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A lot of porn for men ranges from lowkey to straight up violent and degrading
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:15 AM
15

Never once watched that or got aroused by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:14 AM
3

It’s like watching a toddler throw a tantrum
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:29 PM
1

No, that’s not right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:01 PM
3

He got in incredible shape. He got a little acne though from the gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:41 AM
1

it's also natural for an average male to become violent and lash out at society for being unable to reproduce. Per Oscar Wilde: Sometimes the best thing a man can do for the world is leave it These men don’t really want sympathy. They want their privilege and entitlement back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:33 AM
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Then by that logic, the African Americans who were freed from slavery should’ve shown sympathy to their owners who became slaveless and lost their workers/properties. Their gain was the slave owner’s loss. Or you can just call me a bad person. In that case, sow the wind, reap the whirlwind of fascism. I haven’t said one thing about you or made any personal implications throughout this whole exchange, so a weird conclusion for you to jump to. Also haven’t shamed anyone. I’m simply just speaking o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:33 AM
1

I should feel sympathy that men are no longer essentially guaranteed a wife now that women’s rights, freedom, and autonomy are no longer being curtailed? Is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:21 AM
3

What we’re seeing today is the result of this. When women have autonomy, freedom, and are no longer forced to be dependent on men, we see a lot more men not being chosen and left behind. Men don’t like this. It makes them angry and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:03 AM
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Because a handful of women are both dumb and lazy as fuck. They go on tiktok and see romanticized ‘day in the life’ of a stay at home mom that doesn’t work and just bakes sourdough all day at home. Traditionalism has been repackaged in an aesthetic way online, some women see this and go “Wtf? I don’t want to work a job! I wanna stay home and be taken care of!” and tbh, who doesn’t? But anyone with half a brain can clearly see this is actually a shit deal irl and never looks as amazing and fun an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:03 PM
1

I really like when they’re tall, muscular, and handsome ❤️ candy for the eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:15 PM
1

Some of yall need to accept you’re dying alone because you’re undesirable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:44 PM
5

They always seem to leave this part out. Women are realizing marriage isn’t all its cracked up to be and is more beneficial for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:03 PM
10

Or, what if you guys went outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:21 AM
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Why are some choices defended as “just preferences” when they clearly have social consequences? The social consequence is what? Guys who don’t meet the standards can’t get their dick wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:30 AM
1

for example, theorhetically i like men… they are just so disappointing irl Fr most of them are so fucking boring and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:26 PM
0

Come back to reality man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:16 PM
7

I like sex with hot men. The mental stimulation of knowing a hot guy is deep in my guts is why I go to 6am pilates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:09 PM
1

girl get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:05 PM
3

Then why are you still a virgin in your late 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:03 PM
3

I wouldn’t fuck you Clearly the issue here is no one wants to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:59 PM
4

Then why are you still a virgin in your late 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:45 PM
3

me when i lie
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:44 PM
6

Do you think desirable men that women want to fuck stay virgins until their late 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:47 AM
2

Talent and competence is hot af. I don’t think Paddy Pimblett is objectively hot but his confidence and watching him dominate other men makes me want to get on my knees
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:34 AM
11

Yeah because it means you’re undesirable af Who wants to get with an undesirable man?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:31 AM
6

Men get ridiculed for taking pedophilia seriously? Can the men here ever be honest? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:24 AM
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I never said it’s reasonable or unreasonable. As I already said earlier, I understand the frustration and jealousy. I’m saying they don’t need to hide it under the guise of moral superiority when it’s clearly not about morals. Men don’t need to lie and pretend they are above the situation when the reality is they desperately wish they could partake. And yes, we can absolutely assume that if men had the opportunity to have sex with more partners and attractive women, the majority would take it. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:58 AM
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That’s not true. When female teachers are caught with male students, its usually women rushing to get her fired and protect the children. Men are just making jokes about how they wish it was them or if a teacher came onto them they’d never snitch. It’s not women making those jokes. Men are the first ones to not to take male SA seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:36 AM
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Even though I’m mean, I hate rejecting men. It feels awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:52 PM
2

Extremely rare. Most men boring af
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:51 PM
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Of course it matters. But it only matters if you aren’t hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:44 PM
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You’re welcome ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:23 PM
2

True, because he is hot. Most men aren’t hot so you better have $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:20 PM
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Women who hookup up are shallow and mean of course, because they don’t hookup with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:12 PM
3

Nope, it’s bitterness. If given the same opportunity, men would do the same if not ‘worse’. Don’t hate me because you can’t get in the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:06 PM
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For a man, being broke is uglier than being ugly. edit: unless you’re chad, then you can do no wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:03 PM
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Sure, I understand the frustration and jealousy. What I’m saying is they don’t need to lie about it and act like its about morals when it’s clearly not. It’s about being bitter because they can’t do it too, but if they could, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:24 AM
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I think that’s totally fair. If I was a man, I’d probably feel similarly to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:35 AM
0

Didn’t he run someone over and then hoped he killed him? Whatever happened after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:26 AM
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No thanks. This is the best time in history to be a woman. Women of the past could only dream of having this much freedom and agency. I’m going to enjoy it until I’m 6ft under.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:47 AM
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If he’s cute then yes I don’t mind a cold approach If he’s ugly then my day is ruined 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:00 AM
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This. Is. So. Badass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:38 PM
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Whatever alternate reality you’re living, I’m jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:01 PM
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How much of it is just genuine jealousy? If men had the opportunity to fuck women way hotter than themselves and then the option to settle down later with a looksmatch…they’d absolutely take it It’s not an option for the average man, only for women. Hating from outside the club because you can’t get in. If it was truly about morals, then men wouldn’t do it themselves if they had the chance. And that’s what it boils down to, they’re bitter they don’t get to do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:59 PM
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You didn’t know looks mattered? Did the cheerleaders date the ugly nerds or hot jocks? Do women gush over Captain America or Mr. Bean? You really didn’t know? Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:52 PM
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I think you need to tell your fellow men that, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:19 PM
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The men here seriously must live under rocks or be basement dwellers. They think “looks matter” and “hurtful insults” are revelations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:16 PM
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Gotcha, you can’t elaborate nor provide examples. Thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:12 PM
2

I prefer honesty to stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:11 PM
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That would get rid of 75% of the posts on here written by men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:01 AM
3

