever before, and cheating rates ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 08:11 PM
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my comment was specifically about MGTOW idk why you are bringing 'femnazis' into this. i don't care??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 03:13 PM
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MGTOW are men who are obsessed withwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 02:22 PM
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idk why you're replying to my comment with that opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 01:24 PM
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i like it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 12:02 AM
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i would call someone who had a strong dislike for women as misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 11:16 PM
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do you have any source that it has changed in definition? i see it defined as hatred, strong dislike or prejudice against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 08:31 PM
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as it's 2019, i think we should go by the post 2002 definition..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 07:57 PM
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wtf is CBT
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 06:25 PM
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not since i was like 20. my current partner of 7 years has never asked, but does know that mine is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 06:24 PM
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which is the only one that makes sense when you consider what feminists are into what
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 06:23 PM
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you don't have to hate women to be a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 05:42 PM
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MGTOW is closer to hating women which is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 05:42 PM
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yeah, i agree that i don't think anything he did is criminal, but i also don't think it really matters when he's clearly doing some fucked up psychological shit and preying on vulnerable people so he can get a blowjob or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 05:02 PM
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lemme rephrase then - he's not the president of the united states who should be held to a higher standard than a teenage youtuber regardless of how many people watch his videos. it's not a 'mob mentality' when the media reacts to someone running for president saying 'i grab them by the pussy'.. it's important news and regardless how you feel about the man, it's gross and predatory. your comparison was a poor choice and your use of 'mob mentality' is completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 04:14 PM
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i saw that, but i think because the DM thing came first, people are assuming that is happening on the internet and not real life. not a big deal, just what the responses seem to indicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 04:12 PM
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i think you've done a disservice to the conversation by writing it off as simply 'DM'ing straight people. that's not all he is being accused of. he also has been accused of trying to pressure people, in real life, to question their sexuality to get what he wants. there's also the whole gage gomez thing. he has a history of irl predatory behavior even before he was famous. i also don't know why i know so much about this? i always found james charles really annoying so i guess this is just a cherr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 03:05 PM
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Yet if a gay guy does the same to a man, the man complaining is then a homophobe and the women will probably side with the gay guy. this is the opposite of what is happening with this issue. what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 03:03 PM
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i don't think it was just social media. he has a history of trying to pressure straight men into sex while touting some 'all men are a little gay' bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 03:01 PM
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Similar degree of mob mentality as that against Donald Trump except no dicks were grabbed except donald trump in the president of the US so yeaaaa, it's gonna be talked about. comparing him to an irrelevant teenage youtuber is a weird choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:58 PM
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i honestly think most men don't care about the child raising aspects of family so they default to letting the mother make the decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 07:23 PM
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i somehow breezed past that line but i'm actually lol right now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:38 AM
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He did. And they should've done the socially acceptable thing: say yes. the socially acceptable thing in this situation would be letting the women have 10 mins or so on the machine to get their stuff done before you shove in. gyms are first come, first serve, that's the general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:37 AM
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the blame is put on the person in power, who is usually the man. don't conflate the hollywood takeover of metoo with actual stories from everyday women who are taken advantage of, harassed or assaulted by their bosses and coworkers. especially women in jobs without much protection like housekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 06:39 PM
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Women do see sex as a way to gain power, though. first of all, it is widely condemned, people who do this are shamed by both men and women. second, seeing it as a way to gain your own personal power when you're already at a disadvantage is different than using your power to take advantage of inferiors. Just look at the actual #metoo movement as an example of this. are you saying women who are sexually harassed or assaulted at work are sleeping their way to the top?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 05:56 PM
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being attractive > power for getting sex as a man. men don't need power, they need to be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 02:15 PM
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I meant like don’t go straight for the “I am royalty, you are not”. ah, well there is the disconnect! i actually do agree with this, you can rule with a iron fist while also connecting to your people, which i think the north in particular would appreciate. agreed! it's been nice to chat about it in general because my boyfriend still hasn't watched -_- so thank you hah. have a good night!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 02:08 PM
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I'm not denying that her forcing her right of rule is annoying, that was my first line of my last comment haha. Your original comment was on her demeanor, and that is the criticism i take issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:54 PM
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I completely agree that she feels an entitlement to the throne that can be very off-putting, BUT you can't deny the armies she has amassed across various lands on her way to westeros for the last 7 seasons. i don't see how what she did is any different to Euron except less torture on her end. I'm also not a huge Dany fan (or fan of anyone other than Lyanna Mormont, true queen) but when people talk about the scene with her and Sam or insist she acts more 'human' it kinda sets me off because why? …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:45 PM
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there are definitely moments where it comes off like shes forcing respect, her issues with Sansa, for example. To me, i kinda see Dany the way i see Hilary Clinton haha - people are uncomfortable by and question a woman who acts cold and calculating in a way they never would a man. I think if Dany were a man, no one would bat an eye, but for some reason expect her to be more compassionate, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:15 PM
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apparently those things are on par with sexual harassment and assault, TIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:12 PM
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less women in power and less likely to abuse that power to get sex like men most women also don't see sex as a reward for power as many men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:11 PM
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I think it comes from a place of not being taken seriously for so long and having to be 'cold' to rule fairly, in her eyes. she tried the compassionate route once or twice and it didn't work out for her. i kind of appreciate she rules more like a traditional king than what you would expect from a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:09 PM
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its like 10 episodes a season. be better!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 07:46 PM
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hahah yessss! tell him!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 07:51 PM
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Ugh, yes. Sansa has gone through SO much. Her conversation with Tyrion last night gave me actual chills. It was soo good. I'm pretty sure all she has to go on is the Mad King burning her grandfather and uncle alive, I don't blame her at all for wondering if Jon is dazzled by sticking his dick in crazy! basically!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 07:19 PM
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i had zero hype too, but i actually thought it was a really good first episode so i'm getting slightly hopeful it won't be a complete mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 06:31 PM
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Yeah, people love to hate on sansa though but can you blame her? we, as viewers, have spent 7 seasons getting to know Daenerys, but Sansa is like.. who the fuck are you? Plus all the stories she's likely been told about the Targaryens, I definitely get her. Another season of Sansa hate circlejerks.. yay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 06:29 PM
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he looks guuuud with a beard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 01:55 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 01:55 PM
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Loved all the reunions SAME. I thought it was a really effective first episode, a little gratuitous with the dragon flying scene but whatev. The last scene got me HYYYYPEEE.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 01:54 PM
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can't believe no one has mentioned game of thrones. what the hell man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 02:32 AM
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for real! but luckily my mom is a fucking queen and saved us from his mess <3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 04:48 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:57 PM
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but the flight benefits thoooo. i'd let a man cheat if i could travel the world in a jumpseat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:43 PM
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my dad is an addict and a diagnosed narcissist + pathological liar, i feel like this would be considered a red flag even though i don't personally feel these things effect me. i have a quick temper and can get malicious if i'm angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:41 PM
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i prefer the company of women to men, much easier to relax. i do love and adore my male friends/brothers but being around guys i don't know often makes me a little uneasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:15 PM
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or doing lines with a bunch of guys after the bar closed and arguing about politics who was going to escalate? What are you picturing? the best kind of night?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:53 PM
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men get the blame? i think it's the opposite. women are constantly stereotyped as the ones who don't want to have sex and the reason for dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:40 PM
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Cute haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:16 PM
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why would you? when you can just overdose/hang yourself/stick your head in the oven?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:10 AM
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that's not what i meant, i explaind what i meant in another comment. women don't own guns at the same rate men do, so they don't have 'access' to it in their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 03:47 AM
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Not what I meant. More like women don’t purchase guns at the same rate men do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 11:23 PM
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IIRC women attempt suicide more than men, men are just more likely to use lethal means. I think for women who can't figure out how to do it, its just an attention plea. mm no, it's for a few other reasons. one, the average woman does not have the same access to guns that men do. two, women are less 'violent' in that they don't just want to shoot themselves in the face. three, women think about who is going to find their body and do not want to leave a mess to clean up. there was a study on this …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 08:59 PM
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is this a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 08:56 PM
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I mean, technically it would fall under sexual harassment tho. Don't do the crime if you can't do the time ya know. And don't move the goal posts, you (or whoever) said rape charges to which that is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 08:40 PM
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it's very easy to bring up charges for rape because someone told you they wanted to fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 08:31 PM
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you're the one who brought being charged into it..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:42 PM
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Maybe begin by learning what 'crazy' is and what are actually normal human emotions that you find inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:25 PM
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you're being charged now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:23 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:18 PM
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so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:07 PM
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anyone can say anything, but no one could bring you up on charges and no one would even listen to that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 02:24 PM
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no one's accusing men of rape for asking women to fuck them omg take the tinfoil hat off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 01:53 PM
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did you live 'back then'?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:19 PM
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yeah, when i first came to this sub it really fucked up my views on men and even strained my relationship a bit because i became so paranoid. i took a break and really thought about how fucking stupid that was but it was all very strange at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:18 PM
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if a woman says she's not interested it's because A. she's not attracted to you physically B. she actually is in a relationship C. she's not trying to hook up with anyone. Does it matter which one of these it is? The answer is no. Groveling is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:47 PM
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It's insanity. Do you need me to tell you I don't find you attractive? Because then you'll likely go into some rant about how you don't find ME attractive and we'll both be annoyed. Just walk awayyyyyyy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:45 PM
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But saying 'I am not interested' is crystal clear IMO; it's surprisingly not. they WILL ask why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:27 PM
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You'd think an "I'm not interested" would be enough but they almost always want a justification as to "Why." yep, and they do not really want to know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:26 PM
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hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:47 AM
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Also in most cases ppl actually have jack to their name and far more debts than assets so its unnecessary. this is also a good point not brought up enough in these divorce threads. the average person does not have many assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:20 PM
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people do what all the time? plan for divorce? you think these people who spend 100k on a wedding and cheesy engagement photos are thinking they are going to divorce? no one wants to think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:56 PM
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i understand what you're asking, but it's completely unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:39 PM
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correct me if i'm wrong, but i thought divorce rates among gen y was actually dropping due to people getting married later?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:30 PM
1

