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CMVbellsmell83/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:59 AM
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If a girl is more approachable then she is likely to be approached more. Doesn't make her more attractive. Think about what you're asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 10:07 AM
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Unlikely to be many of them, unless the mother has passed away. Single mothers will either be women who got left high and dry, or divorced for some reason. Fathers would be extremely unlikely to get any visiting rights but also don't pay much if anything in child support. Single fathers are probably very rare, as I said only in cases where the mother has died and then my guess is they don't get government support, but the wife's or their own parents take on a very prominent role in raising the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:53 AM
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It could be a cause if you are glued to a screen for several hours a day, chasing a dopamine hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 07:55 AM
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I find that if I watch a lot of freaky porn then I want to do weirder stuff in bed. When I was younger I thought that I just had some fetishes. But after I stopped watching porn for a while then the desire to act out fetishes went away and I was happy with just vanilla sex. This has been a positive overall as when I was heavily into porn I got to a point where I wasn't really into sex unless it was in some way kinky. Which wasn't particularly healthy I think. It can get dull even, and it can be …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 07:49 AM
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It is legal in a number of countries and is more or less legal in America when you consider the grey area of escorting. And it is more or less legal where I live, and I have dabbled, and it is somewhat different to sex in a relationship. I think you represent a mechanical view of men. Going to a prostitute is a release but doesn't satisfy on other levels. It kills the thrill of the chase for starters. You don't get any validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 07:29 AM
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You are right. Normal people do not do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 01:48 PM
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Yeah Roppongi and certain other areas are meat markets. They're known as foreigner areas so the girls that go there by and large are just looking for foreigners. We call them "gaijin hunters". There are quite a lot of them who seem to be down for any white cock after they've had a few drinks. It's fun until you realise they do that every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:11 PM
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muscular might have been what did the U.K. guy in actually. body building is not really big over there yet, so "muscular" gets lumped in with fat, strangely. I live in Japan, and I've heard this before but don't particularly buy it. Plenty of girls like muscles. Perhaps the contrast is though in the UK there are quite a lot of girls who ONLY sleep with muscular guys whereas Japanese girls seem to enjoy lean or skinny too. Also, my default build is chubby. I'm lean at the moment but I've been chu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 12:57 PM
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I live in Japan and the "speaks fluent Japanese" stands out a mile, although getting hit on by convenience store workers is weird and I've never heard of that here before. There are promotions where you can win drinks and snacks in a raffle if you spend a certain amount though it might have been that. I'm not particularly attractive, chubby, speak barely passable Japanese and I pretty much killed it on tinder when I was single here. I'd say doubled my n count in a year. The Japanese is a huge pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 12:50 PM
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Hot and cold, push and pull, dread game, negging, all those theories about “shit testing” and how to successfully reply to it, playing into feelings of jealousy, how to successfully reply to “the talk” so you’ll still get the cooch and how to keep leading her on, ... Just sounds like flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:42 PM
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Many times yeah. As you say it is time efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:13 PM
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But I have dark fantasies involving violence, non consensual sex and humiliation towards women Because you watch too much porn. So how does one cope with these dark fantasies Stop watching porn and get a girlfriend. How would anyone be able to open up about these fantasies with others, especially with women? How could such fantasies impact one's life? Get a girlfriend, a lot of them will probably enjoy your fantasy or at least entertain it. How could such fantasies impact one's life? Getting wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 08:15 AM
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Just dumped my RP boyfriend Sounds like you were being "plated". Sorry about that. RP is about what made you want to accept the situation in the first place with him. It was a useful tool for me to reflect on my love life after a break up. I don't really look at it now, I'm here today cos I'm at the end of a 4 week vacation and I've run out of things to do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 11:00 AM
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Sure, when you pick the challenge and its timing. Otherwise it’s an obstacle. If you are someone who values predictability and a routine then sure this might be true. So basically, it’s a personality trait. You could say this. Negative emotions = excitement only if you’re both neurotic and extroverted. Perhaps, but you have to remember that the lows are balanced by the highs. Some people cant stand the mundane. They know that you have to take the highs and lows together. But I would say that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 09:22 AM
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You asked Men, would you marry below your league if it meant great sex and a happy, loving wife? and I have just been pointing out the flaws with the idea. Ergo, no I wouldn't marry below my league because the chances are the outcome would not as rosey as you suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:10 AM
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Not necessarily, there are good marriages out there. You seem cynical to the point that you dont think there is any such thing as a good marriage at all. Not at all. I think you should go for someone who you find attractive but fits with your values and your lifestyle. Not some lovesick lunatic who blows up your phone. I told you go for someone who is about equal attractiveness, but you said men don't recognise that when it occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:48 AM
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The girl who is gaga over the guy and will do anything for him, is a unicorn. You are talking about a girl who is lovesick or who has a temporary crush. It wouldn't last into a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:32 AM
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All men have that girl Unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:15 AM
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So what you are saying is men think women who are in their league are below them. But they should aim lower than Stacies. So, you are saying that men should aim for women who are actually in their league? Or the ones who are several levels below them and will worship them? Wouldn't they be fucking ugly if they are several leagues below Mr Average? Probably the good advice then is not to think in terms of leagues at all. If you feel like you should marry someone much better than you or worse than…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:25 AM
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What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:09 AM
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Why not marry one who is within your league?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:25 AM
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I've seen that too. Your unicorn is the one BELOW your league. I highly doubt that that kinda move would solve all your problems. Your best bet is not to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:00 AM
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Oh you mean they married women out of their leagues? I thought you meant the opposite that they had married down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:34 AM
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except I've seen this scenario play out irl many many times No you haven't. You have seen girls who you think are below guys' leagues and you have hamstered the scenario in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:47 AM
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Stop marrying above your league. Marry the girl that is obsessed with you, the one that thinks you walk on water, that's the girl that will fuck you like a rockstar and make you a sandwich when ur done You are off in fantasy land here and at heart you believe in unicorns. By definition if you marry someone then they are within your league somehow. If a guy marries a woman then chances are she no longer needs to feel worried about the competition. Once a women locks a guy down, she no longer feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:40 AM
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Because if you aren't a snowflake wrapped in cotton wool then a bit of a challenge can be fun. And you can learn about yourself. Why would people enjoy the experience of meeting with someone with the intent of having fun, and instead of fun getting a bunch of negative emotions? Negative emotions = excitement. People want to feel something. Have you ever felt a crushing rejection, only to have it turn into an acceptance shortly afterwards? That gives you a buzz. What about this disappointing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 12:57 AM
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Well she has made £800 out of it so far, so I guess she is having the last laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 07:46 AM
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