So? I’m me and not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:27 AM
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Because I am a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:08 AM
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Millennial and Gen Z men were taught by their feminist mothers and teachers to revere women and always prioritize their issues above all. Really? How do you know? Can you be more specific? Seems like something you just made up tbh I don’t see millennial or gen z men worshipping women nor prioritizing women’s issues. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:07 AM
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I will infinitely care way more about women than I do men. But even then, its not like i’m actually doing much. Feeling empathy is just that, a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:46 AM
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And yet men who don't feel special empathy for women are regarded as immoral people. Where and how? Most men do not feel any particular empathy for women, most men argue all the time women are privileged and have it easier. It’s a pretty common talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:45 AM
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If you showed me a lonely depressed sad man, and asked me if I feel bad for him, I’d say yeah. And that’s about the extent of it. I would never think about him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:53 AM
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Ok yes then I absolutely agree with you there. And its not just chad, its attractive people. Hot men and women get away with being terrible or doing bad things simply because they are hot. Halo effect is very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:49 PM
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The women and men I know and am friends with tend to have healthy clean diets. But then again, we are all young, fit, and active people without kids. I don’t have qualms about other women being fat, if anything it helps me. But yeah, it’s not just women. I’m appalled so many men haven’t eaten a veg in years or are constantly heating high processed foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:53 PM
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No its not. I love how the men here cry all day about women needing to be honest and yet the men here can never be honest about themselves or their own group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:45 PM
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I think few of the advice is good but instead of weaponizing it they doormat it. Staying attractive, understanding how to play with men, being feminine, seducing him, etc are all skills that can help women get the upper hand in relationships. But from my understanding, a lot of these women are lazy af and want to quit work + be with a trad man that takes care of her so she can stay home. I just cannot wrap my head around this, I’d never put myself at a man’s mercy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:43 PM
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Everybody lies and gaslights, its hardly a man vs woman issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:30 PM
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Nope, Chad absolutely does not see himself as The Joker lmao. The Joker type of guys are the losers who feel “wronged” by society/women so now they’re going to behave in a way to wrong society/women back. It’s a lame revenge fantasy. Chad doesn’t have revenge fantasies because like you said, he gets women no problem. No need for “revenge” when you get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:01 AM
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Should I lie and gaslight instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:43 AM
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It makes sense men are insecure about height and dick size because those are things women obviously care about. If it truly didn’t matter, short jokes and small dick jokes wouldn’t be the first thing people resort to when trying to insult men. We wouldn’t have positive sayings like Big Dick Energy if being big wasn’t clearly a good thing. I won’t gaslight you. Size matters, but how much it matters does vary between women. Also, most women’s measurements are off. They’ll throw out “6 inches” but …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:30 AM
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They seek validation from other men by having sex with women. Men love male validation more than women do lol Impressing the boys and feeling like The Man in front of them gets men going
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:29 PM
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Oh my god some of the posts on this sub are so fucking cringe it hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:59 AM
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Yeah it’s a reasonable expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:52 AM
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At least 6 inches. When its small its SO disappointing and I’m really bad at hiding that look on my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:52 PM
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Damn he’s ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:51 PM
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If you get it, you get it. If you don’t then you don’t then you don’t. Most men just don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:49 PM
8

Asiamax bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:36 AM
11

Russian and Chinese men kinda hot tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:13 AM
2

Ohh gotcha ok. The biggest one is that he is simply just physically attractive and masculine (tall, clearly goes to the gym & is muscular, good face, strong jaw, nice voice, smells good and dresses well). The next big thing is, he has confidence and game. He knows how to banter and flirt, he is able to play with me and actually keep up. He knows how to tease without doing too much or too little. He’s very socially adept and knows how and when to escalate things. Basically, an attractive masculin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:28 AM
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Sure, I mean they make me feel excited. Excitement means looking at him and being around him makes my pussy throb. When I’m around him, I feel like the girl in this gif: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:04 AM
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Below average men here always project their woes onto actually average men so they can feel better about themselves and less lonely in their struggles. No, the average guy isn’t a NEET loser. Go outside and most average dudes are in relationships/marriages. It’s the men at the bottom of the totem pole who are getting nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:50 AM
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This is why men curtailed women’s rights, autonomy, and freedom. It was better for men when women had little agency, were dependent on men, and had it drilled into their heads being someone’s wife and mother is the greatest female achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:46 AM
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Out of curiosity, what is his money for? Is it to provide a sense of safety, stability, comfort? Precisely. Men optimize for beauty/sex/peace and I’m not afraid to admit I optimize for resources/effort/safety. Men aren’t spending and giving to me out of the kindness of their own hearts, they’re doing it because they value what I give back in exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:37 PM
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Agreed. People just like to pretend they aren’t selfish, which in a way is very self serving in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:54 PM
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I’m honest and upfront with who I am and what I want. Men are more than welcome to not engage, walk away, or leave me. Surprisingly, they almost never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:28 PM
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Of course. I’m just cognizant and honest about it. It’s not like men are helpless selfless animals. Men want things from women too: sex, access, status, mother to his kids, homemaker that cooks and cleans, etc. I’m just not afraid to be honest about what I want out of men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:19 PM
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No, I think men are great and I’ve had pretty much only good experiences with them. I just prefer myself and money over men any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:51 PM
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I file men into two categories. They either provide excitement and fun or finances and support. If a man isn’t offering either then what good is he to me? Like I said, I’m selfish and self serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:41 PM
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Sorry to hear that I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:24 AM
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Sex is riskier for women because we are the ones who get pregnant, not men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:17 AM
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If you want honesty, I’ll give it to you. Sex is risky and there’s a good chance as a woman the guy won’t even make you cum. I’m generally not interested in casual sex but the few times I’ve done it has only been with obviously attractive men. Why would I do it with average men? Average guy doesn’t get me viscerally excited so he gets excluded here. In terms of dating I care a lot about how much money he makes and how generous he is. Looks still matter, he can’t be an uggo, but I lower the looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:42 AM
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didn’t ask
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:00 AM
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They are allergic to accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:22 AM
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6’4
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:55 AM
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You missed the point. Your post is akin to denying African Americans were ever slaves. You are literally describing yourself in your own explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:01 PM
1