retinol is truly a gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:49 PM
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the delusion omg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:48 PM
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AMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:44 PM
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Is she so helpless in navigating adult interaction with the parent of her children? do you really think that this is the reason the court gets involved? come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:42 PM
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this is all pretty reasonable. We’re all going to age and change. I’ve never before seen such a fear of aging as I’ve seen on this sub. i know, it's kind of sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:39 PM
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Or women really have far better diet than men. from what i've seen anecdotally, this does appear to be true. men eat like shit because they are told they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:34 PM
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i'm not following your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:29 PM
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lmaoo ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:17 PM
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anything else??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:12 PM
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ok :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:05 PM
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going hard for this made it seem like you were projecting. that's all. i apologize. idk you or the girls you like. i don't really care. i started this convo saying regardless of legality, this is not common. that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:02 PM
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touchy! there are a lot of dumb irrelevant laws. there are literal books on them. also, give men some credit, most adults don't want to date teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:57 PM
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you sent me the wiki page on consent laws like that was proving your point that it was common for people to date teenagers. please don't discuss dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:53 PM
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cannot believe we have to go over alimony and divorce laws aggaaaainnnn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:50 PM
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Did nobody ever tell you the fable of The Boy Who Cried Wolf? where am i crying wolf..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:47 PM
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projecting your fantasies on to europe because it's legal there. it still doesn't make it normal or common or even ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:38 PM
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the facts of what? the legality of it because once again i never denied that. Let's not pretend you're the only person who's every lived in Europe. ya, that's what i'm doing. not trying to point out that i've been around these places for long stretches of time and have known a lot of european people and couples and never once has anyone brought around a fucking 13 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:22 PM
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when i was high af with a little champagne buzz at a major lazer show and all i wanted to do was hear his voice. i was like damn, i love that kid. i called him and told him.. then i threw up into some plants. we're still together 7 years later. i never really wanted to get married, but i want this guy for life. plus we need to get married eventually because visas are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:15 PM
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it's not common?? wtf. i've lived in various parts of europe and have tons of european friends, this is not at all something that is common. stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:09 PM
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And I mean this as being European countries outside of France, so you can't just blame this on a particular group of people whom you happen to be racist against. TIL french is a race
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:08 PM
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sure but so is marrying your first cousin in Colorado. i'm not arguing the legality of it, just that it's not 'moral' or even remotely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:41 PM
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probably!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:37 PM
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no it's not common throughout europe wtf lmao have any of you been to europe?! 13 year olds dating grown ass adult men is not COMMON!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:03 PM
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a lot of women don't value their orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:08 PM
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seconding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:02 PM
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and moral. no it is not. it's also not even close to the norm. the french are basically animals, but even they have some standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:02 PM
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you're probably not going to france anytime soon, i wouldn't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 08:14 PM
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It's not legal in some places to have a paternity test without the mother's consent. this is not true if you are the legal father/ listed on the birth certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 08:13 PM
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it was full of losers. losers and men with extreme emotional baggage looking for a mom and or therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:41 PM
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The pill made me a fat, hungry, hormonal, anxious, crybaby bitch. Yeah, it definitely put a strain on my relationship. I will never go on contraception again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:48 PM
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because i'm not giving that dumbass theory any validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:53 PM
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because why create a theory around something that all humans are capable of doing as if it's in anyway educational? All humans need food, omg AHALT, w i l d. news flash, your girlfriend can cheat on you.. but you could also cheat on her. welcome to life!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:49 PM
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but I don't think it's useful to pretend that women won't do things that women are known to have done in the past. if you get into a relationship, it comes with the risk of you being cheated on or getting hurt. that's the downside to opening up to someone and being vulnerable. everyone should know that. i just don't see what AWALT teaches anyone that isn't common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:39 PM
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I think this is a weak comparison. a lot of pitbulls are bred to be aggressive because they are used in dogs fights. they absolutely have that reputation for a reason. most women are not cheating whores that are going to rip your heart out of your chest and steal your money because aWaLt and bio truths. Just be fucking normal and approach people on a case by case basis, everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:30 PM
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are we comparing women to dog breeds now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:20 PM
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I think AWALT as a theory is unnecessary in general. Literally what is the purpose of it??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:10 PM
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no because these are all super common things people do. how can you use ever 'being emotional' as some sort of standard for anything? are you a human? you've probably had emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 07:55 PM
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I've done all of them except refusing to participate in intellectual conversations.. ama edit - and prob shit testing because i'm still not 100 on what that actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 07:34 PM
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this site.. lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:25 PM
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i'll agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:06 AM
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So yes, it's in your best interest to take care of your body and skin sure, this is good advice for anyone at any age
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 04:53 PM
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i personally think men age worse than women between 25-40, as in they show their age more but yes i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 04:43 PM
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yeah, they age and likely won't be mistaken for a 20 year old college student but if you lined up a bunch of different people between the ages of 25-30, it'd be difficult to tell them apart. i'm not denying women age, but this idea that you wake up as the crypt keeper on your 30th birthday is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 04:01 PM
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that's a 10 year difference, of course you can tell which one is older but i don't necessarily think you'd say they were 30. what actual 30 year olds look like vs what younger people think they look like is verrrrry different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:57 PM
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So why would any guy of that caliber (the caliber that women actually want to date) choose a women who is 30 or older? for a lot of reasons. as a 28 year old, i already can't relate to 20-24 year olds. anyone fresh out of college, i essentially lump in with teenagers now. not every man in his 30's and 40's is just looking to bang out young girls. a lot (if not most) men value commitment and a partnership, if for nothing else, men struggle to take care of themselves more so than women. also, 20-2…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:30 PM
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I don't see why a 30 year old woman couldn't pass off as being in her twenties if she takes damn good care of herself. you don't even have to take 'damn good care' of yourself. it's so mind boggling to me that everyone on this sub thinks you turn 30 and suddenly you're a haggard old woman. most 30 year old women look young.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:23 PM
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it makes sense to me! i've felt it both ways - as a response to their attraction and as a 'oh wow, he's really interesting/funny and i love talking to him and suddenly.. i like his face?'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 09:04 PM
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I told a story yesterday about a guy that I absolutely was not attracted to on a looks basis, who seduced me with his personality and charm. I ended up wildly, wildly attracted to him this has happened to me more than once as well. i started a new job once and remember being soo thankful none of the guys were attractive then 3 months in, after getting to know one of them, i ended up with the biiiiggest crush on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 07:33 PM
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most people are poor
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 02:40 PM
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100%. i think it's fair to say you are against sexual harassment/assault but feel the metoo movement is ineffective, if not damaging. i also want to point out i loved the initial hashtag and thought it was really powerful at the beginning of the movement, hollywood took over though and fucked it all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 02:39 PM
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Particularly about anything involving the entertainment industry. that's the unfortunate thing. it is SO much bigger than the entertainment industry and they tried with 'times up' to bring attention to everyday women (like housekeepers) who face harassment but it always came back to hollywood and people just don't care about the elite and their problems. now it's almost worse for the average woman to come forward because people are just ready to pounce on you to tear your story apart because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 03:26 PM
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I tried going the slacks with dress shirt route a few times and was told I look like a substitute highschool teacher. :P yeah it definitely doesn't have to be that! it's more finding your personal style like you said and you DON'T have to be a big spender! also tailoring for things like jeans is really affordable, like $20 for hemming. jeans and casual shirt and shoes etc is totally fine, it's more about the fit and MOST guys don't understand this. i can't tell the difference between a $100 tshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 03:48 PM
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no, not a suit. women tend to be more aware of what shapes, color palettes and styles fit their bodies. this is definitely due in part to the fact that there are names for female body types (pear shape, hour glass, rectangle etc.) and then thousands of cosmo articles titled 'Dress for your body type!' It's kind of ingrained in most of us to have some sort of fashion sense whereas men don't really have this direction. basically, i appreciate men who wear clothes that FIT them or clothes without h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 01:31 PM
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truly want to get a drink with you and listen to stories about your life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 02:33 AM
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I mean.. I think brushing your teeth, putting on moisturizer and dressing like an adult is the bare minimu any man should do but yea sure. he was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 12:10 AM
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Well what’s non violent? someone who got a DUI at 18? sure I can forgive someone for a teenage mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 11:23 PM
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how about a drug dealer turned engineer? A former gang member who became a lawyer? A violent felon with his own business? yes, depends and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 09:09 PM
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is 'simp' the new word for 'cuck'?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 09:08 PM
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yes this is the right answer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 08:02 PM
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i can't believe hes trying to claim RPW represents 70-90% of women omg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 01:43 PM
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only if you have a womb
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 01:40 PM
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:(((((((
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 01:22 PM
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omg you are the reason i put that. we've had this conversation soooo many times. STOP DEHYDRATING YOUR SKIN, MAN!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:44 PM
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i have a huge crush on felicity jones <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:40 PM
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idk who she is but it was a 70% match and she looks different in every picture so idk idk idkkkk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:25 PM
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Your mom has good skin because of genetics that were able to combat the use of handsoap on her face. Sure you can use it, but you will dry out your skin. There are plenty of cleansers for oily skin that are like $5 at cvs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 05:57 PM
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Stop washing your faces with handsoap, get a solid skincare routine that includes AT LEAST a cleanser, a moisturizer and a sunscreen. Apply the first two twice a day and third with touchups as needed. Eat well. Just because a lot of men can eat like shit and stay skinny, doesn't mean they should. This will catch up with you and you'll become skinny fat and saggy. Go to the gym and don't ignore your lower body! Women don't like pancake asses either. Dress in clothes that fit you. As another user …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:40 PM
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not really and no, definitely not. it's just us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 09:03 PM
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i've been with my partner 7 years, we have a solid sex life. we still try new things pretty regularly and i'd say our openness and trust when it comes to sex is what keeps it exciting for us. idgaf about being jealous or how much he makes. i'm most turned on when he's making me feel attractive and desirable, not insecure and worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:56 PM
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it happened once - my boyfriend got into a heated argument with the guy and i was so embarrassed i just wanted to curl up and die. i asked him to never do that again and just let that shit go when it happens. i appreciate the effort, but god it was mortifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:15 PM
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i'm glad i'm not the only one who immediately thought of pokemon
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:10 PM
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the real issue would be not saying anything comforting afterwards. agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:08 PM
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That this magical age 18 where you go to bed as a child and wake up as an adult is a strange Americanized way of thinking. but what's the difference between that and other countries that are 15 or 16? you could still say the same thing about them. you need to set some age as the legal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 04:20 PM
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i'm interested in dry brushing but don't know if i can commit to it. i'm lazy af. do you think it makes a difference? or think the benefits are worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 06:03 PM
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oh for sure, i just meant blondes specifically since doing highlights and maintenance to it is so much more expensive and involved and balayage helps with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 06:01 PM
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agreed, i did balayage for a while but i think i'm just better suited as a full brunette. it's a great option for blondes though!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:56 PM
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blonde is soooo tough to maintain
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:04 PM
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i tint my eyebrows bi-monthly and wax them once a month. my skincare routine is pretty basic but still fairly time consuming and expensive. haircut + toning every 3 months because i'm getting greys and my hair is dulling :( plus i've had facial plastic surgery and i'm likely going to get some filler around my eyes this year. + shaving, manicures, pedicures. That's it I thiiink.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:03 PM
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much easier to change where you live then to divorce down the line
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 08:10 PM
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agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 07:43 PM
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definitely the person nagging if it's something you knew from the start, it not always is. with trivial stuff, sometimes you think people will change. they likely won't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:33 PM
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I completely agree. I call it nagging to show some self awareness that I'm probably being annoying BUT admittedly I have good reason to be! I do think two people have to compromise and sacrifice. Though I notice women don’t start “nagging” until they think they’ve already compromised and sacrificed a great deal already. I'd agree with this as well, which is also why the original commentator could be under the impression that the root of the issue is something bigger because they're now thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:17 PM
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as someone who literally just put down their phone after nagging their boyfriend via text, this post is very relevant to me lolol. the issue is actually about the stuff you find trivial but she does not. The root of the nagging is that you’re not aligned. completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:56 PM
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Do you associate cheating with high value or low value behaviour? cheating is usually done by "low value" people in an attempt to get validation from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:05 PM
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yeaaa as an introverted woman i don't relate to this at all, but i also don't have social anxiety which is what it seems you are conflating with being an introvert (as another user pointed out). i won't be the first one on the dance floor, but i'll get there when i feel like it. i'm shyer than my extro friends but i'm not a weirdo who stands against the wall and can't hold a conversation or makes people uncomfortable with my presence. after a big night out i need a few hours the next day to deco…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 02:56 PM
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he actually said smart, i was replying to a commenter, not OP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 02:05 PM
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do you really think OP meant it is a compliment? because i don't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:03 AM
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bitch isn't necessarily a bad thing?? since when..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:49 AM
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Intelligent= incredibly smart?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:29 PM
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sounds like you're conflating being intelligent with being over-confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:23 PM
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that's never been my experience but fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:11 PM
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can we veto using 'triggered' towards people who offer criticism? no one is triggered, i was referring to this line: "i would much rather have a dumb woman who i enjoy being around over a smart woman who is bitchy and annoying" if you believe i took it out of context, that's fine and worthy of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:10 PM
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he also loved that Tim Allen show that was cancelled.. Last Man Standing or whatever. He is very much a dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 08:19 PM
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what even is this question? who actively thinks like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 08:08 PM
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it seems you automatically equate smart women with being bitchy. interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 08:07 PM
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my dad, 2 of his favorite shows lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 08:06 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:25 PM
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and to add - neither does having a high number of partners. you could be doing it a lot but doing it all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:56 PM
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i don't want to get into that conversation tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:41 PM
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plus it's a universal fact that pink is rarely a flattering color but everyone looks good/sexy in black which invalidates this entire article.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:23 PM
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here is my clear cut feelings on this in order to prevent confusion: i believe ALL women know what is traditionally expected of them in order to be seen as attractive to the opposite sex (ie whats in this article). some conform, some don't. i imagine women who share this article with some sort of "you are beautiful no matter what!" may genuinely believe that sentiment, or more likely, they are using it to comfort and deflect. however, it doesn't change the fact that all women KNOW what's expecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 05:18 PM
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you can know for a fact that other people believe in a god even if you do not yourself, which is my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:55 PM
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i don't see why the two things can't mutually exist? you can acknowledge something as fact and choose to ignore it to build your own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:43 PM
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because it's still quite annoying and because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:28 PM
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and so what if they do? this list is what men find attractive/beautiful. but are men the ultimate deciders of what is beautiful? what about lesbians or bisexual women? beauty is clearly subjective or you wouldn't have men who date women with blue hair and piercings. you can disagree with this list and genuinely think people are beautiful the way they are while still acknowledging these are the expected standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:27 PM
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So these women who are disagreeing are just deflecting and comforting themselves? ..yes. that's exactly what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:26 PM
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are you purposefully being dense here? you know women know what men find attractive, traditionally. saying some feel good "be who you are!" stuff is a way to deflect and comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:02 PM
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all women know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:52 PM
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Women already know men are attracted to feminine women. If they're not acting and dressing feminine, it's because they don't want to, not because they don't know guys like long hair. yes yes yes. who is this article for? you're not informing anyone with this information. all women know this, whether or not they live by it is their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:29 PM
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i assume the "backlash" is due to some women not wanting to conform to a traditional identity they are trying to distance themselves from. more than anything, i personally find stuff like this just kind of annoying. we already know these are conventionally attractive traits. we don't need to be told it again and again and again and again in a thousand think pieces by men. men like femininity? GROUNDBREAKING! tell me more, paul. do they like their women to have vaginas, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:22 PM
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it seems like men as roommates disrupts her daily peace more than vice versa. as someone who is exhausted because my boyfriend kept me up half the night with his gd snoring that he WON'T TAKE CARE OF, i FEEL this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 06:14 PM
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i don't think what you're describing and what i'm describing is mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 06:12 PM
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it's not common sense though. it's what you assume based off what you feel rape is about, desire for sex. but i argue rape is mostly about power and asexual people can absolutely feel the desire for power. who is to say an asexual person has never raped someone out of anger or revenge? straight men have buttraped other men in war and in prison. The answer to your question is neither of us know how many asexuals have raped or not raped and it's really as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:32 PM
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i'm not arguing solitude is loved or even enjoyed by anyone, but i think it's clear women survive better on their own than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:26 PM
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They were almost relieved not to be in one. when my parents separated a few years ago i tried helping my mom get into online dating but she said, 'i've spent 45 years taking care of a man, why would i want to spend anymore time doing that?' that has definitely stuck with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:21 PM
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i think a lot of men on here act like they're big ol alphas who only need women to fuq, but realistically, a lot of men seem to want genuine companionship with one woman. someone to take care of them or a partner to vent to when they get home from work. i don't think men survive in solitude as well as women do for so many reasons. i also DON'T think this is inherently a bad thing b4 someone comes up in this post claiming i hate men or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:05 PM
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I agree with that as well, but men also marry quicker than women after the death of a partner (which would leave the burden of children on them) so i think it's both.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 03:33 PM
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i'd agree just based off my own breakups. i'm usually the crying/stressed/not eating after a breakup while my exes live their 'best life' and then 6 months later, i'm good and he comes crawling back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 03:07 PM
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Additionally, I have seen stats showing men get into relationships and remarry more quickly and at higher numbers than women after divorce. yep and my own personal theory on this is that men need to be taken care of. men are much worse off single than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 03:06 PM
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it's not really, i think you may have just realized it was an unstable stance to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:38 PM
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it was mostly a joookeee
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:38 PM
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Do you know the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:23 PM
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I have no idea how many asexual men do or don't rape. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:01 PM
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and plastic surgery shaming. the only people whos feathers are ruffled by plastic surgery are people who are mad they can't afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:34 PM
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posts like this make me wonder why i am subbed here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:17 PM
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and male pornstars are...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:13 PM
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i mean... i couldn't have been the first person in your life to explain porn isn't real and pornstars are actors, right??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:29 PM
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do you think disney fairytales are real too? get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:14 PM
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all i got from this rant is that you think porn reflects real life/real women in some way and i worry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:07 PM
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meh based off statistics of how much millennials make vs how much they work, they're likely are too busy and too poor for prostitutes. so yes, good thing they have porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:05 PM
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can millennial men even afford prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:58 PM
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i am not basing my opinion off nothing - there are plenty of studies/info on this 2 3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:56 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:28 PM
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<3 but sadly, it's a POPCORN truck.. which is an absolute waste of a food truck. be tacos or be NOTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:36 PM
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Can you imagine how much of his time and energy is sucked into having sex and raising kids? probably very little
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:31 PM
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Most men can masturbate and have infinite pornography, yeah, i would argue this is likely the biggest contributing factor to most issues with the modern male and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:30 PM
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Many men have finally realised that prostitution is negotiated desire lmfao it took men thousands of years to realize this? even i don't think men are that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:29 PM
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This leads to a whole host of problems in society - higher crime rates (including rape), prostitution, sexual harassment, the wide prevalence of porn etc. Addiction to things like alcohol, drugs and gambling are almost exclusively male problems, largely because their sex drives were never fulfilled - so they use these things as coping mechanisms. this is a lot to claim with not a lot to back it up. i can understand trying to draw a correlation between rape and sexual harassment to high sex drive…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:10 PM
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I’m chillin. You’re the one who sounds upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 12:37 AM
0

Yes, men should avoid women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:33 AM
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As long as we both agree men are trash which it seems we do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 08:30 PM
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It was based on men being trash
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:20 PM
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if only
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 09:48 PM
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i'm a woman so..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 09:48 PM
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Women who feel like that should be avoided by men at all costs. please!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 09:12 PM
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how is "no hookups" cringey? it's laying out what you're looking for to avoid a miscommunication of intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 07:58 PM
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no, that's how he debates. he picks one thing you say, makes up his own interpretation of it and repeats it over and over again using fAnCy words (like 'bigotry of low expectations') to make himself sound legitimate. i've stopped taking his bait, it's not even fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:56 PM
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they're religious warriors obviously. right of course, very alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:53 PM
3

that thread was equally hilarious and frustrating to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:50 PM
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terrorists are alphas now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:47 PM
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take a shot every time he says "bigotry of low expectations". happy friday!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:44 PM
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What 90s high school musical do you live in? Because no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 01:38 PM
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As someone who has said that line often, it usually means less attractive. Like the type of person I described above, someone who wins you over with their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:34 AM
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of what
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:44 PM
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i just said confidence can make you think twice about someone you weren't initially attracted to, doesn't mean it will work for every man. some dental work and a chin implant would do wonders for that guy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:27 PM
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this is the opposite of truth, attractive men don't even need confidence but confidence and ~charisma can make you think twice about someone you weren't initially attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 05:28 PM
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What do you even mean by borders? Like a giant wall all around the US where guards sit in towers? What are you looking for???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:13 PM
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i think his/her point is going over your head a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:43 PM
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you can also illegally come into the country using a plane, ya know, like most people from south america and mexico do.. you don't have to cross the border..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:42 PM
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the older you get, the less likely any other country will take you, in my experience. they don't want us old people :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 08:18 PM
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Austrailia has 'experience' visas under 30's people can take advantage of. US has been nothing but a ball punch for my boyfriend coming from another western country. Our only option for him to come here was to get married even though he's bilingual, upper middle class with a great bachelors degree, works for a huge video game company (with US offices) AND has duel citizenship (so can come from either country). I'd say Canada is prob the easiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 06:27 PM
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and we indulged open borders for far too long. is this a joke? do you even understand how our immigration system works or do you just listen to whatever fox news tells you? we have one of the tightest borders in the western world. it's near impossible to come here legally for most immigrants in any reasonable amount of time. general ignorance aside, how can you argue in one post that racism no longer exists and then try to slip in that you hate diversity in america..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:57 PM
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i haven't heard of black men using that as an excuse, i've only heard of 'angry black woman' being used to dismiss their opinions on things but that is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:26 PM
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You wouldn't spot a virgin until it gets to physical intimacy and even then it's not ALWAYS obvious. some guys have a lot of experience and are still really shitty in bed. as long as he doesn't build his life and personality around his virginity, it's really not that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:16 PM
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so you think it's just an excuse women use while also confirming you think short men are furious. ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:14 PM
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ok but she used the word incel which is very different from a virgin, that's all i'm saying. "I am not dating him because he is short, it's his angry personality." well, a lot of short men have chips on their shoulders which makes them angry so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:09 PM
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are you just assuming she means virgins or did she actually say she meant virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:53 PM
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no she probably means incels because most men who are virgins are totally normal people that don't build an entire ideology around their virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:44 PM
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A man cant get laid has zero value to me. I dont care what value incels think he has to offer "women" there is also a difference between an incel and a virgin. i think it's fair for women to want to avoid incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:30 PM
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Someone teach a class about what PMS is, or what periods are and do for that matter omg.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:11 PM
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I meant that there is a stigma caused by it that women are irrational because of their periods. Like yes I suffer from PMS but it’s not like a jekyll Hyde situation, I can keep my shit under control and it doesn’t invalidate my point and no it’s never any of your business if we’re menstruating, that’s so tucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:11 PM
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meh, to me it would be, i have 'resting nice face'. stop asking me for directions tourists goddddd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:17 PM
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-_-
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:51 PM
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people move out of my way. the dream
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:41 PM
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Periods DO effect women outside of just the physical annoyances and limitations they present. When women take any sort of stance, or push back or raise their voice, they are often met with "oH iS iT thAt tiMe Of thE MonTh?" This also can tie into the whole argument that men who act like this are 'confident' and women who do are 'bitches'. It ALSO can lead into the birth control argument and how men do not have people of the opposite sex debating what you can and cannot do with your reproductive …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:16 PM
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hahaha exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 09:35 PM
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I thought he said it's his name for her, like he does it when the kids aren't around. I think it makes it worse that it's 'mother' which is just the worst way to refer to a mom to me. It just automatically comes off creepy and horror movie-ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 09:26 PM
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i go for one on one hangouts/drinks/dinner with my male friends, but my boyfriend knows all of them and i was friends with them long before he was around. i wouldn't do it with someone i just met and i would expect the same respect from him. i thought people took issue with the fact that he doesn't do it even for work like he won't meet with women even under a professional setting. also the fact that he calls his wife 'mother', ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 09:16 PM
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omg yes i replied to the wrong comment haha sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 09:07 PM
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it does, actually. you presented it as if i were saying i LOVE divorce rape. what i said was i love the argument used for it on PPD and i was being sarcastic. it's a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 09:05 PM
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it's just a funny image. women beating themselves with lipstick or something. just as a side note - as long as you cleanse and moisturize, your skin should be able to withstand the makeup without any added aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:27 PM
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what other laws can we possibly make to benefit men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:14 PM
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"One of her favourite things about divorce rape" at least quote me correctly. i said divorce rape ARGUMENT.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:14 PM
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Men don't start abusing makeup at 14 ... abusing makeup lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:12 PM
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yes, but the 'fear' of being robbed doesn't stop men from walking the streets alone at night but the fear of being assaulted or raped certainly stops women from doing it. we are brought up to fear nighttime and empty streets for this reason. it's instilled in us in a way 'being robbed' will never be instilled in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:10 PM
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right, but women were always the one taking care of the men as well, emotionally. women are undeniably the more empathetic sex. to say they can't have love for other people is just crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:02 PM
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i wish more women would put themselves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:38 PM
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why do you think they were given that role? do you think 'maternal instinct' doesn't exist? why are women often rewarded custody of their children? why is the mom often the default caretaker even if both parents work? women by nature are the more empathetic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:38 PM
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this is so asinine i don't even know where to start with it. are you just going to ignore the passive role women have taken on since the beginning of time as wife and mother? often at the expense of their own identity and lives? wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:28 PM
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mm, no. the initial reason this conversation started was because you discounted a users experiences by comparing them to something that happened to your friends which was, 'much worse'. which i thought was interesting as you then said your friends were fine and not traumatized by it. so i asked, why do you feel like you get to decide how OC felt? nothing about reshaping society came up until now. don't try to move the goalposts. this whole conversation was about your need to police women's feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:32 PM
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logic gets a bit skewed when it comes to feelings because the brain is weird and may decipher things for one person in a way that doesn't make sense to me or you. no ones asking you to agree with how anyone feels, but rather appreciate they feel that way and not tell them they're wrong. that's unhelpful and frankly, strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:22 PM
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I don't care as long as they're not pushing it anywhere else than in their mind. but you do care because you said they were both wrong in how they felt. i just don't know why that's up to you to decide and you have yet to give me a clear answer to that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:09 PM
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i'm saying only you can decide the weight of an experience. what does it matter to you how your mother views two terrible things that happened to her? even if you don't agree, you can be human and appreciate it's how she views these experiences. literally why do you care and feel the need to police that? above all, it's none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:02 PM
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literally my nightmare!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:00 PM
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ahh, so you get to decide the gravity of their experiences but they don't, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:55 PM
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Are you going to listen to a kid who tells you he hurt his knee and that's the worst thing that could happen to someone and we should change all the street into soft floor? :') how is that even close to a rational comparison? it's also irrelevant. two women felt a certain way about things that happened to them and you felt the need to disparage both of them. it has nothing to do with laws, or changing society. it's as simple as just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:49 PM
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the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:35 PM
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this comment just sent me into an existential crisis. thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:34 PM
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A dude ejaculated on my mom's pants 35 years ago and she talks about it worse than when her workplace was literally assaulted by terrorists and she almost died. i can't say i would personally feel the same but if that's how she feels then who are you to discount that? what's up with your need to tell women that the way they perceive things that happen to them is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:32 PM
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I can't really relate. not really asking you to, just asking you to see the privilege. edit to point out it's interesting you're quick to say your friends weren't traumatized by being stabbed yet in your earlier comment tried to use that to discount another users experiences with assault and stalking. weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:21 PM
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My friends got stabbed at the closing of a big mall with lot of people and women around, and they were here as a group of 4 or 5. The people who got robbed at knifepoint was during daylight. I'm not talking about some after 22h ventures or people coming home from clubbing, I'm talking about students having their normal daily routine. I'm really sorry this happened to your friends, genuinely, that's so awful and I'm sure it was incredibly traumatic for them, but let's not act like this is the nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:10 PM
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you also have to see it like this, the likely reason bad things happen to guys late night on the streets is because they are there. women don't even have the luxury of feeling comfortable enough to do that. so we leave in groups or take ubers and avoid those situations entirely out of fear of much worse things. don't you see how just that is a privileged? one of my friends leaves the doors to his apartment unlocked often, i went off on him about how stupid that is and he said "i don't have anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:41 PM
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do they not see the problem is still men? lol. beyond that, let's stop comparing the fear of 'being robbed' to the fear of rape and assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:28 PM
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I don't read "bullied", "beaten", "robbed", "stabbed", "ostracised", which at some point was very common with all men I knew being stabbed is common among the men you know? you might wanna move.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:26 PM
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this is one of my favorite things about the 'divorce rape' argument. the fuck you think wrote these laws? women? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:22 PM
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you're just splitting hairs here. you know what kind of porn me and OP are talking about. anything shot by a camera crew.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:13 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:50 PM
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because i would never associate physical changes with changes that happen in the brain, personally. i said that like 14 comments ago. i'm not falling back on anything. do you want the last word? is that why you keep replying to me? because if you do, just reply "yes" and i will let you have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:46 PM
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i said it was my personal opinion so.. yes, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:39 PM
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i disagree that using 'physical changes' is a better choice than 'physiological changes' when discussing the brain in relation to maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:29 PM
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i totally agree it's all semantics at this point and that arguing over who is right and who isn't is dumb because clearly we just both see it differently. if you wanna describe changes to the brain as physical, ok, i don't agree it should be described that way when talking about this subject. that's literally all hah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:25 PM
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who's throwing a hissy fit? i've truly been trying to explain my side to you. this likely just comes down to us using different words to describe things, that's totally fine. although i agree that phrase can be used, i wouldn't personally use it to describe what i think should only be described as a psychological change to not cause confusion, as this has. no reason to try to disparage my points by calling it a hissy fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:17 PM
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You always say men should feel lucky that women after "having fun" DECIDED to settle down with them but that is not how men see it who has said this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:03 PM
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because i would never associate physical changes with changes that happen in the brain, personally. i would use psychological as would, i assume, most people. especially when there ARE physical changes that happen to the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:00 PM
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"Physical changes to the brain" is a perfectly acceptable phrase. i 100% agree it is, but it is labeled as psychological maturity, not a physical one so you can differentiate between things like growing boobs vs things related to emotional maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:54 PM