Your ex was dumb. Gotta strike that balance and sell him the fantasy so you can get what you want out of him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:15 PM
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What’s next? African Americans were never actually slaves?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:13 PM
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I should be empathetic to men purposefully lying and deceiving people so they can get sex? No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:28 PM
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I feel like only losers who see themselves as ‘The Joker’ type of guy say corny shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:07 PM
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Your ascended flair is perf for this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:53 PM
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gloomstalker ranger / fighter >
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:11 AM
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It’s of no interest to me unless the guy is hot and tolerable and I’m bored enough for it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:04 AM
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Glad you agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:00 PM
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Yup yup yup men treat you the best when they know they can lose you at any second when men know they have you in the bag, they stop caring and put in zero effort
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:11 PM
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Approaching a man doesn’t put me at a disadvantage. If anything, approaching a man is a near guarantee for me. I just don’t have to do it. If women not approaching is your biggest grievance with “equality” then I’m so jealous of your privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:09 PM
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Unpopular opinion, but some definitely want to date married men. There are absolutely some women out there who love going after taken men. We’ve all met an Ariana Grande type irl at one point or another. Usually these women are weird and extremely low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:04 PM
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Resist? Of course not. My silly woman brain would be so enamored by his high status that I’d commit genocide Eren Jaeger style if he asked me to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:12 AM
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What do you think should be done then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:09 AM
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Yes if he’s hot and sexy No if he’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:54 AM
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If women approached you irl, regularly slid in your dms, and matched you by the 100s online…why would you need to approach when you don’t have to or want to? Not my fault men make it so easy that all I have to do is sit back and take my pick of the litter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:44 AM
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I would rather suck a cold piece of dogshit through a wool sock than be a man’s mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:38 AM
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r/asablackman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:13 PM
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because i’m god’s favorite princess and the most interesting girl in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:17 AM
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The only options are: Force women against their will to give sex and relationships to these men Find meaning outside of relationships and try to make peace with it SEAmax / Prostitution / Sex Doll LDAR
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:45 AM
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I won’t approach men for the sole reason I literally don’t have to. There is no desire or incentive for me to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:45 AM
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This genuinely gets under my skin because... you've talked to all men? This part is funny because you dislike when women treat men like a monolith but this whole post is treating women like a monolith Your beef seems to be with girls on social media complaining about dating. Maybe stop consuming so much online content because it is very clearly upsetting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:29 PM
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Men are kinda egomaniacs. It all boils down to their ego at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:11 PM
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Men are ruled by their dicks. If you understand it you can get a lot out of them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:44 PM
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I think it’s pretty obvious from my comment history I am very much a woman But you’re like the third guy on PPD to say this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:26 PM
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Personally, if he isn’t hot his wallet can make up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:14 PM
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Men can’t go to the gym for face and height unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:26 PM
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I only demand money and resources from men, not empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:11 PM
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Why do people on this sub not understand nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:10 PM
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Life is so much better when you can take cheeky jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:57 PM
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I’d blow him right then and there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:19 PM
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You could do the right thing and let these men hit for free 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:51 PM
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Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:30 PM
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Yes, I give you special permission on behalf of all wahmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:02 AM
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No, that’s not right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:28 AM
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This shouldn’t be a revelation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:27 AM
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Do fat ugly women become sexy just because they’re good people? If you want people to respond viscerally to you then you need to be viscerally appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:55 AM
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They want women to be uptight prudes to other men, but sex crazed porn stars who bust it open on the first night only for him. AKA these men want to be the special exception, unfortunately that’s typically only reserved for the attractive tall good looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:53 AM
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His response doubling down has me cackling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:28 AM
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If you think women aren’t sexualized more in mainstream culture, then I’m genuinely jealous of the alternate universe you live in. The sexual objectification of women in media is one of the most studied topics in gender and communication research, and you can see it in everything from commercials to billboards to music videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:10 AM
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have you tried asking white women to show bobs and vagene?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:08 AM
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I read an interesting theory that women are sexualized so heavily in mainstream culture that the female body becomes the default symbol of “sexiness” in people’s minds. Since women grow up consuming the same imagery, like half-naked women in ads, music videos, billboards, and social media, they can internalize that lens too. That might explain why women often sexualize themselves and may even find other women aesthetically or erotically compelling. It does not necessarily change someone’s sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:03 AM
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I’m childless and in my early 20s but perhaps another try and you might get something to land
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:51 PM
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Absent fathers are just a “trope”. Also, never mind that it takes two to make a baby. Women are simply just stupid and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:06 PM
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Men’s mouth foaming hate for single mothers will never not be funny as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:05 PM
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Most men just aren’t viscerally attractive enough for that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:15 PM
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Oh my god these men actually think this and walk among us 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:13 PM
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The guy had a grenade
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:50 AM
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But I also love my boyfriend. He adds a lot to my life. Enough that I gave up some of my precious free time to enter in a relationship with him. I know a lot of women who aren’t dating simply because they have a really fulfilling life as single people. You should reread the thread more carefully. You should also understand that having the confidence to be happy on your own does not mean you reject relationships, it means you are comfortable and content being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:48 AM
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Duh that’s my man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:45 AM
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That’s not what she said at all though. Nobody said that. You made that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:43 AM
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If my bf did what that guy did I’d instantly break up and fuck one of his homies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:42 AM
1

That makes it even colder tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:35 AM
2

That’s what you got from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:34 AM
1

Cold world innit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:51 AM
1

Not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:44 AM
1

Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:18 AM
4

When you reach this level of peace and security in yourself, a lot of insecure people will take it directly as a threat because it forces them to confront the fact they could never be happy and secure within themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:07 AM
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I bet this part hit home for you: “You can choose a man who isn't wealthy, or isn't tall, or isn't good looking”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:54 AM
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Mkay if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:52 AM
5

This image has me cackling, I just know a man angrily made it somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:53 AM
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Define highly wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:51 AM
4

No, I’m blessed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:39 PM
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Personally, I’ve never experienced this. Any time I’ve been on a date the man definitely asked me questions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:50 PM
15

Money matters to me. I would never date a broke struggling man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:58 PM
10

Literally just lick and rub my clit in tight circles that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:03 PM
1

My direct coworker 😭 never again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:59 PM
52

Yes and then I would manically evil laugh every time my husband picked up the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:14 PM
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True! Women put in absolutely zero effort into relationships yup that sounds right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:52 PM
4

On ig. We dated, broke up but on cordial terms & stayed friendly, then had sex as exes. The others I had sex not as exes but as exclusive partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:06 PM
1

No thats not right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:05 PM
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Right? Women should be obligated to sleep with any man that makes even a sliver of effort for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:04 PM
0

100k is impressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:49 AM
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I’ve never done that. My ex had a relationship like that right before me though. He met a girl at a friend’s party, she found his social media and reached out to him. She asked him to lunch and regularly kept pursuing him. He told me he didn’t find her that attractive but wanted to give her a chance. She bought him an apple laptop and regularly made him little gifts (cards, drawings, knicks knacks, etc). They dated for 8 months before he dumped her. Meanwhile I ignored my ex for the first few we…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:06 AM
13

OLD work school school ex that i met on IG
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:58 PM
18

Genuinely asking but why do you care so deeply about this random woman on reddit? You made a post about it almost 10 days ago and it’s still on your mind that you made another one today? Is she lying about her personal irl experiences? How would we know???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:55 PM
1

You need to be as attractive as you can possibly get, learn how to read men so you can sell them a fantasy, behave in an enticing way to hook them, profit+ My last ex paid for all my expenses and I got to pocket my paycheck from work directly. I saved 90k in less than a year. I miss him bad 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 10:30 PM
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OP asserts men misunderstand women. He claims women are like cats, not like dogs, and men should stop expecting women to behave like dogs. The reason men in the first place want women to behave like dogs, is because they have seen with their own eyes how women behave for attractive and desirable men. But women stop behaving that way, and behave more like a cat the less physically attracted she is to the man. When men point this out, they aren’t misunderstanding anything. They are lamenting the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:21 AM
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Notice how Chad doesn’t have to pretend to be mysterious because women are already interested in him as is. Average and below average men have to use additional tactics to attract women. These men are not given the same easy privileges as good looking men. The men who point this out aren’t wrong. They aren’t misunderstanding anything like your title suggests. They see it clearly: the better looking you are, the better you will be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:05 AM
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No, I’m saying the men here are not incorrect when they note that women behave differently and treat desirable men much more favorably than they would an average or undesirable man. I do this myself, as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:53 AM
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I have bad news for you if you think I’m the only woman to behave like this lol I’m just more cognizant and honest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:48 AM
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Chasing women doesn't work, because their behavior and nature is more akin to cats. If you give them space and don't pay attention to them, they will get curious. This never once happened to me as a woman. If a man didn’t pursue me at all and just waited around for me to get curious, nothing would happen. An ugly truth: I’m a cat for majority of men, but I happily act like a dog for the right one (chad)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:42 AM
4

That isn’t humiliating. What’s humiliating and dehumanizing is changing your last name because you are no longer your father’s property but your husband’s property now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:22 PM
1

Men kneel because they’re proposing to the pussy, not the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:18 PM
3

Why do you write like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:17 PM
5

Where do you draw the line at “visual access”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 04:51 PM
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but somhow you think you can give advice or talk on it? Do you know how conversations work? She didn’t say that. No one has said this yet you keep repeating it as if the women here actively think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:59 AM
0

Are you okay? You seem a bit emotional about this and you’re not making any logical sense friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:53 AM
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I’ve never had an involuntary dry streak. I’ve only ever had dry streaks where I actively chose it and avoid dating on my own volition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:26 AM
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Am I supposed to control what other women complain about? If you have an issue with women complaining about chad pumping and dumping them , you should take it up with THOSE women. Not me, a woman who doesn’t have any qualms about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:22 AM
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Exactly, I couldn’t care less about all the easy sex I can get, I care about all the coin I can finesse. I seriously love men, they’ve paid for so much of my life without even realizing it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:17 AM
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Yes, I agree. Unfortunately, it’s not the gotcha you were hoping for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:19 PM
1

I’m not. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:19 PM
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EWWWWWW AGAIN?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:06 PM
1

Don’t bother. It’s clear he is not capable of arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:01 PM
1

If that’s what some attractive men decide to do, why would that bother me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:00 PM
0

Being purposefully obtuse isn’t a good argument
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:59 PM
3

Sure…I’ll just trust you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:12 AM
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Women initiate most divorces and settle for joint custody. So getting rid of the useless husband and mandating him some legal responsibility over the children results in women getting happier and skinnier. Happy for em
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:59 AM
1

But as a woman I don’t need to approach men. Between DMs, irl, and OLD, men approach me and I get my pick of the litter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:36 AM
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I noticed that if the father is present and actually helpful with the family, the mother is usually less stressed and fat. Whenever I see obese unkempt mothers, they are almost always overworked (full time job, main parent, spouse does not offer much support in the home) poor / not financially stable new mothers still learning to juggle the stress that is children When women have helpful partners and genuine assistance, they usually skew less fat and stressed. They don’t say “it takes a village”…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:35 PM
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Another day, another loaded vent post with a rhetorical question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:39 PM
2

No joke, I’d rather shove 100 toothpicks up my nails than ever propose to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:56 AM
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Redpill, MGTOW, and similar ideologies completely lost their plots. OG redpill was less about whining and more about taking action and accountability. It pushed men to workout, develop life skills, increase their wealth & health, etc. It also seemed less crybay about women and more focused on analyzing female behavior for what it is. Now redpill is such a joke. It got too bitter and lost frame. The focus shifted away from helping men to blaming, hating, and shaming women. Ragebait content gets t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:53 AM
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You’re using the naturalistic fallacy and falsely applying it. None of your comparisons are good by the way. Males have more testosterone and a stronger sex drive. Females carry all the risk of pregnancy and birth. That’s literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:11 AM
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Men are welcome to stop pursuing women. No one is forcing men to chase. But you guys do because it’s biological. This is why we observe it nearly in all species. Males biologically have more testosterone, higher sex drives, and strong desires to spread their seed. Females carry all the risk of pregnancy, childbirth, and get the responsibility of raising the kid. So if women have less desire and more risk, why would they want to make it even easier for men by chasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:41 PM
4

Has this been your experience OP? Women aren’t interested in you unless you’re offering money?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:54 PM
6

Thanks to me, my closest male friend got his dick sucked and rubbed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:34 AM
1

Then why do so many men still complain and cry and rage about being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:35 AM
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The fact that myself and nearly every female I know has a story of being harassed by grown men as children is so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:33 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:13 AM
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Girl is only an easy pick me for chad, not for men in general. Boy is a sensitive simp for decent tier becky. Boy simps for girl. Girl enjoys the attention until Chad comes back around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:37 AM
1

Ok, then move past your sexual urges. Make the choice to never be horny and avoid your animal urges. Is it easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:34 AM
1

Exactly. Most of the men here are obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:39 PM
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True, the top dominant males kill the weak males and get to mate with the females.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:55 PM
1