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ok you're really grasping at straws. would you describe mental illness as a physical disease or a psychological one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:46 PM
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you tried to describe what happens in the brain as physical rather than psychological like.. i'm sorry i'm not the one bogging us down in semantics lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:36 PM
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let's not personally attack here, we can disagree and remain respectful. i'm not easily confused, this conversation is just going in circles because of semantics and it's unhelpful to either of us. Seems like you're deflecting from the point which is this: maturity in a biological sense does not relate to maturity in the "that boy is mature for his age" sense. mm, no, your point was i was contradicting myself and i was explaining why i was not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:32 PM
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i'm using the word psychological because that's what would be used to describe your brain changing. physical is what happens to your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:25 PM
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I'm talking about all aspects of maturity, both physical and psychological. I'm not using that one specific study to do so though, that is just ONE study among many on different aspects of maturity. That one particular study is clearly about the beginning of psychological maturity though so not sure why you think I'm talking about physical maturity which I would describe as puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:09 PM
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how does it not? it is a defining factor of maturity, it's just not the only one. there are other benchmarks and women hit them before men. feel free to google this yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:54 PM
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i think it's implied the OP is talking about mainstream porn. like lesbians fingering each other with 7 inch nails or the awkward positions that look great on camera but would actually be awful to contort yourself into while taking a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:53 PM
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i think it's unfair to say there's a disconnect and men don't know what women want so they catcall. women make it very clear they are not interested in that. men don't do it because they think it'll get them laid, they do it for entertainment and lame power plays at the expense of the woman they are doing it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:51 PM
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that's great, but irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:50 PM
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you asked for that specific study so i provided it. You accept that the information you provided doesn't actually define maturity, yet still insist that females mature earlier. no, i accept that it isn't THE defining factor of maturity as maturity is something that grows over time, but rather ONE factor of maturity that all healthy humans eventually develop, but girls develop it quicker than boys. it is ONE marker used to identify psychological growth (maturity). i literally don't know how else …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:49 PM
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and you don't think catcalling creates fear and disgust? i have far more pleasant feelings about the guy minding his own business than the one who's embarrassing me on the street. your logic makes no sense in relation to the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:40 PM
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It's not nice to feel like I have to project strength and emotional ambivalence every time I step out of the door as well as attempting to look good. imagine living in a reality where you think this is actually equivalent. i've never looked at a guy on the street and thought, "wow, he really should project more strength and emotional ambivalence." the nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:21 PM
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don't even justify yourself to him tbh. they asked a question and you answered it. they can't disagree with your very honest (and relatable, based off the comments) answers so they're trying to personally attack you. nothing you said makes you come off off weird, these are definitely things most of us have said to our girlfriends at one point or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:18 PM
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I wanna say I think porn is much more realistic than no. it's not more realistic than anything. porn is lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:16 PM
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slow clap
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:10 PM
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no? why would they be. women reach the stages of maturity faster. on average a 10 year old girl is more mature than a 10 year old boy, a 15 year old girl is more mature than a 15 year old boy, a 25 year old woman is more mature than a 25 year old man. i don't know where the disconnect is between what i'm writing and how you're interpreting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:01 PM
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no one is saying it defines it as a whole, i presented it as one aspect. there are many stages of maturity throughout life. obviously a 10 year old girl is not going to be as mature as a 26 year old woman even though she has begun psychological growth. Generally the "women mature faster" trope just refers to the fact that young men like sleeping around. maybe and that might be an aspect of it as well, i dunno i haven't dug that deep, but it is in fact proven by science that women mature faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:57 PM
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Calling the process itself maturing seems wrong though. why not? i think it's fair to say deciphering what is important and being able to focus your attention on that is certainly a sign of maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:27 PM
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https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/10529134/Girls-really-do-mature-quicker-than-boys-scientists-find.html They discovered that as the brain matures it begins to ‘prune’ information that is stored and focus on what is important. For girls this can happen as early as 10 years old, but for boys it can take until between 15 and 20 for the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:20 PM
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Except it was by "up to" 10 years, which means the average is necessarily less than 10 years. yeah, you're probably right, puberty only lags by 2-3 years for boys. I'm not sure where it really starts slowing down and the gap is created between men and women in terms of maturity. that would be interesting to know. I would like to see the study because defining "maturity" seems like something rather less than scientific. In the one study I saw, they are base it on the ability to sift through infor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:33 PM
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i'm not sure men do develop for longer because they begin development later and when you look at studies of little boys vs little girls and brain development (in a maturity sense) it looks like boys can lag behind girls by 10 years which would explain the age gap later in life (32 vs 43).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:50 PM
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well, first off, puberty which girls typically enter younger than boys. there was also a study done that showed girls were able to sift through information and decipher what was important earlier than boys by up to 10 years, which is often used as an example of how girls mature faster. overall, maturity is determined by a certain psychological developments. i recently read that women reach this around 30-32 and men reach it around 40-43. a quick google search also confirms that for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:33 PM
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what year are you living in? my parents would have been PISSED if i got a 'whatever' degree considering how much money they paid for it. i'm also tired of this trope on here that women just need to put on makeup to be dateable. this may be true when it comes to initial attraction, but it takes work to be a partner for both the man and the woman. to insinuate otherwise is insulting to women, for obvious reasons but also men that you're all just a bunch of apes who would be happy spending your lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:18 PM
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same, who are these women just straight up asking men for money like allowance? (outside of pre-arranged sugar baby situations)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:01 PM
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i disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:51 PM
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because i'm awkward lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:40 PM
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for my boyfriends, never. for guys i've just hooked up with, probably like 30% of the time. even if i don't do the actual approaching, i've worked for it by trying to catch some eye contact or bumping into them at the bar when ordering a drink etc. to get them to start the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:32 PM
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i'm with you. height can make an unattractive guy seem more attractive, but a handsome shorter guy is still handsome and will do fine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:38 PM
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this comment is kind of redundant. obviously people can be selfish and destructive because they have a mental disorder, but armchair psychologists labeling every selfish and destructive person as bipolar or bpd or a narcissist is unhelpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:35 PM
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armchair psychologists are annoying. some people are just selfish and destructive without having a mental disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:39 PM
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Not my behavior, just how I look. Have you seen editors? They’re basically mole people because they live in dark rooms for 15 hours a day. I know how I have been treated in my 6 years in the industry. Not every job is the same and not every guy is a creep but the bad experiences I have had are because of my gender and nothing else. It’s not surprise to me why women avoid these jobs like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:17 PM
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That’s a great way to put it and articulates how I feel. It should be met with curiosity and not hate. If people would talk to women in these industries, they’d quickly understand why this disparity exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:37 AM
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Oppressed? No. But I don’t always feel I’m taken seriously because I’m pretty overtly feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:34 AM
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Nice try at a personal attack based on nothing to try and get in my feeeelings. I’m not just there for a paycheck, I’m there because I love it, as I said. Film and television is my passion :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:22 PM
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i meant me, i'm in the film and television industry, not seeking fame, just wanna edit because i love it. it's definitely male dominated (even though historically, editors were women). just trying to do my job and be taken seriously, not asking for it to be women only but i'd certainly appreciate a few more talented females around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:03 PM
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please don't say that to someone who works in the film and television industry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:34 PM
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, trying to remove male power and transfer it to women, and in some ways trying to establish a matriarchy, and maybe most importantly, if men see no reward in it, they're not going to support it. they're just trying to get you to share the cookie, not take the whole thing away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:30 PM
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please point me in the direction of where i can find articles on everyday men and women are being taken seriously for sexual assault crimes, not celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 02:54 PM
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It’s not being taken more seriously now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:12 AM
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Women /= feminists. Insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:59 AM
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Ok. My point still remains that they treat everyone poorly. It’s a crime that is not often taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:58 AM
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Your conflating the legal system with peoples opinion. I can choose to believe victims and voice my support and the alleged assaulter will still have the right to a trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:54 AM
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So the answer to my question is nothing. You guys can’t label everything you don’t like as “feminism”. It’s not “feminist” types. Main stream media isn’t “feminism”. It’s fine if you don’t like that message, but it isn’t because of women or because of feminism. Men still very much control most forms of media.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 11:23 PM
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Your out of context outrage blowing up my inbox is v annoying. I’m not talking about women. I am talking about men and how they prefer to be number 1 always.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 11:21 PM
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You need to relax with the outrage. Where am I shaming mothers for taking care of their families? Im stating a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 11:20 PM
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what expectations does feminism put on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 10:18 PM
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Agreed. Never forget
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 06:14 PM
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i'm from nyc. the egos of the cops here are something else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:34 PM
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think of more than 5 what?! i said i can't think of any? yes, maybe i do need to take some reading courses because literally what the fuck are you saying?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:58 PM
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i don't agree it's a herd/mob mentality. i think this is an issue that 'triggers', for lack of a better word, an emotional response in a lot of women because many in someway have been effected by this sort of behavior. it's their own emotional reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:52 PM
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i honestly don't know what you're asking from me. how many names of people who have said they have been sexually assaulted or raped can i list off my the top of my head? is that what you're asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:50 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:47 PM
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they treat all victims of sexual assault and rape equally poorly from what i have seen/heard. i come from a law enforcement family and the things they have said makes me never want to trust a cop. it's grossssss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:47 PM
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i definitely hear you with this, but i think that stems from people wanting to voice support and reassurance to the alleged victims of sexual assault and rape and it's hard to do that without basically convicting the man in the public eye. it's difficult to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:45 PM
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insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:44 PM
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what rape or assault victim who came forward against a celebrity has actually benefited from it? i can't think of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:42 PM
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The norm for nice guys is not that they go ballistic when rejected. that's the whole definition of a 'nice guy' though. when people say that, they're specifically talking about the guys who act nice then go crazy when you reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:40 PM
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Basically, if your "needs" are disruptive to a person's normal schedule, to the point that they can no longer do things that they used to be able to do, you could be considered "needy", because you're "needs" are now negatively impacting the quality of your partern's life. this is a great way to put it. disrupting someone's life to the point where they have nothing going on except you is 'too needy' to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:29 PM
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it's not really damned if you do, damned if you don't. your children are your blood, they're going to come first outside of the casey anthony's of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:26 PM
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Basically, men are needy as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:16 PM
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We are not, but the mother is still typically the caretaker by default. They still tend to put their family’s needs before their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:15 PM
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I wasn’t just referring to single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:14 PM
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It’s hard as a woman to understand that as my children will always come first, regardless of who their father is. It’s fine that you aren’t interested in that but surely you have to understand a mother is going to be a mother first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:13 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:30 AM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:13 AM
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Yes and?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:13 AM
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I didn’t say it was a bad thing just pointing out how men are needier than most will admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:12 AM
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Women traditionally have taken the backseat to their family (children) and partner. Men need to be babied.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:12 AM
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Lmao @ me. Oops
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 11:26 PM
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Where does it specifically outline that? It just says SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 10:56 PM
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yes, but women are used to being put on the backburner because traditionally that's what they always done. men don't handle that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 10:00 PM
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easiest debate i've come across on this sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 09:59 PM
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You should try being an overweight yes, anyone who is overweight has more trouble dating than those who are not... why are you presenting this like it's a surprise? there's a huuuuuuge sea of men in between those that are 'overweight' and those that are the 'hot 6'2 tall blond man' yall are obsessed with. the average man is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 09:50 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 09:37 PM
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But simping, male thirst and the evolution of smartphones (and yes apps like Tinder) made short work of that and now many women believe the hot 6'2 tall blond man wants more than to just wet his dick in her. omg go outside and meet people in real life because no, not every woman thinks like this. insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 09:35 PM