It really is simple and yet you can’t grasp it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:20 PM
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Right, and I’m saying your assessment is poor. Its not as simple as “not following other animals”, because you would be fighting against biological programming and testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:14 PM
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Good luck, you’d be fighting against male biology and testosterone, the main ingredient that makes men hornier and desperate for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:06 PM
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You don’t have to demonize women to feel entitlement though. Their number one talking point is how they feel “lied to”. They thought if they were nice and got a job, that would result in a gf/wife. What diverges is how they respond to this. Some quietly accept their entitlement is a farcry of the past, others kick and scream about it. But it boils down to the same point, men expect access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:06 PM
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I don’t know how else to say that these men feel entitled to women. Specifically, they see how previous generations of men just needed a job and majority of men were guaranteed a wife. This isn’t the case anymore. Having a lot of leftover undesirable men isn’t good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:41 PM
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I am pointing out the current reality for modern men. People are pairing up less, men are complaining more, and having an excess of angry undesirable expendable men is rarely good for anyone in society. Why is pointing this out seen as offensive or a slight? Is it not an issue…?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:38 PM
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Mostly other women, and they are usually more vocal about that. Can you be more specific? Give some examples? You said there are loads of examples but I’d like to see some. I’ve never seen a woman calling this behavior endearing or cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:55 PM
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In pretty much every species, a large portion of males go their entire lives never mating. The problem now is that we have an excess of expendable undesirable men in society who believe they are owed access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:51 PM
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Biology mostly. If a male wants the chance to mate, he needs to perform or provide. This is true in nearly every single species, especially mammals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:44 PM
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Absolutely. It is your responsibility to determine what behavior you will and will not accept. I think your example is unrealistic and extreme, but I absolutely roll my eyes at the women who complain about men doing X,Y,Z then continue dating/fucking these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:25 PM
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Who finds it cute and endearing? If men find the behavior cute & endearing and they actively tolerate the behavior from women…what can be expected?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:56 AM
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This doesn’t seem like a genuine question, more like a rant/vent post under the guise of a Q4W. I can apply this same logic back to men. There is literally an over abundance of men saying women are shallow, cruel, inferior, stupid, and nothing more than warm holes. I see men happily laugh that a woman’s purpose is found between her legs. Men chuckle that a woman’s value goes up in smoke the second she stops being young and hot. Why would I think men like women? Well, when I go outside and intera…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:53 AM
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Men want to be desired. We want to know that you're with us because you can't keep your hands off us, not because we finally checked enough boxes to be "granted access." Chad only
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:33 AM
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Elites don’t want it to end. So much easier to control the masses when they’re too busy being stupid and angry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:38 PM
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But I don’t agree. I think it is worse when someone doesn’t care about a group they personally belong to. And if enough people in a group don’t care about themselves or the group…why would anyone else? If men want people to take male issues seriously, then men need to take them seriously first. If women constantly downplayed rape and made jokes about it, I couldn’t really blame men for not taking it seriously either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:19 PM
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That’s a fair assessment. But I think my assessment is fair too. Society as a whole doesn’t care about men, and if men want this to change, they need to be the ones to spearhead this change. Look at women and african americans in the US before given rights…these groups didn’t just lay down and cry, they got up and made sure their group got the change they demanded
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:09 PM
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No, I agreed that women don’t care about men. But the issue goes so much deeper than “women are mean and don’t care about men”. Because it’s not just women, it’s men and society as a whole. Men are pigeonholed into this position in society where they are rarely acknowledged as victims, and if they are, it’s usually seen as weak or a bad thing. If we cannot even call this out, how can we ever begin to address it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:01 PM
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Paragraph breaks pleaseeee It’s moreso that society doesn’t see men as victims and doesn’t really care about men. Because I don’t think it’s just women, even men won’t see other men as victims. Any time I see a horrible report of an adult female teacher getting with a student—without fail—men are in the comments joking about how the male student is so lucky or they wished it was them. Men don’t take male rape seriously, ESPECIALLY if its male on male, it makes a lot of men extremely uncomfortabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:13 PM
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Right…the man has to be attractive enough (hot enough, viscerally) for her to accept and then make the move of texting him first. Most men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:05 PM
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Might just be you and other men of your ilk, my male friends are well liked and have just as many friends as me if not more tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:55 PM
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The better question is, why do you tolerate it? Why do you keep finding yourself in this situation multiple times if you clearly don’t like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:53 PM
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This only really works if you’re a hot dude tbh. And most men aren’t hot enough to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:51 PM
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When he can’t read social cues or body language. It makes him somewhat repulsive to me and I get creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:57 PM
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Trying to rationalize a complete stranger telling you ‘I know where you live’ is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:55 PM
3

I wouldn’t want him to die for me unless we’re married and the will is already written in my name
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:49 PM
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I have no issues with men approaching me at any time (gym, bar, on the street, etc). I take issue if he goes about it in a rude, weird, or aggressive way (only happened a few times, most men are cool and respectful). Attractiveness matters infinitely more than location. If I find the guy cute, the interaction becomes exciting and fun to me. I make it obvious I’m receptive. If I find the guy unattractive, I do what I can to quickly end the interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:07 PM
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This is so sad. Some of you guys are cooked af
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:02 PM
3

How so? Its blackpill imo, bro is too ugly to get girls so he has to entice them with resources
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:00 PM
2

Really? Men still cold approach me IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:49 PM
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It’s genuinely concerning how many men and women are getting poisoned by the gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:09 AM
1

Is the word “disappointing” too harsh? How do you survive in the real world? Also don’t worry, I’d say this in person with my chest too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:54 PM
3

Guess I’m a really selfish woman then 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:53 PM
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Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. You’re a stupid cruel bitch if you behave this way and you just want to be mean to men. But if something bad happens to a woman, well it’s her fault. What was she wearing? What was she doing? Why was she there and not at home? She shouldn’t have been so dumb and got what she deserved lowkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:11 AM
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No, like I said earlier, I am not unaware of the risks, I am simply comfortable with them. And you’re still conflating everything. Being on the fence about marriage doesn’t mean I reject long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:34 PM
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You’re still conflating not getting married with loneliness and isolation. Again, I don’t reject relationships. I just don’t choose them based off of need but desire and want instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:25 PM
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You’re mistaken. I am not unaware of the tradeoffs, I am simply just comfortable with them. Getting married to a man isn’t my main goal or the center of my life. I don’t believe partnership should be chosen primarily to avoid loneliness or potential regret. I’d rather choose it because it feels genuinely right. That doesn’t mean I reject relationships, it just means I’m not willing to center fear in my decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:03 PM
7