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men don't like playing second rung to anything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 09:20 PM
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It's not binary and there's plenty of room for compromise, so yes it's fully relevant. but i'm specifically talking about situations where the woman is the stay at home mom and not taking in any income so no, it's not relevant. Sure, during the marriage. When she gets the kids, child support, half the assets, the house, etc after divorce why does there need to be a permanent, open ended obligation to the man? because that is the consequence of marrying a stay at home mom. Furthermore, if she coh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:55 PM
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And she has to do it? She can't say no? As I said, if you're getting married, you are going to discuss finances and the decision of someone being a stay at home mom is often made up front. If that is what a man wants and the woman doesn't, sure she can say no, but then those two people are obviously not compatible, so they wouldn't be getting married in the first place. So that hypothetical is irrelevant to this conversation. How many women choose to be a SAHM? God forbid, how many actually WANT…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:30 PM
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If you want to bail from the work force to raise kids, that's going to be your risk to shoulder. that's not the sole decision of the wife though. most people go into marriages with financial agreements. if you expect your wife to stay home to raise the kids and take care of the house, you are asking her to forego a career. alimony is the consequence of that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:05 PM
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it is though... and that's why alimony exists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:39 PM
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Women didn't take it. They still blame men for their own faults. So... here's that. We are different. Men are hunters, women are child bearers etc. what are you even talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:39 PM
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my whole point is that what applies to men does not apply to women so? yes, i know. i'm questioning why because it's fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:06 PM
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you asked her to give up her chances of a career, likely to raise children, take care of the home and take care of you. so now you pay the price for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:05 PM
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Why are gold digging women a thing and not so much gold digging men? probably a few reasons. men own most of the world's wealth. men are also more willing to pay to keep a hot, young woman. i think that has more to do with men and their choices/priorities than it does women and what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:03 PM
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Alimony shouldn't exist at all.....but I'll give you a year. You are a fucking adult and it doesn't matter how long you've been out of the workforce. You can get a job to support yourself within a year. spoken like someone who has no idea how the world works. if you ask your wife to stay home and care for the house and kids, you can't be shocked that she becomes dependent on you and your income.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:59 PM
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are you broken? why even respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:52 PM
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i'm not disagreeing at all, but i think men tend to play it off like it's too much 'baggage' when in reality, i think thy don't want to admit how needy they are in relationships. they like to be number 1. i saw a study once about men being jealous of the attention their wives give their children, i need to find it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:51 PM
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imo men don't typically like to admit it, but they are pretty needy, both emotional and physically. when a woman has a child to take care of or a career which puts her relationship on the back-burner a bit (or rather just takes time away from it), it hurts the male ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:19 PM
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thats not really relevant. you would hardly spend any time together. she would be too selfish to have a relationship with. her serious personality would get depressing after a while. why should you have to come second to someone's work all the time? this sounds like a pretty shitty partner, regardless of gender. i don't know why it's the stereotype of only career oriented women and not men though. that's my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:00 PM
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that doesn't really answer my question. wouldn't anyone who takes their career serious enough to forego a life/work balance be all of these things? however, only women get the title of "career women" (which comes with negative connotations) whereas for men it's totally fine to be those things because you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 02:39 PM
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i work in television and have longer hours than my friends who are lawyers or work in finance. 6 figures doesn't necessarily mean you never leave the office or don't have a social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 02:36 PM
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you would hardly spend any time together. she would be too selfish to have a relationship with. her serious personality would get depressing after a while. why should you have to come second to someone's work all the time? and what are men who are career oriented like?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 02:33 PM
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I don’t. But acting like it’s specifically for women and in someway means women are better taken care of by the health system is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:00 AM
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wings or no wings, doctors are not taking women seriously here, i have googled it for you, read a little about it Men don't, also men don't have the money for health care and qualify for less welfare and services, women under Obama Care get free birth control, men did not(not even free condoms) birth control is good for BOTH parties, it is just like condoms in that it prevents pregnancy. that's not a 'woman only' thing just because it effects their body. also, birth control fucking SUCKS, it has…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 09:18 PM
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clearly you do not understand the origin of divorce and marriage laws if you propose a 'what's mine is mine, what's yours is yours' solution. why get married at all if you are not going to combine assets and build a stronger finical future together? that's the POINT for a lot of couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 08:52 PM
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There are wings dedicated to women only. ok.. i don't really see your point there. there is an abundance of places men can get their healthcare. this doesn't limit them. this also in no way addresses what i said.. False actually not false.. there is a TON of research on this. men do not go to the doctor - i don't know what you mean by men issues being framed as egotistical or how that relates to medicine, but feel free to expand on that. I completely agree that circumcision is wrong, but it's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 08:50 PM
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marriage and divorce laws do you even know what it means when you say this? i feel like you've seen it in other manosphere areas of the internet but you don't actually know what marriage and divorce laws are...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 08:05 PM
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meaning the chance of a draft happening is slim to none. the law can certainly change to be updated so women are required to sign up as well. as i said, the loudest protesters against this are men who don't believe women should be allowed in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 07:51 PM
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sure, women have every right to make themselves feel beautiful and i have no doubt that they want to do that. but why? whatever women feel about it, that doesn't negate why it exists and why we are conditioned to feel that way. i say this a woman who has had plastic surgery and wears a full face of makeup most days like, i get it because no one tells me to do these things, but i also am 100% aware of where it all comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 07:37 PM
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i don't care why women say they are doing it. the beauty industry exists for one reason and one reason only.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 07:29 PM
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This shows up in: Marriage and divorce laws divorce laws favor the partner who makes less money (and children), traditionally that has been women. Child custody and child support laws this is doing men a favor, they don't WANT full custody. there are plenty of studies on this. men prefer their wives to receive full custody. A biased court system that discriminates against men it discriminates against low income men more than anyone. yes, women do get less harsh sentences than men for the same cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 06:53 PM
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Men are the ones who tend to go out of their way to conform to what women want tell that to the multi-billion dollar beauty industry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 06:45 PM
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Edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 08:44 PM
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ughhhhh, this kind of trolling on here is SOOO boring and tired. im sorry you lost this debate, move on lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:30 PM
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I said in general you should apologize to your s/o if you upset them. If you disagree with that, idk, die alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:18 PM
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I said in general you should apologize to your s/o if you upset them. If you disagree with that, idk, die alone? however, back to the example given by OP, i mean obviously he's not apologizing because she doesn't feel well... i would think you could use some common sense to deduce that without me having to explain but ok.. i also don't even think she asked for one in that case?? i think she just said i don't feel well, can you hurry up and when they got home HE made the big deal out of it becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:00 PM
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no one is saying you can't try. go ahead and write your number on the receipt.. but she's not going to call you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:44 PM
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imagine being such a stubborn dweeb that you can't even mutter the words 'i'm sorry' when your girlfriend doesn't feel well and you take your time with something as mundane as choosing dinner because muhhhh pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:36 PM
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why not? your friends and loved ones have to much of a vested interest in you, hearing advice and feedback from strangers can help with actual introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:38 PM
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If he upsets her, he should apologize because.. that. i am talking about in general if you upset your partner, just take a second to think about why they're upset, drop a sorry and try not to mimic the behavior at a later date. apologies don't have to be that heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:33 PM
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this whole post is a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:29 PM
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there's a difference between getting upset and sulking around all day because you pissed off your girlfriend for a minute. No one should act like that, male or female, that's sooo draining to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:28 PM
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your post: Translation: I snapped at him in public and he didn't handle it well. OPs post No one likes feeling unwell and I just felt a bit irritated. I didn't snap at him or anything, just told him to hurry up because I felt lousy and I just wanted to get home and lay down She explained it was one "mundane" example and the overall issue is that he is too sensitive, so saying "jesus the poor guy was taking too long to pick something out to eat" is a pretty weak summary of the post. The advice se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:26 PM
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alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:18 PM
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I just pretend he's thinking of me when we have sex do you think he is not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:16 PM
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Why would it make me feel better to think that? That doesn’t even make sense as a concept. Do you think before you type? You literally said it. Are you this embarassing in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:17 PM
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You said 90% of women are cunts..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:01 AM
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Lmao what?? This is low effort and boring. Please try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:00 AM
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which they assume men are afforded by default. Because men are given respect that a woman in the same position is not. Everything else you said is irrelevant to my point. You read what I said wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:30 AM
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i don't think it's a pipe dream, but sometimes there are reasons to cut ties.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:09 PM
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because women the trend seems to be women prefer monogamy and men prefer being hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 09:55 PM
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yup, same!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 09:54 PM
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There is a big correlation between gay men and open relationships, that likely also contributes to their lower divorce rate. They get all the benefits of a marriage + sex on the side.. why leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:52 PM
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You're claiming that women who act assertive are misjudged as bitchy, correct? not necessarily. my point is bitchiness is not encouraged as empowerment as you originally stated - being strong, decisive and confident is which because of traditional gender roles, i guess, is seen as bitchy. i'm talking about specifically those kinds of traits. not women who are actually assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:08 PM
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i don't reaaaally understand what you're trying to say here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:14 PM
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right, we're getting a little off topic. i was responding to the idea that being a 'bitch' is seen as being empowered, but it's not. it's more that being confident and decisive and not taking shit from people in the interest of seeming submissive the way women have been conditioned to from the dawn of time is encouraged by other women as 'empowerment'. however, those traits often translate as 'bitchiness' (to both men and women), but it's not, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:09 PM
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I tend to find if 90% of the people you come in contact with act a certain way towards you, it's because of something you do. both good and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:06 PM
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i meant more that people often call women 'bitches' for behaving in a similar manner to how a man would. particularly in the cases of bosses and women in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:43 PM
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i'm questioning the idea that 90% of women are cunts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:42 PM
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it's disappointing 90% of women don't meet this. apparently 90% of all women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:25 PM
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i think it's more that people mistake confidence and decisiveness for bitchiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:48 PM
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calls women cunts, surprised women aren't nice to him. hmm..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:47 PM
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i'm not crying about anything, i'm not against the second amendment, but i also won't deny there is a problem here. anyway, the least dangerous thing about gun loving, bible thumping trailer trash is their guns tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:33 PM
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it almost is funny, but not in the way that he intended it to be
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 02:48 PM
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Do gun loving rednecks run kidnappings in broad daylight because they know the police will look the other way? someone didn't learn about the south during jim crow times, hmm. they also shoot up churches and yoga studios and classrooms and movie theaters and malls and concerts and mail homemade bombs to journalists so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 02:47 PM
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they're right and everyone who disagrees is evil and stupid, so. you said it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:10 PM
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Someone short
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:08 PM
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Of course it’s the feminist movement even though it’s an ad made for and created by men and the company is donating money to male organizations lmaooo can’t win.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 11:51 AM
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That’s obviously not the same though. The gendered reverse would have to be a movement that advocates women policing other women to the benefit of men. To be clear, men would benefit from the type of changes this ad is calling for as well, it's certainly not just for women. I suspect that these trends are a consequence of social media and the female intrasexual bullying that anonymous social media amplifies that young women appear to enjoy partaking in. Yeah, this is an issue and I don't see it …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 10:05 PM
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It's not just about an outgroup though. Society as a whole would benefit if men would calm the fuck down with the masculinity trips. It's at the root of a lot of destructive shit, like gangs, abusive parenting, bullying and yes, rape and sexual harassment (of both women AND men). The idea that things like therapy and emotions are inherently female and therefore weak causes things like PTSD to go unchecked in veterans. That is about gaining power for the ingroup of women though It's not though, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:52 PM
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No and no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:39 PM
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Ugly men want sex. Is that your issue? that sounds like your issue because where did that even come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:29 PM
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This recent notion that women should lift up and support other women rather than tear them down which then plays into anti-slut shaming and anti-body shaming ads. Tampons, cosmetic companies etc have been playing around with this idea for a while now. Becoming more of a 'girls girl' and eliminating the need for competition among women has been the message everywhere recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:26 PM
3

Women aren't perfect either. We have our own 'call to action' movements as well. ...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:19 PM
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Your idea that women never had a say or any influence is insulting, really. I did say 'almost' every societal issue. Women aren't perfect either. We have our own 'call to action' movements as well. Society as a whole could do with being a little bit more conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:00 PM
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I didn't get that impression at all, I think it says more about you that that's what you took away from it. I think the way maculinity manifests itself within different communities and cultures is definitely unique, but I think the message was clearly a call to all men. It's clear that men are the only identity you can advise to police each other. Probably because they're the cause of almost every societal issue for both men and women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:51 PM
1

I'm not sure if you're talking about the Gillette ad here, but you think it was aimed only towards white men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:28 PM
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female, late 20's, blue af. friends are the family you choose <3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:48 PM
1

bomb
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:46 PM
1

are u lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:45 PM
1

s h o c k i n g
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:50 PM
1

Who is denying that? That's literally NOT my point, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:39 PM
1

I’m not pretending anything. I think the majority of people age poorly and it’s because the majority of people do not take care of themselves/their skin. I think it’s grossly exaggerated that “men age like wine and women age like milk”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:16 PM
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I actually disagree, especially considering the obesity epidemic. Go to France or Germany and you'll see women tend to age just as well if not better than men. You have to take into consideration men balding and that they typically take worse care of themselves then women. From skincare to doctor visits, it's all seen as 'feminine', unfortunately. I WISH men took better care of themselves, it's annoying how little effort they put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:53 AM
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But if she chooses to leave him how do you know it was her? also, there are rumors he was having an affair, if that's true, then he ruined the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:29 AM
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Looking at the fellow moms, they were all "post wall" as in not one would I think of having a sexual relationship with. Thats a bit of an exaggeration there was one or two I saw out of close to 200, but if I were suddenly a single none would be on my radar. ok and i would feel the same way if it were a room full of men the same age. older people are not as attractive as younger people, g r o u n d b r e a k i n g.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:26 AM
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Whats SAHM stay at home mom.. i honestly think a mom should not work and should be with her kids instead, but i do understand most families cannot live on 1 income anymore which restricts this completely. but you don't think a woman should be rewarded for that if you divorce her and leave her without an income since you preferred her to stay home? you have to see that's... not great logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:17 AM
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But being someone’s spouse does not entitle you to 50% of everything they earn. well, it does, legally. beyond that, it is incredibly demanding to be the spouse of someone who runs any business. it was undoubtedly taxing on their marriage and likely lowered his effectiveness as a partner. she also popped out 3 kids for him and raised his family. this is all besides the fact that she was there from the beginning and was actually an 'employee'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:16 AM
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less women are SAHM and are now apart of the workforce themselves requiring less alimony money from either partner, if any at all. the current generation getting married cannot be judged based off of our parents generation and their trends, we are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:52 AM
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If the other partner will not commit to a life long relationship are they really entitled to all that was built during said relationship? the rumors are that he was having an affair, so it sounds like he is the one who would not commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:50 AM
5

or maybe women don't want to be treated like princesses because it's very uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:58 PM
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Except when a decent (but plain-looking) guy treats her like a princess, he's creepy, clingy and gross. Eww! XD that's not what happens and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:11 PM
2

I'M APPROACHING 30 AND I'M READY TO CASH IN MY BETA BUX OK
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:16 PM
2

i thought the rule was whoever initiated it, pays. in the past, if i have initiated a date, i'll go to pay and the guy usually will insist and either he will win or we'll split. i have always offered to at least pay my share when i'm invited out. This is likely the norm??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:06 PM
1

hey, you wanna go on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:02 PM
2

you better believe it baby
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:03 PM
2

fuck him, too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:57 PM
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can someone pin this comment to the sub somewhere so we don't have to talk about this anymore?! because this is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 09:08 PM
3

Do women get the same stock replies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 02:30 PM
2

same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:56 PM
0

MILF in porn = 30 year old with bad plastic surgery. It's not usually older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:17 PM
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That's probably the whole BBC fad right there too. I actually think it's men. I forgot the name for black Chad, but he's brought up in MRA and incel type circles often. Same with cuck videos. Those aren't created for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:17 PM
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What about men who don't want children? If women are opting out, so are the men they marry them.. What's their excuse? They have even less responsibility and experience zero physical consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 03:10 PM
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edit: Whoops you wrote that in your comment so ignore that. I'd have to see a study that says men are primarily raped by women, i do not believe that at all. beyond that, men are still the biggest predatory threat to women whereas women are not to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 10:06 PM
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are you trying to argue that women rape men more than men rape women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 09:48 PM
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i don't disagree with that on a logical level, but that's why i clarified that the 'optics' of it are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 04:50 PM
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IS society so "stupid" when the vast majority of sexual assaults are committed by men? I don't personally distrust men, but I understand why as a society we've decided the optics of a woman running into a men's room is not as bad as a man running into a woman's room.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 04:17 PM
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i've read that married couples start to look like each other as they age and most people marry someone who looks similar to them so maybe that's why haha. i think i just have my moms hair/skin/eye color so people see me and think my mom but who knows!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 04:19 PM
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the two celebs i get told i look like the most are jennifer lawrence and sophia bush so some mashup of those two. but i also look exactly like my dad and i'm alllwaaays told i'm my moms twin so i don't think people know what they are talking about anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 04:01 PM
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Agreed, that's why I called it bullshit :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 09:46 PM
1

My state is pen and paper. I don't know why this isn't the system countrywide.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 08:58 PM
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you better believe ittttt. used it as an excuse to be late to work as well. #america.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 08:48 PM
2

i've seen republicans saying if they lose, it's because of voter fraud. both sides are gearing up for a lose with this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 08:44 PM
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yeah like, "I'd like to hear it from a doctor" so the NP walks outside and tells the doctor whats up so they can come in and say the same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 08:15 PM
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oh no they definitely know their shit. this has been said a lot by them when ranting about lack of respect at work from patients, but it's something that comes with the job for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 06:59 PM
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you're basing that assumption off of....?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 06:53 PM
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thanks for the clarification. i'll tell my friends they made me look dumb on reddit at the bar this weekend :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 06:51 PM
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what is an RNA? if you're referring to an RN, i don't think they want to go to medical school. a lot of the appeal of nursing is that it is a flexible schedule/even work part time and still make a great salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 06:27 PM
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I have two friends who are NPs and they both have said they had to know as much as doctors to become them, I just took them at their word on that lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 06:25 PM
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i guess my sentiments aren't clear, what i mean is i don't think they should be even though i am aware that they are especially since most RNs know about as much (if not more) as most doctors (outside of surgeons) so that's my personal gripe, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 05:50 PM
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It's just not a death sentence for a man to marry somewhat down. what is this responding to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 05:41 PM
3

yeah, but let's be real, most doctors are not traditionally hot and for some reason tend to settle down and marry young.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 04:58 PM
1

when i say why i mean i personally think doctors get more credit than they deserve when it comes to social status, i am aware why it is the way it is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 03:28 PM
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not disagreeing they are lower class than drs, but i still think a lot of people in this sub particularly have a weird view on nurses. they come up a lot on here for some reason and it's always mentioned that they don't make a lot of money which is just not true. i think it's also a case of not recognizing an RN vs. a nursing assistant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 03:27 PM
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i thought everything was about money! but more so, i'm questioning why doctors have the status they have at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 02:31 PM
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i'm not sure because there are doctors who work in hospitals and those who have their own private practices right? the average residency salary is around 50-60k and they have to do that for like two years, plus the debt they usually rack up in medical school. it doesn't seem worth it to me, you waste your entire 20's studying and don't really get paid until your early to mid 30's. then you have to work on building your practice. idk. nursing sounds like the better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 02:09 PM
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omg we've agreed twice on this thread. what is happening? but yeah, i think a lot of people have an outdated idea of what an RN is. they have a 4 year education, typically with a science background and they make bank. plus doctors have to climb a ladder nurses don't which allow them to make more money quicker and maintain that throughout their career.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 02:00 PM
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A lot of people in med school/law school marry their classmates. You can talk to them about work, they'll make you a smart kid, and you know they're not after you for your money. A lot of doctors also marry nurses b/c that's who they meet in the hospital. all of this. doctor/doctor marriages are SO common, they are just typically in different specialties of medicine. same with doctor/nurse. nurses are really well educated, i don't know why everyone on this sub acts like they are so below doctors…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:58 PM
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RMV, doctors aren't typically 'sexy'. usually reclusive nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:56 PM
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doctors usually don't make it to their 30's without being married. almost every doctor is married by the time they actually become a doctor and often date people they met in med school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:55 PM
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RNs in the US make $$$$$$, starting at 90k-100k where i live so I wouldn't say 'way below'. Social status is definitely still lower for nurses, but it's on the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:54 PM
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i'm not ruling out the possibility of a pregnancy, no matter how safe you are it's possible, but i would personally abort it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:42 PM
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mine or his?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:41 PM
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exactly what i wanted to say, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:31 AM
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hmm, maybe i wasn't clear in what i meant. i was insecure throughout high school and used my sexuality for validation. when i was in college, i didn't have those same insecurities so i didn't feel the need to use sex as a way to feel good about myself. that's what i meant by not caring. i no longer cared to be validated. hope that clears it up. also, 'not caring' is not textbook discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:01 AM
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a huge contempt for who?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 12:54 AM
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i was "promiscuous" in hs and not through college. i was insecure in high school and wanted boys to like me, so i gave it up. it hurt though and i never enjoyed it (they had no idea what they were doing and neither did i) so it didn't appeal to me through college + i had more self love~ and didn't care if guys liked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 12:45 AM
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Grinding is sexual at its core, but it doesn't mean they are going to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 08:59 PM
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if i wanted a kid and was emotionally and financially ready to take on that responsibility 100% alone i would have it. i personally don't see myself ever being in that situation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 07:58 PM
2

we are both solid investments
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 05:15 PM
1

now i'm a misandrist? lmao guy, go to sleep. i don't think women hitting men is as violent as men hitting women due to the unequal force. doesn't make it ok, doesn't make it NOT violent - no one should hit anyone, especially their partner. if you wanna twist that into misandry, knock yourself out but again, you are outraging yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 04:15 AM
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I specifically said slapping so idk where you're getting punches from. if we're just chillin off topic then i will point out many men don't hold back and that's why the highest rate of death among pregnant women is at the hands of their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 03:54 AM
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if i was defending it i would say, "it's fine when women do it". it's not fine it's just not as violent. i didn't make a mistake, i said what i said. if i said apples aren't as juicy as watermelon, would i be saying watermelon is a better fruit than apples? no, i'm saying it is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 03:31 AM
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neither one is ok Where am I defending? Because none of those words I used equate to defending. I literally said it's not okay because IT'S NOT. It's doesn't make it EQUAL. You're outraging yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 03:15 AM
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sorry :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 02:02 AM
1