You promise?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:44 PM
6

Exhibit B
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:40 PM
13

Exhibit A of men rushing to shame me, insult me, or tell me I’ll die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:40 PM
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You’re conflating “I feel whatever about marriage” with “I never want relationships or care about them”. I never said I don’t care about relationships, I said I’m indifferent to marriage. So many people feel like they HAVE to get married that they end up marrying whoever is okay enough. I do not view marriage like this. I do not feel like I HAVE to get married or else. In order for me to go for marriage, I’d need to meet a man that makes me say “holy shit I WANT to marry you”. I will never say “…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:36 PM
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I’m a young woman with zero interest in having kids and I’m pretty whatever about marriage. Interestingly, whenever I say this, it’s usually men trying to shame me or calling me names or telling me I’ll die alone full of regret and bitterness and 50 cats. And that’s just fine by me. I would rather regret never having kids/marriage than regret having them. I’d rather make my own life decisions based on myself instead of the fear-mongering and strong arming of others. edit: Without fail my comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:29 AM
2

Oh yeah I meant that more tongue in cheek / joking exaggeration but I see how you interpreted it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:51 PM
2

Average men as a group didn’t magically become attractive to me even during nofap, I still wasn’t viscerally attracted to them, a few just looked a bit better or maybe I noticed some of them a bit more but that was it. The ones I really thirsted after were the ones I wanted even before nofap, the better looking fit men (guys at the gym). My attraction to them increased tenfold. My ability to notice average men increased as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:47 PM
2

Where did I say its good or bad? I just talked about it clinically as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:42 PM
1

Where did I say its good?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:32 PM
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Women like muscles but not bodybuilders is some amazing revelation to men? Men without muscles are just disappointing, you got all that testosterone and disposition for muscle growth and there’s just nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:30 PM
1

Why would I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:08 PM
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They weren’t attractive they just looked a bit better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:01 PM
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This sub is becoming a male whining sub. The incessant whining is such a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:41 AM
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No, I’m not saying yours is false. I’m saying it is a very poor equivalent in this instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:06 PM
1

Where are all the women demanding average men must be in relationships with them? Where are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:41 PM
1

Then why is it only men saying this? Women do not demand average men must be in relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:31 PM
13

An orgasm just by itself isn’t some magical highly emotional bonding thing that makes women crazy and imprint on you like an animal. An orgasm can feel emotional or bonding when I’m already bonded and have emotions for the person I’m bumping uglies with. The best is when a guy gives you the wombo combo of hitting it and rubbing it 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:05 PM
2

Why should men be guaranteed relationships just for being average? That screams male entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:37 PM
2

That’s not what I said at all. I said my friend asked me to do nofap for one month. The one month eventually ended. No way you somehow comprehended that from what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:34 PM
2

He is one of those insecure men lets be real
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:30 AM
1

Where did I say that?? Where did anyone say that??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:29 AM
1

Where at all do I say I don’t date real men and am dependent on porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:26 AM
1

No I think that’s wrong too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:34 AM
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You should ask the people who say that and believe that instead of the people who don’t say that nor believe it. That makes more logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:39 PM
4

I wouldn’t respond
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:24 AM
3

Oh same I’m a huge creep but having no outlets made it bubble under the surface until it was boiling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:37 AM
3

Omg when I finally started masturbating again I nearly rubbed my fingerprints off. Had to make up for lost time. I just went back to ‘normal’, didn’t really notice men around me anymore, seeing hot buff guys at the gym wasn’t as tantalizing or special, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:33 AM
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Nothing about being content, confident, and choosing yourself is masculine tbh. I personally find that insecure men or men who seek control (for example, men who want women to be submissive, subservient, agreeable) will not like these types of women because these women are not easily controlled, manipulated, or rattled. And tbh, these are the types of men women should avoid anyway, which is why I stated earlier this works as a great way to filter out men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:24 AM
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As I said before, my perspective is less about finding men and more about filtering them. A lot of people confuse independence or decentering men with avoiding or hating them. That’s not what it is at all. When someone genuinely loves and respects themselves, they move on a different wavelength. They don’t tolerate disrespect or misalignment, not in a dramatic way, but by quietly removing themselves. It’s not personal, and it’s not a big deal. When you trust yourself, make your wellbeing nonnego…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:34 AM
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My male bestie convinced me to do one month nofap with him. No masterbating, no porn, no smut, no edits of hot guys, etc. At first I was so smug and sure it was gonna be a breeze. By end of week 2 all the avg men around me started looking better. I spent extra time at the gym just to see all the hot buff guys. Nofap made me a thirsty creep. So in a way, it potentially made it easier for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:54 AM
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Walking away from disrespect doesn’t at all mean never communicate and become avoidant. It means you walk away when someone disrespects you with intention, IE a person continues to do the same behavior even after healthy communication
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:08 AM
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Very cool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:06 PM
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If I was a wealthy celebrity with access to the best surgeons, skincare, healthcare, etc that money can buy, then hell yeah I better look 10+ yrs younger than my peers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:47 PM
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No sorry, when you hit 30 you turn into the cryptkeeper and people start offering to help you cross the street Also I highly doubt you’d look 25 at 40 lol. Why do some many old people want to insist they still look like they’re in their 20s? Less than 1% actually look 10+ years younger than their age. Just live your life dude. 30 isn’t even old btw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:34 PM
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My advice would be more about filtering out men than finding them. My advice to women would be to have unwavering self love and self respect. Meaning you are whole and complete on your own, you walk away easily at the first sign of disrespect, and your life isn’t centered on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:30 PM
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No, I definitely think there’s a underlying notion to punish and humiliate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:06 PM
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Right, you think women’s standards are too high and women should be giving sex/relationships to more average men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:31 PM
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Your thought process is not that far from “I shower and look normal and have a job so why aren’t women handing their pussies to me? Fucking lying whores” Just because a dude is average looking, showers, and has a job doesn’t mean he is entitled to sex, relationships, or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:21 PM
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No one said that. The reading comprehension on this sub is so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:14 PM
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Yes dumbass nice guys are realizing, that’s why we see and hear you guys complaining all the time online now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 02:00 AM
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No, your take completely lacks depth or nuance. When African Americans were freed from slavery and given rights, did racism just suddenly evaporate? Obviously not. It takes time for social change to ripple throughout society, usually taking generations. Women obtaining rights/personal autonomy wouldn’t result in immediate changes that same day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:58 AM
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Well no, I think a better example would be how women prefer tall men but feel compelled to demonize short men in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:44 AM
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Of course men should not be expected to date her just because. But its weird how a lot of men feel compelled to tell her she’s ruined, damaged goods, useless, a horrible prospect, etc. That goes beyond not wanting to date her because of her past. It’s like there’s a desire to punish her because of it, rub her face in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:20 AM
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Nothing hotter than a man who just owns his own life instead of being a big whiny baby victim, his self worth is detangled from women, he is content and whole on his own, his confidence is quiet and calm and radiates from within 😩 So rare to meet men with this level of self mastery and aura but when you do goddamn its like im under a spell that makes me drop to my knees literally
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:15 PM
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yes dada
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:15 PM
2

Well no I’m speaking in general but if the shoe fits more power to ya
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:14 PM
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I love older men. They’re so easy to finesse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:44 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:42 PM
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Still have easy access to men, just probably not chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:37 PM
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It’s not true that men pick women who make their dicks hard? Is water dry?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:35 PM
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Man good, wahmen bad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:10 PM
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Remove women’s rights and personal autonomy. Make them reliant on men so that the loser males of society can get their dicks wet and finally shut up. Women are tools to placate males, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:18 AM
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What’s amusing is how they say it as if that isn’t nearly the ENTIRE basis of how men pick women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:14 AM
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I think the issue for modern men is it seems like the goalposts suddenly changed for them. For men of the recent past, all you really needed was 1) a job and 2) don’t be a complete fucking loser and that was it. Even ‘undesirable/expendable men’ were still very likely to find a wife and foster their own family. This was quietly written as a near guarantee for men in the social contract of society. But now? Not so much. Now that women have rights and autonomy, undesirable/expendable men are getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:03 AM
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nothing, just another dude writing a pointless post per usual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:47 AM
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I like when attractive men approach me. I don’t care for unattractive men approaching me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:11 PM
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Men’s biggest plight: lack of access to women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:26 PM
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Your analogy does a wonderful job encapsulating male entitlement, that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:38 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:08 AM
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I think this also explains at least partially why men mistake kindness as interest. Because a lot of men see no reason to be kind to women they don’t want to fuck. And the nicest man you will ever meet is one who is interested but hasn’t been able to fuck you yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:56 PM
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I’m not sure, I feel like healthcare and compliments from complete strangers are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:50 PM
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Interesting that it’s only ‘internet fiction’ but myself and many other women have dealt with the same issue. Mhmm, weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:48 PM
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I’ll probably get downvoted for this but absolutely not. I’m sorry but if I was a man and my girl wanted me to wear a strap-on…I just don’t think I could do it. Also just the mental weight of knowing my own natural appendage isn’t enough would suck and hurt. To each their own, if it works for you two with no issues then more power to ya. But I wouldn’t want to be in this situation at all, as the man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:46 PM
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Personally, I love it when men call me useless. I even agree with them wholeheartedly because I am. I am useless to men because I won’t be used to cook, clean, birthe his spawn, wash his dungarees, be his submissive bang maid, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:04 PM
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Complimenting random men just seems dumb and invites unnecessary miscommunication or risk for women. But complimenting men you DO know is something I can get behind. I like complimenting my male friends, my dad, my brother, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:57 PM
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No thanks. Last time I complimented a man’s shirt, he took it as a sign of interest, he then got incredibly upset when I didn’t want to give him my contact info.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:47 PM
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Ok, what am I supposed to do about the ugly sexless men who couldn’t ‘enjoy’ their youth because of their aforementioned ugliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:24 PM
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Read the second paragraph and try again
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:20 PM
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It’s not a fight. It just is what it is. Undesirable unattractive men are falling to the wayside.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:17 PM
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Who said it excluded fashion and fitness? The reading comprehension on this sub is tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:15 PM
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True only women are stupid and selfish and generalize whereas all men are smart and selfless and never generalize ever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:34 PM
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I mean it’s already happening. Now that women have full rights, personal autonomy, and are not bound to men anymore we’re seeing a shift in dating. Women are choosing to be single if they can’t find a lemon worth the squeeze. Lots of expendable men aren’t getting what was once ‘guaranteed’ to men of the past: a house, a wife, and a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:30 PM
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Verification on what? Confident non desperate men aren’t begging for advice because they already got it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:25 PM
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When people say work on “self improvement” they usually mean fix how desperate and low self esteem you are. A lot of men for some reason think self improvement means gym + shower = pussy galore. Women are especially keen at picking up social signals that a man is desperate, pathetic, thirsty, low confidence, etc. Self improve until these ugly traits are gone and your chances of getting women increase. Keyword increase, its not guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:31 PM
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That analogy is brilliant and really shows how entitled men feel towards sex. You’re comparing actual legal rights, autonomy, and personal sovereignty with…women not wanting to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:23 AM
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It’s not even a man v woman thing, the overwhelming majority of people lack the ability to critically analyze themselves and take actual accountability. Because its hard and feels bad. The human brain is extremely vigilant and self serving, our egos work overtime to protect ourselves. That’s why its very easy for men to talk themselves blue in the face about how shitty women are without ever taking a second to analyze themselves. And don’t worry, women are doing the exact same shit too. The huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:57 AM
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I agree that the majority of men would absolutely cheat if they 1) had the option and 2) no chance of getting of caught aka no consequences. When men come into status/money one of the first things they do is blow it on the hot women they never could’ve had when the men were nobodies. The more attractive, successful, and rich a man is, the more options he has. Wealthy “high status” men are not notorious for being loyal caring lovers, that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:38 PM
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“Loser men aren’t getting their dicks wet, therefore we need to curtail women’s rights and autonomy; and if we don’t…well here’s my revenge fantasy then”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:19 PM
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no shit sherlock
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:58 PM
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I find people with anxious attachment styles to be the worst and most annoying. They’re literally like blackholes. That said, attachment styles have seeped too much into pop culture, so now any time someone doesn’t like you or pulls away they’re actually just “avoidant”. People need to do serious inner work before dating but 99% of people never will. In fact, most people sorely lack self awareness and personal accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:37 AM
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They are SO close to finally just admitting life was better for loser men when women had no rights or personal agency because that is the only way these men will ever be chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:51 PM
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This post really spoke to you, you’re under nearly every single comment holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:50 PM
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no way really?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:40 PM
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I’m just being cheeky
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:34 AM
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Wouldn’t even speak to a sub 5 male
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:46 AM
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Mods need to crack down on rant / vent posts fr
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:45 AM
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Some of the men here are seriously dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:43 PM
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The unfair balance exists because of how much more desperate men are for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:57 PM