"literature" about domestic violence has nothing to do with anything i said. you're projecting what you think i said onto what i actually said. it's fine, it happens here constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 02:02 AM
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i disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:29 AM
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“she better be a pure virgin who has never made any eye contact with any other man but be ready to backflip onto my penis and my penis ONLY”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:19 PM
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'm not waiting 6 dates to bang a reformed nasty skank whose decided because I'm "LTR material" or whatever she should make me wait. I don’t think this is something you have to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:07 PM
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That’s NOT what I said at all. I said it is less violent because the force of a woman SLAPPING a man is considerably less impactful. It doesn’t make it ok or right or even NOT violent. Just not equal to being slapped by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 10:42 PM
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Is it?! I’m not saying women should go around beating men. You guys are so dramatic omg
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 10:28 PM
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by that logic, a slap from a baby is just as violent as a slap by a grown man or a woman. you'd agree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:32 PM
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not really sure how your comment is relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:56 PM
2

well men just don't slap so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:52 PM
2

Boob elbowing was the most common one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:51 PM
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Violence is a scale. As I said, it doesn't make it ok, but it is considerably less violent when a women hits a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:50 PM
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a woman slapping a man is less violent than a man slapping a woman because one is stronger than the other. neither one is ok, but equating them is not honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:57 PM
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I get the impression that the women genuinely hate each other. Based off your own assumptions and not anything else. How do you know female athletes don't hang out during off-season? You're just actively making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:53 PM
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i've never been kicked in the pussy or had my hair pulled in the 10 years i played but maybe i was doing it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:23 PM
6

who's "we"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:22 PM
3

the girls are grabbing each others hair, kicking each other in the pussy and poking each others eyes every time the refs don't look. where are you getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:28 PM
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Men already don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 10:25 PM
1

Forty-three percent of their replacements were women. good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:21 PM
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All my female friendships withered away when they got serious boyfriends I have a serious boyfriend and have had one for the last 6 years, none of my friendships have withered. you're projecting your personal obsession with sex onto other people. seek therapy and stop replying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 03:47 PM
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nah, we're a group of people, male and female, in our late 20's who hang out together as a group, one on one, in small groups etc. we have parties, we go to bars, sporting events, concerts blah blah. sometimes we just watch movies and binge eat together. i have a few niche hobbies that some of my male friends like too so we we'll head to exhibits or related events. i get 2am phone calls when my friend jason is having family issues and he gets 2 am phone calls from me when i'm hypochondriac-ing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:11 PM
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I didn’t say otherwise. I said it’s not the typical way women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:44 AM
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This is just sad. My friendships with my male friends are incredibly fulfilling. Genuinely sorry you can’t imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:44 AM
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not really, we had insane chemistry and we had sex the first night we met so i didn't really have time. basically, I've had traditional alpha men jackhammer me into the bed and i had a shy, dweeby lit major just ruin me in the best way so.. i don't consider how they act or what they look like as indicators for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:03 AM
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i thought he was kind of awkward. i was attracted to his face, overall build (height), sense of humor..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 03:52 AM
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lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 03:51 AM
1

I do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 03:47 AM
1

have you fucked men? because this is not always, or probably even mostly true. at least not in my experience as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 03:31 AM
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i think the original commenter was just flexing how attractive he is in a very awkward, wordy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:50 AM
1

they're so touchy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:49 AM
1

no i'm always like this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:46 AM
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because i know how women feel, i'm a woman lol he can make his own post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:46 AM
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Please tell me more about how a woman thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 10:19 PM
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The part that through me off was, they actually think about how you’d fuck them. Breaking news: young women like sex and fantasize about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 07:15 PM
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Lucky for me she's got a teenage girl body. eek
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 06:15 PM
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i sexually fantasize about probably every guy i find attractive immediately upon seeing them for the first time and then usually never again. I'm not sexually attracted to my male friends because I don't find them attractive at all, but when I have in the past, it's just like a standard crush that either something happens or it fades with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 05:36 PM
5

he is also aging, it's also not uncommon for football players in particular to go broke as soon as they retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 02:42 PM
1

everyone looks better with makeup, doesn't make her unattractive without it. girl has great skin omg
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 02:34 PM
6

never trust a man who says this ^
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 08:40 PM
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you don't think most women would provide part of the income, entertainment in its most basic form by simply existing to do stuff with and be romantic? what do you think MOST girlfriends/wives do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 08:37 PM
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I’m def fun. A bit extra but not intolerable. love this. same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 08:28 PM
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i know, i know but i couldn't help myself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 05:57 PM
3

that is not a post i could ever forget... I'm sorry it didn't work out tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:22 PM
6

this just sounds like non-autistic people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:21 PM
1

I especially like the ones that don’t wear a size 7 shoe. I really relate to this. No disappointment like finding a great shoe and looking down to see sizes 8-11 only :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:20 PM
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in england, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:19 PM
5

omg dylanrocks. i remember your skincare addiction post about using cum as an acne treatment. how's that going for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:18 PM
1

yup, I was for once agreeing with you lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 06:32 PM
1

I was just pointing out that you can be both an alt-right white nationalist and a minority, like Rodger (Rodgers? Idk). I didn't say he was into TRP, just was both of those things. I do think there are other self hating minorities who post on TRP though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 06:28 PM
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There seems to be two camps. One that swears TRP has been completely taken over be brown people learning to compete in the western SMP, and the other that claims TRP is alt-right white nationalists. It seems to me that these things are mutually exclusive. I suppose you can be a self-hating minority though. They're definitely not mutually exclusive. For example, Elliot Rodger. I imagine there are many TRP/MGTOW members like him. The self hating minority that worships the white man/woman is a big …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 04:03 PM
1

Ergo, The biggest group of women on dating sites are actually just emotional free riders. I think a lot of people on dating sites tend to be people who got out of a relationship and jump on the apps immediately to "get over it". This applies to both men and women. All of the dudes i met off tinder had extreme emotional baggage and wanted to use my company as a crutch to get over whoever hurt them. It's basically a meme at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 07:25 PM
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28
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:57 PM
3

discussing finances is definitely its own beast, especially if either partner has prior debt. trivial things like trash, cleaning and general household chores though? we're both adults, we can clean up after ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:46 PM
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a few regrets because there was some risky behavior i should have been smarter about, but overall it was a good time that i really don't look back on at all. the only thing i miss about those days was getting ready to go out to the bars with my friends, we old now :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:25 PM
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am i the only one who hasn't had to sit down and create negotiations with my partner? whoever sees the trash needs to go out takes it on the way out the door, i clean up my space and he cleans up his, we both earn money, he provides slightly more emotional support because i require more, we both initiate sex when we want. none of these things were discussed they just happened and i thought that's just how it's supposed to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:21 PM
2

interesting perspective, thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 01:43 PM
2

hahahah i appreciate that <3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:44 PM
16

So is forcing a cock into a dry vagina. thank you. OPs lack of knowledge about the vagina is.. alarming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:38 PM
1

I don't really think anecdotal evidence carries here. There is plenty more evidence, documentaries, studies etc. that show prostitutes and sex workers are often abused in various ways. I have problems with traditional prostitution as a whole that makes me very sure about it. I think sugar babies are much more black and white and I don't find it as controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:35 PM
1

I do so because I talked to her beforehand That's really it. Couples who have sleep sex usually discuss that beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:32 PM
1