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He wants fairness of outcome aka women should be just as desperate and pathetic for sex just like men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:15 PM
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Incels’ and manosphere ilk’s insistence on saying brootal instead of brutal makes me cringe every time ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:12 PM
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I can’t wait!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:09 PM
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hit too close to home?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:58 AM
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Very similar to the claim that women don’t like muscles what??? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:21 AM
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A good chunk of the posts here are men venting / revenge fanfic tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:42 PM
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The guy friend’s feelings are not my problem or job to manage. I’m going to do whatever I want with my bf whenever I feel like it. The guy friend doesn’t like it and it hurts him? Then he should get some self love and self respect and stop being friends with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:57 PM
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Either I get the man I want or I’ll be single. For men, they want the woman they want or they’ll take any women they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:55 PM
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Still waiting on you to be specific and list the superficial wants women want so badly they divorce and break up their families over But I see you need to keep moving the goalposts to keep playing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 05:02 PM
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Men want access to women. They want it more than women want access to men. They want to fuck. And chances are, you’re not the only man competing for the same woman. If you don’t want to pay, then don’t. There are some women who accept 50/50 and others who don’t. Men have agency and aren’t being held at gunpoint to do anything they don’t want to. Nobody likes to say it but the truth is, access to women is exclusive, men increase their chances of access by investing with their resources. It’s the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:45 PM
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Well I not only acknowledge it, I rub their face in it and yet men are still upset 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:47 PM
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Be more specific instead of incredibly vague. What are these “wants” that women want so badly they are divorcing and breaking up their families over it? Women are not divorcing over superficial wants. Women divorce their husbands because of a lack of effort, support, and happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:46 PM
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fr i’ve literally never heard that quote one time in my entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:11 PM
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Without seeing you I just have to shrug, especially since men and women on reddit always describe themselves favorably. Have you ever been able to get casual before? If you’re attractive and successful I feel like you wouldn’t really need to ask this question tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:01 PM
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“Athletic 40 yo” is so vague. Are you ugly or attractive? Tall and well built? Full head of hair? Good style? Charismatic and charming? Wealthy? Does my pussy throb just by looking at you? For me (early 20s) to go for a 40 yr old he needs to be • ⁠Movie star handsome and / or • ⁠Rich and ready to spend Because otherwise why would I opt for an old man when vibrant young men with fresh testosterone and a sac swole of fresh seed are infinitely more appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:43 AM
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Not really, men will blow up their family just for the chance of new coochie. The fact women’s concerns, needs, and feelings are immediately dismissed just proves exactly why women eventually leave. Never being taken seriously gets exhausting and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:30 AM
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I see so many women stay in marriages until they’re unbelievably miserable that they just can’t do it anymore. They will have spent years begging their husbands to change, voicing their concerns and needs…only for the men to never change because he has no incentive to. Then when she finally leaves, the men are blindsided because she stopped tolerating being miserable. Hence the notion “men never change until it’s too late”. Majority of women aren’t wrecking their bodies with pregnancy and buildi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:30 AM
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What makes it even more amusing is that these men who insist “not all men” & “men are good guys” are ALWAYS the same men that say “Why weren’t you more careful?” “What did YOU do to provoke him?” “What were you wearing?” The duality of man I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:14 PM
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For many men, the woman’s degradation and pain is the best part
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:10 PM
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Yeah because that’s fucking stupid and I enjoy laughing at stupid things and stupid people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:07 PM
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A woman not giving up her pussy to a guy is abuse to these men I have to laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:12 PM
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The disconnect between what men related to you say vs non related men will always be amusing to me. Men will insist not all men, you’re paranoid and just a man hater, it’s offensive when a girl covers her drink, women act like all men are predators, etc Meanwhile my dad, uncles, and brothers were the ones insisting its all men, always trust my gut, cover your drink, don’t trust men until they prove themselves, etc etc A man’s relation to you will determine his honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:06 PM
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It seems obvious to me the man who declared that is speaking from a place of bitterness and projecting a revenge fanfic to soothe his ego. The brain is silly like that. When rejected, its not uncommon to then picture ourselves as the one doing the rejecting next time. Lovebombing and being an asshole doesn’t work if you’re ugly, and I’ll take a wild guess the dude who said that isn’t a looker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:42 PM
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Women seem to clown on these men Can you be more specific? Like what are women saying specifically, how many, where at, to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:38 PM
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you are very welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:02 AM
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“I like pancakes” “Oh so you hate waffles?” this sub is SO bad about this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:00 AM
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He’s been real quiet lately
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:32 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:27 AM
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If a “good woman” is a subservient motherly maid wife then I want to give a huge shoutout to my mom and dad for raising me to be a “bad woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:56 AM
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For unattractive and unsuccessful men, their options boil down to: die lonely or accept whatever you can get. Men are desperate enough to do the latter because some pussy is better than no pussy. And when they STILL can’t get anyone, even though they’ll accept anything, that’s when they turn insanely bitter. Lack of access to women is extremely upsetting to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:51 AM
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Simple, the lonely men are ugly. They can’t offset the cost of their “toxicity” with good looks like good looking toxic men can. People happily make exceptions for hot people, this isn’t even a man vs woman thing, we literally all do it. I’ve seen plenty of men put up with cruel bitchy women just because they’re hot. I’ve seen plenty of women do the same for hot men. Attractive people get to play by different rules. Ugly, uninspiring, and undesirable men play on max difficulty with a nerfed char…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:15 AM
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This is why women need to tolerate less bs and leave sooner. Women end up sticking around with the man until she becomes too miserable to be with him anymore. Men are fine with their woman being miserable, but they aren’t fine with her leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:13 PM
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Idk, I’m pretty heartbroken over this one fine ass dude who had a massive penis 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:12 AM
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This sub is a goldmine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:07 AM
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Men feel ‘blindsided’ when a woman stops tolerating a behavior she used to tolerate. Men don’t have an incentive to change their behavior if they’re still getting everything they want. If the woman gets upset the guy does X,Y,Z but she continues to be in a relationship with him and continues to give him access to her…why change? At most the man will have to hear her nag, say sorry, do better for a week or so then he can go right back to doing the same behavior. He knows she will tolerate it and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:10 AM
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This post has me dying 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:56 PM
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