I realize I didn't make it clear in my original comment, that's fair, but I've clarified this like 3 times since then. Read down the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:31 PM
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r/badfemaleanatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:30 PM
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I totally understand why OP feels violated. Especially because they had fought earlier and because he said "Go back to sleep". Ew. I would also feel violated because I specifically have told my boyfriend I don't want to be woken up to sex. It's situational and depends on the relationship and the boundaries you build together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:27 PM
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No, I'm talking about literal issues within prostitution. Abuse by pimps, abuse by clients, underage prostitution, the dangers of the job in general. All I said was I don't think it can be compared to being a sugar baby IN THE TRADITIONAL SENSE because sugar babies seem to be more in control of their transactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:17 PM
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that's not what I was doing, i was explaining why i personally have different feelings about traditional prostitution and sugar babies, but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:45 PM
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I'm not denying they go into it by choice, but there's no doubt many prostitutes are taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:44 PM
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that's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:43 PM
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I meant because consent is a little iffy with traditional prostitution. You also are likely working for someone and therefore don't bring home all your profits. I have issues with prostitution that I don't have with sugar babies because it seems 100% their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:14 PM
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I think women should do whatever they want, but understand there will likely always be a stigma with selling yourself/time/body to men for cash. Just as there is a stigma for men who buy women. edit to add that I don't think sugar babies are the same thing as prostitutes in the traditional sense of the word and therefore are not as problematic to me, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 02:52 PM
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and frankly despite whats often said here i find very few guys over 30 look truly "youthful" in the same way that many over 30 women can still pass as young. even when they dont look bad, they tend to look mature i completely agree. i think a lot of men, on this sub particularly, mistake women in their 40's for women in their 30's. Women can really maintain their "youth" into their early 40's if they don't smoke or tan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:47 PM
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literally. call me any name, tell me i'm fat, wish that i get raped by a flock of seagulls, I DON'T CARE. JUST PROMISE ME YOU USE SPF!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:27 PM
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it hasn't. i promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:20 PM
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men without skincare routines because they think it's gay truly is my one and only trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:19 PM
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you are probably genetically blessed with good skin. it is definitely not the soap.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:17 PM
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HE CAN BUY SO MUCH MOISTURIZER AT WALMART. THIS GENUINELY HURTS MY SOUL!!! How do people walk around with dry skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:04 PM
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Hand and body soap can be very dehydrating and should not be used on the face. At the very least everyone should invest in a cleanser, sunscreen and moisturizer. I don't expect you to take this advice, obviously, but to whoever reads this, PLEASE DON'T USE HAND SOAP ON YOUR FACE :(((
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 07:55 PM
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everyone should have a skincare routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 07:49 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 07:08 PM
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that picture of goldblum is so hot. that's all i have to add to this. good post, grid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 02:01 PM
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that is very disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:23 PM
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please link to this because that is shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:02 PM
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where do you get THAT idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 07:44 PM
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women typically report "freezing" after they have communicated that they no longer want to have sex but the man continues anyway. after they have communicated that they no longer want to have sex but the man continues anyway. but the man continues anyway. but the man continues anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 02:26 PM
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i knew this was the direction this post was gonna go in :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:48 PM
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nonononno. puberty effects your body, emotional maturity comes much later. it's best staying at 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:47 PM
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probably, but you're wild if you think i'm scrolling through this entire thread to look for it. this is me ending the conversation, just to be really clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:40 PM
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That's a misrepresentation of my views. interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:34 PM
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Spoken like someone who has never rejected a man before. You also 100% advocate for men acting like children. You tell them to push past women saying they're not interested so they can get sex because they want it wahhhhhh!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:28 PM
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If I feel like I don't want to have sex I say I don't want to have sex like.. lol idk dude. If I in anyway add fluff around those words it (EVEN THO I'M STILL 100% SAYING I DON'T WANT TO) it is to soften the blow for the man so he doesn't feel rejected and act like a ... wait for it... child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:24 PM
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You can try to shame me and call me a child as many times as you want (which you have, many times in this thread) but I really can't explain to you any further why "I don't want to" means "I don't want to". Maybe you should ask yourself why women telling you they don't want to have sex with you because... is not clear enough communication for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:11 PM
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It's pretty clear that she doesn't want to if you have a girlfriend. Why would you need more clarification than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:56 PM
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I don't want to means I don't want to, regardless of what excuse is put in there. If a woman is saying I don't want to have sex with you, she's telling you she doesn't want to have sex with you. Dunno how you've manage to twist that in your head to me saying "Don't believe what women say!" but whatev. I've never said "I don't want to" to someone I wanted to sleep with because... I wanted to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:45 PM
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I don't want to seems very clear to me where i stand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:39 PM
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I usually say "I don't want to" before I say those things, and I'm usually asked "Why not?" since I already said I didn't want to and that didn't work, I'll give an excuse so he'll leave me alone and let me leave without making him feel rejected, for many reasons, my safety included.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:37 PM
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As you were saying... You commented you've said words as mere excuses and not because they were reflective of what you truly felt or meant. I honestly didn't think I had to clear this up.. again. But I will. I have told men "I have to get home to my dog so I can't" or "I have my period" when I didn't so I can leave a situation where I was 'expected' to have sex and didn't want to. As I said, I usually say "I don't want to" before I say those things, and I'm usually asked "Why not?" since I alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:28 PM
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You are advocating not taking the words of women literally. I haven't and it's pretty clear that I haven't so I don't know why you are outwardly lying about what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:19 PM
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in an ideal world you would not be advocating treating women like fragile idiots who can't communicate. I'm not and the fact that you can't see the difference between what I'm saying and what you're projecting on to me is pretty annoying. Typical anti-slut defense statements are "will you respect me after this," "are you sure you don't have a gf." Obviously something like "Are you sure you don't have a gf" is not a no or a yes.. it's a question. You said earlier, "We are moving too fast" and to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:11 PM
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You know very well women who are saying those things typically start with "I don't want to" and the man says, "Why not?" and then you drop excuses. They all mean the same thing.. "No, I don't want to." I'm not sure how you twisted that into 'Women don't say what they mean.' when they literally MEAN THE SAME THING. Let's try this a different way. If I say "No" "Nah" or "Nope" am I actually saying something different or am I just saying the same thing 3 different ways. If I say "I don't want to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:04 PM
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I'm not debating that there are that men think like that, I just think those are the men that need to be wary of "MeToo".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:59 PM
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what are you talking about? i'm telling you to listen to EXACTLY what she's saying, you are the one advocating for the opposite and to push past her saying no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:56 PM
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You are trolling, right? yes, he is. his only purpose in the 'pill-o-sphere' is to sell ugly tshirts to dumb people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:49 PM
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I personally think it's bad idea to try and overcome that stuff just because I know I've been in situations where I no longer felt comfortable or just simply did not want to have sex and wanted to get out so I've dropped those excuses so I can leave without hurting their feelings. I would definitely feel pressured if they didn't listen to me and continued to push, luckily that situation hasn't happened though. In an era where young men seem to be terrified of 'false' rape accusations, I'm surpri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:47 PM
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The reward of having sex is greater then the fear of risk. That's really, really sad to me and I really hope you never talk about false rape accusations if this is your attitude about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:37 PM
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I'm glad it worked out for you, but I wouldn't tell dumb incel men to push past LMR when they don't understand how it actually works. You have to be able to read people and while there are definitely times women might hold out because they think it's cute to play hard to get or whatever, there are also many more times when women just don't want to have sex and feel pressured into it by someone who literally cannot take no for an answer. I personally don't see why you would want to risk it, if so…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:35 PM
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It's probably best to just listen to a no and move on, tbh. Why risk it? Idk why people would pretend to not be into it only to be disappointed that it didn't happen but people are fucking weird so it's best to just steer clear of having sex with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:29 PM
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That wasn't my point though. My point was you said "I don't see why the latter (feeling disappointed) is indicative of rape culture." It's not. Feeling it's not okay which could possibly lead to shit like TRPs fav "pushing past LMR" is indicative of rape culture. Even though this study was badly worded, that is obviously what they meant by rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:16 PM
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women typically report "freezing" after they have communicated that they no longer want to have sex but the man continues anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:06 PM
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But it's also OK to feel disappointed if your partner withdraws consent. I don't see why the latter is indicative of rape culture. No one said it is? You said yourself that it was worded badly so don't twist it to fit YOUR narrative. Being disappointed that they withdrew consent and not thinking it is 'ok' and therefore possibly pushing forward after they withdrew consent are two different things. The latter is certainly indicative of what some may call 'rape culture'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:01 PM
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So many Westchester people on here 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 10:26 PM
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idk if this is real or why this is posted in this sub but don't tell her. i wouldn't want to know because then it'd cause unnecessary drama. maybe it was alcohol, but hopefully it was a one time thing. if she tries again, then consider saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 08:54 PM
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Also there's no such thing as a g-spot. u/PennnyLame i think you just got mansplained the vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 08:36 PM
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that's actually probably it. It's likely transplants who come to these cities wanting to live the Sex in the City life. Genuine New Yorkers who have lived here for life are like anyone else and will likely marry someone they met in high school or college just later down the line because careers are necessary here due to high cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 07:21 PM
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then maybe you know unattractive women lol I will say most of my friends are born, raised and will live forever on Long Island and their dating habits are slightly different than my friends who have moved to NYC in their early 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 06:17 PM
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meh, women are mostly high status themselves in NYC so securing a man of equal or higher SMV is not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 06:12 PM
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How old are you? Because all my friends are in relationships but are just unmarried which seems to be the norm for NYC/LI/Westchester at my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 05:59 PM
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It's illogical to think you can invest this much emotion, attention and time into multiple men vs. one man. Even though there are more men so you would think the odds increase, they don't because you are spending less time with each man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:33 PM
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if anything the chances of this happening would be less because you the men are sleeping with become interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:28 PM
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but you still didn't answer her question of where there is evidence of a "carousel". For all we know she slept with one man and she's obsessed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:22 PM
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it does sound like him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:47 PM
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i did enjoy the one that was in every post shaming any sort of anal play, homo or heterosexual. i'll miss him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 02:44 AM
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Yes... it will...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 10:30 AM
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it doesn't matter how many people think he is a shitty person. it should though because he is supposed to represent us as a country. he's a partisan alcoholic who can't keep his emotions in check. that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:43 AM
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i really want to understand this as an ISFP, but i'm having trouble following? could be because i'm tired af so i'll take a look again in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 05:05 AM
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omg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:44 AM
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Anus Hole Sexing would be a pretty good local band name
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:41 AM
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Helloooo, I am also an introverted Leo and also very vain
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:18 AM
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I’m a Leo but MBTI told me I’m an introvert 🤔 I don’t know who to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 02:42 AM
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Compelling argument
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:13 PM
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Even people on shows like “my strange addiction” have partners and they eat the insides of couches and fuck car exhausts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:24 PM
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thank u <3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 08:35 PM
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dweeb
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:55 PM
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i know it's no rules purge week, but i feel like this sub as a whole needs to agree to stop responding to this dweebs posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:54 PM
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I'm with you. You gotta have fun with it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:20 PM
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that notification felt so good, thank you <3 u/ThisIsJustATr1bute
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:01 PM
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same wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:59 PM
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i dont even know what that means but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:49 PM
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ThAtS A BasELeSs AsSuMpTiOn YoU HaVe nO iDeA iF iM A sLuTTtTTt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:47 PM
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I'm not trying to insult you and nowhere did I say you don't have sex. Stop projecting and read. I'm pointing out how your clear (and admitted) hatred of women will effect your relationships with them, sex included, down the line. You're not going to give a woman a good experience in bed if you don't care if she has a good experience in bed. Even if you marry a virgin who dOeSnT kNoW aNy BeTtEr, she will know if she's not enjoying the type of sex you are giving her and will 100% cheat on you. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:32 PM
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Do I really seem upset? Do you actually believe that? Or do you know I'm right and you just don't know what to say? I don't give a shit about your life or what happens to you. I pointed out that you're setting yourself up for failure with women. If you want to laugh that off and call me upset, I don't really care. Just know that anything that happens to you in terms of your relationships with women is entirely your own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:21 PM
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Realistically, you're likely inadequate in bed due to your hatred for women. If you don't care if she enjoys it, she's probably not enjoying it and even if you do marry a virgin, I can guarantee you will not be the only person she sleeps with in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:06 PM
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Ok have fun jackhammering your wife into the bed for 2 minutes before passing out next to her while she reaches for her phone to text her side piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:00 PM
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Why would you want a used hole that will compare you to her multiple previous Chad and Tyrone lovers? Be a good enough lover that she won't compare you to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:56 PM
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yeah, probably. she has a successful career and seems like a really nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:58 PM
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I'm not neglecting that, but her death had a huge impact on him, likely for the reasons you listed. He also blamed the doctors for her death and guess what they were? Jewish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:57 PM
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his mom died before he came to power and her death is actually often listed as one of the reasons for his views. *edit: actually both his parents were dead before he came to power and his dad kinda hated him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:35 PM
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omg no, what are you doing? you're throwing off the timeline!! you have to find a beta bux NOW!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:26 PM
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why do you capitalize words that do not need to be capitalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:21 PM
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"one thing that bothers me is something that never happens and was made up in the head of incels and spread around online through terrible memes creating outrage among people that it would never effect even if it did happen." - PPD during purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:17 PM
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ah, yes, the teenage orgies. i do miss those days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:09 PM
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in what sense can that not happen? if a man feels he was too intoxicated to consent and someone took advantage of him, then he was sexually assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:07 PM
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are we all sad lonely womens who desperately want relationships or are we whores who love fucking chads on the reg because hypergamy or whatever? you can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:04 PM
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this is too cute and wholesome for this dumpster fire post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:01 PM
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No but that’s what it turned into and that’s what you were responding to when calling them “alpha”..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:40 PM
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These men aren’t successful though. I’m not talking about men who approach women, I’m talking about men who shout obscenities, follow and assault women on streets. If you think that’s alpha then we just have very different definitions of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:35 PM
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Living in more dangerous cities has made me feel safer in nyc but sometimes I’m too confident and walkchome drunk and alone when I shouldn’t. I try to always take an Uber at night from the bars even though I live in a really safe neighborhood. There aren’t a lot of street lights near me so I have to be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:33 PM
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By that logic, do you think it’s alpha to beat your wife up too? Or what about parents who murder their children? Or school shooters? Are these alpha traits or the traits of people who are weak and can’t control themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:23 PM
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Trying to intimidate people when they’re vulnerable is not alpha. I can’t think of a more cowardly trait. It has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with weird control shit. Again, not surprised you don’t understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:58 PM
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I wouldn’t consider men who harass women for their attention “alpha”, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:23 PM
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:D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:47 AM
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you've said some dumb things this week, this is probably the dumbest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:42 AM
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yall need to watch "Before the 90 Days" on TLC. Plenty of old dudes going to asian/the carribbean/ brazil to pick up 19 year old women. you can live through the fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:40 AM
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would you rather be Elephant Man in prison, or a prison bitch but ordinarily attractive? this is worthy of it's own purge week post tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:37 AM
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oh man, i read your original comment as serious and not satire. this week has really fucked with my perception of things on the internet omg i also love when men ask where you went to college, or worse, high school. like i'm 28 and it's 2am on a friday in a seedy bar, why are you doing this to me?!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:23 AM
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and i'm always polite! but when men come over and offer i tell them straight up im not interested. if they persist, i'll take it and do the small talk thing then thank them and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:18 AM
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dive on in
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:36 AM
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